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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My mother submitted a restraining order against my dad on Monday. Will they serve him today? Wednesday

She also requested a move out order. Will they serve and escort him out all at once? My father is agressive, intimidating, verbally and physically abusive. Also she picks up a court hearing date toay at 2:30 in modesto. What papers does she take with her??

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 21, 2017

She can report assault or battery to the police. The date/time of service depends on what kind of service she paid for if she hired a private process server. She should hire an attorney to help her. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: It's it ok for an individual serving you to say "take the paperwork or you'll be arrested"?

Papers are for a restraining order request hearing.

Also can that server show up as a witness for the party they are serving for?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 21, 2017

That kind of service, if effectuated by a professional process server, is clearly unethical and should be reported to the state licensing agency for process servers. They can show up as a witness to prove the document was served. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I filed a domestic violence report on my boyfriend and he wasn't arrested. I also got a temporary restraining order.

I don't want to press charges against him

Joseph Torri
Joseph Torri
answered on Jun 19, 2017

The prosecution will proceed with the case even if a victim does not want prosecution if they believe there's a case. Since he wasn't arrested, the prosecution may not file charges. Victims that don't want prosecution may need their own attorney for specific advice and to discuss the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I had my fiance arrested for DV. It's his first offense and was held for 5dys. Will they let him go if I wish to drop it

He fully complied and I know before speaking to the police that he was ready and willing to be arrested for crime will the courts see this as an act of mercy and let him go with a plea of guilt and how can I get this information to him before Monday if I have the tempore restraining order that I... View More

Joseph Torri
Joseph Torri
answered on Jun 18, 2017

If he's in custody at the court date, they may offer him a get out of jail plea bargain, but they may not depending on the facts of the case. When the victim of a case doesn't want prosecution, the prosecution will still prosecute him. When a victim doesn't want prosecution, the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What can my son expect at a restraining order court date.

He's truly not a threat to his children or her... she's just mad and making him look worse than he is

Joseph Torri
Joseph Torri
answered on Jun 18, 2017

Although he might not be a threat, the judge doesn't know that. Your son should retain a family lawyer because his custody rights could be severely limited if the judge grants the restraining order and he will most likely have to pay her child support. There are plenty of innocent people who... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex went to jail for domestic violence. Can I use that in court to get full custody of our son?

I also want the judge to order him to get evaluated because he has a lot of mental issues that he hasn't been diagnosed with. Is that something that the judge can do?

Joseph Torri
Joseph Torri
answered on Jun 17, 2017

The judge can certainly entertain the requests and make orders based on the evidence presented. You might be able to obtain sole custody. The court can still give the perpetrator some type of custody, but it depends on the facts.

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Child Custody for California on
Q: my ex went to jail for domestic violence.Is the police report enough evidence to use in court for supervised visitation

We have a 3 year old. Can I get full custody of him?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 17, 2017

You can request custody, and the judge will decide. A police report can be challenged as hearsay. Better evidence should be used. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me,... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Immigration Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Hi! I have a question regarding open criminal cases of DV in California.

I was an international student in a univ. of CA. The week after my graduation, my parents & I were in a hotel of Thousand Oaks & one day my dad disrupted the hotel office by insulting employees. They opted for not pressing charges; the thing was that when we went back to the room to get our... View More

David Dastrup
David Dastrup
answered on Jun 15, 2017

Great question. Sorry to hear about the problem. It is typical to be released and required to report back to court, either for another hearing or for a first hearing after the prosecution is ready to proceed (they have time, but limited time). Thus, the case is almost certainly still open,... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My 3 yr old says her dad is mean to her doesn't wanna go with him let alone talk on phone.we have a court order in place

For parenting time what can i do i have recording of her saying it & other people have heard her.

Louis George Fazzi
Louis George Fazzi
answered on Jun 10, 2017

Go back to court and get further restraining orders to prevent him from treating your daughter in this fashion. Ask the court to modify any visitation orders by requiring them to be supervised. Get your self a good family law lawyer and then turn to her for all your questions.

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1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Federal Crimes for California on
Q: Police used an arrest warrant to coerced me into releasing my child to an abuser. How can I get her back?

A custody order was obtained ex parte and through submissions of false evidence to take my child. My ex and his attorney have conspired and have continued to use the system as a weapon. They were successful in filing a criminal complaint against me based on an illegal order, but more importantly,... View More

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 9, 2017

It's crucial to have an attorney review the matter to assess the proper strategy, though you say you don't want to hear that. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: if I write a note to drop charges against my husband for domestic violence. can he use that note against me?

this question is for my friend in California, keeping in mind the laws of that state and the past statistics what will happen. she wants to save her husband and not break her family also. he is a doctor and so is she but currently without a job. this is the first time this has happened. the husband... View More

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 5, 2017

The DA brings or moves to dismiss charges, not victims. The defendant may use such evidence as this note as a defense. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: No complaint was filed on domestic violence case is the restraining order still in effect?
Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 5, 2017

What does the court order say? More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and media appearances/ publications on my law... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: If a Judge terminated a restraining order in California in open court how can PRCS say its still in effect?

In a DV case, the Judge terminated in open court the restraining order placed on defendant who ended up later having probation revoked and was sentenced to prison without any mention of reinstating the RO. But both the prison and now PRCS state the RO is still in effect and defendant didn't... View More

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 2, 2017

You'll need copy of the court records terminating the RO, including the minutes and transcript if in open court. You need proof of completion of the classes and payment of fines, if relevant. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband is in jail for domestic violence.he has a mental illness.i have no job.who will have custody of the kids?

He was charged with misdemeanor.Is it possible that the government will get my kids?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 1, 2017

If neither parent is suitable, the court might order the kids into foster care, unless a relative seeks guardianship rights. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Mu husband was charged with misdemeanor. Am i allowed to leave yhe country with my kids?
Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on Jun 1, 2017

What are the custody orders in place? What's the misdemeanor? Careful you don't abduct the kids, as that is a crime. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: How long does a DCFS court case last for dv
Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on May 30, 2017

It depends on the court orders. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors, testimonials, and media appearances/ publications on my law... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Am i allowed to bring my kids outside of the country when my husband is in jail?are we allowed to leave?

Or will i still need his consent?

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on May 30, 2017

What are the court orders re: that? When will he be released? Who has legal custody? More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors,... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My friend's wife put him in jail for domestic violence.is his wife required to attend the court hearing?

He has mental illness.will that be of help with regards to his case?

William Mihrtad Paparian
William Mihrtad Paparian
answered on May 28, 2017

Yes, his wife will have to attend the preliminary hearing if the case is filed as a felony and the trial if the case is filed as a misdemeanor. An experienced criminal defense attorney an evaluate his mental illness and how it might help mitigate

his situation.

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1 Answer | Asked in Business Law, Divorce and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My boyfriend got in a argument with his whole family and he hit his sister boyfriend with a bottle

How long can he be locked up for if they do or they don't press charges against him.

Ali Shahrestani,
Ali Shahrestani,
answered on May 26, 2017

He may face felony assault/ battery charges, and the sentence depends in part on his priors. More details are necessary to provide a professional analysis of your issue. The best first step is an Initial Consultation with an Attorney. You can read more about me, my credentials, awards, honors,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: does a failure to present a rebuttal to DV RO make the hearing for a perm RO invalid?
Louis George Fazzi
Louis George Fazzi
answered on May 22, 2017

No. Failure to respond will likely result in your default, and the restraining order will issue without opposition.

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