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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: On Saturday me and my husband got into an argument that got out of and I sprayed him with pepper spray. Fist offense.

I'm scared this was all a big mis understanding and I'm out on a 50,000 dollar bail. My court date isn't for a couple months. Do you have any insight on ever could happen to me, ? I have a 2 year old and I can't be in prison.

Jeffrey Vallens
Jeffrey Vallens
answered on Nov 21, 2016

You should not post any potentially incriminating statements on public forums. Please talk to a criminal defense attorney in a confidential setting. I certainly gave some other thoughts for you as well as questions.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: If I witness abuse from my dad to mom -- as a witness, can I press charges against dad? If so, what would happen next?

I am a 30 y.o adult. Assuming I can press charges as a witness, I need to know what would be next steps if I decided to move forward with this decision. My parents live in California and I visit them from time to time.

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Nov 14, 2016

How does NY play in to this scenario? If you and your parents are in NY and this abuse occurred in NY, then you need to post this in the NY forum, not the California one.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I am in need of a family law specialist for a court date in Van Nuys on 10/25/2016

i need to respond to a domestic violence restraining order. I am looking for representation.

Thank you

Anie N. Akbarian
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answered on Oct 25, 2016

In the event you are unable to obtain an attorney and timely respond to the allegations in the restraining order, you may ask the court for a brief continuance.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: What steps do I take to keep a domestic

I am 5 months pregnant and have not been married to the man. He was not supportive of the pregnancy, tried to harass me into getting an abortion, and is domestically abusive. I continued to allow him to be in the picture to try and do so for the sake of my child. Things proceed to get horrible with... View More

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Oct 5, 2016

Get a domestic violence restraining order. Go to the new family court house at 201 North 1st Street in San Jose and find the DVRO self-help desk and begin the process.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can I still report a dv assault that happened a year ago and how?

I did not press charges because it's my wife and the mother of my child. She falsely accused me of it and was arrested. The case was dismissed/not prosecuted after 6 month pre-trial. I have video evidence and pictures of her attacks.

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Oct 5, 2016

If the assault is the same incident for which she was already arrested and the case was dismissed, then no as that incident has already been adjudicated. If the assault is a new separate incident, then perhaps. Call the police and have them investigate. Their report may get forwarded to the DA who... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I HAVE NO MONEY THE LAWYER ISNT DOING ANYTHING MY HUSBAND FILED FALSE CHARGES THEN TOOK EVERYTHINGLOCKEDMEOUTWHAT CAN I

I WAS ABUSE BY HUSBAND THEN HE FILED FALSE CHARGES AGAINST ME PLANNED IT OUT AND SET ME UP. THEN HE LOCKED ME OUT OF EVERYTHING FILED TRO. I TOOK WHAT MONEY I HAD FOUND LAWYER THEY HAVENT DONE ANYTHING AND SHE WONT REPRESENT ME IN RESTRAINGING ORDER. HE HAS SOLD ASSETS, HARRASSED ME, THREATENED... View More

Paul Stanko
Paul Stanko
answered on Oct 1, 2016

If you are facing criminal charges and are indigent, you can request a public defender. If you are involved in civil litigation, like a divorce, and cannot afford counsel, you should contact your local legal aid society.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What can I do there is a restraining order against my son's father and his family is harassing me

What can I do?

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Sep 17, 2016

Seek a restraining order or orders against the family members as well. Hopefully you have been documenting the harassment from the family.

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: Where can I find a lawyer that does family law and domestic violence pro bono in Santa Maria, ca
Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Sep 17, 2016

Finding a pro bono lawyer is difficult generally. Family law lawyers are in high demand and, thus, none of them want to work for free. Consider coming up with at least some money, even if it is not what the lawyer's normal rate is. You'll stand out from the crowd and hopefully get more... View More

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Q: Could I ask the court to change the date or time court date for restraining order from my husband for our autistic son?

Because I have to bring the other children to school. If I do? How can I do that. Thank you

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Sep 17, 2016

Are you the one seeking the restraining order? If so, you can try a judicial council form DV-115 (google that) and ask for a new date. Depending on how far out your hearing currently is, it may be easier if you just arrange to have someone else take the children to school on the day your hearing is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Real Estate Law, Landlord - Tenant and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What rights do I have as a (CA) homeowner? 38 y.o. abusive daughter to move out?

I filed a 60 day eviction, my very abusive, controlling, manipulative 38 yo daughter (who pays NO bills) I pay her telephone, insurance, and all the normal bills was moving things out, coming back for few days, then gone for a few days, now the days back are longer and longer. I told the clerk... View More

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Sep 1, 2016

Go through with the eviction or, if you've been abused, get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order and have her move out within a few days.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Federal Crimes and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My girlfriend has a D.V charge set on her as a felony. None of us pressed charges and she has no priors. What can I do.

Me and my girlfriend had been picking at little things and bickering eachother all week.Due to a recent round with bad luck. Low on rent e.t.c. but yesterday it was thrown way out of proportion and we got into a disagreement about something on social media.None of which was said was at all... View More

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Sep 1, 2016

Not really. A criminal DV charge is something the district attorney controls. The victim can't just up and say 'I want to drop the charges' and have the case go away.

Be cooperative with your GF's lawyer and help them present a good defense. Your cooperation will...
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Q: can i find out if a new friend has had a domestic violence charge
Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Aug 4, 2016

You may be able to go to the courthouse and look it up at the clerk's office. You may not be able to view the file, but you may be able to find out if a case exists.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Girlfriend getting abuse from father. Mum is there but doesnt know if she can report it to the police Can he be arrested

My girlfriend is getting physically, mentally and sexually abused by her father. Her mum recently moved back in with the family. Being seperated from them for years. My girlfriend has told her everything that has happened to her over the years. They both don't know if they can report it to the... View More

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Aug 4, 2016

There is no guarantee of anything so it is possible the dad may argue this is a custody ploy by the mom. However, the alternative is to basically let your gf continue to be abused. There's a variety of options here -- calling the cops, seeking a restraining order, pursuing a criminal case,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can ex husband run off with kids if they have been in my physical custody for over a year.i have a protective order

He's also on probation for felony charges. aggravated assault in the presence of a child. He beat me up in front of our two kids. it resulted in serious bodily injury. I had to receive surgery. We're also still legally married but have been separated since 2014. He was granted visitation... View More

Andy Chen
Andy Chen
answered on Aug 4, 2016

The answer is probably not (i.e. he cannot run off with the kids), but the precise details are going to be complicated if for no other reason than you have Utah and California in the picture. At the end of the day, you need a court order stating that you have full physical custody of the kids and... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law, Personal Injury and Civil Litigation for California on
Q: Who can help me to file a domestic violence lawsuit? The abuse caused several chronic mental disorders as a result.

I am the victim of domestic violence by my ex-girlfriend and mother of my two children (age 2 and 5). She resides with full custody of the children in southern California. The incidents occurred at least several times a week in Adelanto, CA and Cabazon, CA from 2008 through 2013.

Evidence... View More

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Aug 4, 2016

First, understand that if the person you want to sue has no significant amount of money, suing them means you spend money and get a piece of paper saying they owe you that you will never collect on. Second if you want to sue her you will have to pay an attorney by the hour to do so. This usually... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Personal Injury and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I was attacked by my girlfriend a couple of months ago. What recourse do I have?

She attacked me. In trying to get her off me, she sustained a couple of bruises to her arm and neck. I had a black eye and scratches all over my face and chest. The next day, she filed DV charges against me. I pled to a lesser battery charge since I did cause her injury, even if it was defense. Can... View More

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Jul 31, 2016

You can try but they don't have to take it. Talk to your attorney who you had when you plead.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Immigration Law for California on
Q: My husband went to Mexico and on his way back he got held by border patrol in calexico CA for a warrant and

he got transfer to the jail close to the border in us there waiting for the county that he got the warrant from picks him up to transfer him in the jail.how long can they keep him waiting I've done some search and I have found that they can only have him for 72hours if they don't pick him... View More

Shan Dimitris Potts
Shan Dimitris Potts
answered on Jul 26, 2016

It depends on several other factors, you should really consider getting yourself an immigration attorney to get your husband out with a bond. We have helped several immigrants get an ICE bond and residency in the U.S. If you would like a free consultation feel free to contact my office... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: What steps to take as an (adult) daughter living with parents and the father is extremely abusive?

Important to note the parents speak little english and are chinese. Family is comprised of parents+two daughters, one 23 one underage.

Theyre technically legally divorced but live together.

The mother is hesitant to take action out of fear for her life.

The father is... View More

Susan G. Cohen
Susan G. Cohen
answered on Jul 4, 2016

From the way you have worded your question, it sounds as if you are a friend or family member. You are describing a very dangerous situation. If a minor child is at risk, you may want to encourage the mother or adult child to reach out to either the police or Children's Protectve Service.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Does a court still retain jurisdiction over someone if due process was violated but caught later in the case?California

I was lured to court by an improper ex Parte notice of a fraudulent complaint. While there for the complaint, I was then served a summons for child custody. I had no time to reward docs before judge heard the case and said this at the time. If the complaint is proven fraud, does the summons have... View More

Susan G. Cohen
Susan G. Cohen
answered on Jul 2, 2016

Your question is unclear. If family court gets jurisdiction because someone has appeared in court, the court may have jurisdiction for that case or hearing. Usually due process issues have to be raised by a party immediately. Could you provide more details, please.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: How can I proceed in keeping custody of my child in CA? Im a fit mother with a 2 yr old girl. Im from Ohio.

I have lived in CA for 10 years and left my ex due to abuse. I showed up to court on an ex parte with he and his attorney and its been downhill since. I am loosing custody to an abuser who has hired an attorney to abuse the system to obtain orders. Im a fit mother who has done everything right... View More

Susan G. Cohen
Susan G. Cohen
answered on Jul 2, 2016

Was there a trial in Ohio? If the Ohio Courts have already held a trial and entered custody orders, unfortunately the California Courts are bound by that order or judgment. It is very difficult get California even to accept jurisdiction if there is still a case pending elsewhere. Your local... View More

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