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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Alabama on
Q: My son's mother quit a very good nursing job to take a lower paying job in a doctor's office. The change didn't give her

more time with my son or have any career benefit. She now says she is going to quit that job and work in a bank where she will make even less money. She wants to go back to court to get more child support because her income is so much lower now. At the last order we made about the same amount of... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Jan 18, 2019

You have to understand there are no hard and fast rules but instead "positions" you can take. If you are going to find yourself back in court you are going to need legal representation. Child support is set according to Rule 32 of the Alabama Rules of Judicial Administration. If you... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Alabama on
Q: Can I get cs lowered if I have two other kids? Will they use my wife income towards cs for a child that’s not hers?

My ex girlfriend filed for cs which I pay. But since then I have 2 other kids, can my support payments be lowered since I’m supporting them? Will they come after my wife’s income if I ask for modification in child support?

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Jan 16, 2019

Confusion seems to be endless on the issue of child support. Child support is based on the gross income of the mother and father. It doe not include the income of other parties such as the wife or husband, parents, brother, sister, live in boyfriend or girlfriend. Likewise, other parties cannot... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: What are my options? HELP

Me and my ex-husband divorced over 7 years ago. When the divorce was finalized I was working a government job on 3rd shift out of town. We have a son together who was 2 at the time. The judge told us that we were being granted joint legal custody. He also stated that wherever the child laid his... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Dec 10, 2018

It sounds like it is time to go back to court. The Order you are operating under was entered at a specific time when the circumstances of both the parties and the child were tremendously different. You can go back to court to modify child support, custody and visitation any time there is a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Alabama on
Q: What is your honest opinion on my Child Custody Case?!

I need advice. My child’s father filed for custody this summer, DNA is back, & we have a PL hearing in a few weeks. I just hired an attorney. I can’t get a a good clear answer from my lawyer so I wanted to see if anyone can give me their experience on what my chances are to lose my 4 month... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Nov 29, 2018

You have hired an attorney which means that attorney works for you. Why did you hire him if you do not trust the advice he has given you or the way he has provided that advice? No one is going to give you certainties or percentages that is not how this works. There are so many factors that go... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Alabama on
Q: If you have several kids by different mothers, does the amount of child support decrease for the most recent child?
Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Nov 21, 2018

As with most questions the answer is not that simple. Child support in Alabama is based on the gross income of both parents, the cost of healthcare insurance and the cost of daycare subject to a cap based on where the child lives. If a parent is paying COURT ORDERED child support for another child... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: I am a mother of a 9 yr old little girl. Her father divorced me 3 years ago. I keep being g told my case will be resched

For a hearing.However, each court date the judge refuses the hearing due to scheduling failures on the courts behalf. What are my rights. My ex is isolating my child from me. My child is being used as a weapon. I have spent 40k on this alone.

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Nov 1, 2018

In order to provide you any advice I would have to know more about what is actually going on, the jurisdiction and some other factors. While delays are certainly the norm if the extent, nature and reason for the delays is something that concern you I suggest you sit down and talk to your attorney... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning for Alabama on
Q: dad died. Had will with children equal beneficiaries. Recently married. No mention her in will. How is property divided?

Children are adult children from previous marriage. Current wife was never mentioned in will. Can’t find a definitive answer. One place I read wife gets first $37,000 plus half. Other place says she gets 1/3 or equal share of children.

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 29, 2018

This question is more proper under the heading "Estate" or "Wills and Estates" than it is under Family Law but regardless the answer to your question is not as simple as you make it out to be. You will have to sit down with an attorney to make several determinations. Under... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for Alabama on
Q: If my wife is seeking divorce and she opened up a bank account to withhold all her paychecks and is still using my money

What am i legally allowed to do since we are still married?

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 29, 2018

If divorce has not been filed and/or no order has been entered there is no prohibition as to what either of you do with your money. Obviously if she is no longer depositing money into the joint account you should likewise cease to deposit money and instead seek some sort of resolution on how... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: I am confused on my updated custody modification paper work

I have been granted sole legal and physical custody of all four of my children. Their mother must exercise her visitations through family services center. At the end of the section it says, The provision for child custody in this order of modification by default constitutes a custody decree or... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 27, 2018

Many courts have standard provisions they put in all Orders. The Exhibit A is an example of that sort of document. The court retains jurisdiction over your case for 30 days allowing you to file a motion to alter amend or vacate the order. Since the provision in question contradicts the actual... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Alabama on
Q: My ex-husband has not paid child support in five months it is only court ordered not through DHR

When the kids go to his house they only get fed macaroni and cheese and a bottle water once today they also sleep on the floor whether they’re also know that he is here at my 13-year-old with his fist I have a special needs child that is it that is sick he has asthma seizures autistic and a heart... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 24, 2018

If he is ordered by a court to pay child support and is not doing so then you can take him back to court seeking that he be forced to show cause why he has not been paying and held in contempt accordingly. I assume from what you are saying he also has court ordered visitation. If so, it does not... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: what happens in AL when the judge orders full custody. Do I get my child right away?

I live in NH, but the custody battle is in AL. When the judge makes a ruling will I be able to take him back with me immediately?

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 13, 2018

It is very uncommon for a judge to make a custody ruling directly from the bench following a trial and it is in fact not a good idea to do so. When something as important as the custody of a child is at stake emotions are very high and there have been numerous occasions when violence and even... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: If I agreed to assume all transportation costs for visitation, can I amend this to have my ex share costs with me?

I am the non-custodial parent. I moved to Texas for a job following our divorce. I previously agreed to assume all travel costs, however I was not able to afford representation at the time. What are my chances of successfully amending this and having it upheld by a judge if necessary?

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 11, 2018

You can go back to court and seek an amendment of the current order anytime there is a material change in circumstances. The problem you are going to have is proving that something material has occurred that no longer makes it feasible for you to pay transportation costs. Short of a job loss or... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: What happens if my ex boyfriend lies in court so he can take child away from me?

My ex and I have court in a couple weeks and originally it was so we could get a legal agreement on paper so he couldn’t take my daughter from me like he has one time already just because I started dating again. Now I’ve learned that he is telling his friends a bunch of lies and saying he’s... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 11, 2018

Unfortunately many people come to court and lie. Fortunately, there are numerous features in the system that help to both expose a liar and to limit those things they can lie about. The most important feature is cross examination. If you are going into a contested proceeding you need a lawyer.... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Support for Alabama on
Q: Is my husband responsible for his ex-wife's lawyer fees if they go to court?

My husband's ex wife says that if he does not agree with everything she wants him to do, then she will take him to court and make him pay for her lawyer, as well as court and filing fees. Would she be able to make him pay for her lawyer?

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 10, 2018

Any award of attorney fees is discretionary with the court. Unfortunately I have found this to be true even when the Agreement executed by the parties and converted to an Order by the judge has a fee provision that should not be discretionary. It creates an issue for appeal but few have the money... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Alabama on
Q: Can my childs mother bring up something that happened 3 years ago before we were both granted joint custody of son?

March of last year my son was taken away for 8 months awaiting court date. In the end we were both granted joint custody of our son week on week off in march. We have 2 children here not including him. The other 8 year old same age does very well at school grades and behavior... 6 months later... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 6, 2018

The short answer is no. Each time you go to court seeking a modification of an order you must prove a material change in circumstances. That material change has to have occurred since the last time you were in court. You can't just hold something in your pocket wait a couple of months and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: After sharing my girls week to week can I still get primary joint and him receive every other weekend? They are under 2.

I have been a sahm with them since they were born. I have another son who’s 4 with a previous marriage and I have sole custody of him. Being away from his sisters this long has been very hard on him. The girls are starting to not eat at their dads and very emotional. I feel like with them being... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 5, 2018

These types of cases can be very difficult. Is there currently a custody and visitation order in place that gives him week on week off visitation? Was that an agreement or was it ordered by the court? How long have you been doing week on week off visitation? How do you exchange the children... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: What needs to be discussed and agreed unpon about child custody to file for an uncontested divorce?

I am filing for an uncontested divorce with a child and feel like we have discussed most of the custody issues. He agreed on my taking of legal custody and having a joint physical custody. I was told that in Alabama, that there would be a primary physical custodian and the other would likely have... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 5, 2018

There is a great deal here that needs to be discussed and some apparent misconceptions in my opinion. You would probably be best served to retain a lawyer to help you in this process. It is a lot more involved than your question suggests. In a nutshell, as you seem to recognize, there are 2... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: My deceased son's wife wants to give joint custody of my grandson to my daughter. What form is needed to do this?

My daughter-in-law lives in Alabama. My grandson lives with my daughter in California (since 8/17/18) and his survivor benefits were halted because my daughter doesn't have legal custody. We're trying to get her joint custody to satisfy the Social Security Administration. Everyone is in... View More

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 5, 2018

If the child lives in California all issues concerning custody of the child will have to be handled in California. You should seek legal advice in California. Custody of a child is serious business. It is not like the sale of a car. There is no "form" that can be filed to transfer... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: 4wk old's father lives w/parents & sis who threatened mother on social med. Does child have to visit father at home

A police report was filed but no warrant issued yet. Fearful they will keep the child

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 5, 2018

If there is no Order in place giving the father visitation rights then he has no such rights and you need not let him visit with the child at his place of residence or otherwise. You can set the terms and locations of any visitation. I assume that your are not married to the father. Either of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Alabama on
Q: if parents have given up custodial rights to a distant family member but not parental rights can 1 get it back

and What acts affect this in Alabama and can grandparents still get visitation rights if not

Shane Michael Oncale
Shane Michael Oncale
answered on Oct 5, 2018

Yes. If parental rights have not been terminated the parents can always come back and petition the court for a return of custody. It can be a long and difficult process but it is possible. Grandparents can get rights to visitation under a vary narrow set of circumstances exist and may be... View More

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