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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What can father do to get & keep full custody & what is best way to ensure he gets full custody? (Mother is unfit)

The father (noncustodial) has lived & is still living in Oklahoma with kids for the past two years with mutual agreement from mother without a custody arrangement. (Mother had minimal contact visits one day every other holiday & one phone call ever few months.) Mother (custodial) who lived... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 4, 2018

You have a big mess to get unwound. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem immediately. It would appear that the Arkansas divorce is "voidable", and since Oklahoma is now the "Home State" of the children, you may file... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I was wondering if a couple lives together and have kids can the father just decide to leave with the kids?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 3, 2018

No, he should not. He risks criminal charges if he does. A mother is considered the custodian of children born out of wedlock. He should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in his area, for help with this problem.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If my 17yr old step son want to live with me his step father because he's mom decided to leave can he stay legally
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 3, 2018

Yes, he should be able to do this. If his mom or dad objects, You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem. If a 17 yr old desires to live with you, under Oklahoma law, the court should follow his wishes, unless good cause exists not to do... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Constitutional Law and Gov & Administrative Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If a person was caught Eluding an officer why would the inmate website for that county state the charge as being Escape
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 3, 2018

Are you sure you were not charged with escape? If you weren't, contact the court clerk about the error.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Employment Discrimination for Oklahoma on
Q: If someone has a protective order against you, can you get a job at the same place they work?

I am in the process of appealing it. The only reason it was granted is because I was late for court. Also I used to be employed at this same place. She slashed my tires and then filed for a protective order. And I have done nothing to her.

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 3, 2018

Yes, you may apply for the job, just conduct yourself in a professional manner around her.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: how can a father get joint custody his child if he's not married to the mother
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 3, 2018

You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in the area where the child lives, for help with this issue by filing a paternity action.

Joint Custody is not dependent on martial status, but on the ability of the parents being able to communicate and work together for the best...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: If my child’s father has court ordered no visitation am I required to let him have phone privileges?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 30, 2017

It would depend on the wording of the court order, and the specific reasons for no visitation. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem. Good Luck.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: My husband cant find his childs mother to serve her custody hearing paperwork. What will happen in court?

Is it ok to post the hearing in the newspaper as an attempt to serve her? She will not let him see him for no reason at all.

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 29, 2017

This is a complicated issue. A good answer can't be given without knowing what he is asking the Court to do. He should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Small Claims for Oklahoma on
Q: Would being around hunters or attending hunts with others possessing firearms violate the VPO filed against me?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 29, 2017

No it should not, as long as you're not in possession of firearms.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: I had a DV incident in Jan of 2016, I didn't file a report, I have pictures and no witnesses. Can it be used in court?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 29, 2017

As a general rule yes. You, or the person who took pictures must "identify" them, as to time place and subject, and state that they are a fair representation of what they purport to show.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: do i have any legal rights to request my 5 year old daughter not be in the company of her abusuve step fathe

He's only abusive to mother whose not willing to file charges

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 28, 2017

Yes, definitely. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem and to immediately file a motion to modify to grant you custody, and prevent your child from being around this guy.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: If A mother is keeping her baby father from his son and he is doing everything and have receipts for everything
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 27, 2017

If she is violating a court order granting him visitation rights, she can be cited for contempt of court. If there is no order, he should file to get one. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: What can I do if my child's father is keeping them away from me?

My ex and I have been together for 6 year, we have 3 bots together. We were not together for the last two weeks due to him cheating on me. I was messaging with one of my old guy friends & he saw that I was messaging with him then he just packed his bags & took our 3 boys with him. He is... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 27, 2017

You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: child turned 18, in high school, and living with 3rd party without my consent. Can I still receive child support?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 27, 2017

Yes, until high school graduation.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: My wife has a child by another man and I signed the birth certificate. Can she get child support from the father?
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 25, 2017

That depends on how long ago the child was born. If over 2 years, no. If under 2 years, POSSIBLY. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Can my husband domestic violence strangulation in front of minor child get dropped to something else if I do not testify
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 24, 2017

Not necessarily, it depends on ALL the evidence presented at the preliminary hearing.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: How can not pressing charges instead of calling the police prove I'm unfit and DHS take my baby
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 24, 2017

Sorry, but can't really answer without many more details. Ask again, and provide as much detail as you can. We hope you have a Merry Christmas.

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1 Answer | Asked in DUI / DWI for Oklahoma on
Q: Will charges be worse if someone bangs up their car in a DUI -- it was the only vehicle involved.
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 21, 2017

If only the vehicle was "Injured", it in no way has any bearing on the charges filed. I know it's really hard during the holidays but you must stay sober and safe. Another charge would be a disaster for you, and any attorney trying to help you.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: The court papers state "the first day after school is out in the residential school district?

The child had early release today and is officially out tomorrow for Christmas break. So, would that mean I pick her up tomorrow or the following day?

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 21, 2017

PROBABLY should be tomorrow, BUT why ask here? You should be communicating with the custodial parent!

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it possible to find a family lawyer who will allow us to pay it out? Or do we have to have the money up front?

We need a family lawyer soon (for child custody) but don’t have a huge chunk of change to hand over. Is it still possible to find someone who is willing to help?

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 20, 2017

Many family law attorneys will accept payments, and most also accept credit cards. Good luck, and Merry Christmas.

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