My ex has primary authority on medical however they are not following the court order reading having discussions with me on medical procedures, notification of appointments or providing me access to the healthcare provider information.
I want to make sure I have enough supporting... Read more »
Your judgment may indicate how you are to communicate with your spouse which be via Family Wizard, email,etc. If so, communicate as is required by the judgment. If not, communicate in writing so that you can present written evidence in court as to the violation of your judgment.
I have bills I've paid, receipts, and statements that 70 percent of my check went towards living for all my family, my ex and two of my kids. Been together 23 years and she only worked 12 of them and I have notarized letters that I gave her child support every year until recently. I lost a job and... Read more »
If there is a child support order, you are responsible for that payment. You are entitled to visit with your children, but if former wife does not allow you to have parenting time with the children then you will need to petition the court for parenting time. If there is already an order for...Read more »
The father quit working and has been living off of an inheritance; buying large extravagant toys for himself, his girlfriend and their child, yet his other children have gone months without any child support and his ex wife has been fighting him for his court ordered health insurance for his... Read more »
The mother should go to Court and ask for an order modifying child support and a judgment on any past due child support. The Court may consider the inheritance in ordering a lump sum child support payment or other monthly payment (especially if the father is living off an interest from the...Read more »
My husbands ex wife had custody of their daughter. We had her every summer and every other weekend and for a year while she was in high school....the entire time we were paying the mother (except during months the girl was with us) and getting receipts from her with no problems. Never needed to go... Read more »
Yes she can petition the court for child support arrearages. The child support order should been modified years ago due to the change in the custodial parent. As it was never modified, the child support plus interest is owed. The payor has to provide proof of the payments. So if the former spouse...Read more »
You will have to file a Motion to Modify support alleging that a substantial change in your income has occurred. Courts do not believe that all decreases in income are a substantial change, so if your income only decreased by a small amount you may not be able to decrease your payments. In...Read more »
I got divorced in September of 2019 there was no previous court order that required my ex to true up for his secondary employment. I was told by my attorney that he only has to true up from the date of the divorce until the end of the year. Nothing about retro pay is mentioned in our MSA. MSA only... Read more »
Rather than being pro-rated it is likely to be based on income earned from the date of the divorce through December 31. Your best bet is to ask the lawyer who represented you in your case, since he or she will be familiar with the terms of your MSA and their interpretation.
She stated she disagreed with the amount. She wasn’t aware the tru-up starts day of filing divorce agreement. Check was significantly less than she expected. She threatened to and then the ripped check up. She gave me a pic to prove it.
Send her an email or a certified letter offering to go halves with her on an independent accountant or divorce lawyer to calculate the amount that the true-up requires. Otherwise, you don't have to do anything until she files a Petition to hold you in contempt of court. Then, you can show the photo...Read more »
I would like to change my child’s last name to my last name. Their dad and I were never married, we don’t have any court order custody agreement, and he’s always been in and out of her life and not financially responsible. I was informed by him about 6 months ago that he has started the... Read more »
It can be done through the courts, but you will be required to provide notice of the court proceeding to the child's father. Be prepared to show it is in the best interest of the child to change the name.
Child wants to graduate high school early but I don't think they are mature enough yet. We don't have anything outlined in the parental plan for higher education however I am the primary decision maker with high school.
I'm curious if our child attends college after graduation and then... Read more »
Our current order states that the three of us (mother, father and child) will work unilaterally regarding College. So far I've been kept in the dark and our child won't answer any of my questions regarding college. Our currently order only states that if the three of us cannot agree regarding... Read more »
Ask your ex-spouse about college. Your child wasn't a party to the legal proceeding in which the order was entered, whereas your ex was. Your child can't be held in contempt for not obeying an order in a legal proceeding to which the child was not a party. Your ex is bound by the order since he or...Read more »
You legally became an adult on your 18th birthday. Child support normally stops on the child's 18th birthday or graduation from high school, whichever is later. There are exceptions if you're disabled or if your parent has been ordered to contribute to your higher education (college, etc.).
Written and signed by the custodial parent and stamped and signed by the Kane County Court on 1-12-07. My job finally stopped child support payments on 12-26-19 after realizing they were in violation of the court order termination date. The custodial parent wants to take me back to court to... Read more »
You should not have to pay any backpay but the other party can file a Petition for Contribution for College Expenses. This can be done only the child is going to college. If he is working and not going to college, he is emancipated and you will not have to pay any more child support for him.
Paid Thru workman compensation of a check of 60% of my previous salary. I had a child support order for $210 a week but due to the fact that I was hurt and no longer getting paid from the job those payments stopped. I paid my Kids mom $110 a week since I was injured because I was only getting 60%... Read more »
You cannot change the amount of child support owed without a court order modifying it. So even if your income was reduced, you still owe the child support per the court order. At the time of your injury, you should have petitioned the court to modify the child support order. The child's mother can...Read more »
My ex and I originally compromised on our initial child support agreement. He offered a generous amount until the youngest of 4 kids was 18. I had always been stay at home mom. Because of his generosity (no calculations or % when it was still law), I did not seek maintenance. Then when oldest is... Read more »
It is probably too late to seek maintenance, although you may have a very slim chance by arguing you and your ex were mistaken as to the facts involved when you made your choice. A judge can consider (and award) college expenses and can take into account the added expense of raising a disabled...Read more »
My ex-wife is employed by a ligation and personal injury attorney in the state of Missouri. He represents her at no charge in the state of Illinois where our case has been initiated. Is it a conflict of interest for him to represent her?
I was given custody in 2017. My ex was not ordered visits or child support. In 2019, Aug my wife and I found out she was doing better and expecting a baby. I let her go live with her mom and grandparents in Tennessee while I live in Illinois so that she would be there for the birth of her brother.... Read more »
As long as an Illinois court has ruled on such things as custody, parenting time (formerly called visitation) or support, the children should remain subject to the jurisdiction of the Illinois court. The Tennessee court should refuse to take action contrary to the Illinois court's orders. This will...Read more »
My ex has been alienating me from my son since he was a year old. Telling him to call me "Uncle". She told me I can be his father when she gets child support. Any visitation I had with him, she felt the need to supervise personally and I was only able to visit with him for 2 hour increments every 3... Read more »
You'll need to have a lawyer see the papers the sheriff served on before he or she can tell you what they are and what you should do about them. The lawyer can also give you advice about your rights to see your son and whether or not your ex could legally take him to Florida. A lawyer needs lots...Read more »
We have been going back and forth to court several times, he does not follow the orders and once the state takes the money out of his check a few times he quits the job. I have pictures that show he is doing roofing jobs, he also owns several expensive cars he is selling. What can I do to help get... Read more »
If doing it on your own hasn't worked, hire an attorney to file a Petition for Rule to Show Cause. This asks the court to hold your ex in contempt. If you win, the court has to order your ex to pay your attorney fees in Illinois. If it was me, I'd be asking the court to have him sign over the title...Read more »
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