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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for North Carolina on
Q: I got a custody/visitation summons from my children's father. I live in NC. How do I go about answering to the summons?

He was verbally abusive to me and the kids. That is why we all three live in North Carolina with my mother/their grandmother.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 7, 2020

You should have also received a Complaint, to go along with the Summons. You will need to file an Answer to the Complaint (not required, but certainly advisable), and most likely you'll want to file a Counterclaim for Custody, in addition to other claims (i.e. child support, spousal support,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: There is no written custody agreement mom has been having child during week dad weekends Mom wants to move to Ashevlle.
Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 5, 2020

If there is no court order preventing mom from moving with the child, she can. However, if she does so without getting consent from dad or permission from the court, this could end up hurting her in a custody case.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: My wife and I are separated and my middle daughter who is 13 has decided she wants to stay with her mother.

We have a contested separation agreement which defines us as sharing 50% custody. Her older sister who is 16 has also been with my ex-wife since we separated. My ex has pretty lax rules compared to me. I had to get these two and a friend released from Cary Police custody because they were... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 5, 2020

You'll need to file a lawsuit for custody, if you want to enforce your agreement and/or get more time with them.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: My 16 & 15 y/o have been staying with my mom during covid19. now they refuse to come home. how to i make them come home

I am a registered nurse and work in the emergency dept. my kids have been social distancing from me to keep them safe. We live in NC. I have full sole custody of them.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 5, 2020

Generally, unless your mother has legal custody (a court order, giving her custody), she cannot keep them without your permission (that's potentially kidnapping). She must have either your permission, or the other parent's permission, to keep them. That's the legal part.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Hello so i have 2 daughters and i pay child support and medical for my kids. Do i have rights to my children
Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 23, 2020

I am assuming since you are asking the question, you've been told by the children's mother that you have no rights and can therefore not see your children. Unless there is a court orders stating otherwise, the short answer is "Yes. You have rights." The extent of that right is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for North Carolina on
Q: If both of my parents are willing to emancipate me can I be emancipated in North Carolina without going through a court?

I haven’t lived with my parents in over a year. I am still in contact with my mother, but my family has been abusive my entire life, with my father being arrested for domestic violence, (my mother dropped the charges but we had a restraining order for a few months) and my mother being in a... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 22, 2020

Short answer is: you'll need a court order. If you are almost 18 anyway, I'm not sure why you couldn't just wait until your 18th birthday to be able to make your own legal decisions. Contact an attorney to learn more about your options and the process of emancipation.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: my mother has got emergency custody of my son today there is a hearing tomorrow what can i do

talking on the phone would be easier to explain the situation please call me at 828-618-0308

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 6, 2020

First off, plan on going to court. Use the Find a Lawyer tab at the top to contact family law attorneys in your area with whom you can have a telephone consultation.

1 Answer | Asked in Contracts and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Is a paper signed an notarized about custody a legal document ? Without going to court

My son's mother is ignoring me about our son an i have a paper signed by her that is notarized saying nither one of us would keep him from each other what can i do?

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Feb 27, 2020

You'll have to go to court, to either enforce the contract under a breach of contract action, or file for custody in court to get a Custody Order. The other issue is, if only she signed it and you did not, there is no contract unless you can prove that she signed it in exchange for something... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I have obtained custody of my nephew 7/2016 from VA and am currently living in NC . I attempted to call court where

Order was first drafted but they stated case is currently closed I would like to give my mom custody of my nephew but I'm unsure on how to do that! Who's should I contact so that i may do the right thing legally

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Jan 5, 2020

An attorney would need to see the language of the Court Order, before giving you definitive advice. If the Order was entered in VA, then the VA court would need to modify that order. A case is not "closed" until the child turns 18 years old, so something is off here. It may be that... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning and Probate for North Carolina on
Q: My mom was named her husbands will. She passed before he did. The Will was never changed. Who inherits what was left her

Also named in the Will are his 2 daughters. My mom was the primary beneficiary of his estate.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Dec 4, 2019

It depends on what his Will states. It most likely said that she inherits, only if she survives him, and if she does not survive him then _________ gets what she would have gotten. Unless you have a copy of the Will, you won't know who is designated in that blank space.

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2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning for North Carolina on
Q: Are hand written wills legal in North Carolina,
Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Dec 3, 2019

Yes, so long as the entire Will is handwritten by the Testator, and signed by the Testator (the one writing the Will). There is no requirement that it be signed by any witnesses.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I have primary custody, ex wants 50/50

He has had 4 different jobs since weve been separated (4 years) and his current job schedule at the railroad has changed 3x the last year. I don't want to split custody until he has a set schedule, is this a reasonable reason to get a lawyer, or is there a big chance I may be wasting my time.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Nov 23, 2019

It is possible for him to get 50/50. He would need to notify you of his schedule, as soon as he gets it, and if you were willing to work with him on some flexibility, it could work. There are many factors which would go into deciding whether 50/50 is in your child(ren)'s best interest, other... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Got dna test found out child is another mans. child has other mans name and man is on BC what do i do

Baby is 7 months old. Has one mans last name he signed affidavit saying baby was his even knowing possibility it was not. Now bought a dna test sent off. Baby is another man. Other man wants baby to have his name and be on birth certificate and have his rights what does he need to do.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Oct 18, 2019

He needs to file an action for paternity and legitimation, and possibly file an action for custody, depending on the circumstances.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Do I need a lawyer in my county or the county where the baby will be born to discuss and establish paternity?

I live in Oxford. The baby will be born in Jacksonville. We took a DNA test that states I am a 99% match. Neither parents are married and based on the results I wish to file for legitimation.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Oct 4, 2019

You can legitimate at child, by doing one of the following:

1. The child will automatically be legitimate and you will go on the birth certificate, if you and the mother are married prior to the child's birth.

2. You can file an action for legitimation at any time prior to the...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: I would like to file a motion to have my child support motion forgiven.

After a rocky 18 years, my daughter is in college and I have not had any communication with her mother in over 10 years. I have taken her to family mediation, which she has done nothing of what was agreed upon. Now I am trying to move on with my Life and my child support arrears are a major... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Sep 9, 2019

Honestly, you can certainly ask the court to forgive the arrears, but it is doubtful that it will happen. Visitation and child support are 2 separate issues. If you wanted a better relationship with your daughter, then you should have pushed hard for a custody order and then enforced its terms via... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: How do I obtain temporary custody of out of state child in NC?

My grand child is in NC with her father. Her mother lives in Missouri. The father was granted temporary custody due to the mother not being served in Missouri to appear in court in NC until the day of court. (which made appearance impossible). We have been traveling from Missouri to NC for the... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Sep 5, 2019

Short answer is "yes". With that said, there are a lot of variables, depending on the following: Why does the mother live in Missouri and the father lives in North Carolina? How long has each lived in his/her respective state? How old is the child? What does the child want? Is the child... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: Mother has been TPR (terminated parental rights) and took kids from a home knowing she has no rights? dad full custody

Father has sole full legal custody and the bio mom's rights have been terminated. she went in the middle of the night and got the children 14 and 13 at the time of crime and took them through 5 county lines and refuses to return children. what is the crime here? and how does father prosecute?

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Aug 28, 2019

That would be kidnapping. The father should contact law enforcement.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can a child’s parent dictate who children are around while children are in other parent’s care?

Spouse’s daughter was molested by cousin but has no contact with cousin. Ex is demanding that children not be around spouse or her daughter even though her children would not be around abuser either. Current spouse is safe - does not do drugs, drink and is not abusive.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Aug 26, 2019

One parent cannot dictate who the child is around when in the other parent's care, unless that parent has sole legal custody of the child. With that said, perhaps there is some other agreement the two of you could come to, so that the other parent feels that appropriate safety measures have... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning and Probate for North Carolina on
Q: my father has dementia can I find out if he has a living will and poa

he got sick today had to go to hospital

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Aug 13, 2019

You could check with the Register of Deeds Office to see if he recorded his Durable POA; however, his physician will have to check with the Secretary of State's Office to see if he registered a Living Will or Health Care POA

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: My husband abandoned me 8 months ago taking our RV. The RV is registered in both names. I called regarding the insurance

RV was relisted w/o my name & address on insurance and property tax address was chgd. My name is still on registration.Live in home with both names & he chgd address on property taxes of home also.Doesn't want Separation papers cause doesn’t want to pay alimony. I’m on... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Aug 12, 2019

You'll need to file an action for equitable distribution and/or alimony, to force him to return the property or pay you for your share of the property, in addition to paying alimony (if applicable). Consult with a family law attorney regarding your options. Your options will vary, depending on... View More

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