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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Do I have to allow the NCP to have more time than what is in court order?

Our court order/parenting plan doesn’t say the parenting time schedule changes when there is no school. The NCP has proposed a schedule for when our child doesn’t have school that includes longer parenting time and an additional overnight a week since our child is not in school. My child does... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Jun 12, 2023

There is no simple answer to your question. From a court's perspective, your child should know and spend quality time with both parents, so the starting point is whether your ex asked for additional time prior to the court entering the order and that request was denied or whether neither of... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: how to get custody established with a civil order that's in place ?

we went to have a custody court date. She lied and said I threatened her with no proof. the judge granted her a restraining order. we went to court for that and it was switched to a civil restraint order. it says I can only see my son supervised once a week, but she had no proof of why. my son... View More

Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek
answered on May 22, 2023

Thank you for your question. It sounds like there are several variables in your matter. A consent order for civil restraints is generally not entered without the consent of both parties. That being said, the best thing to do is have a consultation with an experienced family law attorney who can... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: how to get custody established with a civil order that's in place ?

we went to have a custody court date. She lied and said I threatened her with no proof. the judge granted her a restraining order. we went to court for that and it was switched to a civil restraint order. it says I can only see my son supervised once a week, but she had no proof of why. my son... View More

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on May 21, 2023

A full custody case is a very expensive proceeding, which will require expert testimony. You need to make sure that you have the resources to retain the attorney and the necessary experts that will be required. You do not want to bring a case for custody and lose for lack of resources. With modern... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Can any state have authority to press charges of interference in a custody order? Or only jurisdiction State can?
Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on May 5, 2023

If your ex is refusing to comply with an order for parenting time, then you will file an application with the court to compel compliance/sanctions against your ex for her / his actions. The court does not take action on its own because of a claim of interference. The judge hearing your application... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: DCP&P LEGAL ISSUES

Back in February DCPP was involved with me drinking. The worker and supervisor are extremely unqualified to do their jobs. I've sent emails, text, messages, voice-mail etc and they rarely get back to me.

While I'm being ignored, court was adjourned twice and then canceled today.... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on May 4, 2023

The short answer is that you can schedule a consultation with an experienced family law attorney who handles DCPP matters and is knowledgeable on the rules governing investigations by DCPP reps and the timeline for the completion of their investigations. An experienced family law attorney can also... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Can my ex request a meeting with my new girlfriend in order to allow her to see my kids?

We have an agreement that says that both parents will consult each other about who is going to be around when the kids are in their custody, now she found out that I'm dating and is requesting to see my girlfriend otherwise she is not okay with the kids being around my girlfriend unless she... View More

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Mar 19, 2023

Realistically it should not be a problem, but every Judge and every situation is unique, so it is hard to know for certain. If your ex-spouse makes a motion based on the facts you provided, then it will be time to retain an experienced matrimonial attorney. With modern technology, you can be... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Can my ex request a meeting with my new girlfriend in order to allow her to see my kids?

We have an agreement that says that both parents will consult each other about who is going to be around when the kids are in their custody, now she found out that I'm dating and is requesting to see my girlfriend otherwise she is not okay with the kids being around my girlfriend unless she... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Mar 20, 2023

The starting point is the actual language of the settlement agreement.

While you say the language only applies to communications between you and your ex, the actual language may be broader or there may be another language in the agreement that gives either/ both of you the right to speak...
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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Can my ex request a meeting with my new girlfriend in order to allow her to see my kids?

We have an agreement that says that both parents will consult each other about who is going to be around when the kids are in their custody, now she found out that I'm dating and is requesting to see my girlfriend otherwise she is not okay with the kids being around my girlfriend unless she... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Mar 24, 2023

Thank you for your question. There is no legal basis for your former spouse to request a meeting with your new girlfriend. Parties are free to make private agreements with any provisions they desire. Based on the information you provided, you only agreed to consult each other regarding third... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Is it possible to have joint custody or share custody of my nephew with my sister(his mother)? Or would I adopt him?

We live in NJ. The father didn’t sign the birth certificate, and has never paid child support or been around my nephew. How we we begin this process?? Or where would we look to start?? She is in agreement with the entire thing and and want to share in all of the decision making etc.

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Feb 19, 2023

The biggest issue is the nature of your relationship with your sister. Is your sister seeking or willing to agree to share parenting time and decision making with you or are you looking for your nephew to live with you and you make all of the decisions concerning your nephew? If you are seeking the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can I get divorced and then do child custody afterwards?

And what can I do to get visitation rights if my kids live in another state

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Feb 17, 2023

In New Jersey, except under extremely unique circumstances, you cannot bifurcate your divorce matter - meaning the court will not permit you to get a divorce now and address custody issues later.

Separately, I gather you live in New Jersey and your spouse and children live in a different...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can I get divorced and then do child custody afterwards?

And what can I do to get visitation rights if my kids live in another state

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Feb 21, 2023

Thank you for your question. Typically, all issues are resolved at the time a divorce is finalized, including custody and parenting time, unless there is a specific reason why that cannot be accomplished, though that happens very infrequently. If your children reside in a different state than you... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: My children and I moved here with their father for his work in June 2020. My children's father left and remarried

In jan 2022 ......I have been given a substantial job offer back in the state we had been living in prior to our mive to NJ which is 1.5 hrs from him. Can I take the children?We have a custody order he has visitation one week anight that I can not accommodate I've made suggestions and requests... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 12, 2023

Thank you for your question. If you don’t have the father’s consent to move, then you need a court order to grant you permission to move. You will need to file a motion but unfortunately it will not be heard in 6 weeks so unfortunately, you will need to speak to a matrimonial attorney to see if... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: What is consider a witness list to provide to the court to get sole custody?
Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Dec 28, 2022

A witness list is an identification of the witnesses you plan to call at trial. I am sure that the court also required you to submit a pre-marking schedule of documents you plan to you on your case starting with a complete listing of each document. As part of the pre-marking requirement, I am sure... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: What is the statute of limitations for 2c:34-3?

I ask because I have an eye witness who states (in an affidavit) that she walked in on my niece's dad showing my niece (then 6 years old) sexual content. I'm in litigation for custody of my niece and the judge is ignoring a lot of evidence--including my niece (when she was 7) sending me a... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Dec 27, 2022

If I understand your inquiry correctly, you have filed an application with the family court seeking physical custody of your niece and presumably, the other party in the family court matter is the child's biological father.

I am not sure if there is a parallel investigation taking...
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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: What is the statute of limitations for 2c:34-3?

I ask because I have an eye witness who states (in an affidavit) that she walked in on my niece's dad showing my niece (then 6 years old) sexual content. I'm in litigation for custody of my niece and the judge is ignoring a lot of evidence--including my niece (when she was 7) sending me a... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Dec 24, 2022

The judge in a custody case is the wrong person to be discussing this matter with.

You need to communicate exclusively with the detective assigned to investigate the criminal complaint.

Don’t even bring the subject up in the custody case or the perpetrator will be able to use...
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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Appeals / Appellate Law for New Jersey on
Q: Should I appeal courts decision on the visitation they gave my ex? I am the father & the parent of primary residence.

Months after my divorce was final in 2020, my ex took me to court for 50/50 custody. At the time she had visitation every other weekend and a night for dinner during the week. The judge denied her request and sent us to mediation. At mediation I felt like I had to give up something so we agreed on... View More

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Dec 9, 2022

Appeals are rarely successful and will usually require a retainer of $25,000.00 just to get started. It is not likely that an Appellate Court will overrule the trial judge unless it is shown that the trial judge abused their discretion or made an unjustifiable decision. You are going to need an... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Appeals / Appellate Law for New Jersey on
Q: Should I appeal courts decision on the visitation they gave my ex? I am the father & the parent of primary residence.

Months after my divorce was final in 2020, my ex took me to court for 50/50 custody. At the time she had visitation every other weekend and a night for dinner during the week. The judge denied her request and sent us to mediation. At mediation I felt like I had to give up something so we agreed on... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Dec 5, 2022

The filing of an appeal of a trial court's decision on a custody/parenting time decision must be within 45 days of the date of the order. Appeals are also expensive and time consuming. My suggestion is that you meet with a family law attorney experienced in handling family law appellate work... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: My mom adopted my child because I was in prison. My child has lived with me for 2 years. How can I overturn the adoption

My mom says she doesn’t want my daughter and verbally and emotionally abused her. I’d like to overturn the adoption and get my rights back

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Nov 1, 2022

The first question is whether your mother formally adopted your daughter or whether she simply took guardianship of her as a result of your incarceration. But, if your mother no longer wants control over your daughter and you are able to handle the responsibilities, then ask your mother to sign... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: My daughter is in foster care, the foster parents want to get her a passport, take her to Aruba, with A Columbian guy.

They only just recently met this Columbian guy.

I am very concerned. Can I stop them from getting a passport for my daughter?

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Jan 28, 2024

You have the ritght to reach out to the DCCP representative who is in charge of your matter. Speak with him / her and voice your concerns and let the rep speak to the foster parents about the details of this trip.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Health Care Law for New Jersey on
Q: What are the COVID guidelines in New Jersey for noncustodial supervised visitation?

The supervisor of these visits tested positive for covid.

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Aug 15, 2023

If the supervision is through an agency or program, I presume that they have other supervisors available. If its a private person acting as a supervisor, then I presume that you need to speak with the supervisor about finding a replacement acceptable to you and to your former partner.

I...
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