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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: How to legally adopt a stepchild in the state of Missouri??

I got pregnant at 16 with my oldest son. His bio father was high on drugs and refused to be in his life and isn’t on the birth certificate. He’s been an in and out father until he was 22 months. He will be 8 in September and his sperm donor is trying to come back in his life but barely. My sons... View More

Kelisen  Binder
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Kelisen Binder
answered on May 2, 2024

You will need to contact an attorney that handles step-parent adoptions. You will have to file a petition in the county where you live, a guardian ad litem may be appointed and a home study may be necessary in order for the Court to grant your petition for step-parent adoption. You and your... View More

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Q: If parents agree on a provider and treatment for child’s therapy can one parent take the kids on their own to appts?

Joint legal custody, parents have to agree on a provider, agree on treatment and shall have opportunity to attend appts, but one parent can’t get off work for appts that need scheduled.

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Q: What happens if I've never been served with papers?

I have primary custody of my daughter and her father filed a motion to modify custody in March, but never paid to have the papers served to me with the county sheriff, through the mail, and never served me with the papers personally. There is no mention of there even being a summons issued through... View More

0 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Civil Rights for Missouri on
Q: How to make factual findings change since the was false in the beginning from the juvenile and CPS?

The mother was the one arrested and charged. My child is being kept from me her father bc it was entered that I was testing pos for drugs and I wasn’t. I have nothing to do with the mother but I’m being treated worse than she is. I have not failed the test and I now have the lab results but on... View More

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Q: How do I go about getting my daughter back from her dad the state gave custody to him

Dfs took my newborn then 10 days later came an removed my 8 year old for marijuana and a pain pill I'll never see my baby again but I'm wondering how to go about getting.my 8 at time now 13 year old back from her dad

0 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Criminal Law and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: In 2021 I was detained in a mental facility based on false accusations of child abuse, no prior history what can I do?

There was no history of mental illness or prior abuse allegations, my adoptive parent from who I am estranged , went to falsify a report and managed to have me detained without them looking into anything , my child ran away and was being persuaded to go along with the story for promises of being... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Support, Small Claims and Child Custody for Missouri on
Q: I need to stop a child support order from starting

My children were stolen from me, turned against me, abused, coerced, kept from me, and my youngest was even put out at 9yrs old after being mistreated and now from PA my sister has filed for child support when my children can just come back. How do I stop her.

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answered on Apr 16, 2024

I'm so sorry you are going through this incredibly difficult situation with your children. Dealing with custody issues, alienation from your kids, and now a child support case on top of that must be overwhelming and painful.

A few thoughts on your legal options to try to stop the...
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Q: is there a form where a parent or guardian can sign it for there child to live elsewhere?

I'm 15 and my living situation isn't the greatest, am I allowed to print out a form for my mother to sign saying I can legally live with someone else and give that to the school I go to?

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Missouri on
Q: My visitation with my children is not being honored. My complaint to the police went nowhere.

What can I do about her demands for money? She is letting me see them this weekend for the first time in two months but only if I send her 200$ cash. I think that’s horrible and my twin daughters are calling me everyday asking why I can’t pay mom more money so that they can come see me. How can... View More

Steve D. Hardin
Steve D. Hardin
answered on Mar 6, 2024

You will have to take her back to court. The legal system is not self actuating and you have to bring a petition for family access and motion to modify to would likely be in order too. You need to speak to a family attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Civil Rights and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: My friend who is 17 has been living with her mom. Her mom told us she could live with me. Then her grandpa takes her

Her grandparents have custody but yet have not said anything tell she got back into Missouri then comes over and just yells through my door that she needs to go with them or else. We don’t know what to do but she is not mentally stable there and hates living with them. Her mom gave her promotion... View More

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answered on Feb 24, 2024

In situations where there's a dispute over the custody or living arrangements of a minor, the legal custody order takes precedence. If the grandparents have legal custody of your friend, they generally have the right to decide where she lives until she reaches the age of majority, which is 18... View More

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Q: My husband is making me leave our apartment and we have a 6 year old son who he refuses to set up a visitation schedule

He will not talk to me about it or agree to anything but just wants me out. He purposely makes it uncomfortable for me here hoping I'll go. I'm disabled due to a stroke some years ago and it's very unsettling.

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answered on Feb 23, 2024

It's concerning that your husband is not willing to discuss visitation arrangements for your son and is pressuring you to leave the apartment. As a parent, you have rights regarding custody and visitation, and it's essential to advocate for your son's well-being and your own rights.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: I am 16 and in DFS custody. I am still placed with my biological mother, but DFS refuses to remove me under any grounds.

I would like to file for emancipation but cannot get a job under my mother's rules because she is controlling and does not want me finding any way out of her custody. DFS supports this, and the caseworker does see the mental and emotional abuse but thinks that because my mother is the parent,... View More

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answered on Dec 6, 2023

Your situation sounds incredibly difficult, and it's understandable that you're seeking a way to improve your circumstances. Emancipation is a legal process that can grant minors independence from their parents, but it does come with certain requirements and challenges, especially in your... View More

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Q: I own a property with someone else neither him or I live in the home at the moment. Can i move in w/o legal consequence?

We have 2 children the court did not specify which would live tbere he lied and said he stayed there with the kids he does not..thefe are no active restraining orders. Im about to turn one in... I have not had a home per se since I was removed from my farm so could I list that as my residence for... View More

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answered on Dec 1, 2023

In Missouri, if you co-own a property and there are no legal agreements or court orders preventing you from living there, you generally have the right to move into the property. This applies even if the other co-owner is not currently residing there. It’s important, however, to consider any... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: Do you legally have to do what a notarized agreement says? Or is it just a piece of paper?

The other parent does not want to abide by the agreement. The agreement has not went through court.

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 9, 2023

The downside to not going through court to get an agreed court order is that your agreement cannot be enforced by contempt of court.

You can sue for damages or for specific performance, but most parental agreements involving children are more a matter of getting on the same page with...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Missouri on
Q: My son goes to his dads house a few times a week overnight and my son says he doesn’t have a bed and sleeps on the floor

His dad also doesn’t do much for him when he is there. He makes other people take care of him like bathing him and feeding him.

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 8, 2023

This may be useful evidence in a suit to modify the terms of your possession order. But be aware that what children say to their parent often ends up not being accurate for many different reasons and questioning children after they have spent time with their other parent can be viewed as a type of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Missouri on
Q: Do I have to answer my daughters fathers request for information
Steve D. Hardin
Steve D. Hardin
answered on Aug 16, 2023

There is not nearly enough information to answer your question. It depends on the facts of your case and if there are previous orders. You should consult with an attorney.

2 Answers | Asked in Consumer Law, Contracts, Child Custody and Family Law for Missouri on
Q: Co-signed place for ex 2015 now have default judgement 15k she was served and I wasn’t found out this week what can I do

Signed as a co-signer in 2015 to help her out stayed 2 months to help set up and we separated, we’re going into a heated custody battle while doing record searches and requests i found a judgment against me from 2016. I was never served she was and didn’t notify me the Original debt was 3-4k... View More

Ronald J. Eisenberg
Ronald J. Eisenberg
answered on Aug 13, 2023

I agree with Mr. Pennell about the dangers of co-signing.

For a judgment that is older than one year, the good-cause/meritorious defense bit doesn't apply. Those are the requirements to set aside a default judgment. For your judgment, if you were not properly served, you'd...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Missouri on
Q: Can I hire a lawyer & have one on back with retainer. If I dont use my back up lawyer, do I get my retainer back?

Modify custody case

Chad Garrett Mann
Chad Garrett Mann
answered on Jul 20, 2023

In Missouri, as in other states, a lawyer's obligation to return unused retainer fees to a client is guided by the state's rules of professional conduct, the specifics of the fee agreement you signed, and any applicable state laws or regulations.

According to Rule 4-1.16(d) of the...
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Q: If you have a temporary custody order in one county than Can the noncustodial parent have the case moved to their county

If they get a restraining order against the other parent

Steve D. Hardin
Steve D. Hardin
answered on Jul 10, 2023

You will need to speak to an attorney in person. Venue for a child custody proceeding can be complex and will take a review of the cases and facts before a reasonable answer can be given.

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