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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: Filed for divorce, moved out dec 2019 Wife dating someone. Does that affect the divorce in any way?

Assets include 401k tsp plans. 2 minor children

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jun 16, 2020

If the other person is cohabiting then that affects alimony and if the person is a risk to the children or the children are not doing well with this individual being around them, then custody can be affected. If wife is spending monies on this other person that affects equitable distribution to... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: My husband and I have been separated since 2017. I’m terrified of him but I want to finally go through with the divorce

We briefly reconnected for about two months winter 2018 and now we have a baby. I told him I was pregnant in April 2019 when I found out and I didn’t hear from him my entire pregnancy nor did I hear from him her entire first six months of life. I ended up contacting him for help which was a... View More

Tanesha R Wright
Tanesha R Wright
answered on Jun 15, 2020

You should contact an attorney to discuss specific details, there is not much here to go on. If you want a divorce you'll need to go through the divorce process of filing in the probate and family court. If you fear for your safety and your child's safety, for any reason, you should... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: hello, I got divorce in CT. post divorce got a bench warrant (miscommunication), its resolved, will i pass my BC ?

I received a contract to teach in a private high school in MA, I have no criminal history, no traffic offense, but I am worried my post divorce issue will showcase me as a person i am not. Can my Background Check CORI shows the post divorce Bench warrant ( even though it has been resolved) and... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jun 11, 2020

If there is any problem, then you should engage counsel to represent you to have the record rectified.

2 Answers | Asked in Consumer Law, Divorce, Employment Law and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: What can I do to recover damages? Anything?

My now ex wife worked with me in my business. She ended up having an affair with one of our employees. During her deposition she did not admit to a relationship with the employee but as soon as our divorce was final he moved in and made it public through social media. She has posted damaging... View More

Tanesha R Wright
Tanesha R Wright
answered on Jun 14, 2020

As counsel has already stated if she's making defamatory statements about your business that is an issue outside your divorce. However, I do think there are issues you could address in your divorce on other matters. First, would be a potential modification if you are unable to make payments... View More

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Q: Financial SHORT form-MA-Assets- Is it mandatory to attach most recent bank statements or just filling the amounts is ok
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 26, 2020

There is a separate Rule -Supplemental Rule 410, concerning exchange of financial information going back 3 years referred to as Mandatory Self-Disclosure, so in a way you would be producing bank account statements but on the Financial Statement form itself you are reporting the current balance as... View More

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Q: Uncontested No-Fault 1A divorce MA - If I have a prenup with my spouse, do we still need to file a financial statement?
Julia Rueschemeyer
Julia Rueschemeyer
answered on May 18, 2020

Yes, you do. The Financial Statements are the only way that a judge can evaluate your financial situation and decide if the division of property is fair and equitable and if the support is appropriate. The Financial Statements are signed under penalty of perjury. The court has no other way of... View More

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Q: good afternoon, Iam going through a horrible separation /divorce i went from having 780 credit to today 515 in 2 mon

i have alot of debt because he was with holding money and i was using CC's its a huge mess and i dont see a way out. we own a house and have no equity we could break even maybe

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 15, 2020

It looks like you need to seek temporary orders concerning the preservation of the marital

asset and possibly to seek spousal support depending upon your fact situation- income disparity?

Length of marriage is a big factor, too. You are in Barnstable county and should have an...
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Q: I filed for a divorce in February 2020. The other party couldn't be located. Is there something else i should do ?

The party was due in court on 4/3/20. However, due to the virus the court held a phone conference. The party did not phone in. He is due back in court on the 15th of May, providing the courts are in session. Should I attempt to have him served again and do I just have to pay the Sheriff's... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on May 4, 2020

From your comment I am understanding that the Deputy Sheriff or Constable was unable to make in hand service of he Complaint and Summons and returned such on the Summons. The next step is to seek a Motion for Alternate Service by publication based on that fact. This would result in an Order that... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: When modifying Spousal Support is it reasonable to include child support as an expense?
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Apr 14, 2020

Your Rule 401 Financial Statement filed with the Court should report all payments and expenses.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: I owe back child support, will my stimulus go directly to my ex wife? I ask because that's what hoping for
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Apr 3, 2020

I would think it would go directly to the MDOR to reduce your outstanding Child Support arrears.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: Emails accepted as proof of service of divorce process? Weekends/holidays counted in time required for response?

On Dec 17, plaintiff's divorce atty emailed copy of divorce/separate support summons & track assignment notice served on defendant by MGL c. 223A, stated to be considered sufficient since defendant lives in Louisiana; certified letter sent by plaintiff's atty but def. did not see... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Apr 1, 2020

Whatever happened before the Alternate Service by Publication was ordered is not relevant. The Answer to the Complaint should be promptly filed once notice of the Complaint is received by you. You may be eligible for legal services from a local legal aid organization. Bear in mind that... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: Do I send a counterclaim to divorce complaint to my spouse's attorney or to the (Massachusetts) court, or both?

I am not able to afford an attorney and am having difficulty in figuring out who to send the counterclaim to.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Mar 31, 2020

The Court gets the original and the spouse's Attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: I have a question regarding enforcing an item in my separation agreement.

Our agreement was that I’d stay on my ex’s health insurance until I had the option of employer provided insurance somewhere. I had recently been laid off when we got divorced. I’m currently doing contract work so I still have no employer insurance option. My ex just got laid off today and his... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Mar 20, 2020

Your Separation Agreement would need to be reviewed before this could be answered responsibly. During the COVID emergency you would likely need to scan the agreement to any attorney you contact.

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law and Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: Can I get half of paid vacation/sick days saved up during our 33 year marrage, Post divorce?

Divorced 2 years ago in Massachusetts through a mediator, split everyting 50/50. He's was a State worker who just retired early, and I found out he is getting 6 months of paid vacation/sick days. What are the odds of me getting half of that if I file for myself at the courthouse with no... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Feb 24, 2020

You actually need counsel to review the Separation Agreement's terms. Usually property division in divorce is a complete resolution . There could be setting aside for fraud if you had no reason to be aware of this financial asset, but this is complicated and time is sensitive.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: In MA, divorce laws changed to eliminate alimony payments after a time period. What else was affected by the law change?

I was married in 1980. We were separated in 1995 and divorced in 1998. The divorce decree called for alimony and child-support as well as health insurance and education expenses for our 3 children.

Some time after the divorce law changes my ex-husband stopped paying alimony and health... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Feb 18, 2020

Unless your separation agreement or divorce judgment as a result of trial specified a termination date for alimony and medical coverage and that no Modification proceeding was necessary, then there should have been a Modification Petition filed by ex-husband and an adjudication in favor of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: In Massachusetts can my wife find out if I have a safe deposit box in a bank?
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Feb 3, 2020

If there is a Divorce petition or Complaint you will still need to make a full disclosure of income and assets and indebtedness .

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Tax Law for Massachusetts on
Q: Our MA divorce court date was 11-30. Can we file taxes as single?

One lawyer says that due to the nisi period, we have to file married or married/separately. The other and my ex's tax guy says we file single. Which is correct?

D. Mathew Blackburn
D. Mathew Blackburn
answered on Feb 1, 2020

Your marital Status is determined as of year end. If you're divorce was finalized by the issuance of a decree on 11.30.19 you would file Single for the year assuming no dependents and you did not remarry prior to the end of the year (yes, I've seen it).

Don't take tax advice...
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Q: In Mass there is a 90 Nisi before a divorce is final. Can one marry another country before the nisi is permanent?

Basically, can one get married out of Massachusetts if the Nisi is not permanent in Massachusetts.

And if a marriage did take place & it is not considered legal, is there any legal documentation to provide stating such a fact for yes or no?

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 31, 2020

First of all there is a 90 day nisi period following a divorce judgment, so that if there was a 1A Joint Petition approved by the Court and not a 1B Complaint for Divorce, there would be an additional 30 days from the approval order before the Divorce becomes absolute. When the divorce is absolute... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: My college child has moved back in with me mother moved out of state do I still have to pay child support
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Dec 31, 2019

It sounds like you will need a Modification in order to terminate the child support to mother. Are you still living in the original state where your orders issued from? If so, then the Court still has jurisdiction over the child support. If the "college" child is over 18 but not yet 21,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: Have 19 year old in college going for modification was paying for two one aged out. I pay more for college is this all

Looked at from judge

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Dec 30, 2019

There is a college contribution based upon UMass in state resident rates, so, for example, if you are paying over the anticipated maximum amount for the child in college, the weekly child support could be revisited by the Court in a Modification. You should contact your divorce attorney or a... View More

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