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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: My husband and I would like an amicable divorce
David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Nov 11, 2024

If you are located in Suffolk, Nassau or New York City, I can help you. Please email me at david@dbnylaw.com.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Rights, Constitutional Law and Family Law for New York on
Q: How do I get my attorney to file a 388 return of child petition? She has been failing me due to misconduct.

My son is 6, autistic and being detained in foster care for two years. He had left the inside of our home and went out to play in the driveway unattended several times. I had him evaluated turning a diagnosis of autism. He has left the foster home and school undetected also. He is being abused I... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Nov 6, 2024

Is this a NY case? There is no 388 petition. Either this case is for a different state in which case you should repost as such, or you are being misled by your Google research. Talk to your lawyer.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: If my daughter’s Mother take her away from me and cuts communication to me what can I do?
Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Oct 21, 2024

You need to file a petition in Family Court. If there is already a custody order you could file a violation. If there is no order in place you can file for one now. Talk to an attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: My ex wife in Texas has filed to terminate my parental relationship with the tow children we have together. I need help.

I don't know what my options are or how to file my response. I have 20 days to respond.

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answered on Oct 15, 2024

The asker omits much information in an otherwise broad question. The asker needs an attorney for the best answer.

Texas is one of the states of this union that allows a parent to sign away their parental rights to their child. New York has no such law. Texas Family Code, Chapter 161,...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: I have 50/50 custody and full decision making and full residential for the kids. What things can I say no to

What am I allowed to say no to with out getting in trouble. Do I have to let other parent talk to the children during the week. I let the other parent see children just not when ever the other parent would like. Due to having other plans and children wanting to see other family, is that okay?

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answered on Oct 15, 2024

We frequently get these questions that involve the "construction" of family court orders. The word "construction" means to construe, to analyze an order. We cannot construe this asker's order because we do not see it in its entirety. However, we can take a stab at the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Elder Law, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New York on
Q: How do attorneys specializing in family law find and retain the services of Spanish interpreters?

Asking as a NY Court certified Spanish interpreter available for 722-C assignment.

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Oct 10, 2024

Courts appoint and assign Spanish interpreters as needed during appearances before the court. As for in-office translation, most have employees and helpers who speak Spanish. Those who do not can refuse representation because of the inability to communicate, or can hire per diems from companies... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: My daughter lives with my grandmother in Lajas, PR. She wants to move back with me to new York when she turns 18 next

Year. Can she just leave or do I have to go to court for custody even though she will be 18?

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 14, 2024

The courts have no jurisdiction over custody for a child over 18. You can not go to court for this. As an adult she can come live with you without any court intervention.

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: What is the process for divorce with children involved and custody arrangements

Currently married but might look to divorce and need to know about custody steps

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 13, 2024

Custody can be addressed in the Divorce case or you can file for custody alone in Family Court. Speak to an attorney.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for New York on
Q: Do I need to go to court to take my 17 year old sister with me to Florida from NY?

I’m moving to Florida with my husband and kids from NY. My 17 year old sister wants to move wit us. My mom agreed but I’m not sure what I would have to do in order to take her. I’m not sure if i need to get court papers since she will be 18 in a year. She’s home schooled.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Jun 19, 2024

If she needs to register for school before 18, you need to be her legal guardian.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Teen is refusing visitation? Even if I show up to drop off and teen does not comply, can I be held in contempt?

Teen with special needs is refusing court ordered visitation in the summer. Has not been getting along with the non custodial parent and is in therapy. Noncustodial parent seems to be triggering reactions from the teen and teen is having a hard time regulating emotions around non custodial parent... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Jun 15, 2024

As long as it is the teen who refuses to visit and you are not telling him not to go there is no contempt. The therapists opinion is also helpful.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Is it okay for my ex husband to allow his new gf’s son to sleep in the same bedroom as our daughter?

They moved in together after 5 months. Her 2 boys are 16 & 7. Our kids are 11 & 6 (our 11 yr old is a boy and 6 yr old is a girl). Her youngest is autistic. (This isn't a huge issue but I work healthcare and have seen different spectrums of autism; i don’t know if he has difficult... View More

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Jun 9, 2024

We are not family court judges set up to decide matters of sleeping arrangements of children. We can educate perhaps to a limited extent as much of what we say sounds incredible. The law has evolved substantially in recent years, and the ends justify the means in many cases.

As for the...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: Can a divorce be voided because of a typo?

I went to court and we finalized our divorce. Both parties signed in the court room. There was a typo or error in the custody order/ divorce agreement and I had to resign new papers recently and my exhusband hasn't signed them. Does that mean we are not divorced? Does that mean there is no new... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Without seeing the actual Judgment of Divorce, I can't definitely answer your question. However, most likely you are still divorced. It seems that you may have to go back to court with a Motion to get your husband to sign the correct papers.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Can a copy of transcripts of previous proceedings be used as evidence exhibit/reference in response/answering papers?

Can i use what was said on the record in a previous hearing of my case? The relevance is what opp counsel stated in their affirmation or lack thereof and what was said on the record are conflicting. I’ve already paid for & received the transcripts; writing response papers i have cited the... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 21, 2024

The short answer to your question is yes they may be used as exhibits

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for New York on
Q: how to file child custody for the first time? is it legal to hold on to visitation while filing for custody?

when there is conflicts and threats can I hold on to the visitation right until resolved by court.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Feb 16, 2024

If there are no court orders of custody or visitation then both parents have equal rights to both. If there is a dangerous or unhealthy sitiuation then withholding visitation, if in the child's best interst, might be advisable but a custody petition should be immediatly filed.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: one parent moved out of state (New York) before the custody filing. How does this affect any custody arraignments?

How does one parent request a home study of one parent living outside of New York if it's suspected that the living arrangements are unacceptable and there may be child to child abuse?

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Feb 16, 2024

There is not enough information here to cogently answer this question. We are not told when the child left state #1 to state #2. We are not told which of the two states the custody filing occurred.

The duration of the child's absence from a state makes all the difference to the success...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: I'm in the process of going to court and asking permission to move out of state with my daughter.

What do I need to show that moving is in her best interest?

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Feb 14, 2024

We by no means can provide legal advice in particular cases. We are not the attorney for the asker and we know none of the facts. The New York court system is not an apparatus where one pushes a button and gets results as is the case, for example, in Pennsylvania. We here are an educational medium... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: How does a judge know if crossmotions i was “served in hand” in court by opposing counsel, match the filings w/clerk?

I’m a pro se litigant in what seems to be a black hole of judicial laziness and systemic coercive control. Opposing party narration of “monster-mom” by my ex/his counsel/AFC; with ongoing slanderous lies against me &not a shred of “evidence”(doesn’t exist).i reside in PA;... View More

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Feb 13, 2024

The biggest mistake a litigant can make in a modern court of law is to fail to retain an attorney for her case. If not for the filings and trial, the pro se litigant requires an education in the folkways and mores of the modern American court.

This question highlights the naivety of the pro...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: How would one win a relocation case? I'm hoping to move to Florida with my daughter.

I have full custody of my daughter. Her mother has returned after being out of her life after 8 years. My daughter is now 12.

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Feb 3, 2024

You need to go to court for a relocation modification case. You need to show that moving would be beneficial for the child.

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Litigation, Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Complex question in regard to citing case law on my affidavit in support of petition to modify custody & OSC filings…

In regard to change of circumstances factors for consideration, preponderance of evidence, relevant facts/evidence &affidavit in support of my petition to modify custody & OSC motion; I’m not sure how to articulate my question but here it goes: I have pending custody litigation for... View More

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answered on Jan 1, 2024

This rather convoluted question points out quite simply that New York does not list factors for courts to use to determine either initial awards of custody or modifications to custody. Other states do use listings of factors that their appellate courts required in all orders of custody. New York... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If I am the non-custodial parent, can I still REGISTER my custody order (NY) with the court in the state I reside(PA)?

Current custody order originating jurisdiction is Nassau county NY, I reside in the Commonwealth of Pike County PA. I would like to REGISTER my current custody order in the event it requires enforcement. Court order: JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY, Father= physical custody (NY), I have visitation (making me... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Dec 18, 2023

You can register the order but the PA courts won't have jurisdiction as the children reside in NY and anything related to custody/visitation will take place in NY as long as the children reside here.

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