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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: my husband had another sexual relationship with another woman while we were separated and going through a divorce.

My husband is divorcing me and was having a sexual relationship with another woman while we had been separated for 2 months. He had been bringing her into our home and even going to see her while I was away. Our divorce isn’t finalized so is that still considered adultery? He is also in the Navy.

Brian W. Reidy
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Brian W. Reidy
answered on Dec 2, 2024

First, I’m sorry to hear about this difficult situation. Dealing with an affair during a separation is incredibly hard, and I understand how challenging this must be for you.

In Illinois, fault-based grounds for divorce (such as adultery) are no longer recognized, so an affair doesn’t...
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Q: Per IL law: the marital home was purchased (no mortgage) with funds earned prior to the marriage.

A small mortgage was obtained later for pay for siding. I have invested more than I can get if I sell the home. If the home is sold, how would the law define the home's equity? How would it be split between spouses?

Brian W. Reidy
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Brian W. Reidy
answered on Nov 6, 2024

With some exceptions, the general rule is anything acquired during the marriage is presumed to be marital property. There are some facts missing from your question that might help to better answer this. It sounds like non marital funds were used during the marriage to purchase the home. Without... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Questions about alimony in Illinois and what options I may be able to pursue?

1) Per my divorce decree, my ex wife and I are to present W2's each year. This was never done, however I experienced a decrease in income since the maintenance was set 6 years ago. If it were determined that I overpaid during any year, is that reimbursable in court? If I underpaid during... View More

Joerika Stitt
Joerika Stitt
answered on Jul 13, 2024

Hello,

Thank you for your questions about spousal support (maintenance) in Illinois. Here's some information that may help address your concerns:

1. Reimbursement for Overpayment of Maintenance

Yes, under Illinois law, if you overpaid maintenance due to a decrease in...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Hello I have low income and my spouse had been verbal and mentally and financially abusing me I what can I do ?
Joerika Stitt
Joerika Stitt
answered on Jul 13, 2024

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about the verbal, mental, and financial abuse you've experienced. It's important to remember that domestic violence (DV) isn't limited to physical harm. The behaviors you describe are forms of DV, and it's not your fault.

You are...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Support and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: My lawyer did not show up in court a month ago like she said she would and I have been emailing and calling & no reply?

Court has been a 3 yr episode with my ex wanting private school fees along with my request to modify support due to being permanently laid off from my job. Does she have to send me something if she’s dropping me as a client?

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 13, 2024

Normally, if a lawyer is dropping a client, usually for non payment of fees, a lawyer files a Motion to Withdraw, sends you a certified notice of the court date and you can show up to object or agree to her withdrawing. I suggest you get your papers together and go see another lawyer. If... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Tax Law and Military Law for Illinois on
Q: I was married in Okinawa, JP, however, I am trying to get divorced and have come across that it was never filed in IL.

My spouse and I got married in Okinawa while on active duty orders. However, I am trying to file for divorce and have come to many issue due to the unfortunate situation and have also realized that it was never filed with my home of record (Champaign County IL). We have been “married” since 11... View More

James L. Arrasmith
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answered on Jan 30, 2024

Based on the information provided, a few key points:

• For a marriage that occurs abroad to U.S. citizens, it is valid in the U.S. even if not registered specifically with the home state. So you have a valid marriage.

• However, to get divorced in Illinois, you typically need to...
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Q: 've been married for going on 14 years and want a divorce husband is overseas how do I do that?

Hi my name is Sarah by the way.

We have been separated I would say 2 years into our marriage because he ended up going back to his homeland and have not heard from him since what do I do

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Jan 21, 2024

1. Can you reach an agreement? If so, you can send him papers to sign.

2. If no agreement, have to serve him with a process server.

3. If do not know where he is, then he just has to be served by publication in the newspaper but that limits the relief that can be sought.

It's doable.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: In Illinois, an ex-spouse is hiding money by paying their new partner, who works for their business. Is this legal?

Ex-spouse owns a business and is claiming that their business is not doing well and that yearly "true-up" payments need to be reduced. One of the ways they are hiding money is by paying their new partner, who works for their business. By paying their new partner very very large sums of... View More

Daniel J. Kollias
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answered on Dec 8, 2023

Is the "new partner" a business partner or a domestic partner? Assuming the question refers to a new domestic partner, the answer will depend on several factors, including whether the new partner is actually working for the business and whether the amount being paid to the new partner is... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Cannabis use and child custody during divorce
Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Dec 16, 2024

What is your question?

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Illinois on
Q: How do I get help filing a Qildro after my divorce has been finalized.

My ex said he had completed it and it was a lie. I was advised to get the Qildro started on my end. But I have no idea how to do that.

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Dec 16, 2024

Bring your divorce judgment to a family law lawyer for assistance. This is not a DIY project.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: My 13 year old doesnt want to see her father. He wants to stop paying child support and sign his rights over. Can he?
Brian W. Reidy
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Brian W. Reidy
answered on Dec 2, 2024

Not unless someone is willing to adopt the child. Parenting rights and responsibilities are not the same thing. He still has financial responsibilities to support the child even if he does not want to exercise his parenting rights to have parenting time with the child.

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Q: Being married for 3 years in illinois domestic abuse

My name is no where except on one year of tax return and a letter stating I was one who paid down payment for house for up coming marriage. What am I entitled to?

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Nov 30, 2024

Any income earned during the marriage is marital property subject to division by the court regardless of whether or not your name was on it.

Take tax returns and anything you can find about bank accts, investment accts, his income and your income to a local lawyer to get answers to your questions.

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Q: I got married in Puerto Rico while on vacation, it says they require one spouse to have live there one year before we ca

I got married in Puerto Rico while on vacation, it says they require one spouse to have live there one year before we can file but we never lived there. Can we file for divorce where we live? Which is in Chicago.

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Nov 28, 2024

Absolutely.................................................

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for Illinois on
Q: If you are representing yourself in divorce, how do you request a continuance? Or to reschedule court date?
Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Nov 25, 2024

Call the circuit clerk's office and ask them.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Illinois on
Q: Hello! I am looking for a pro bono divorce lawyer or someone that has the husband pay for services. Bigamy is included.

My husband left at the end of 2016 to attend a trial in Washington of the driver which was the car his son passed away in. He ended up staying there, got a good job, while I was left with a mortgage, 2 pre-teens, a truck note, and all other bills while not working. I recovered after all that time... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Oct 17, 2024

Sorry, I cannot provide either of those things.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: I am a senior looking for answers regarding spousal rights.

Have become aware of an outside, long-standing relationship that my husband is involved in. Additionally, questions regarding validity of our 2001 marriage. Husband and ex-wife only divorced within past five years. I only recently found this out.

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Sep 30, 2024

Please write your question.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Can I re-open my divorse case with a lawyer who will fight for me more agressively for me!

My ex husband is physically, financially, and emotionally abusive, and I have lots of photos, text messages, police reports, and he was even fined by our judge during our divorse for making several disparaging remarks on social media. He still uses harrasing and threatnening language, but the... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Sep 26, 2024

No, your case cannot be reopened after 30 days. It also cannot be appealed. If the children's circumstances change, bad grades, running away, etc. Then you can go back to court and start over.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Custody for Illinois on
Q: Can my ex wife all the judge to change the wording to a motion that was granted to me while at a status hearing

Was granted a motion for reunification counseling to be ordered. At next status hearing, ex wife asked that the wording be changed from reunification counseling to family counseling. These are very different types of counseling with different objectives. Judge allowed it. Can I challenge this? I... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Aug 31, 2024

The objection should have been made before he changed it. If the order was changed less than 30 days ago you can try but I don't know that it is going to get you anywhere. This is a problem if you are acting as your own lawyer.

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Q: I live in Illinois and have been married 47 years. My husband wants a divorce. Can I get alimony?
Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on May 29, 2024

Possibly. There are many factors to be considered. Look at 750 ILCS 5/504. Also Google maintenance calculator Illinois and fill it out.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Illinois on
Q: How can i legally protect myself from my husbands spending prior to divorce in IL? He’s not paid mortgage in 6 mos.
Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on May 25, 2024

You cannot do that without a divorce. But you can minimize it by separating bank accounts, credit cards, owing nothing jointly.

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