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My daughter is 5 years old, she has no father on her birth certificate and no dna has been established. He hasn't supported her or bothered to be apart of her life. My boyfriend wants to adopt her he's been in her life since she was a year and half and we have two kids together. Can he... View More
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answered on Mar 14, 2021
You have to be married for your boyfriend to adopt her. You still have to notify father of the adoption, but may not need his permission. You should discuss this with a local attorney.
This is a response to Cathy Cook, Esq. about the 15 yr old girl
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answered on Mar 13, 2021
One of the relatives needs to consult with a family law attorney in your area to learn how to file with the court.
CPS hasn’t helped. The child wants to move out. Is there anything that can be done legally? I do not want her to run away
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answered on Mar 12, 2021
Unfortunately, Ohio does not have self-emancipation for minors. Is there a relative who could file for custody?
We've been together for 13 years with a daughter whos 11. I want to separate from him for cheating. Do I automatically get custody of our daughter and will I get child support? I've been disabled since 2012 and get ssd. I haven't worked since 2012. I need help.
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answered on Mar 11, 2021
Because you are not married, yes, you have custody by law. Father can seek shared parenting, custody, and/or parenting time through the court. You will need to file for child support.
I pay all the bills including rent, utilities, phone, internet, and car. We have 2 kids both under 2 years old. She is unemployed and has been unemployed for over 2 years her last 4 jobs she only worked at for about a month or 2 and that was over about a 2 year period.
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answered on Mar 11, 2021
I agree with the prior answer. Once you are required to leave, you may need to file for divorce to receive parenting time if you cannot agree. Your wife may file to get support, both child and spousal. You may need a vocational expert to show what your wife is capable of earning.
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answered on Mar 9, 2021
If you are the custodial parent, you do. If you and your ex have shared parenting, the court may divide the stimulus between you.
Standard mutual protection order: Pursuant to Local Domestic Rule 43, IT IS ORDERED that effective on the date a Complaint is filed, each spouse is enjoined from committing any of the following acts:
"Selling, damaging, destroying, removing from its present location, encumbering,... View More
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answered on Mar 9, 2021
Accidental fire is not a violation. If she is keeping the children from you, you need to file a motion for parenting time.
State took child, this isn't a custody between parents. A cps case was opened. This was a legal rights hearing.
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answered on Mar 9, 2021
If the state took your children, you are entitled to counsel. However if it was the other parent or another person who sought custody, you do not have a to be appointed counsel.
I have three children ages 12, 8, and 5. Current child support order. No court visitation schedule. Dad is harassing me. Threatening me. Telling me if I do not drop support order "I will see what happens. Children barely see him. I tried to go through child support they said only way they... View More
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answered on Mar 5, 2021
Do you really believe he will not bother you if you drop support? If so, and you want to do this, either you or he would have to file a motion to modify support. You can agree to do so, unless you are receiving government assistance.
We agreed in our dissolution, to no child support. She came to me shortly after that, and demanded I paid her. So I have been paying support, since then, though I was not ordered by any court to do so, so she wouldn’t move my child a long distance from me. Now she has brought up going through the... View More
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answered on Mar 4, 2021
The other answer is correct, but the mother must show a change in incomes since the divorce to obtain a support order.
Can I do anything about it? Also if my son is too much for me, can give temporary custody of him to his father? How do I do that? His father doesn't speak to me at all and I have asked for his help before and he will not help at all. Medically I can no longer live with him as he gives me... View More
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answered on Mar 4, 2021
The prior answer is correct. Unfortunately, you can’t force the father to exercise parenting time or take your child to live with him.
We currently have a shared parenting agreement. I have him twice a week after school until 8 and every other weekend. We split all holidays and breaks from school. But the magistrate said she still considers it basically standard visitation, and the mother the primary guardian or custodial parent,... View More
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answered on Mar 2, 2021
Yes, you should file to modify parenting time. It would be best to have an attorney assist you in how best to present your arguments. You will probably want to ask the magistrate or judge to interview him on what time he’d like with you.
I was charged with M4 DV in 2019. I pled to MM Dis. Conduct and I recently applied to have my record expunged. Here is my concern: in 2008 I was charged with M1 DV and I pled to M4 DV. I got that record expunged. I'm now concerned that when looking this up, they could decide that I should... View More
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answered on Mar 1, 2021
No. An 18 year old is an adult over whom you have no legal control. It’s unfortunate you can’t convince your child to complete high school
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My daughter’s biological father is not listed on the birth certificate and has never paid child support. We have proved paternity. He has never shown any interest is her whatsoever. My husband and I have been together since she was two and would love to adopt her. Do we have to get her biological... View More
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answered on Feb 28, 2021
Based on the facts you’ve provided, a step-parent adoption can occur. You will have to notify father, but don’t need his permission based on no support and no contact for one year.
Will I need to be prepared to be questioned about this in court?
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answered on Feb 25, 2021
The domestic violence case is not relevant unless the father lost his job due to being jailed. If so, then you need to let the court know this was from an assault on you, the mother, and he needs to continue to support his children.
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answered on Feb 23, 2021
Sounds like your guidance counselor is trying to help you. You should look into how you can complete school to help you with employment.
We share custody. Judge said I don't have to pay child support which is documented in the parenting agreement, which she won't sign. Without that signed agreement, she is looking to have custody changed to the standard of 1-day a week and every other weekend. When I have been present his... View More
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answered on Feb 23, 2021
Glad you received equal time. Not sure how you were ordered to pay $774 per month, if you earn $940 per month. You may want someone check the numbers.
I have full custody in ohio and she doesnt have any legal rights as moved to california. Shes demanding I send her to California during the pandemic and I have no clue who she lives with or would be around if something happened.
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answered on Feb 23, 2021
Based on what you say, she has no court ordered rights. Therefore, you ha no obligation to send her. Mom would have to file a motion to obtain parenting time.
Hi I am going through a divorce my husband is about to file and I live at his parents house with our to kids and he lives in Montana and I don't know were to start or what to do. We have been married 10 years and I haven't work but 1 of those. He is not going to try to pay me so he is... View More
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answered on Feb 22, 2021
Did you and he live in Ohio together during the marriage? If so, yes, file for divorce here and seek temporary child and spousal support. Did you live with your husband in Montana? If not,he may not be able to file there, but I don't know Montana law.
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