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answered on Nov 4, 2020
Well, then you are very fortunate that neither your husband nor his family will be the judge hearing your case. Don't let them bluff or bully you. What you are hearing from them is a very common and stupid threat, which mean nothing.
The petition says that we tried to reconcile, but we didn't.
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answered on Oct 29, 2020
You don't have any recourse. You can deny that allegation and put that fact in issue, but you have no recourse as such.
some personal belongings ... she brought some unfamiliar faces with her - I have never seen them or met them even in our marriage reception I don't see them in pictures .. Her name is still on the lease ... How can I make them give me state issued IDs before they enter the Appartment .. I had... View More
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answered on Oct 17, 2020
You have absolutely NO right to see their ID's. She can bring anyone she wishes into the marital apartment, and so can you. Your position is dead wrong.
it’s my understanding that she is entitled to half of my pension during the time of marriage. That is a lot of money and will damage my outlook on retirement, as my pension has made big money in four years...
Question is....does a judge have to rule as statutes state, or can he rule... View More
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answered on Oct 15, 2020
The judge must uphold the law. You use the term "pension". Pensions don't generally jump in value in four years, but 401K's can. Could you be referring to a 401K, SEP IRA, or IRA? If so, you might hire a mathematician or actuary to determine how much of the four year growth was... View More
We both own the home. Can I have the locks changed because he comes in as he wants and I don't trust him?
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answered on Oct 15, 2020
Unless and until a judge rules otherwise, both of you have the right to change the locks, and then, if you wish, hire a locksmith to reverse the process,
I was not subpoena.
Do I have to be subpoena?
I did not sign anything. I need time to get some money together for a lawyer.
Do I wait for her to subpoena me? Need help with this.
Thank you!
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answered on Oct 11, 2020
If you are not in a position to retain an attorney at this time, go to the courthouse and examine your file. Check and see if the Sheriff or special Process Server claims to have served you with Summons. If you have been served, file an Appearance and send it to your spouse's lawyer. I find it... View More
My spouse has been homeless for a while. I really need to get our divorce done. We’ve been separated since 2015. He said I can get them sent to his dads house. Will they serve it to his dad?
Thanks
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answered on Oct 8, 2020
The Service of Summons would only be valid if your spouse was an actual member of that household, i.e., resided there.
This is for a cooperative divorce proceeding and I am pro se. We have reached a settlement agreement, but I am being asked to submit an affidavit on the settlement.
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answered on Sep 18, 2020
There is no such form. Now not. Not ever. Maybe they want a Financial Affidavit from you or they are requiring that you get your signature notarized on the signature page. It might also be some sort of form that your county requires in uncontested cases. There is no such thing as an affidavit... View More
Illinois. 3 year old divorce agreement, seeking modification due to extreme change in circumstances, (massive income loss due to Covid19). My ex is going to hire a "more aggressive attorney". I currently pay her several hundred dollars a month MORE than what my income is.
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answered on Sep 14, 2020
The court has the discretion to make your new support obligation retroactive to the date that you filed your Petition to Modify. If the court does so, then any time lost because of a new attorney would not be an issue.
I was laid off due to Corona virus and hearing is a month away. Can I submit a letter to the court proving my job loss and reduce support while I wait for hearing? I'm also ordered to cover insurance. How quickly do I need to provide new coverage?
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answered on Aug 30, 2020
The fact that you have a Hearing scheduled indicates that you filed a Petition/Motion to Modify. The Court, in its discretion, can retroactively relieve you of your support obligation dating back to the date that you filed the Petition/Motion.
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answered on Aug 26, 2020
Parents are encouraged to be flexible. Their agreeing on a different schedule is definitely permissible.
I am divorced and the decree states that I am responsible for the payments of my car that is still in my ex husbands name. I want to trade the car in but he will not provide me with any of the necessary info and will not make himself available to sign off on the car. What are my options?
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answered on Aug 17, 2020
You have no alternative but to take him back to court to compel his signature on the title.
Continued but now is mentioning overpayment for her paid back. She is in community college, will he be granted me to pay the overpayment si CE she has a handicap and is in college currently still living at home with me, not sure if she can be on her own.
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answered on Aug 13, 2020
The answer to your question lies entirely on the extent of the child's disability, which you have not adequately described. I suggest you at least get a medical opinion. You should know that you have the right to petition the court to get your ex to contribute to your child's living... View More
Money was given to spouse her father and is currently in her separate bank account. Still legally married and should the spouse who received the money have to report it to the lawyer and be split between the 2 spouses?
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answered on Jul 27, 2020
He or she should report it. If the money was a gift or was inherited, it is a non-marital asset, and is NOT subject to division. If it is marital money, it should be reported because it would be fraud if it is not disclosed.
If a person files a motion pro se to suspend parenting time, are they obligated to serve the opposing party? What if the opposing party doesn’t find out about the motion until after the order has been granted?
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answered on Jul 25, 2020
Proper service of the Motion MUST be given to the opposing party. It is unlikely that the judge would enter an Order without evidence of the necessary Notice that should have been given. If an Order does get entered, and the other party doesn't find out about it until afterwards, he or she can... View More
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answered on Jul 8, 2020
You cannot simply remove your name from the mortgage. The lender will not allow that. They will relieve you from responsibility for the mortgage when the house gets sold or when your husband refinances and gets a new loan. You should consult with a divorce lawyer.
We divorced in 2010 and he received custody of the kids. We have since gotten back together and remarried. Did the original decree become null and void when we remarried? If we get divorced again will it take effect or will a new one be in place?
Hello. I separated from my husband 6 months ago but we haven't been divorced yet. I found that I am pregnant with my new boyfriend.
Who will be mentioned as a father on birth certificate?
Do I have to put the name of my current lawful husband or I can put the name of... View More
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answered on Jun 1, 2020
You should list the biological father, not your husband. This is perfectly acceptable and legal and happens frequently.
My husband & I are divorcing and have agreed on terms as far as marital property division and maintenance. The attorney I hired, after reviewing the tax returns and agreement, has refused to represent me. He says that I am eligible for much more according to the law and that a judge wont... View More
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answered on May 21, 2020
Without knowing what the terms of the Agreement are, it is impossible to give an opinion as to whether a judge would or would not approve the settlement. The lawyer had the right to do what he or she did. Aside from attempting to protect you, the lawyer probably did not want to look foolish in... View More
Can I pretend like I’m paying my parents to watch my kids?
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answered on May 15, 2020
Any funds that you put aside in this fashion are a marital asset, and it is quite acceptable to pay your attorney's fee with marital funds,
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