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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: Can the divorce be in and out when the judge sees us?

We have nothing to attach us no house no kids nothing we just want the divorce after the papers are signed will it be in and out when we see the judge? Also she went and got a divorce kit with papers and a CD! Seems sketchy to me what do you think of the kit?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 20, 2019

A divorce requires a court appearance and testimony. DO NOT sign any documents someone sticks in front of you without having your own attorney review.

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Q: We have no house,kids,car,or anything together she abandoned me! Left with a guy a few years ago and we want a divorce!

I want to get a fast easy divorce preferably with not court date or atterney just to sign and be on our way! Everything is agreed on we both want nothing but the divorce

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 20, 2019

A divorce, even a simple divorce, will require a court appearance and testimony.

Whatever you do, don't use documents you find on the internet or documents drafted by anyone other than a licensed attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: going through a divorce, with child, if i fire my attorney can she use hers in court while i dont have one? state of ok
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 19, 2019

Yes, it is her right to have an attorney. Whether you have an attorney or not has nothing to do with her right to counsel.

If you are not happy with your current attorney you can hire a different attorney. Whatever you do, DO NOT attempt to represent yourself as most of the time this...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Oklahoma on
Q: In divorce I settled for 5000 and ex kept house. A lien was put on house to ensure payment and is in decree as such.

I want to take house due to non payment. Can i?? Will judge grant right of entry or to sign deed over due to non payment. He is renting house out and lives in Texas. If not I will foreclose on my lien which I know I can. All filings are in Oklahoma.

Doak Willis
Doak Willis
answered on Jun 21, 2019

You will have to foreclose your lien before the Judge or the sheriff can sign over a deed to the property.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: How do I fill out paperwork for an uncontested divorce with no children in Oklahoma
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 18, 2019

Whatever you do, DO NOT use forms you find on the internet or documents prepared by anyone other than a licensed attorney. I have seen so many cases get really messed up over the years by people trying to do a divorce on their own that I recommend everyone get an attorney. If it is uncontested it... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: My step daughter has 3 kids and filed for divorce. Is parenting class required? What if he won't go? Is she out of luck?

She insists the Judge told her the divorce won't be granted unless they both attend this parenting class. He refuses to go. What remedy does she have to get the divorce finalized and get an order for child support? He gives her no money for the small kids (3 under age 4). She is not... View More

Hans Otto Lehr
Hans Otto Lehr
answered on Jun 17, 2019

Starting with the divorce questions, yes, attending the Helping Children Cope with Divorce class is mandatory for both parents and is offered at Family and Children's Services. If she is receiving certain types of state services through DHS, she may be able to waive the fee for the class.... View More

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Q: Can a husband and wife file for permanent legal separation and not divorced and can they live together while separated?
Doak Willis
Doak Willis
answered on Jun 29, 2019

There is nothing in Oklahoma law that is a permanent legal separation. If you or she has filed paperwork in Court asking for a legal separation, there is nothing in the law to prohibit you two with living together while legally separated. Legal separations are normally used by couples wanting an... View More

0 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If a person is legally separated in Tulsa Oklahoma is it illegal to have a sexual relationship with someone else?

If you are legally separated and don't plan on getting divorced. Youngest child is 19 years old and still lives at home and my wife and I will be living together but want a legal separation indefinitely.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Cohabitation

My husband's ex wife has three children (one of which is the daughter they share). The divorce is final. She is currently living with the father of the other two children; they're engaged. Is this legal? I know my husband was not aloud to live with me while we were dating.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 17, 2019

It all depends on the language of their decree.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: I'm wanting to divorce my husband but he's only one on bank account i got no car no money no job bc I'm at stay home mom

What can I do I've called lots of resources but no one can help

Melissa  Webb
Melissa Webb
answered on May 31, 2019

I recommend contacting Legal Aid of Oklahoma or one of the organizations listed on the Oklahoma Bar website to discuss your options. https://www.okbar.org/legalresources/

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can file a paper in Oklahoma asking the judge to consider our divorce final before 6 mo. If so how?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 8, 2019

Your divorce was final the day the judge signed your decree. You cant remarry for six months.

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Q: My ex wife was awarded the house in the divorce and was supposed to have my name taken off the loan and has not

What can I do to force her to take my name off the loan it's been almost 3 years and she has been making many late payments and its affecting my credit we are both remarried it's in the divorce papers for her to remove it and she is refusing what can I do she's ruining my credit and my future

Kyle Persaud
Kyle Persaud
answered on Apr 12, 2019

File an application for contempt.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: My wife's ex husband was ordered to pay $580 per month for CS but DHS only collects $460. Is he liable for the rest?

An income assignment was ordered by the court, but the court order also says his obligation is $580 per month.

Kyle Persaud
Kyle Persaud
answered on Apr 8, 2019

If the court order directing payment of $580 has not been modified, the father is required to pay all of it.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Divorce and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: How does paternity work in Oklahoma when mother was married to another man?

My husband and I currently have full guardianship if our two nieces. The mother was married to another man when both children were conceived. On the 1st child and acknowledgment of Pateenity was signed by the mother and father and the mother's husband signed stating he wasn't the father.... View More

Kyle Persaud
Kyle Persaud
answered on Mar 6, 2019

If the parents were married to each other at the time of the child's birth, the mother's husband is presumed to be the father.

To rebut this presumption, you have to file a paternity suit in court.

In general, if the the parents were married to each other at the time of...
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Q: I am wanting to get a divorce from my husband after committing adultery.

When I told him about everything and asked for a divorce we agreed to just take our own belongings. Now he's telling people he wants to press charges on me for adultery and take everything I own. I want to know if he could since he doesn't have any proof except for my word. Also if he... View More

Doak Willis
Doak Willis
answered on Feb 13, 2019

District attorneys rarely if ever file charges against folks for adultery in Oklahoma. You should hire an attorney and have him/her file a petition for dissolution. Your case appears to be a simple matter and a good attorney can guide you through the process thus easing your concerns about your... View More

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Q: What is "motion to settle" vs "trial" after reaching settlement through mediation in a divorce in Oklahoma?

If the other party isn't cooperating after reaching settlement through mediation in a divorce in Oklahoma, is motion to settle quicker than going to a trial?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jan 29, 2019

Motion to settle resolves an order that was either agreed upon or decided by the judge and the other party does not sign. Purpose is to get the court to sign an order.

A trial means there is no agreement and the court conducts a hearing "trial" to decide all contested issues....
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: How do I file contempt of court against ex-wife for required payments and against Lane Bryant (Comenity Bank)???

Divorce requires that ex-wife make these payments. Because the account is in my name, every time she misses a payment, my credit rating gets trashed. Lane Bryant refuses to change the account to her name. So I would like to file charges against both the ex-wife and Comenity Bank.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jan 28, 2019

Your action would be against your ex

not the bank. You can file contempt against your ex if she has willfully violated an order if the court. If found guilty she can be ordered to pay your attorney fees and in some extreme cases even be sentenced to jail.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: Who is financially responsible for the medical and dental of a minor child?
Doak Willis
Doak Willis
answered on Jan 21, 2019

The child's parents are responsible for the medical and dental bills for their child. If divorced, the child support guidelines are used to determine the percentages and amounts that the parents are to be responsible for when the child incurs charges.

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