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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My friend has a custody situation in Arizona but lives in Oregon. Where does she turn for low-income help?

Hello.I am contacting you on behalf of a close friend of mine in an urgent custody battle in Arizona. She was served papers to appear in court in May to discuss severing her parental rights & needs help! She is a newly former Arizona resident. Due to being near homeless with her daughter (whom... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Apr 3, 2018

If this matter is in an Arizona court she is going to need an attorney licensed in Arizona because only a State licensed Attorney can appear in the court for that State. You need to look for an Attorney in Arizona. There may or may not be low income programs in Arizona. Usually a legal... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: Can my mom get cutody of my daughter?

My husband and i had to move to oregon and we trusted my mom to watch our daughter. We printed out a form and signed it that said pretty much she can sign for anything but she went behind my back and filed for custody. It was only suppose to be temporary till we got jobs and a place to stay as soon... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Mar 5, 2018

It sounds like your daughter is not in Oregon so the laws of the State where your daughter has been living will apply. So you will need to talk to a lawyer in that State. Most likely you won't have a problem. Biological parents have a constitutionally protected right to have custody of... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: Can i win custody over my 5/9yr old kids from my ex .we werent married but i agree to all her terms and she broke it

We had an agreemente..verbal only trusting her..we are not married so I let her stay in house w/kids 5yr/9yrs old,pay her rent half of car her insurance payment.help with buying kids stuff they needed and not introduce or have our kids around my new gf and baby i just had. Very hard to do but i... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Feb 19, 2018

No one here on the internet can tell you what your chances of getting custody are based on your short paragraph describing the situation above. It the matter has never gone to court before then there will be a hearing and a judge will decide what is in the best interest of the children. Probably... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: In Oregon, if I filed the petition of custody am I able to drop the same petition ever with a hearing scheduled?

I want to drop my petition for many reasons and valid concerns, amid a judge overseeing and making decisions on a custody case for my 4y/owho has outcries and had physical injury from sexual abuse by bio dad; even tho bio dads brother is judges court clerk. Also default in my favor occurred 10/25... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Feb 19, 2018

You need to talk with an Attorney about this in an office consultation. This is too complex to give general advice in response and really shouldn't be discussed on the internet. If the Judge's clerk is related to your ex then maybe you should ask for a new judge to hear the case.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: my daughter agreed to 50-50 custody when she left her childens father, tried to change to 60-40 now gets nothing.

when my daughter tried to gain more custody time so she can benefit from TANf and get job search assistance and a decent amount of child support, the child support office cut her off to zero support stating they both earn minimum wage. she doesn't have a job. he is a contractor and is not... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Feb 19, 2018

There appears to be some confusion here. DHS which administers welfare, TANF and other benefits for low income people has nothing to do with setting or collecting child support. I don't have expertise in how they calculate income so I would suggest you go with your daughter to the field... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support, Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: 16 years ago I had a one night stand with a woman and recently, the local child support agency contacted me.

I don't remember her, I think I met her at a bar? She is claiming i'm the father of her child. The paternity has not been confirmed however, what rights do i have? I've confirmed through the paperwork, i'm not on the birth certificate. Can I sue her for keeping the child a... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Feb 12, 2018

Get a blood test and find out if the child is yours first. It may not be. Please understand that this women may not actually know that you are the father. What happens is that when someone applies for welfare the State may force the to name a father as a condition of receiving government... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: When I file for custody, am I required to file for child support as well?
Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Feb 3, 2018

A court will not enter an order for custody or parenting time unless there is also a plan to provide child support. There are a few work arounds.

1. If you don't want child support and you are asking for custody you can say that you don't want the court to award child support....
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My ex has violated a temp stalking order placed on him in August. How will this effect the case?

I am in the middle of a custody battle. I believe my ex is unstable mentally but not diagnosed. He has broken the stalking order by contacting via phone. The police arrested him last friday and he has been in jail all weekend. I am afraid of what will happen when he is released which i assume... View More

Gregory L Abbott
Gregory L Abbott
answered on Jan 29, 2018

No, there is no automatic win BUT it will likely favor your position with the court. All in all, you need to review it with your custody attorney and if contacted again, immediately report it to the police. A second violation of the restraining order is likely to keep him in jail for awhile.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: How can my husband and I receive custody of my niece?

If my brother and my niece's mother are unable to parent, how can we acquire custody so that my niece can have a chance in a stable environment? My brother has 100% custody. The mother has supervised visitation but doesn't try to visit and hasn't been in the picture for several... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 28, 2018

You probably will need to go to talk to an attorney. It depends on whether children's services have already gotten involved or not. I also don't now what you mean by your brother can't parent. If your brother had legal custody and chidren's services are not yet involved, your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Can you serve papers when the respondent, petitioner, and child are present?

My exwife served me papers in a Wal-Mart parking lot. She had her dad "serve" me while she, our child, and I were present. Is this legal?

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 27, 2018

The only requirement for service under Oregon Law is that a party of the litigation or their attorney can't personally deliver the papers but any other adult, such as her father, can certainly had off the papers. So assuming that this is a case filed in Oregon and that Oregon Law controls,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: How do I prevent my ex-wife from reacquainting my 8-year-old daughter with my psychologically abusive mother?

During our marriage we agreed that a relationship between my mother and daughter was a bad idea. We went five years without said relationship. Now, less than a month since our divorce, she wants to reintroduce my daughter to my mother.

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 26, 2018

You might need to convince a court that exposure to your mother is psychologically damaging to your daughter. It won't be easy and it won't be cheap. You would file a petition to amend the terms of your parenting plan with the mother and ask the court to amend the plan to limit the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: Can someone that is not related to me have my custody?

I am 16 years old.

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 23, 2018

This is very strange because the email related to this post stated: "If my mom leaves in Honduras, and my brother and I live in the US with our custodial dad, and we are been domestic abuse. And our dad has our custody and goes to jail. Where does my brother and I go to?. Can someone else that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Oregon on
Q: what do i do if i feel my attorney help my ex wife in the final judgment then me

i have ask two more attorney they say he did a really bad job

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 19, 2018

Go and talk to another attorney about your situation. Show them your divorce papers and explain why you think that your attorney didn't do a good job of representing you and get a second opinion. It may be that your attorney did an excellent job but there wasn't really a way to make you... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: If parent A is court ordered to p/up children from parent B at 4 can they decide to say “oh my mom will get them at 630

Dad has sole custody and Mom never sees them even though she’s supposed to get them Friday to Sunday. She is finally getting them Friday and she gets them at 4:00, but all on Friday she texts that she’s unexpectedly starting her new job and her mom will get them at 6:30. Is that ok?? Note dad... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 19, 2018

First of all you are writing this as though you are not the mother or the father who have this arrangement. This has to be something that the two parents work out. Any parenting time plan is going to require some flexibility but it also requires firm boundaries as the parent in father's... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My ex husband has full custody in california and I'm in oregon

He has had her for 2 years due to a difficult time in my life. He has full physical custody what are my next steps to reverse that so I can have some type of visiting rights or get half custody back?

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 18, 2018

It sounds like the court that last issued a Judgment for custody is a California Court. If that is the case you will need to file something with that court asking for the court to set up parenting time or visitation. That should be easy unless their is some concern about your ability to have your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Are there any Pro Bono lawyers and/or options for custody/child support cases in central oregon?

Are there any Pro Bono lawyers and/or options for custody/child support cases in central oregon?

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 18, 2018

You can get free assistance for establishing child support anywhere in Oregon. Just go to the District Attorneys office in the county you live in. For Custody parenting time you can find forms at your local courthouse or on line that you can use to file. It would of course be better to have the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: if me and my ex have joint custody but she the main parntens can she tell me how to run my life

on the court paperwork it say my son live with her. he with me Thurday to Sunday night some week in tell Monday morning she will call my phone or email me or msg me intell i pick up to ask for money some month it about 12,00 to 1,500 over the court order . if i start to date anyone she want a... View More

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 16, 2018

Please resubmit your question with more clarity about what is going on and what your question is. I just get respond to a question that doesn't make sense.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My son lives in Washington state and the parenting plan was filed and approved in Oregon courts. What if the mother is

Not abiding by the parenting plan? Can I have it reopened in Oregon?

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 14, 2018

The court that issued a decision on custody and parenting time continues to be the only court with jurisdiction to hear any proceedings to modify or enforce the original court orders unless and until there is a formal motion to transfer the jurisdiction of the case to another court.. So the fact... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: I would like to ensure that my daughter's father cannot get custody if I die. How do I ensure this will not happen?

He has been abusive, I have had a restraining order against him in the past so that he could not contact myself or our child. He is unable to hold down a job and owes over $3000 in child support. He currently has no form of custody, nor do we have a parenting plan.

Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 11, 2018

First of all you need to make sure that you do have legal custody as ordered by a court. Your summary above implies that you do but I am not 100% sure.

Second you need to set up an estate plan that plans for this contingency. As the biological parent the father may have better rights to...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: My ex has custody of our children, we have a parenting plan and split time 50/50. Can my kids choose their school?
Joanne Reisman
Joanne Reisman
answered on Jan 9, 2018

A 50/50 split is usually joint custody. But if the court did state in the Judgment that your Ex has custody, then your ex decides what school your children should attend. If you have joint custody both parents decide. The children never get to decide. They can however voice a preference, but it... View More

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