Ask a Question

Get free answers to your Family Law legal questions from lawyers in your area.

Lawyers, increase your visibility by answering questions and getting points. Answer Questions
California Family Law Questions & Answers
2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How do I transfer my child support case out of CA?

My child support case was originally established in CA, I have moved to FL and was told I need to have CA release the case so that FL can accept it. However, no one can tell me how to do that or what forms I need to fill out. Someone please help me.

Kevin M Rogers
Kevin M Rogers
answered on Dec 27, 2022

You are correct. If the support order was originally issued in CA and you have since moved to FL, then the UCCJA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Action) comes into play. The UCCJA was passed and every state had a right to adopt some form of the federal law. Each state then has in it's... View More

View More Answers

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How do I transfer my child support case out of CA?

My child support case was originally established in CA, I have moved to FL and was told I need to have CA release the case so that FL can accept it. However, no one can tell me how to do that or what forms I need to fill out. Someone please help me.

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Dec 27, 2022

I'm assuming you are the same person who asked this same question regarding your custody case. Unfortunately, the answer is not the same with respect to your child support case. Once acquired in a proceeding where child support is in issue, California superior court jurisdiction over child... View More

View More Answers

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: How do I transfer my custody case from California to Florida?

My case was originally established in CA but I have now moved to FL and from what I am told need to have the case released from CA so that FL can accept it but no one will tell me how to do that, and I have searched CA court forms and I cannot find anything to transfer out of state, just to... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Dec 27, 2022

This is done by noticed motion. Meaning, you would need to file a Request for Order [form FL300] for change of venue. You file that motion in the jurisdiction where your case is currently. You provide the current court with information regarding where the case will be transferred if the motion... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Legal Malpractice for California on
Q: can lawyers who have a state bar complaint on the still be on that case.

acts of moral turpitude have occurred and a state bar complaint was filled on lawyers, can those lawyers/law group still be on that case? it's a family law case. Can I notify the judge of this bar complaint before the hearing resides? and what can the judge do once he learns of these acts of... View More

Joel Gary Selik
Joel Gary Selik
answered on Dec 24, 2022

If a client files a bar complaint against his own lawyer may have created a conflict of interest that may require the attorney to withdraw.

Otherwise, a complaint is nothing but a complaint, and not a finding of anything done wrong.

Further, unless an attorney is suspended from...
View More

View More Answers

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: I served a QDRO to my ex for his signature but he refused to sign it. Just completely ignores it . what can I do ? Thank
Steven Lance Bynum
Steven Lance Bynum
answered on Dec 20, 2022

It really depends on what the rules are in your jurisdiction. For instance I typically send the order out for a signature with a letter asking for a return of the signed stipulation (or QDRO) within ten days. I typically send a second letter after the ten day period has expired with a further... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My divorce was as finalized in 2018 in Orange County,Ca...my ex was ordered to pay spousal support, equalization payment

And I got half of his 401k. To date, he has failed to comply with any request whatsoever to pay up.What can be done ? Unfortunately due to him not complying I am penniless. Please advise and thank you very much

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Dec 20, 2022

To divide his 401K you need a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order). Once the Plan is served with a QDRO, they pay you your share. The payment does not come from your ex. For spousal support you can get paid by using an Income Withholding Order

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Is the mother of my child allowed to keep her away from me because she “needs time to heal”?

I haven’t seen my daughter in almost two months. The mother came to my house when my current girlfriend was present and caused a scene being violent and disturbing the peace. She hasn’t let me see my daughter since and refuses to work out a plan of visitation because she doesn’t want my... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Dec 20, 2022

Not much you can do without court orders. I'm assuming you have not filed a petition to establish the parental relationship (aka paternity), or a petition for custody orders? If you want something you can enforce, i.e. custody and visitation orders, you have to ask for them. You have to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for California on
Q: I have questions regarding Interspousal Transfer Grant Deeds?

Me and my dad recently purchased a home. He is married to someone who is not my biological mother. During the signing of papers they asked that she sign a paper acknowledging that she was not going to be in the title of the home, therefore establishing a valid joint tenancy between my father and I.... View More

Julie King
Julie King
answered on Dec 14, 2022

"Joint tenancy" means the last one to survive takes all of the property. In other words, if your father dies first, you get 100% of the property, but if you die first, your father gets 100% of the property regardless of what a Will or Trust may

say. You should be aware that a...
View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I file for a divorce in California, even though I’m not a Californian resident (my spouse lives there).

My spouse and I got married in California in 2016, but I left the United States in the same year. We have not seen each other ever since, and agreed to have an uncontested divorce.

However, I was told by a paralegal in California that the petitioner of the divorce must be a resident of the... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Dec 13, 2022

The paralegal was incorrect. As long as one of the parties meets the residency requirements, you can file in California. You file in the county where he likewise meets the residency requirements. Hire local counsel to handle the case for you.

Q: My name is Modesto and my mother accused, took me to Pomona childrens court I have never been charged or arrested

Never charged I got dv

I wrongfully accused

Never arrested or charged

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Nov 20, 2022

the best advice any lawyer can give you is to ask the court to appoint a Public Defender at your first appearance.

s/he will have access to a police report and any other evidence.

since PD's have very heavy case loads, I suggest you type up all the facts so that s/he does not...
View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: Ex husband has not seen our child in a year . He claims I won't allow him to see our child

He has not tried to arrange any visits . Our visitation order was from when child was a toddler so the visit hours are doing school time . I offered different hours but he does not show up . He also doesn't call him and doesn't check up on him. What should I do ?

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Nov 20, 2022

Why do you need to do anything? You have court orders and he doesn’t comply or try to accommodate your child’s changing schedule. Is there a motion or hearing pending? You could file a motion to modify the existing orders on the grounds that the previous orders are now outdated and do not... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for California on
Q: What asset protection is available for a single individual planning to buy real estate with a married individual ?

To what extent does it matter which state the property to be purchased is in, if the unmarried individual lives in community property state while the married person resides in an equitable distribution state? Thank you.

Julie King
Julie King
answered on Nov 19, 2022

Your question seeks an answer that’s much more comprehensive than a lawyer can provide in this forum. Are you seeking to protect your portion of the real estate only or do you want to protect all of your assets? If the latter, what other types of assets do you own? (Trademarks are protected... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: What is the procedure will be like after I filed a motion to modify existing orders to include a "move away" order?
Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Oct 28, 2022

Not enough information. Impossible to predict the outcome of your case. In most cases when someone files a Request for Order to modify a custody order so that a parent can move away with the child, the court will order a custody evaluation. Move away requests are not DIY projects. It's a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: Hi, How can I change my current custody order?

I have my son's full legal and physical custody since April 2021. The father doesn't need to pay child support or any money. On the court paper it states I need the father's permission to move out of San Diego or travel to overseas. The father only visited my son once since April... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Oct 28, 2022

It's unclear why you would need his permission if you have "full legal custody". If there is a court order that says that, then you would need to file a motion to modify existing orders to include a "move away" order. The name change is a separate issue and would be handled differently.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Support and Divorce for California on
Q: I sold 100% of my business a year before I got married and agreed to take monthly payments per the sale agreement.

I sold 100% of my shares in a business a year before I got married and agreed to take monthly payments per the sale agreement. If I were to divorce, would my wife be entitled to any portion of the monthly payments received after the marriage? I live in California.

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Oct 28, 2022

The monthly payments would count as income available for calculating spousal and child support.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: Child support order modified from date of filing, which was 6 months ago, refund of excess paid during those 6 months?

If it cannot be reimbursed, why so? child support decreased due to the modification.

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 3, 2024

When a child support order is modified, the new payment amount usually takes effect from the date of filing the request for modification. However, if you overpaid during those six months, it's not always guaranteed that you'll be reimbursed for the excess payments. Courts sometimes view... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for California on
Q: My ex goes months without seeing our toddler with a 50/50 custody order. He clearly is not abiding by it.

After 7.5 weeks he has now messaged me about seeing him. Prior to its been no call no shows, doesn't even call. My toddler doesn't want to go and clearly the system is failing us. This is certainly not the first time his father has pulled this. He got our case that was supposed to be... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Oct 2, 2024

I'm sorry you're going through this challenging situation. It's important to address your ex's non-compliance with the custody order through the proper legal channels. Keeping your child beyond the agreed schedule could potentially be seen as interfering with the court order,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: Can other parent force me to take child to church?

My child’s mother and I have joint custody. Our daughter is 9 and last year her mother decided to enroll her in cathechism and while I’m not religious I allowed it. However, she never did do what was required and so my child basically “failed” so I decided no more. It is a waste of money... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Sep 30, 2024

In your situation, the other parent cannot force you to take your child to church or comply with religious activities during your custodial time, especially if you both have joint custody. Decisions regarding your child’s religious upbringing are typically considered joint legal decisions,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Alimony includes a bonus from variable income. Could / should it be capped to the marital standard of living?

Married for 36 years, supported spouse has not worked for 20 years, has a degree in Engineering but cannot find job. Claims the length of marriage and the loss of carrier due to rising kids entitles her to uncapped bonus added to the fixed support. Please, clarify if variable income from consulting... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Sep 30, 2024

When it comes to alimony and variable income, California courts focus on maintaining the supported spouse's marital standard of living. Variable income, whether from consulting or a full-time job, can be included in support calculations. However, the amount may be capped or adjusted based on... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for California on
Q: What do I need to request supervised and limited hours visitation for when my ex comes visit my two kids?

My ex took the kids with him for 4 hours when he brought them back both of my kids had their diaper packed with pee as if he didn't change them for hours specially my daughter she had way more peed than my son. Also my son as soon as he got home he wanted to eat and ate his food super fast as... View More

James L. Arrasmith
PREMIUM
James L. Arrasmith pro label Lawyers, want to be a Justia Connect Pro too? Learn more ›
answered on Sep 29, 2024

To request supervised and limited visitation for your ex, you will need to demonstrate that his care of your children poses a concern for their well-being. You can begin by documenting the incidents you mentioned, such as not changing the children's diapers and not feeding them properly during... View More

Justia Ask a Lawyer is a forum for consumers to get answers to basic legal questions. Any information sent through Justia Ask a Lawyer is not secure and is done so on a non-confidential basis only.

The use of this website to ask questions or receive answers does not create an attorney–client relationship between you and Justia, or between you and any attorney who receives your information or responds to your questions, nor is it intended to create such a relationship. Additionally, no responses on this forum constitute legal advice, which must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case. You should not act upon information provided in Justia Ask a Lawyer without seeking professional counsel from an attorney admitted or authorized to practice in your jurisdiction. Justia assumes no responsibility to any person who relies on information contained on or received through this site and disclaims all liability in respect to such information.

Justia cannot guarantee that the information on this website (including any legal information provided by an attorney through this service) is accurate, complete, or up-to-date. While we intend to make every attempt to keep the information on this site current, the owners of and contributors to this site make no claims, promises or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness or adequacy of the information contained in or linked to from this site.