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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: How long after a domestic abuse can I file charges if im not with the person anymore but still legally married ?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 15, 2021

A crime should be reported as soon as possible to preserve the evidence.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My fiancé has a child with his ex she will not allow him to see the child or have visitation because of me

His ex will not allow visitation of their son due to her not liking me or the child he and I had together he hasn’t paid child support because of a job situation so she is now adding that to a the reason he can’t see their son they have done a paternity testing and proved he is the father. They... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 11, 2021

He needs to hire an attorney to help him get a custody, support, and visitation order from the District Court.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Our daughter was taken into Emergency custody on Dec 21 2020. We had an Adjudication hearing on May 4 2021.

We did have a court appointed attorney who wouldn't work with us. My husband works from 6am to after 4 Monday through Saturday. We tried to email her information and asked for conference calls and she refused. When we arrived at court the day of the the Adjudication hearing the attorney asked... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 9, 2021

If the case was continued then you have time to hire an attorney to help you with the case. Meet with an attorney so they can review your case and once the attorney has a handle on what has happened they will be able to explain your options.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Appeals / Appellate Law, Civil Rights and Municipal Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My son is being held in Oklahoma awaiting extradition to Arkansas it's been 2 weeks and they have yet to come get him

What can I do to get him released from hold or speedup the process or to help him at all

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 8, 2021

Best thing you can do is help him hire the best criminal defense attorney you can find.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: How do I file indirect contempt in Oklahoma? My ex owes over $20 thousand dollars in child support.

Without an attorney. What paperwork do I need to file specifically.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 6, 2021

Best place to start is schedule schedule consultations with an attorney in your area. The attorney will review your case and explain your options. If the other party is found guilty of indirect civil contempt they can be ordered to pay your attorney fees.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a VPO against my ex for domestic violence. We are currently going through informal mediation for child visits.

My brother is the mediator. We were court ordered to go through third party visitation. Can he quit? His name isnt on any paperwork and we never signed any agreements.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 6, 2021

Did the court approve your brother to serve as mediator? Mediators usually have formal training so not sure how that is possible unless what you mean is he is a visitation supervisor.

Either way, sounds like you are in desperate need of an attorney.

3 Answers | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: Does Oklahoma have jurisdiction over Arkansas when it comes to filing for a divorce that took place in Arkansas?

I got married in Arkansas on 8/13/2020 in Fort Smith Arkansas. The next following month I filed for an annulment in Wagoner, Oklahoma but my husband decided to challenge the Arkansas law and state that we are not married despite the license being filed in Arkansas and signed by a minister. The... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 6, 2021

This is a situation where free advice over the internet is not going to resolve this issue. My suggestion is take all of your documents to an attorney so they can review and give you an opinion and explain your options.

If there is a marriage and you are trying to get divorced you would...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I’m having a kid, She’s putting her last name instead of mine. Any legal action I can do to change this?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 5, 2021

If you are not married, she can choose any name that she wants.

If you want to establish any rights to the child you must be proactive and file a paternity action and then the court can enter a custody, visitation, and child support order. You can also address the name issue.

Best of luck!

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Personal Injury for Oklahoma on
Q: Is there a term in which a person can no longer sue for spousal abuse/domestic abuse/assault ?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 4, 2021

I'm not sure what you mean by suing for spousal abuse/ domestic assault. You would report any crimes to law enforcement as soon as possible after the event.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Civil Rights and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Did judge deny me due process by setting a review hearing?

A judge in creek County ordered a emergency protective order to be transferred to tulsa to be heard in conjunction with pending FP case due to minor child listed. Creek County judge then sets a review date to be back in his court 90 days from then. Petioner never set a hearing in tulsa. Tulsa... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 3, 2021

Combining a VPO with a paternity or divorce case is common. After the cases were consolidated, was a hearing set (by either party) to address both matters in the paternity case?

Did the parties have attorneys or was this a pro se deal gone wrong?

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My Ex husband is getting demanding with questions about our 16 y/o a week before court. Am I legally bound to answer?

He is constantly texting and expecting an immediate answer, if I don't he accuses me of maliciously ruining their relationship or even neglect.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 30, 2021

That sounds unreasonable to expect an immediate response. If you don't have an attorney hire one quickly before your hearing.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it legal for me to deny father his visitation based on things the children have told me and being threatened by him?

Sexual behavior and random girls brought in and children made to be alone in the living room while dad and girls go in the bedroom. Once a girl came over who had kids and they stayed the night and my ex forced my youngest to sleep in the floor and give up his bed. He only gets the kids every other... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 30, 2021

No attorney is going to tell you to violate a court order in a question and answer format such as this.

My suggestion is consult in private with attorney to discuss if modification of your order is an option. Don't make any legal decisions until you have gotten specific advice from an...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it legal to place a tracking/recording device in my wifes vehicle if i own the vehicle?

In the process of getting a divorce and my wife has been doing things against court orders, while in possession of our children, that i see as being potentially harmful to there wellbeing. I cant legally protect them without evidence and this is the only way i can see to obtain any. Thank you for... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 28, 2021

My opinion would be no. You will probably get a whole lot further if you hire an attorney and let them guide you on what type of evidence will be admissable in court and most helpful.

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2 Answers | Asked in Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I move out at 17? My step mom is always mentally abusive and my dad does nothing about it

My step brother is physically abusive towards me also. It has been reported to dhs twice and to cps in Texas a bunch. No one is doing anything about it.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 24, 2021

When you are 18 you can live where you want. If there is abuse it should be reported. If DHS finds evidence of abuse they will have no problem taking swift action.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: what does this mean in my custody case? i was supposed to have a new court date but they posted this instead.

REQUEST FOR TEMPORARY ORDER HEARING IS DENIED. THERE IS A CHILD OF THE MARRIAGE (X2) SEE ALSO: FD-20-469. BOTH CHILDREN WERE BORN DURING THE MARRIAGE OF FD-20-469; MUST FOLLOW UPA.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 21, 2021

Without seeing the pleadings or knowing any of the details of your case I can only guess. It sounds like maybe a Petition for Divorce and Application for Temporary Order was filed that failed to disclose there were children of the marriage. I am also going to guess that this sounds like a pro se... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My sister's passed away leaving behind 3 kids she had no Will. Her friend has 2 of the kids. I want the kids

She has a court date but that's all I know. What can I do

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 13, 2021

What you need to do is hire an attorney if you want to fight for guardianship of the kids.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Do I have to go to Oklahoma to get my child legitimized when he was born in Georgia and his mother moved out of state.

He was born in Georgia and moved 2 years ago. I’m not on child support yet either.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 9, 2021

You would file the case in the state and county where the child currently lives. Hire an attorney and they can get this done for you.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What is the next step to take, if a judge does not honor this law?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 6, 2021

Some additional information would be helpful in order to answer your question.

What specific law are you referring to?

Did an attorney say a law was not followed or is a pro se litigant saying a law was not followed?

What type of case: criminal, family, civil, protective order, etc?

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My 17 yo has runaway what are my rights as the parent. I've contacted local authorities and filed a runaway report.

My 17 yo has runaway, I've contacted local authorities and filed a runaway report. I've been told by authorities that if they make contact with her they can not force her to return home if she refuses. If I make contact with her can I as her mother force her to come home? If not, what are... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 2, 2021

Assuming there is not something going on in the home that would be a legitimate reason for the child to be placed outside the home, then my answer is pretty straightforward.

As the parent, you make the rules, period. The child does have options but you can limit those options to the child...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Juvenile Law and Native American Law for Oklahoma on
Q: can i lose my parental rights if i sign perimission to another family member to have partial parental rights?

my daughter lives with my cousin in another town because she is going to school there. They want to get her teeth fixed but in order for them to get her on their military insurance, she has to be part of their family so they want me to sign some kind of temporary parental control or something like... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Apr 1, 2021

Parental rights in Oklahoma are only terminated in connection with an adoption or for abuse/neglect in a deprived child action. If there is a guardianship where someone else has control of your kids that does not terminate your rights, but it can give that person the right to have possession of... View More

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