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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oregon on
Q: I'm 21 yrs old. How I can get the child support my father was court ordered to pay, but he did not?
Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Jan 31, 2019

You would want to follow up with the Oregon Department of Justice, Child Support Division. They handle most child support cases and can collect from the father. If that does not work, or the father is not ordered to pay through the Department of Justice, you would likely need to file a motion to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: How can I make my daughter laugh mother comply?

I have custody. Twice now my daughter has returned from her mother’s with head lice. I have told her what she needs to do take care of it and obviously hasn’t. What can I do to make her comply ? Also I told her my daughter will not go back until it’s taken care of , is that ok? She has my... View More

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Jan 31, 2019

Your hands seem to be tied in this situation. You cannot force your daughter's mother to do anything, unless it is stated in the judgment/parenting plan. If your judgment states that the mother must keep a sanitary home, you could file a motion to enforce the judgment, but that is not standard... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Criminal Law, Family Law and Civil Rights for Oregon on
Q: If CPS illegally took my child can you sue at any time before or after trial?

My daughter was taken illegally before reasonable efforts were made and no imminent danger was present all before obtaining court order.

Have never signed a safety plan..also they never have been in my home. Have tried firing court appointed attorney the past 3 hearings since he refuses to... View More

M. Nicole Clooten
M. Nicole Clooten
answered on Jan 22, 2019

What was the basis of the action at the shelter hearing?

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: I have sole custody of my 2 sons with autism and want to move out of state without my ex knowing.

Both my boys have autism, and my youngest is mostly non verbal. Something happened over at his Dad's that caused my son to have PTSD. If I say "Dad" in ANY context (in any convo to others) he turns white and panicks. Sadly he can't tell me why. I was granted sole custody of them... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jan 7, 2019

The answer depends on the terms of your judgment of dissolution of marriage. If it states you are required to give notice of your move, then you are required to give notice.

The decision whether to modify parenting time to permit the relocation of children hinges “solely on the best...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: If served a restraining order and what the petitioner said is not true. Along with pulling a 15 year old child into it
Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Jan 3, 2019

A court may issue a Family Abuse Restraining Order “upon a showing that the petitioner has been the victim of abuse committed by the respondent within 180 days preceding the filing of the petition;” that "there is an imminent danger of further abuse to the petitioner;" and “that the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Juvenile Law for Oregon on
Q: Will they take my baby away if she tests positive for THC when I give birth?

I’m 16, and 30wks pregnant. I Smoked until about 28wks.

Daniel DiCicco
Daniel DiCicco
answered on Jan 2, 2019

No, they won't take the baby away. You will also very likely test clean by the time you give birth.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My son is trying to get visitation to see his 6 year old daughter. Paternity not established yet. Needs help.

Child is not with mother but grandmother and they refuse to let Dustin see her even though mother lived with fathers mother for over 3 years. The mother,

Stephanie lives with neighbor behind where Dustin lives and child, Aubrey is out in Scio with her mom. They refuse to let Aubrey see her... View More

Daniel DiCicco
Daniel DiCicco
answered on Jan 2, 2019

You need to file what's called a "filiation" action (Paternity suit). The court will order a DNA test to prove paternity and you can get things going from there.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: Is it a criminal offense to not give money that was court ordered to your spouse?

Say a judge in a divorce case states you must sell a property and pay half to your spouse. Instead the husband takes it out of the trust, sells the property and buys another home in another state and hides it under another trust. I have judgements for all this money he owes but dont know how to... View More

Ben F Meek III
Ben F Meek III
answered on Jan 2, 2019

I'm re-categorizing this as Divorce, as it relates to the divorce decree and the separation of property ordered therein.

An experienced divorce lawyer can help with asset tracking issues. The short answer to your question is that it is probably not a criminal matter but is an...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: my ex-husband signed and agreement to pay me 3500 dollars. He has done so. Is there anything I can do.

He signed an agreement to pay it in March of 2018. When every I say anything he just says he doesn't have it. He got everything in the divorce. We were married 37years

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Dec 31, 2018

Depending on the terms of the written agreement, you may be able to take him to small claims court to enforce the contract. If the contract was not a part of your judgment of divorce, it is not a family law matter and must be handled independently. If the contract was made a part of your divorce... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: My grandpas ex wife is A beneficiary on an annuity He divorced her Bc she committed fraud on his accounts what can we do

My grandfather was married to a women for a few years. He told us she was stealing from him and using his retirement money. He divorced her in 2006 but as executor I see she is a beneficiary on an annuity. I am ready to inform her, however, I feel that the reason of the divorce and state of their... View More

Vincent J. Bernabei
Vincent J. Bernabei
answered on Dec 17, 2018

Depending on the express terms of your grandfather's General Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage, the beneficiary designation may be revoked and the former spouse's ability to access the annuity may be restricted. Also, it is possible that he notified the annuity company of a change of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: I don’t want my child around my ex’s abusive boyfriend. No custody agreement is in order, only verbal. What can I do?

My child’s mothers boyfriend is abusive and has been arrested for strangling her before. I don’t want my daughter growing up around him, but I don’t have any court custody agreement what so ever. Just verbal agreements. What can I do?

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Dec 17, 2018

If no one has previously filed for custody, you may file a petition for custody with appropriate parenting time awarded to the other party. You can find pre-printed forms at the courthouse in your county. However, you should keep in mind that the court generally awards custody to the parent that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oregon on
Q: What do I get for the child support I pay to the other party?

My child is with me one day less than paid party every week. The other party being paid never sends any provisions a long(spare clothes, shoes, etc) most of the time i never get through on phone to talk to my child - no call backs or phones full of messages. My understanding is the party being paid... View More

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Dec 17, 2018

You present a few issues here. The first and most relevant answer I can offer is that you get nothing for paying child support. The purpose of paying child support is to support your child on the days they are not with you. The paid parent may use the money as they see fit and do not have to offer... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: I lost guardianship of child to my ex based on lies. How do I get a Family law hearing Jackson Co to present evidence?

My ex has manipulated the system with lies. I lost guardianship of my niece and I need a hearing to show evidence off all the lies and violations so I can see my daughter again. How do I get a hearing. I live in Washington and I need a hearing in Jackson County Oregon Family court.

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Dec 17, 2018

I would need more information to fully answer your question, but assuming your ex obtained a signed order on a Motion to Show Cause, you have 30 days to respond or request a hearing. I would recommend consulting an attorney who practices in Jackson County to discuss your options more fully.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: Can I move after I filed a petition for custody, child support and parenting time?

I filed for custody, parenting time and child support but have not received a response from the other party and nothing has been signed by a judge. Can I move 90 miles in same state for a new job opportunity and to be closer to my support system?

Daniel DiCicco
Daniel DiCicco
answered on Dec 6, 2018

Indeed you may. However, the other party may move at any time for an order to restore the "status quo", which is the parenting time arrangement of the parties in the 90 days leading up to filing. You could find yourself with an order to return right back from whence you came, which could... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for Oregon on
Q: We don't have any joint debts, do I need to list our individual debts when filing the divorce petition?
Daniel DiCicco
Daniel DiCicco
answered on Dec 6, 2018

You absolutely should list every debt. The reason is that the court will consider these debts when dividing assets. Even debts only in your name may be "joint" debts when considered in the broader context of your marriage. Full disclosure is best. Also, you really should not be doing it... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oregon on
Q: if you pay $600 a month in child support, you pay for the children's health insurance, cover half the cost of daycare

and pay for half co-pays, and split visitation 50/50 do you have to give any additional money to the parent receiving support?

M. Nicole Clooten
M. Nicole Clooten
answered on Dec 4, 2018

It really depends on whether there is a judgment. If there is a judgment, and that is all the judgment requires you to pay, then no.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oregon on
Q: I am curious as to when I should file for custody. When I'm stable or now

Father took away visitation without good cause. I am currently not in the best stable jousing situation. But i want to see my son

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Nov 28, 2018

It depends largely on the situation. If you currently have a parenting plan and have established visitation, you can file a motion to enforce the judgment. This would allow the court to order the father to abide by the judgment and grant you your parenting time. If there is no judgment in place,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Child Support and Civil Litigation for Oregon on
Q: Can I deny court mandated visitations if I feel there's a threat of harm?

My 8 yr old daughter's father was in prison for 6 years for assault with a deadly weapon & strangulation of his pregnant (now ex) wife. He had not been in contact with my child for almost 7 years. He got out this year & came to Oregon to see her for a week. He convinced me & our... View More

Jessica Larsen
Jessica Larsen
answered on Nov 28, 2018

You can be held in contempt if you fail to abide by the parenting time established in your judgment. I think your best course of action if you believe your child is in danger is to file an immediate danger motion which could temporarily suspend parenting time until you are able to serve the other... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: I violated a civil restraining order, I sent messages to my wife on Facebook.She is mentally ill /possible sociopath

My wife of 21 years started showing many antisocial symptoms after we had troubles ( only time in 21 years we have had a single argument or issue) she has revealed a huge amount of mental issues and began becoming aggressive and gaslighting type actions . She was able to obtain an order against me... View More

Gregory L Abbott
Gregory L Abbott
answered on Nov 27, 2018

I understand the temptation but you need to understand that if she complains or anyone calls the violation to the court's attention, you will be jailed, with the main question being not if but for how long, and that being up to the Judge. It can also be expensive regardless of how it all... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oregon on
Q: He has agreed to split pension 50/50 & told me an amount and it seems low. He has 18yrs teaching. Can I find out balance
M. Nicole Clooten
M. Nicole Clooten
answered on Nov 26, 2018

What you will need to do is ask for the latest statement through the discovery process. He is supposed to provide you with that within thirty days of service of the petition for dissolution. Also, if it is a PERS Tier 1 or Tier 2 account, the face amount is usually much lower that the actuarial... View More

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