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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Filed a petition for custody of my grandson. What are my chances?

My daughter in law was incarcerated out of state. My son went to retrieve her and my grandsons aunt filed for emergency temporary custody. Son and DIL have joint custody. It was a toxic relationship for 5 years. Mother again was incarcerated in NY. Sole custody was granted 2 months ago. I just... View More

Marco Caviglia
Marco Caviglia
answered on Sep 9, 2023

Critical missing information concerns which state granted the joint custody, and did it still have jurisdiction when a court, if different, granted the aunt temporary custody. That court subsequently granted sole custody to the aunt according to you. You then filed for custody after that. Your... View More

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Q: Mother is suppose to initiate call with father we have TOP . Father is making the calls . What should I do.

Waited for my public defender to answer but he is not reachable

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answered on Aug 22, 2023

In New York, when there's a court order dictating communication arrangements between parents and one parent is not following the specified terms, it's crucial to take appropriate steps. Begin by documenting instances where the father is initiating calls instead of the mother as outlined... View More

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Q: Can my ex husband move out of state with kids again ?

My ex-husband and I divorced, and we have joint custody. I signed paperwork to have my son move with him to Utah two years ago for a better life I kept custody of my daughter, who lives with me. Now my ex-husband is trying to move my son to another state (texas ) I don’t agree with this. Since... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Aug 22, 2023

If the order of custody is a NY order, you can bring a petition in family court to stop the move. The best way is by Order to Show Cause so the court can stop the move until the case is heard. See an attorney to help with this if you can.

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Q: Can my ex husband move out of state with kids again ?

My ex-husband and I divorced, and we have joint custody. I signed paperwork to have my son move with him to Utah two years ago for a better life I kept custody of my daughter, who lives with me. Now my ex-husband is trying to move my son to another state (texas ) I don’t agree with this. Since... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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answered on Aug 22, 2023

How old is your son? If he is over 18 the courts have no jurisdiction and you can not legally stop your ex from moving with him.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Hello. I’m looking for a Probono Attorney in Erie County Nee York. I have Family Court. If you have any suggestions
Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Jul 31, 2023

This is something that family law attorneys would know best. But you await a response for a week. Until you're able to consult with a knowledgeable NY family law attorney, here's a link to a page on this Justia site:

Erie County Legal Aid & Pro Bono Services...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Can a parent take away a phone that the other parent bought and pays for?

I bought a new phone for my daughter because her mother has taken hers for over a week now restricting my communication with her. In addition she has blocked my fiance on her phone claiming the child should not be speaking to her since she is not her mother. If we provide and pay for a new phone so... View More

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answered on Jul 31, 2023

You are really asking two questions. Can the custodial parent take away a child's phone? And, can the custodial parent rstrict communications with the non-custodial parent? The custodial parent can set rules of their household and has day to day decision making power. If she feels that the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Can I get emancipated at 15 in New York
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answered on Jul 26, 2023

In New York, emancipation is a legal process where a minor gains independence from their parents or guardians. To be emancipated, you usually need to be at least 16 years old, and it's a complex legal procedure. However, at 15, it's unlikely that you can get emancipated in New York.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New York on
Q: I filed for child support i2 year ago and have not received a final termination by the Court in Manhattan.

I believe the father contested the determination but no response from Judge after that. What can I do?

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answered on Jul 7, 2023

If you have filed for child support and have not received a final termination by the Court in Manhattan, it is recommended to follow up on the status of your case. You can contact the Clerk's Office of the court where you filed the case to inquire about any updates or next steps. They should... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Civil Rights for New York on
Q: What can I do if the judge made an order during a conference with no motion before him?

Supreme Court judge called a “conference” because my ex’s attorney sent him an email/letter requesting his intervention in the choosing of our children’s pediatrician. The letter had specific requests much like a motion would but it was just a letter.

At the conference, the judge... View More

Francesco Paolo Tini
Francesco Paolo Tini
answered on Jun 29, 2023

A Judge has the ability to calendar a case whenever the Judge finds good cause to do so, but it has to be on notice. If the orders include custody decisions and or visitation issues without a hearing, you most likely have an appealable issue. you must file an emergency motion with the Appellate... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Should I file for sole custody before filing for divorce?

My estranged husband agreed to signing the divorce papers if I paid for them. I paid for them (online over $300).

When asked about parental planning he wanted no part in the discussion or decision. On multiple occasions he's said he did not want to coparent. He is no longer paying... View More

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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Jun 23, 2023

This is why you should have hired a lawyer. Submitting divorce papers without both signatures will simply be rejected. You can start separate custody and support actions in Family Court. However, a contested divorce can accomplish all of it. You do not need your husband's cooperation but you... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Can my girlfriends ex husband prevent me from being around her kids during her time with the kids. ?

My girlfriend and her ex husband, have 50/50 custody of their children. We were living together for a few years. We broke up a year ago, but have been trying on and off to work it out, and now we are fully ready to move forward. we broke due to me sometimes yelling at my gf, almost never in front... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on May 24, 2023

Who has residential custody? There should be no restriction on who sees the children absent an order to the contrary as long as it is with the parent present. If there is a schedule of visitation and he denies it, you can file a violation petition. Your ex would have to demonstrate why you are... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Can I apply for my child passport if I have sole legal custody? And Do I need the father to fill out DS-3053?
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answered on Apr 11, 2023

The State Department is going to require some additional documentation to establish that you have the right to sign the form without the other parent, if you cannot get the other parent to write an affidavit (signed and notarized), you will have to provide the court order and other documents... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: In NYS, would a judge allow my request to have my children dropped off by school bus for my parenting time on fridays?

My girlfriend and (soon to be ex) wife have engaged in physical altercations, she is not allowed on the property anymore for trying to run gf over and running car through her house, she is always trying to find an excuse to get out and hang around and be close to me and talk to me, she was given... View More

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answered on Mar 21, 2023

A judge does not have jurisdiction over a school to enter an order to compel a bus driver to drop off a child to a parent. However, if the school has such a service, the asker is free to avail himself of that service consistent with the demands of the other parent. This certainly does not help the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law and International Law for New York on
Q: Can I relocate internationally with my child if I have sole physical custody but joint legal custody?
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answered on Mar 19, 2023

If you have sole physical custody of your child, you may be able to relocate internationally with your child depending on the terms of your joint legal custody agreement and the laws of your state.

In general, relocation with a child may require court approval or agreement from the other...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: My lawyer has been rude and also has not sent my divorce papers out. What can I do?

I’ve been in the process of divorcing my husband for almost 10 months now. It is uncontested, he has signed the paper he was served, got it notarized, and sent it to my lawyer over a month ago, our child support was taken care of in family court, we have no assets to split, I’m not taking him... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Mar 19, 2023

First you said your husband sigbed papers. Were these a Stipulation of Settlement? There are many papers that have to be prepared and signed by the parties. Then you said you made changes and signed. Did you do so after your husband signed those papers? If so your husband needs to approve that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: My son was born and PR and I live in Ny. never married. I am listed as father on birth cert. How do i get visitation
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 8, 2023

Being listed on the birth certificate isn't enough. You need to have an acknowledgement of paternity to be the "legal" father or a court order. If there is an acknowledgment all you need to do is file a petition for visitation in Family Court. If there is no acknowledgement, you... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: NYC - Non-Custodial parent was arrested night before appearance (he petitioned for visitation).

The child is now six and father has not seen her in a year. Why does the court not recognize this deadbeat who is sleeping on his mother's floor in her one-room apartment? He was arrested for breaking someone's nose the night before he was to appear in court. What proof is needed to... View More

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 7, 2023

Unfortunatley, the law says it is in the child's best interests to have visitation with the non-custodial parent. However, what type of visitation and how often is left to the judge after a hearing. You should meet with an attorney to go over all of the facts of the matter. If you cannot... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: can i move to another state with my kids, if i have sole custody?

was never married.

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answered on Mar 1, 2023

It depends. If you are depriving the other parent of parenting time then no, you can not. Relocation should not be done without court approval. If you do and the father files a writ of habeas corpus you will be forced to come back to NY and could even lose custody. See a lawyer before doing... View More

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Q: can i move to another state with my kids, if i have sole custody?

was never married.

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Mar 1, 2023

The real question is do you have a custody order? If you do, then the father has visitation rights, in which case, you would need to get his written notarized agreement to allow you to move or a court order allowing the move. If there is no order, if the father has been visiting, then again, you... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the father of my kids agrees to signing his rights over fully. Would the child support continue or stop? I

I don’t need the child support. He has other kids to take care of. If he signs his rights over would the payments stop or will New York continue to take the payments?

Lawrence Allen Weinreich
Lawrence Allen Weinreich
answered on Feb 28, 2023

(This is for NY) First of all, you should know he cannot sign over his "rights". The only way for his rights to be terminated is a Neglect petition being filed by DSS or he consents to an adoption. Until his rights are terminated, he has to pay child support. The only way to stop... View More

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