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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My girlfriend is planing on not taking her 15 year old daughter back to her ex husband where she has lived for 6 mos.

Daughter moved to dads which the parents agreed to temporarily and should have been back at moms in June but dad won't agree to it. They have joint custody. Will my girlfriend get in trouble with the law? If so will her doing this make it more difficult for her to get her daughter back home?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 28, 2017

First, the answer depends on what the existing court order states. Second, if there was an agreement that modifies the court order, that agreement should be in writing and state how long the change is supposed to last. Third, if Mother has legal custody of the child in a court order, she cannot... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Is it illegal to video record my attempt at picking up my son in Oregon?

My son's mother has informed me via email that I cannot record her or our son at any time. I am being denied parenting time and want to record my attempt at picking him up so it is documented for use in court. We both live in Oregon. I would be attempting to pick him up from her home.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 28, 2017

Ordinarily, you cannot audio record someone in person unless they consent. In Oregon, only one party to a telephone conversation within Oregon needs to consent to the recording, and that is the person recording. If the in-person audio recording is made from a public location, such as a sidewalk,... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning and Probate for Oregon on
Q: Need help finding out if my dad or grandparents had a will

I'm adopted an trying to find out if my real dad or grandma had a will or something when they passed

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 28, 2017

First, you may want to check the county court's records to see if an estate was ever opened for either person. If so, and if there was a will, the court will have it and you can get a copy. If estate proceedings were not filed, then a will search usually begins with a search of the deceased... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: What are legitimate reasons to deny parenting time in Oregon?

I have a court order that establishes my parenting time. My Ex is claiming that our son (age 9) is "not comfortable" at my home. She is not allowing me time with our son, and claims her lawyer has told her that it is legal to do so for the child's comfort. What are valid, defensible... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 27, 2017

There are only two reasons for not complying with a court order: 1. There is a newer court order that modifies the earlier court order. 2. Both parents agree to a change to the court order. Agreements between parents to change parenting time should be in writing to avoid misunderstandings.... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Probate for Oregon on
Q: The issue I'm dealing with is a probate case.

The issue I'm dealing with is I have power of attorney for my boyfriend who is incarcerated. During his time there his father passed away but prior to this his father and him added his name to the title to his home just in case something happened. (They went together and both signed the... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 27, 2017

If your BF's father had a will, the will will control how the property in the estate will be distributed upon his death. It is unlikely but possible that your BF owns the entire house. If the deed provides for survivorship rights, your BF may own the entire home. Once your BF was added to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Intellectual Property and Real Estate Law for Oregon on
Q: 2 questions.. is it legal to take a loan on property without both owners consent?

not only did my grandmas sister switch her name and take it off the property and add her daughter in place of her, without my grandma present and her notarized signature, changing ownership of half the property without the other halfs approval is illegal mal practice right?

and the first... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 27, 2017

If a lender is foolish enough to make a loan to only one of two owners of the property, it is ok. Your great aunt committed forgery and fraud if she signed your grandmother's name to a deed without your grandmother's consent or knowledge. If there is a lien against only one party's... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oregon on
Q: Mother divorcing father; have 19 year old at home. Is child served papers for divorce as husband is?

My daughter wants to divorce her husband. They have a 19 year old daughter. Her attorney told her that not only would the husband be served divorce papers but the daughter also. Is this true? Does any dependent child have to sign off on a divorce proceeding?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 25, 2017

Under Oregon law, a child between the ages of 18-21 is considered a statutory party to the child's parent's divorce for purposes of child support only. The 19 y.o. does not need to be served if she signs a waiver of service. Most children sign that without hesitation.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Probate for Oregon on
Q: Mother died, younger sibling mother's personal representative will not share will with siblings, do we have rights

Do not all the siblings have a right to see the will we are all named in the will as far as we know?

Where should we turn to see the will if sister will not share it with us?

Thanks!

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 24, 2017

If your mother owned anything of value in her name alone at the time of her death, her original will will have to be submitted to the court in a probate proceeding. You will receive notice of that proceeding and a copy of the will. The only exception is if there are no assets of value in your... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: If my sons father hasn't seen our son in over 4 years and now wants to have visits do I have to let him?

I have sole custody.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 24, 2017

If there is a court order for parenting time, both parents are obligated to follow it. If father is not willing to visit for brief periods of time, and wants extended visits, then I recommend that you file to modify parenting time and obtain a status quo order, which is a new court order that... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Probate for Oregon on
Q: Transferring funds from stock with affidavit of domicile more than one year old.

My mother passed away in 2015, I was appointed by the Oregon court as personal representative. I have since found stock/bonds in her name. I have filled out a affadavit of domicile and provided all nessecary documents however my notarized personal rep form given by the court is more than one year... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 21, 2017

You are obligated to re-open the probate estate, and obtain an updated appointment as personal representative if there is no payable on death beneficiary listed on the stock/bonds. If the original estate was processed as a small estate, you may still be able to transfer the stocks/bonds under a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Probate for Oregon on
Q: My mother's will divides the house among all children. My adult sibling lived with her and wants the whole house.

Is she in any way entitled to the house despite the legal and binding will?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 21, 2017

Your sibling may be able to keep the house, but she will have to pay all other siblings their share of value of the house. The will is binding, as you say, and must be followed unless all beneficiaries agree otherwise.

4 Answers | Asked in Personal Injury for Oregon on
Q: If I file a claim, is there always going to be negotiation?

Why won't the insurance company just pay the exact medical costs?

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 21, 2017

Insurance companies are required to pay all of your reasonable and necessary accident-related medical costs. They just don't like it, and if you let them, they will pay as little as they can. Most insurance coverage for personal injuries is either first or third party coverage. An example... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for Oregon on
Q: Do I need to file a small estate affidavit for (only) 50k of pour over assets transferred to a living trust?

No other testate assets exist.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 20, 2017

You will probably need to file the small estate affidavit if there is no named beneficiary for the $50,000 asset, or the named beneficiary for the $50,000 asset is the estate of the decedent.

2 Answers | Asked in Probate for Oregon on
Q: My brother died last week. He did not have a will.

His step son who is not his biological son is handling the estate after a verbal only appointment by the deceased b/f his death. My deceased brother's natural son (sole beneficiary) has a felony record, is on probation, etc. for heroin he has stolen from my brother, forged checks, etc. Can I... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 18, 2017

Unless there is a will, the sole child of a deceased person who is not married at the time of death will receive all estate assets. Any claim for the wrongful death of the decedent as a result of the car accident also benefits the heirs of the decedent. In this case his son is the only heir.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Personal Injury and Criminal Law for Washington on
Q: If a 10 year old attacks my 5 year old daughter and knocks 2 teeth out can i press charges against parents?
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 17, 2017

Yes. You may make a civil claim for your child's injuries. Ordinarily, the maximum amount you may recover against the other child's parents is $5,000 based upon the child's willful and malicious actions. As far as pursuing a criminal charge against the assailant, you can report... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My son calls me by my suffix and his mothers boyfriend dad. What can I do to remedy this?

I have a custody order originating from Oregon. She took him to Arizona without proper notification. It's a long distance parenting plan, but Oregon has jurisdiction.

We had a very contentious custody battle, and it's been difficult since the order was set in place. Her boyfriend... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 13, 2017

Your circumstances are not uncommon but unfortunately there is no ideal solution unless both parents and stepparent are willing and able to allow the child to maintain a healthy relationship with all the adults. If you've already had a contentious custody battle, you probably know that the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oregon on
Q: Ex was granted a default with alternative service using an email not ever mine.

There were lies told to achieve entire default. I was in her home and not served and did not know. She took 87k workman's comp as well. No Disclosure's I don't know what to do daughter has been kept from me for over six months

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 11, 2017

If service of process was invalid, then the court lacked jurisdiction to enter a judgment and the judgment can be set aside. If service was valid, you may still be able to have the judgment set aside, particularly if the judgment is less than one year old and the judgment was entered by mistake,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Probate for Oregon on
Q: I had to file affidavit for my sister's life insurance. Do I have to pay estate administration unit if they filed claim
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 10, 2017

If you filed a small estate affidavit to obtain life insurance benefits and you are the claiming successor, then you are obligated to pay the state's claim from the assets in your sister's estate. The life insurance proceeds are part of your sister's estate assets. If you were named... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Probate and Consumer Law for Oregon on
Q: Am I liable to creditors if I received my sister's life insurance policy
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jul 10, 2017

If the life insurance was payable to you upon your sister's death, then you have no obligation to pay her creditors. If the life insurance was payable to your sister's estate upon her death, and you are a beneficiary of her estate, then the estate is obligated to pay your sister's... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oregon on
Q: My sister hasn't worked for 20 years due to raising kids, is she a candidate for alimony? Married for 25 years.

She is mentally and emotionally abused and has limited access to funds.

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jun 29, 2017

Your sister may be entitled to receive spousal support in a dissolution of marriage action in Oregon but much depends on whether her spouse is working and how much he earns, her and the children's ages, health, the standard of living during the marriage, and other factors. There are three... View More

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