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1 Answer | Asked in Education Law and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: What does the law say about running away from home at 18 if you are still in high school? Would truancy laws apply?
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answered on Oct 25, 2024

Attendance requirements are governed by Virginia Code § 22.1-254. There should be a process with the local school board by which a student can officially withdraw from school even without parental involvement (if the student has reached the age of 18). Dropping out of school is not recommended, of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can I get a VA Protective order for stalking/harassment without a specific threat of bodily harm?

I have a family member who is having a mental breakdown and has been continually harassing my pregnant wife and I with hurtful messages over the last few weeks. This individual continually insulted us through social media and phone over the last few weeks, and even tried to contact me from a... View More

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answered on Oct 23, 2024

As you indicate, there is no evidence that would establish an apprehension of physical harm; however, it sounds like this person is returning to your residence uninvited. Accordingly, trespassing may be an avenue to keep him away from your home. Just be sure to comply with notice requirements as... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for Virginia on
Q: My husband has power of attorney over his uncle whom is in a nursing home, he is mentally fine but physically not.

His uncle owns property that connects with ours we would like to purchase that property but not sure since the power of attorney. My husband and his uncle are the only remaining people in his family so there are no other heirs.. we do not want the nursing home to make us sell it which is why we... View More

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Oct 7, 2024

The question presents potential issues of self-dealing in derogation of fiduciary duties and credit fraud, elder abuse, and even potential Medicaid fraud. But, the funny part is one of the first lessons I learned in practice from my mentor’s mentor: If nobody is going to object, there are many... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Contracts, Estate Planning, Family Law and Probate for Virginia on
Q: My mother passed away in Virginia and have been told there was a will.

I contacted the law firm that created the will and know the lawyer. I was told they would call me right back and haven't heard anything. My brother and I are the only surviving relatives. I wanted to if I had the right to see the will. There is also the question of what happens if it was... View More

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answered on Sep 27, 2024

One way for a testator to revoke a will is through physical obliteration - tearing it up, marking through it, burning it, etc. Many lawyers will not keep an original will because it would deprive the testator of the ability to revoke a will in this manner. Instead, the lawyer or law firm may make... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I retained my lawyer 3 weeks ago after my consult, and I have yet to receive any followup communication. is this normal?

I have left several voicemails requesting an estimate to time frame.

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answered on Sep 15, 2024

It is important for a lawyer and his or her client to discuss expectations regarding communications and the preferred method of communication. In general, lawyers communicate with clients when it is necessary to the purpose of representation. Some lawyers and clients prefer e-mail, some prefer... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Probate for Virginia on
Q: my father pass away, his brother becomes the primary representative of estate.dose he become the owner off the belonging

uncle is saying all of my deceased dad’s belongings are his

Richard Sternberg
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answered on Aug 27, 2024

You need to sit down with a lawyer experienced in Virginia probate law to review the Will, if any, the property deeds, if any, the family tree, and the other assets your father owned. If your father had a wife or children and no Will, his brother is not in his intestate succession. But, if you let... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: My ex and I have 2 kids together. She moved 45 mi away from me. I live in the family home. I want 50/50, should I move?

We lived together for 3 years before she moved out. We currently have shared physical custody and I have custody every weekend.

Quillyn Zebedeo
Quillyn Zebedeo
answered on Jun 28, 2024

Custody is determined based on the best interest of the child, of which there are several factors the court will look at. Moving your place of residence to be closer to your child would likely be considered by a court, however, it would not be the sole factor in its determination.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Social Security and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Q: Can I force an ex-wife to file for spousal benefits under SS to offset equalization of existing benefits paid monthly

Q: Can I force an ex-wife to file for spousal benefits under SS to offset equalization of existing benefits I pay monthly?

Our divorce decree mandates I pay an equalization amount to her monthly along with 50% of my Govt Retirement. I believe she has not filed so I have to pay her from my... View More

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answered on Jun 15, 2024

Unfortunately, you cannot force your ex-wife to file for spousal benefits under Social Security. Social Security rules allow her to decide when to file for benefits, and there is no legal mechanism to compel her to do so. However, understanding your options can help you manage this situation.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: If I have Primary custody of my daughter but share legal custody with every other weekend visitation with her mother

Is she allowed to vist her at school every week for lunch?

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answered on Jun 10, 2024

It will depend on if there are any restrictions in the custody order. There does not appear to be any legal restrictions that would prevent this. Virginia Code § 22.1-4.3 provides that unless a court order specifies otherwise, non-custodial parents shall not be denied the opportunity to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: How do I amend my birthdate on my marriage certificate
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answered on Jun 10, 2024

Virginia code § 20-16.1 authorizes the clerk or deputy clerk of a circuit court of any county or city to amend the record. The process will vary by county, for example Loudon county allows you to schedule an appointment with the clerk, whereas Fairfax county requires you to attend a court hearing... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Civil Rights and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: what are the stipulations of a capias order being recalled in circuit court
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answered on Jun 3, 2024

To have a capias order recalled in circuit court, you need to take specific steps. First, you or your attorney must file a motion to recall the capias with the court that issued the order. This motion should clearly explain why the capias was issued and provide any justifications or evidence that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Collections for Virginia on
Q: Do I notify a debt collector of who the executor is if it isn’t me if they haven’t asked but are sending me letters?

My wife was the POA for her eldest sister who was in a nursing home in Kentucky for 9 months before her death in 2022. Her other sister is the executor. I do not believe that she has settled the estate but there are no assets. Apparently Medicaid must have been denied because we are getting... View More

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on May 2, 2024

You have no obligation to cooperate or provide any information in response to their demand letters. If they are a "bill collector" under the statute, they must cease contact when you demand that, and they may not continue contact just to harass you. That means that they have no choice but... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Estate Planning, Real Estate Law and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Ex husband sent me a gift of deed expecting me to give him the house. I don’t want to sign it. What do I need to do

We owned the house while married nothing was agreed on except he was to live in the house. He left the state and never said a word. Now he sent me a gift of deed to sign over my rights.

Ross Cameron Hart
Ross Cameron Hart
answered on Apr 28, 2024

Other counsel are correct - we don't have enough information and you should consult with a lawyer - take all your divorce papers with you to the consultation, especially any separation agreement you had and the final decree of divorce.

This forum is designed to give you a quick...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Estate Planning, Real Estate Law and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Ex husband sent me a gift of deed expecting me to give him the house. I don’t want to sign it. What do I need to do

We owned the house while married nothing was agreed on except he was to live in the house. He left the state and never said a word. Now he sent me a gift of deed to sign over my rights.

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Apr 27, 2024

You might consider getting a lawyer to evaluate the whole set of facts. The easy answer is to refuse to sign, but that could be really stupid depending on other facts. Lay all the facts out for a lawyer in a consult. That will be much cheaper than triggering litigation.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Civil Rights and Juvenile Law for Virginia on
Q: Can I get in trouble for talking to someone I shouldn't be talking to because they're threatening to call the police?

due to the fact that their parents don't like me spending time with them

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answered on Apr 4, 2024

It's important to understand that the specific legal consequences, if any, would depend on the details of the situation and the laws where you live. However, here are a few key points to consider:

1. Age of the individuals involved: If you and the person you're communicating with...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Wife petitioned for custody/spousal support after a separation agreement was signed waiving these, what happens next

We separated in December, and signed a property settlement agreement with joint legal custody, her having the kids every other weekend, and we both waived any and all spousal and child support payments. Today I received summonses from the court indicating she has petitioned for custody and... View More

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answered on Mar 22, 2024

For valid agreements involving property distribution and spousal support, the court cannot enter an order inconsistent with those terms of the agreement. The same is not true for custody and child support, which is subject to the best interests of the child. Sometimes parties wish to file for... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: if a couple both own their own house, pay their own bills, what considers them living together?

so both couples have their own homes and bills, they stay together about 85% of the time which is split between the 2 homes. what considers them living together by law?

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answered on Mar 14, 2024

The legal definition of "living together" or cohabitation varies by state and depending on the context (such as for tax purposes, government benefits, or legal proceedings). In general, factors that may be considered when determining whether a couple is living together include:

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Social Security and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I was married 26 yrs and was not on the loan. I got ssi in 2020 . We sold house 2021. Earnings from sale affect ssi?
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answered on Mar 8, 2024

When you're receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI), it's important to understand how changes in your financial situation can impact your benefits. SSI is designed to help individuals with limited income and resources, and the Social Security Administration (SSA) takes into account... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: My husband lives in Philadelphia and served with divorce papers. I live in Virginia. He is retired military! I want ever

I want everything that is available to me. Do I have to get an attorney from Philadelphia

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answered on Mar 8, 2024

I do not have enough information to give a good answer to this question. I would need to know where the divorce was filed. Was it filed in Virginia or Pennsylvania? If it was filed in Virginia, then hire a Virginia lawyer. If it was filed in Pennsylvania then hire a Pennsylvania lawyer. If the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Just got info of my husband’s infidelity. Can I confront him?

Pictures and videos from last years of our marriage. How do I handle this?

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answered on Mar 7, 2024

Infidelity is something that can cause the breakdown of a marriage. You do not say if you are seeking a divorce or what the reason is that you want to confront him so it is difficult to answer your question, however, you can always discuss your issues and concerns with your spouse. I am sorry for... View More

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