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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Can my ex wife withold my children from me if we have 50/50 custody with no child support ordered by judge?

She hasnt let me see them in 4 months. I finally found her new husband online and got her to contact me... im supposed to have the kids every other weekend and she refuses to let me see them. She has completly alienated me and my whole family from them.. what can i do??

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Nov 10, 2016

If the custody order was entered in an Oregon court, you should immediately file a motion to enforce parenting time. The court will hold an expedited hearing on your motion. Sanctions for wrongful withholding of parenting time range from make up parenting time for the parenting time missed to... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: My mother still owes a total of $270,000 on her mortgage. $100,000 of this that is from a second mortgage and has gone

to collection, while the remaining balance that she's paying is at a different collection agency. She is also about $25,000 in credit card debt. Her name and my sister's name are both on the deed but my sisters is not on any of her other debt. When my mother passes, without a will, can my... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jan 25, 2017

Depending on the exact language of the deed to the property, your sister may not be the sole owner of the entire property when your mother passes. If the deed does not expressly provide that the surviving owner becomes the sole owner of the property upon the first owner's death, then your... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: How does back child support work after children turn 18
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 6, 2016

The past due child support that accrues before the child reaches age 18 is still owed to the custodial parent. If the state is enforcing the support award, the payor is typically required to pay an additional 20% of the current support award to apply toward the past due support. If all children... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: I personally terminated spousal support can I get my spousal support reinstated I am no longer employed in oregon.

I have no income and no way to support myself looking for work.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 6, 2016

Spousal support, once ordered, can be modified or terminated later based upon a substantial unanticipated change in economic circumstance. If your support was later modified or terminated, you may be able to get the original support award reinstated in Oregon, if the reason for the termination of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law, Estate Planning and Real Estate Law for Oregon on
Q: I have a question about obtaining a temporary stay order until a legal action is heard in court or arbitration

We have received a letter stating as invitation to occupy our property has been revoked by trust and we must vacate immediately. We want to challenge it and need time to determine our legal recourse

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 20, 2016

If you are already residing on the property, then the trustee must commence an FED action to evict you from the property. That should give you the time you need to evaluate your rights.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: a child that is 18 and 6 month and a senior in high school will still receive CS until she is 19?

in fall she will start college

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 20, 2016

The answer depends on the wording of the child support order but generally, child support in Oregon continues past age 18 and up to age 21 if the child is over age 18, attending school on at least a half-time basis, is passing, and is working toward a degree. The obligation to pay child support... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Landlord - Tenant and Personal Injury for Oregon on
Q: Heavy smoker neighbors moved in downstairs - they smoke out on the patio all the time - how can we get them to stop?

it's really interfering with our quality of living - the smoke gets into everything. The landlord (it's a large apartment community) says they are not a no-smoking community and can't do anything about it. We enjoyed living here but the smoke is making it unbearable to the point... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 20, 2016

You should first review the rental agreement you have with your landlord to determine your rights. The landlord may be required to make accommodations for you if the smoke is adversely affecting your health, as documented by a health care professional. You may also have a nuisance claim against... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: As the father how do I get full custody if the mother has signed a consent of guardianship to child's grandmother?

Due to the mother signing custodial rights to the grandmother now I'm being taken to court for my consent of guardianship? But since I would not consent to something like that, do I automaticly get full custody since mother has signed away custodial rights

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Apr 5, 2016

If there is already a court order for custody, then you should file a motion to modify custody. If there is no court order for custody, then you should file a new action to obtain custody of your child. You should also object to the guardianship proceeding. You don't automatically get full... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: The 2 PR's of my mother's estate are not listing the property for sale, etc. What are our options to get things moving?

There are 2 PR's of my mother's estate.They are to handle things for my 2 sisters, one of which is my niece's mother, I have my own control. There is property to sell. I got a realtor to do a market analysis. He has a cash buyer. My niece won't list with him & says... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Apr 5, 2016

Assuming all other options, including direct negotiation, mediation, PRs' rejection of a written offer, etc., then you may file an action with the court asking the court to provide instructions on how to proceed.

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: ExeCutor what duties or rights do thy have
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Mar 15, 2016

The executor or personal representative of an estate has a fiduciary duty to administer the estate according to the terms of the will, or if there is no will, according to the laws of intestate succession. These duties include inventorying the estate, taking possession of estate property,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: Did Small Estate Affidavit, I am Personal Rep. Title company won't except Affidavit without lawyer writing it up.

The affidavit is legal, filed at Morrow county court, with court stamp. The title company said I had to get a lawyer to write up the papers for them to except them. Can I sell the house without my name on the title. Can't afford a lawyer

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Mar 15, 2016

If you went through the small estate process, you are the claiming successor, not the personal representative of the deceased person's estate. There are some title companies and banks that will not honor an affidavit of claiming successor. I suggest you provide the title company a copy of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: what forms would have been needed in order to allow a person to represent her fathers estate?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Aug 19, 2015

You will need a court order appointing you as personal representative of your father's estate. Once you get that court order, the clerk will issue letters testamentary. That is a document signed by the court that states you are authorized to act on behalf of your father's estate.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Do I have the legal right to take my 2 children (one not his biological and youngest is) and leave him to get a divorce?

He says that if I file for divorce he will file for full custody of both of my kids. He treats my daughter terribly and doesn't love her and treats our son perfect. What can I do?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Aug 19, 2015

You have the right to take both children and leave him to get a divorce. He also has the equal right to take his bio child and file for divorce. To obtain legal custody of his non bio child, he will have to overcome a presumption that you are acting in the child's best interests. That will... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Washington on
Q: If I buy a car before I file for divorce can my wife try to take it in the divorce?

The car we have been using is in my wife's mothers name and I already moved out. I don't personally have my own car though, but I need one. If I only put my name on the title and all the paperwork can she still try to take it?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Aug 19, 2015

If you purchase the car in your own name after separation, that car will likely be considered your separate property and you will retain it. It is possible but not likely that your wife could be awarded the car. For example, if your wife's mother takes her car back and your wife has to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: What should I do?

I filed for custody in klamath county or. My childs father picked him up and took him to calif. I have tried to serve my ex. But have been un able to do so. I can not locate him and he avoids service. No current custody order in place.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Aug 19, 2015

If you've made reasonable efforts to personally serve him to no avail, you may ask the court for an order authorizing service by publication. If he doesn't respond within 30 days, then you may obtain a default custody judgment. Once you have the custody judgment, you can obtain a writ... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My husband has a judgement against him. All of our assets are separate in each of our names. Can I be liable for costs?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 13, 2015

You are not liable for your husband's judgment if he incurred the debt before the marriage. If he incurred the debt after the marriage date and the debt is for a family purpose, such as for his medical expenses, you could be responsible for the debt. But the creditor would have to pursue a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: Can one have a living will made without assigning an executor for a simple estate?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 13, 2015

Yes. You don't need to name a Personal Representative (executor) in your will. If you don't name one, the court will still have to appoint one to administer the probate of your estate, and the one appointed will have to post a bond to serve as Personal Representative. The cost of the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My daughter's father died and his family will not let me have her. What can I do?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 13, 2015

You could file a motion with the court to modify the custody order that awarded legal custody of your child to her father. If there is no legal custody order, then you can file a new case with the court seeking legal custody of your daughter. Before pursuing these options, you should try to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My ex owes me $37,300, he puts everything in wife's name.. can I attach or sue her as well to get the back support?

They pay a small amount to make sure cs can not enforce. So it keeps getting further behind. They have a huge income owning there own company, but refuse to get caught up at all or even pay the monthly amount. Everything is in his new wife name so they cant attach his belongings. I live in Oregon... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Apr 16, 2015

If your ex spouse is fraudulently transferring assets to his current spouse in order to avoid his support obligation, you can sue both of them based upon the fraudulent transfers. Proving the fraudulent transfer may be difficult. That is your best option if you want to pursue a claim against the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: who gets my house when i die
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Apr 16, 2015

If you and your spouse own the home together, the surviving spouse will receive the home. If you have a will and are not married, your named beneficiary will get your house when you die if you alone own the home. You should consult with an attorney for specific advice regarding your circumstances.

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