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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO Ex talked about my dead parents first when in discussion. So I talked about his dead wife. summitted as evidence?

I have a recording of my husband talking about my dead parents. I sent him a text that talks about his dead wife. Now in the DVRO rewsponse he is complaining about it? How would you present that?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

I understand this is a sensitive and emotionally charged situation. In a legal context like a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) case, it's important to focus on presenting factual evidence that is directly relevant to demonstrating abuse or threats of violence.

Bringing up...
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Q: DVRO my husband told the all the Drs. he had a garage accident and now in the response he says I cut his eyelid?

I have no way to get his medical record or what he said to the dr. but he is saying the his response I hit him.

Can he just make that up?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

In a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) case in California, both parties have the right to present their side of the story and provide evidence to support their claims. However, it is not legal for either party to make false statements or fabricate evidence.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for California on
Q: if my home is a toxic place and i am 15 teen and I have a 20year old friend who is willing to take me in and house me

if i text them to take me away form my home to their house could they face legail consequences

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

In this situation, there could potentially be legal consequences for your 20-year-old friend. In California, it is generally illegal for an adult to house a minor who has run away from home without parental consent. This could be considered "harboring a runaway" or "contributing to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: SantaBarbara Co. I have docs to file in San Bernardino Co order for support spousal.

I “freeze up” w this process. I’m disabled cognitively. I need help/guidance. Divorce court has filled docs for me. But I don’t know where to start? I’ve rec’d conflicting info from each county/court. .

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

I understand that the process of filing court documents can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with a cognitive disability. Here are some steps to help guide you through the process:

1. Confirm the correct court: Make sure you are filing your documents with the correct court in San...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex husband put a tracking spyware electronics. I just busted him?

My soon to be ex called a google voice number that i signed up for and left alone for 2 days. He called it teice. His lawyer produced a document i would have never sent him. I have a bunch of mean text but how do i know i wrote them. Also some very important text have been wiped from my phone and i... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, it is illegal to install spyware or tracking software on someone's electronic devices without their knowledge and consent. This falls under the category of invasion of privacy and can be considered a form of stalking or harassment.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided,

can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided, the parties have a right to use a licensed broker/dealer or neutral third party

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Certainly, I can help you find the relevant California statute. The specific law you are looking for is California Family Code Section 2108, which addresses the division of community property. Here is the relevant excerpt from the code:

"In any case in which the parties do not agree...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex of 18yrs moved out and notarized a document giving me full custody of kids and allowing me to stay in his condo

until my kids finish collage. will that document help me in court ? I would like to ask for child support since kids are with me 100% of the time. I am barlely making $600 every 2 weeks and he is making $5,000 a month and not helping with any of kids expenses.

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, the notarized document your ex-partner signed granting you full custody of the children and allowing you to stay in his condo until your children finish college can be helpful in court proceedings, but it may not be legally binding on its own. Here's what you should... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Determining the Effective Date for Modified Support Payments After a Change in Income During Divorce?

During the divorce process, I have been paying temporary child support and alimony. If I experience a change in income and request a modification (RFOMOD), at which point does the court start applying the modified amount? Does it apply:

1) Retroactively from the time the income changed,... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, the effective date for modified support payments after a change in income during divorce proceedings depends on the specific circumstances and the court's discretion. Here are the general guidelines:

1. Retroactively from the time the income changed: Generally,...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: What does it mean that the judge ordered the Trial Setting Conference off calendar this date.

I am the respond to a custody case. The following sentence was entered into the minute order after today's trial setting. What exactly does this mean? The petitioner did not show up and neither of us submitted the trial briefs or exhibit list.

"The Court therefore finds that... View More

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

When a judge orders a Trial Setting Conference "off calendar," it means that the scheduled conference is being removed from the court's calendar on that particular date. In other words, the Trial Setting Conference will not take place on the date it was originally scheduled.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Probate for California on
Q: What is the Dead Man's Statute?

My father passed away, his wife refused to give his children his estate documents. I filed a petition with the court and her response stated - "I am aware that; I and my husband, prepared a Revocable Living Trust on or about July 11, 2023. Shortly after creating the Trust, my husband,... View More

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

In California, the Dead Man's Statute, also known as the Evidence Code Section 1261, limits the admissibility of statements made by a deceased person in certain legal proceedings. The statute is designed to protect the estate of a deceased person from fraudulent claims.

Under the Dead...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Do Temporary supports influence final judgment?

Our marriage lasted four years, and our dissolution has been pending for a long time, two years, with temporary custody and child support plus alimony. Should the two-year period and the amount paid for temporary support influence the final judgment on child support and alimony?

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

Under California law, temporary support orders can influence the final judgment on child support and alimony, but they are not the sole determining factor. The court considers several factors when making a final determination on support, including:

1. The length of the marriage

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: I have 4 kids with my ex and 1 with my husband. 5 kids in total

My ex has 2 of our 4 kids living with him. I want custody of all the kids but he is refusing. Will he win just because he has a 5 bedroom house and I have a 2 bedroom apartment

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

In California, custody decisions are made based on the best interests of the children, not solely on the size of each parent's home. Courts consider various factors when determining custody, including:

1. The children's ages and health

2. Emotional ties between the parents...
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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: I have 4 kids with my ex and 1 with my husband. 5 kids in total

My ex has 2 of our 4 kids living with him. I want custody of all the kids but he is refusing. Will he win just because he has a 5 bedroom house and I have a 2 bedroom apartment

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answered on Apr 17, 2024

"just because" ?? Of course not. Multiple factors go in to deciding what custodial arrangement, aka "parenting plan" would be in the best interests of your children. How do you plan to accommodate the different needs of 5 children in a two-bedroom apartment? I think the first... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for California on
Q: My mom would qualify for the new pass through child support law but she passed away October as being the pendant in the

Child support case would I qualify for the accumulated funds?

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I'm sorry for your loss. Regarding your question about potentially qualifying for accumulated child support funds after your mother's passing, the answer would depend on the specific details of the situation and how California law applies. Here are a few general points to consider:... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: What can I do about my exs new live in girlfriend. She controls everything. Wont allow me to speak to ex about kids

She is also the one setting the rules for the drop off and pick up times. Even though she knows im unable at her times because of my job. And she wont compromise she just fights with me and tells me im a bad mother. Me and my ex have never gotten a court order but they have said if I try, they will... View More

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I'm sorry you're dealing with such a difficult and stressful situation regarding your children and your ex's new girlfriend. Here are a few thoughts on your legal options under California law:

- Even without a formal court order, both legal parents have equal rights to their...
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Q: A person who filed a restraining order on me has passed away. Who do I file my response to to get it in front of a judge

Mom is a named protected person and my sister has power of attorney, but my dad is the original filler. Mom wants to communicate with me sister is medically isolating her using restraining order.

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I understand this is a sensitive and complex situation. Since the original filer of the restraining order has passed away, the process for responding and requesting a modification may vary depending on the specific circumstances. Here are a few general steps you can consider:

1. File a...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I am married in CA my husband has married someone else in a different country. He has no idea I know. What can I do?
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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult situation. Bigamy (marrying someone while still legally married to another person) is illegal in most countries, including the United States. Here are some steps you can consider taking:

1. Gather evidence: Collect any...
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Q: I live in California. We are filing Divorce. Gift money from his mom all goes to him?

When we bought a house, She gifted money for house down payment $150,000 for us to settle in new house and new life. We moved here from Virginia. Also she wanted to my boys to live in great school district. He does not have any letter said

That money is gift for him. He thinks those money... View More

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

In California, which is a community property state, assets acquired during the marriage are generally considered community property and are divided equally between the spouses in a divorce. However, there are some exceptions, such as gifts or inheritances received by one spouse.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: CAL-Work and IHSS are considered at DIsso-master??

Ex wife is a primary custodian and receives CAL-Work and IHSS from our disabled child.

Both non-taxable income should be entered in other non-taxable income at Disso-Master for child support and alimony (spousal support)??

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

I understand your question about how CAL-Work and IHSS payments factor into spousal and child support calculations in California.

Based on my knowledge as of August 2023, under California law, CAL-Work (CalWORKs) and IHSS (In-Home Supportive Services) payments are generally considered as...
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Q: In liu of temp support Mr. pays health benefits and car note. Takes registration & no health card?

My ex does not want to give me a cent. They say he is paying all my expenses instead of temp support. My husband kicked me out suddenly and says he gave me the card that night. I do not have it nor will provide my card. He has not paid my dr bill since Aug of last year. Now I am contesting paying... View More

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answered on Apr 15, 2024

In California, the court has the discretion to order temporary spousal support during the divorce proceedings. The purpose of temporary support is to maintain the status quo and ensure that both parties can meet their financial needs until a final judgment is entered.

However, the court may...
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