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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Oregon on
Q: Ex racked up medical bills before order was signed & let them go past due, do I owe for bills before court order signed?

My ex took my daughter to the doctor several times this year. We just got a custody battle settled, and in the new court order, I agreed and am required to pay half of my daughter's medical bills. However, my ex failed to disclose that she had outstanding bills that she had not paid. Am I... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 27, 2017

The answer probably depends on the commencement date for child support as set forth in the General Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage. There may be other relevant provisions in your judgment. If you do not have a copy of your general judgment, you should get one from the court or from your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Oregon on
Q: House bought when we are married. down payment is my mom's gift; loan and title under my name. What happens if divorce?

Down payment borrow from my mom, send from oversea as gift; my husband not qualify for loan so only my name on loan and title.

So will the house still be 50/ 50 if divorce?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 22, 2017

Your mother either loaned you money or gave you a gift for the down payment, but it can't be both. Since the home was purchased while you were married, there is a presumption that your and your husband's contributions toward the acquisition of the home were equal. To overcome that... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Probate for Oregon on
Q: Dad passed away. what can I do with his cars?

I live in another state than my dad did. Do I have to leave his cars at the place he lived until probate is done (small estate)? He rented and the landlord is asking us to get his cars out of there. Thanks!

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 12, 2017

If you are proceeding with a small estate affidavit, the claiming successor of the small estate can have the cars removed from the rental property, assuming you have the keys, and either complete and submit to DMV an affidavit of heirship for each car or sell the cars and give the buyer a certified... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: I have to grt me and kids out and way from there dad (my husband). What the fast way to get out and get cuosdy of them?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 8, 2017

The fastest ways to obtain a court order for custody of the children and get away from your spouse is to file for divorce or legal separation and seek emergency temporary custody based upon an imminent threat of harm to the children or seek a Family Abuse Restraining Order by showing you were a... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: I need to figure out how to get immediate guardianship of my nephew whom has been living with me a few months now.

His father/my brother is unfit, homeless and on drugs.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 7, 2017

You may either file a petition for guardianship of a minor or a petition for custody in the county in which you reside, assuming the child has resided in Oregon for at least the past six months. Alternatively, if your brother will sign a delegation of parental authority, you may be able to avoid... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Consumer Law for Oregon on
Q: I want to donate my car. My deceased grandmother is listed second on the title since she cosigned. What do I do?

There is no survivorship on the title. I am not the executor of her estate. There was only one executor. She died in 2012 and this car was not part of her will/estate. The donation company tells me all I need is to give them a notarized inheritance affidavit and have a death certificate, but DMV... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 6, 2017

You should give the car title with your signature on it, your grandmother's death certificate, and the DMV affidavit of heirship to the company you want to donate the car to. The affidavit of heirship should be signed by the beneficiary of your grandmother's estate. You can get the DMV... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: What can be filed while dissolution of marriage is pending to allow for exclusive occupancy of the home by mom and kids?

A dissolution of marriage has been filed and the respondent has not lived in the home for 6 weeks (and had supervised visitations only with kids) due to a restraining order that was just dismissed because date of abuse was in question (not the act). On the day of the contested restraining order... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 6, 2017

If you have not already done so, you should file a motion for order to show cause for temporary orders, including exclusive occupancy of the residence. This motion should have been filed at the time the divorce action was filed, along with a request for temporary child/spousal support. The status... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Indivorce case, her spouse repsonded and now have a mediation date,Is it true only parenting time can be discussed?

There is child support and bills that are being contested but it was explained those are not dealt with in mediation and if not resolved a judge decides ?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 6, 2017

Depending on which county your case is filed in, mediation may be limited to custody and parenting time issues. In Clackamas County, the mediators will address financial issues as well, but not in Washington, Multnomah, and Marion counties. As an alternative, you can retain a private mediator who... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Personal Injury for Oregon on
Q: If an existing health issue gets worse after a car accident can you sue for that?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 2, 2017

Yes. Depending on the health issue, it would be considered either an aggravation of a pre-existing condition or a lighting up of a previously infirm condition. The difference depends on whether the person experienced any symptoms and obtained any treatment for the condition before the accident.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Oregon on
Q: Hello. I need to change jurisdiction from FL to OR. How do I do this?

My daughter and I moved here 2 years ago with my ex's permission. He is now threatening to take me back to court so I would like some help in what both our rights are. Thank you very much.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 1, 2017

If your ex still resides in FL, then FL still has exclusive continuing jurisdiction to decide custody and parenting time rights. You would have to ask the FL court to decide whether to transfer the case to OR. If your ex does not reside in FL anymore, then OR has jurisdiction to decide custody... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My son's mom won't contact him. She makes zero contact. Does this make our joint custody & parenting plan null & void?

We divorced 10 years ago & filled out the pprwork ourselves. We have joint custody (with me having final say). Her parenting time is supposed to be every other weekend & 6 weeks in the summer. She has not followed this plan in over 5 years. She used to occasionally visit him here &... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 31, 2017

You should comply with the court order until the court modifies it or both parents agree in writing to modify it. If you do not believe the current custody and parenting time arrangement is in your child's best interests, and you and the mother cannot agree on a mutually acceptable schedule,... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My ex boyfriend took our three year old son from the residence at which we were both residing.

He is refusing to let me see our son and said that we will have to go through the court system. I know this can take weeks but is there anything I can do now? This is in Portland Oregon.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 30, 2017

You should file a custody/parenting time case and ask the court to enter an immediate temporary protective order of restraint. That order will state that neither parent should disrupt the child's usual contacts with the other parent and that the child's residence should not be changed.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Civil Rights and Probate for Oregon on
Q: What are my rights being the fiancee of a deceased man..

I lived in his home...children are kicking me out..

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 30, 2017

The answer to your question depends on the terms of the deceased's will. As the deceased's fiancee, you have no legal right to remain in the home if it was in his name alone. You may have a claim based upon your domestic partnership if you can establish there was an agreement between... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for Oregon on
Q: We own a $200k house and have a $100k mortgage. My wife says she only owes me half the current equity ($100k / 2 = $50k)

She believes that I owe her half the current mortgage if she refinances (my half of the debt). Her math says my equity 50k, minus 50k (my 1/2 of debt), means she owes me nothing. I say half the value of the HOUSE 100k, minus half the mortgage 50k, means she owes me 50k at closing. Who is right?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 26, 2017

You are correct. In a dissolution of marriage proceeding, the court will probably equally split the net equity in the home. Net equity is determined by subtracting the amount of the encumbrance from the fair market value of the property. If the mortgage is actually in the process of being... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Probate for Oregon on
Q: Sadly my ex husband has terminal cancer and i discovered he has failed to maintain the life insurance policy

Ordered in Final divorce judgment. We were married 20 yrs and our divorce was final in 2012. He remarried in 2016. Upon his passing do i have a legal right to his estate for the amount the insurance policy would of payed out in the event of his death?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

The answer depends on the specific language in your divorce judgment. You should contact an attorney right away to review your options, including whether you can make a claim against his estate for the value of the life insurance obligation. If he is remarried and owns all property jointly with... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oregon on
Q: My mom is in the middle of a nasty divorce and has no legal help. is there any way to find a pro bono lawyer to help?

She has received a supplemental judgement and I don't know what this means, is he coming after more? She had a QDRO lawyer who promptly died after being hired. She signed paperwork so I don't know what the next step would be.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

Your mother, not you, should contact the Oregon State Bar Lawyer Referral Service, and she will be referred to an attorney who may be able to assist her. It sounds like she will be receiving some assets in the divorce, so perhaps an attorney is willing to represent her with the understanding that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law and Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: My mom passed last month and my dad is now in an assisted living home. He needs money for his care, can we sell assets?

My dad doesn't have a will and I am not sure he can actually get one because he has communication issues. Also, if he now wants to gives away property to his children, would this hinder his ability to get medicaid because it would be viewed as dumping assets in order to be fully funded for... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

You may need to have a conservator appointed by the court for your father if he is unable to handle his own financial affairs. If he has the capacity to make his own decisions, he could appoint an attorney in fact under a power of attorney to assist in handling his financial affairs. Depending on... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: I'm wanting to regain physical custody of my 4 year old daughter who currently is living with her father.

1 1/2 years ago I was using illegal drugs and because of my decisions my daughters father requested and was granted an emergency temporary custody order thru the courts. 1 Month after the request he agreed to joint custody and him having physical custody with me having her Friday thru Monday. Since... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

First, you should try to informally increase your parenting time by agreement. If he won't agree to increase your parenting time, then you might propose that your daughter see a therapist to help her with her extreme reactions. Because you have joint legal custody, most therapists will... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Can I stop my ex-wife from sending long, guilting, manipulative (IMO) emails & texts? Could it be considered harassment?

There was a break for a while, but they've started again after announcing my engagement. It seems as though she's trying to make things difficult between me, my children, and my fiancee. I have my kids half the time and really want to keep things peaceful for their sake, yet also... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

She will construe anything you tell her as your attempt to control her. This is a difficult but common scenario. You have to communicate with each other, but it should be limited to the children and their schedules, school, activities, etc. I suggest you ask her how you could improve your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: Is there anything I can do? URGENT

In 2011, a woman took my daughter & never brought her back, she lied on a temporary guardianship application and was granted guardianship in Oregon. In 2012, she cut off all ties and moved to Idaho. I recently found out that her guardianship ended in 2015 but she still has my daughter?... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on May 24, 2017

There is obviously more to this than you've indicated so far. Guardianships for minors terminate when the minor is emancipated. The guardianship could be transferred to another state before the minor is emancipated. If the child has resided in Idaho since 2014, you will probably have to... View More

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