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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Military Law for Virginia on
Q: I'm retired military divorcing after 17yrs of marriage. She cheated. Can I protect my pension from her in Virginia?

I recently retired from the service with 20yrs in. I'm also staying the divorce process after 17yrs because she cheated with another man. My VA rating is over 50% meaning in getting 2 payments for retirement. Can the adultery affect her compensation from my retirement? It's my disability... View More

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answered on Jul 18, 2024

In Virginia, your military pension can be subject to division in a divorce, regardless of adultery. However, courts may consider adultery when deciding on the division of assets, which could potentially influence the outcome in your favor. It's important to gather evidence of the infidelity to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Social Security for Virginia on
Q: Can I force an ex-wife to file for spousal benefits under SS to offset equalization of existing benefits I pay monthly?

Our divorce decree mandates I pay an equalization amount to her monthly along with 50% of my Govt Retirement. I believe she has not filed so I have to pay her from my income (just the way she is)

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answered on Jun 15, 2024

You cannot legally force your ex-wife to file for spousal benefits under Social Security. Social Security benefits are a personal right, and the decision to file lies solely with the individual.

First, review your divorce decree to understand its terms and whether it includes any provisions...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Divorce, Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Is gun prohibition in a New Jersey restraining order (civil case only) enforced in West Virginia? I'm moving there soon.

I have NO criminal record. I'm moving from New Jersey to West Virginia soon to retire there and want to do some deer hunting and get a hand gun for home protection too. My ex wife in NJ got a restraining order against me in a divorce action (civil case) about two decades ago. Will I pass a... View More

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answered on Jun 6, 2024

This question has been posted in Virginia. West Virginia and Virginia have slightly different laws. Please repost in W. Virginia to get accurate responses.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: My husband and I were together but not married when we bought our home in 2010. Now married, am I entitled to equity?

Been married since 2012, and the house has been our family home since. He never added me to the deed or loan claiming I couldn't be on them because we weren't married. I have paid into the mortgage for several years and i have paid for upgrades, repairs and maintenance. Utilities are in... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Nov 8, 2023

Equitable distribution is a 3 step process in Virginia. First, the judge classifies all property as marital, separate, or hybrid - a mix of marital and separate. The judge also classifies debt as marital or separate. Second, the judge gives a valuation to all items of marital and hybrid... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I owned my before marriage. Is my spouse entitled to any equity accrued to the home. I reside in Virginia
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answered on Oct 26, 2023

In Virginia, property you owned before marriage is generally considered separate property, and your spouse may not have a legal claim to the equity accrued in the home. However, several factors can influence this, such as any changes in the property's character during the marriage,... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Who keeps the house in a divorce when the deed is in both names but the mortgage is in the husbands name?

We live in Locust Grove VA

James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Oct 5, 2023

A Virginia Circuit Court judge sitting in an equitable distribution hearing has several options with respect to jointly owned real property. The judge can order the conveyance to either party, permit either party to buy out the other and order the assumption of indebtedness, or order the sale of... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I filed for divorce and the judge said doesn't meet statutory requirements. Final decree has not been entered

final decree has not been entered due to an incomplete filing and has not been reviewed by chambers

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answered on Oct 3, 2023

Virginia Circuit Court judges use law clerks to review the uncontested divorce filings. The law clerks are typically relatively recent graduates of law schools, who work as clerks as their first job out of law school. They review the file before submitting it to a judge for his or her final... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Virginia on
Q: im getting a devorce wife lied on a legal document saying there were no pending court date on the house what do i do

wife tried to sale the house before we went to court for judge to determine what happens to the house had another court date to stop her from saying the house because she wouldn’t listen fond papperwork by accident it was for sales on the house closing was on the 29 i called the loan company and... View More

John Michael Frick
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answered on Sep 5, 2023

If you have not already done so, file a notice of lis pendens and notify the prospective buyer.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Can my spouse file for divorce & choose NOT to incorporate signed/notarized PSA?

My spouse & I have been separated for a year now, we have 1 minor child. We have a signed/notarized PSA and now my spouse wants to file for divorce now and not have the PSA included. The signed/notarized PSA states we sell the house and pay all outstanding bills with the equity. Spouse now... View More

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answered on Aug 17, 2023

A spouse served with a Complaint for Divorce in Virginia has 21 days to file a responsive pleading. Typically, if the defendant spouse did not agree to the allegations in the Complaint, the responsive pleading would be an Answer and Counterclaim, starting a contested divorce case.

It is...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Can an ex spouse reopen or modify a finalize an uncontested divorce in Virginia?
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answered on Aug 10, 2023

In Virginia, after a divorce has been finalized, it is possible for one of the ex-spouses to request a modification to certain aspects of the divorce agreement. However, the ability to modify a finalized divorce decree depends on the specific circumstances and the issues being addressed.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Real Estate Law, Divorce and Foreclosure for Virginia on
Q: Are my assets (land, home, retirement accounts) at risk if my ex-husband forecloses on the home we lived in?

My home, land, and retirement accounts do not have his name on them, but the marital home that he lives in may be at risk of a foreclosure as he is behind on payments. He was given a year to get the mortgage refinanced into just his name, but he has awful credit and won't be able to. It's... View More

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answered on Aug 2, 2023

If you signed the Note then you are personally liable on the debt. After foreclosure the lender/noteholder may file suit to collect for any note deficiency.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: How is spousal support calculated in virginia
James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Jun 5, 2023

There are really two types of spousal support, temporary and permanent. Temporary spousal support, awarded in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court, or as pendente lite support incidental to a pending divorce case, is based on a formula, the creates a presumptively correct amount.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: In the state of Virginia can I file for annulment if the person did not disclose they had several felonies?

Is there a statue of limitation on how long you been married in order to get an annulment?

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answered on Jun 3, 2023

An annulment may be granted in the Commonwealth of Virginia based on a number of different grounds that make the marriage void or voidable, including but not limited to, fraud or duress, prohibited co-sanguinity, bigamy, incapacity, infancy, impotency, felony conviction, pregnancy by another or... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for Virginia on
Q: If I was issued Emergency protective order in virginia and she was granted the box that is marked granting her the hous

If she was granted the house in an emergency protective order it says her name. The family of household member is granted possession of the exclusion of the respondent however no such Grant of possession shall affect title To any real or personal pro Property. If she is out of the state ono... View More

Faraji A. Rosenthall
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answered on May 28, 2023

You should have a lawyer look at the actual protective order to be certain. That much said, if it gives her sole possession of the house, then you would be prohibited from going there - even if she is at work, or on vacation, or for any reason.

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: In Virginia what happens when a person waives his rights to equitable distribution on a marital separation agreement?
James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on May 10, 2023

Most well-drafted, comprehensive, Virginia separation agreements include a release of rights outside the agreement, and a waiver of equitable distribution rights. The idea is the comprehensive written separation agreement reflects the entire agreement between the parties as to the consequences of... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Currently in VA and separated from wife since Feb 2023. What am I financially responsible for, for wife during separatio

currently the main provider for kids in the home. Wife lives in basement currently separated. She is asking for me to pay her out of network therapy bills. What am I financially responsible for specifically for my wife during this separation period.

James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Apr 28, 2023

Each spouse has a duty of support to the other. Every parent has a duty of support to his or her minor children, or adult children unable to live independently.

While the Virginia Court of Appeals has recognized that spouses may live separate and apart under the same roof in Bchara v....
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Virginia on
Q: Does post separation adultery negate the need to pay spousal support if proven in court?
James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Apr 20, 2023

A Virginia judge shall deny spousal support to a spouse guilty of the fault ground of adultery, sodomy or buggery committed outside the marriage unless such denial would be a manifest injustice, after balancing the respective degrees of fault of the parties and the relative economic circumstances.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: When a couple agree to waive rights to equitable distribution in a divorce agreement, what does that mean in lay terms?

Wording from divorce agreement: "...waive any right to equitable distribution under Section 20-107.3 of the Code of Virginia to the retirement or pension accounts, life insurance..." ALSO, I know what equitable distribution refers to, just not exactly what this phrase refers to in... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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answered on Apr 1, 2023

In resolving the incidents of marriage upon separation and/or divorce, the spouses have four choices:

1. Do nothing and allow the issues to remain unresolved;

2. Address each item of property as an individual item as necessary, typically according to actual title;

3....
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Under what grounds can I reopen a PSA in Virginia?

I have been paying spousal support since 2017, via court order, and do not think that it should continue indefinitely. Was fully divorced in 2019 and the order became part of the PSA. My ex has the ability to work (she held 10 jobs during the marriage) but refuses to or simply does not attempt to... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Mar 31, 2023

There are two bases for spousal support: 1. an award by the court; or 2. a stipulation by the parties. An award by the court may be modified upon a material change in circumstances not anticipated by the parties, or the nonoccurrence of a change anticipated by the parties at the time of the award.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Is 20 yrs a magic # for permanent spousal support in VA or is there little difference if one files divorce after 19 1/2?

62-year-old spouse has been a stay-at-home parent the entire time.

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Mar 9, 2023

There is currently no formula for permanent spousal support, the type awarded upon decreeing a divorce, in Virginia. An award of permanent spousal support, which may be for a fixed term, in a lump sum, or indefinitely until either party dies, or until the payee spouse remarries or cohabits in a... View More

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