Ask a Question

Get free answers to your Family Law legal questions from lawyers in your area.

Lawyers, increase your visibility by answering questions and getting points. Answer Questions
California Family Law Questions & Answers
2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Filing an uncontested divorce in CA. How soon can i give her the money from my 401k, she needs the it to move

I want to make sure the money we settled on, will count as part of the divorce and is not seen as just a gift.

T. Augustus Claus
PREMIUM
T. Augustus Claus pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 19, 2023

In California, property division including assets like 401(k)s is often detailed in a marital settlement agreement during an uncontested divorce. Timing for disbursement of funds from a 401(k) could be impacted by how and when this agreement is finalized and approved by the court. It's often... View More

View More Answers

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Filing an uncontested divorce in CA. How soon can i give her the money from my 401k, she needs the it to move

I want to make sure the money we settled on, will count as part of the divorce and is not seen as just a gift.

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 21, 2023

To ensure that the funds you provide from your 401(k) are considered part of the marital settlement and not a gift, it's essential to document the transaction properly. When filing an uncontested divorce in California, you and your spouse will likely complete a Marital Settlement Agreement... View More

View More Answers

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: With 50/50 Joint legal & physical-no child support custody. Do I have to share compensation if I win an art contest?

My agreement is 50-50, joint, legal and physical. No Child support payments involved with our case for our 5, and 3 year old. There’s a section stating our obligations on notifying the other parent.

( The parents shall keep each other informed of all of the children's medical,... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 21, 2023

Based on the language provided in your custody agreement, decisions related to the children's "extra-curricular school activities" require mutual consent. While art competitions might not be strictly school-related, if the children's participation is more involved than simply... View More

View More Answers

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: my spouse bought me a car from her sibling (on active duty in Bahrain) then used it as leverage in the divorce.

so we rec'd signed title later, the car had not been registered to either of us, however I did let my spouse know I was working on it; so, when she filed for divorce, so she went through my personal belongings & took back the signed title to use as leverage to do as she said, she wanted me... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 18, 2023

Under California law, spouses owe each other fiduciary duties, which include the obligation to act in the utmost good faith and fair dealing concerning the other. Withholding a title to prevent another spouse from registering a car, especially when used as leverage in a divorce, can potentially be... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for California on
Q: Please see request below

I was served divorce papers on 10 Oct 23. Upon reviewing the paperwork, I noticed that on FL - 160, "Property Declaration ," under "Cash" and "Savings" and "Checking" accounts, it states "None." She was able to have court fees waived as well.... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 17, 2023

In California, both parties in a divorce are obligated to make a full and accurate disclosure of all assets and liabilities. Failure to disclose known assets can be seen as a breach of fiduciary duty. If you believe your spouse has not accurately disclosed assets, you can file a declaration with... View More

View More Answers

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for California on
Q: Please see request below

I was served divorce papers on 10 Oct 23. Upon reviewing the paperwork, I noticed that on FL - 160, "Property Declaration ," under "Cash" and "Savings" and "Checking" accounts, it states "None." She was able to have court fees waived as well.... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Oct 17, 2023

It’s probably not a breach of fiduciary duty. She doesn’t have a fiduciary relationship with the court. Spouses’ fiduciary duties to each other end when one of them files for divorce. Moreover, you haven’t been harmed because you know the truth.

She’s probably trying to get the...
View More

View More Answers

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I need CA lawyer to petition for modification of my divorce settlement. Married 1996 in SF, divorce in 2003 in San Jose.

I am a school teacher, US Naturalized Citizen and French. Ex-husband is a business lawyer. He stopped loving me and abused my trust in him many a times*. I was under his influence, my mental health was impaired and caused a severe anxiety-depressive syndrome. He made me sign an unjust and abusive... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 16, 2023

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Under California law, if there's evidence that one party was unduly influenced or coerced into signing a divorce settlement, or if there was fraud or concealment involved, you may be able to petition the court for a modification or set aside the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Family Law and Military Law for California on
Q: Seeking divorce lawyer with knowledge on the military & CA law, kids involved.

He said it…but doesn’t want it…I’m just lost it was unexpected, I need to protect myself & kids should he follow through, my kids come first. It’s my first one, he’s an expert in divorces. So I need guidance

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 16, 2023

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. When seeking a divorce involving military personnel in California, there are specific legal nuances to consider, especially with respect to benefits, pensions, and jurisdiction. It's important to find an attorney experienced in both California... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for California on
Q: Can a biological father fight a de facto parent for custody because they have his half brother?
James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 16, 2023

Under California law, both biological parents and de facto parents can have standing to seek custody and visitation rights. A biological father retains his rights unless they have been legally terminated. On the other hand, a de facto parent, someone who has assumed the role of a parent, can also... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Request for MODIFICATION of divorce settlement. I was coerced to waive all my rights, notably Social Security pension.

Married Sep. 20 1996 in San Franciso. Divorced pronounced in San Jose in April 2003. I am requesting the modification of my divorce settlement because it is UNFAIR. I UNWILLINGLY waived all my rights, notably for half Social Security pension because my husband told me I did NOT need any lawyer... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 16, 2023

I'm truly sorry to hear about your situation. In California, if you believe your divorce settlement was unjust due to undue influence, misrepresentation, or fraud, you have the right to petition the court for a modification.

Begin by gathering evidence that supports your claims, like...
View More

View More Answers

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Arbitration / Mediation Law and Family Law for California on
Q: If my spouse gets half of my 401k, am I entitled to half of the pension payments she has received during the marriage?
James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 15, 2023

In California, the community property laws dictate that assets and debts acquired during the marriage are generally considered equally owned by both spouses. This means both the 401(k) and pension payments accrued during the marriage are typically divided equally upon divorce. If your spouse is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for California on
Q: More informaton is provided below.

I was served papers on 10 Oct 23. I noticed on FL - 160, "Property Declaration" that she lists "Cash, Checking & Savings Account" as None. a company prepared her paperwork. Isn't this a breach of fiduciary trust that requires her to list assets that we have? How do I... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 15, 2023

In California, both parties in a divorce are required to make full disclosure of all their assets and debts, under the fiduciary duty they owe to each other. If a party fails to disclose an asset, it can be set aside and awarded entirely to the other party.

To alert the Court, you would...
View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Please see question below

One more thing. Instead of divorce, I would like to ask the judge for counseling for both parties. According to my research, it states the following: "Further, California courts have considerable discretion in the matter, which means they can order counseling when it is deemed appropriate,... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 15, 2023

Note that California is a no-fault divorce state, and so the other party has an absolute right to obtain a divorce. However, feel free to ask the Court for an order to go to counseling.

While a judge may not order it, in California, if you are seeking counseling in lieu of divorce, you...
View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Filled for divorce a year ago, still in process, am I responsible for 401b loan if my husband takes out a over 50% loan?

He lost his job that is why he is taking a loan. I am not opposed it is his 401b but i have to sign something since it is over 50%. I am not opposed to it but I do not want to be responsible to pay it back if he can not find a job to pay it back since our divorce is not finalized. He is... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 14, 2023

In California, assets acquired during a marriage are typically considered community property, which means both spouses share equal ownership. If your husband is taking a loan from his 401(k) during the divorce process, it might impact the division of that asset. If you sign consent for the loan,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Can or does law enforcement for Sacramento county help enforce child mediation/custody orders?

My mediation order is very clear. It states I will have visitation on odd year holidays. My child’s mother is refusing to give her to me this year (2023) Halloween and has refused to allow visitation for her birthday this year (2023) as well.

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 14, 2023

In California, if you have a court-ordered child custody or visitation order, law enforcement may assist in enforcing it. Sacramento County is no exception. If a party violates the order, you can contact the local police or sheriff's department with a copy of the court order in hand. They may... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Real Estate Law, Estate Planning and Probate for California on
Q: My father passed away 6 years ago and I believe he had land in Mexico how can I check if he left me in a will or trust
James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 13, 2023

Hi there,

Here are a few suggestions on how to check if your deceased father left you land in Mexico in a will or trust:

- Contact the county clerk's office in the county your father lived in the USA to see if a will was probated after his death. They should have the will on...
View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My ex boyfriends sister is trying to get me in any kind of trouble she possibly can and her newest scam is……

Filing a domestic violence, restraining order on me when I have not even seen this woman in over four years and have had absolutely no contact with her due to the fact that she either blocked me or changed her phone number at least a year ago! And what I am wondering is, can I get the whole order... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 12, 2023

Under California law, while a restraining order typically arises from relationships defined by family, cohabitation, or intimate involvement, other types of restraining orders can be sought, such as civil harassment restraining orders, for broader categories of relationships. To obtain such an... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Legal Malpractice for California on
Q: Does the statute of limitations exist if there is discovery about a dependency case from 9years ago do I have options

The social worker told then courts that I wasn't cooperating or following through with the reunification plan created for my case, which was untrue. Also that I was still romantically involved with the perpetrator also untrue. She has now stated that I failed to reunify with my older children... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 12, 2023

In California, the statute of limitations can be impacted by the discovery rule, which might delay the commencement of the limitation period until a claimant discovers or should have discovered the injury and its negligent cause. Dependency cases have their own unique complexities and timelines. If... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I call law enforcement to enforce mediation/visitation order if the other parent isn’t following through?

My daughter lived with me for a year. She went to her moms for a visit and her mother decided to take her back. My daughter was fine with this so I was as well. But now I haven’t spoken or seen her in 3 months. Every time I ask her mother to have her call me she agrees but I never get a call.... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 10, 2023

In California, if you have a valid court order for visitation that the other parent is violating, you may be able to seek law enforcement assistance in enforcing the order. However, law enforcement officers often prefer not to get involved in civil matters unless there's a clear indication of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I want to start the process of divorce me and my wife have been separated for over 2 years. I dont know where she lives

She has blocked me on my phone number and she keeps me from seeing my daughter. I have no court order or custody arrangement set up. I want to start the process. I don't know how to serve her when I don't know her address.

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 10, 2023

In California, to initiate a divorce, you'll need to file a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. If you cannot locate your spouse to serve the petition, you may be permitted to serve her by "publication" or "posting" after making diligent efforts to locate her. This... View More

Justia Ask a Lawyer is a forum for consumers to get answers to basic legal questions. Any information sent through Justia Ask a Lawyer is not secure and is done so on a non-confidential basis only.

The use of this website to ask questions or receive answers does not create an attorney–client relationship between you and Justia, or between you and any attorney who receives your information or responds to your questions, nor is it intended to create such a relationship. Additionally, no responses on this forum constitute legal advice, which must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case. You should not act upon information provided in Justia Ask a Lawyer without seeking professional counsel from an attorney admitted or authorized to practice in your jurisdiction. Justia assumes no responsibility to any person who relies on information contained on or received through this site and disclaims all liability in respect to such information.

Justia cannot guarantee that the information on this website (including any legal information provided by an attorney through this service) is accurate, complete, or up-to-date. While we intend to make every attempt to keep the information on this site current, the owners of and contributors to this site make no claims, promises or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness or adequacy of the information contained in or linked to from this site.