We moved here in N.C on 5/2018 from Md. and my husband sent us ahead to a rental property that he was supposed to accompany us when he found employment but instead ask for an divorce again after reconciliation when he had abandoned us before in Md.
You should be entitled to spousal support, if he has any disposable income after meeting his reasonable monthly expenses, and you have not committed adultery. The sooner you file an action for Post-separation support and alimony, the better.
I father two kids. Both with the same women(never married) The oldest kid lives with my mother who has full court ordered custody.The youngest lives with biological mother.I pay support for the youngest child to the mother but my mother doesn't receive support from either parent. Recently the... Read more »
If the older child is living with the mother - why do you think she shouldn't get money? Don't want to pay child support, have your mother take the child back or move for a modification of custody yourself to have the older child live with you. Otherwise, pay child support. Your other option is...Read more »
I’ve hid our kid from him (I’m trying to sell the idea of him being unstable when he’s actually a good person, and really I’m I’m a bit off in the head for coming up with the idea to pretend that this fake daycare existed and the couple watching her have bought my story. He could have... Read more »
Your ex would be able to pick up his child from another person's home without your consent. Hearing your story I'm afraid that you are setting yourself for a terrible custody case. NC judges are not very sympathetic to a parent who is withholding or hiding a child from another parent. It sounds...Read more »
In the beginning the mother would not take child support from me or go to court bc she thought it would make it easier for me to see him if she did. She also cut all communication off with me up to present day. Im in his life now bc he found me on social media and reached out to me behind her back... Read more »
"Please help!" Hmmmm - really? With what exactly - not paying child support perhaps? Couldn't be you need help with visitation with your son. If so, seems the time to have asked for help with that was 9 years ago. Or 8 years ago. Or 7 years ago. It seems very much like what you are saying is...Read more »
There are many revolving parts of this particular case, including pending custody orders from 2 different counties, a 50-B also attached with a temporary custody order, pending change of venue hearing, as well as multiple jurisdictional issues. I wish to simply sever all ties and be done with the... Read more »
Of course you can not terminate your own parental rights because that would mean you could unilaterally terminate your obligation to pay child support. You don't need any sort of court order or court involvement to stay away from the mother and child but unless you are willing to live an indigent...Read more »
Due to an emergency change in custody, my two year old son went to live with his dad almost two years ago. I have not seen my child since. It was court ordered that he pay me $400 a month when I had our son and since he got him, it’s still court ordered he pay me. The arrears of child-support is... Read more »
What? Of course he doesn't owe you any money. $15,000? What kind of gorilla math is this? Is the 'juice' still running? $400 a month for two years is $9,600 - which you likely ought to owe to the father. If the child went to live with the father two years ago and the child is two years old -...Read more »
Im 15 and I have depression/Anxiety and I cant handle school anymore I really want to get out of school but i dont want to get taken away or get into trouble and I love my parents so I dont want them to get in trouble eaither. Is there something they could do to get me out of school without any... Read more »
You certainly are not required to support her on terms that she dictates. If she is old enough to live where she wants, she's old enough to provide for herself. You likely ought to stop enabling her immature behavior.
divorced from my 2 daughters mother in 2005. Have been paying child support since then for both of my girls (ages 17 & 16). I do not have rights to see them because of an arrest in 2004 and a felony conviction (Alford plea) in 2006 in SC. i am concerned my ex-wife will sue me for assistance with... Read more »
Unless you stupidly agreed to pay for college in some binding agreement, your obligation to pay child support beyond the age of 18 is limited to a circumstance where the child is 18 but has not yet graduated from high school - in which case your obligation typically continues until the child...Read more »
The father has never seen him outside of the 2 times we were in court for child support order and his contempt for not paying it as ordered. He has never wanted go be involved in his life even though I made attempts to engage him several times for my childs sake even though he stays in another... Read more »
If he is smart he will structure any income he receives while in jail in such a way that you likely won't see a dime in child support. Since he will already be in jail, there likely won't be diddly squat you or the Court can do except let arrears accrue. So you have two choices: 1) getting sole...Read more »
The case worker told me he would not have to pay arrears for this time. So far October 2018 until present. He is capable of working, he's posted video of him out four wheeling. What can I do? Why is he not responsible for arrears? If I get sick and can't work I still have to support my son... Read more »
Just got the signed order in the mail. My ex's monthly gross income reads $2,177.77 whereas mine reads $2,500.00. Directly under it, my ex's monthly ADJUSTED gross income reads $1,787.37 whereas mine still reads $2,500.00. I sent them my pay stubs so they have all the income information they need.... Read more »
On the left side of the form each line is described. it's really hard to confirm what you're talking about without having a copy of the form. But typically there's the gross income, and then a credit if there's another child in the household or if that parent is paying child support for another...Read more »
I have two mother of children. When the second child support order went in they didn’t include the first one and I am not sure how to word that in my modification. I lost my job since the hurricane and recently got behind. I got a court appointed laywer and he said I needed to do a modification.... Read more »
My boyfriend and I live together and are thinking of having kids. I am on Medicaid and Medicare and have been told that they may try to make him pay for child support even with him living with me and would be helping out 50/50 with kids. Is this true or was I misinformed?
Only a judge can order child support. It would be more a question of whether Medicaid would count your boyfriend's income in determining your eligibility for benefits. There are many different types of Medicaid with different program requirements, so you would need to speak with your social...Read more »
As you know, once a supporting parent has died, future support payments die with him.
However, his estate will owe the past-due amount. Once his estate has been opened for probate you or even state child support enforcement agency may file a claim against his estate with the probate court...Read more »
You didn't actually ask a question, but I'm going to assume that you're asking how to get visitation with your son. You need to hire an experienced family law attorney, probably in the county and state where your son lives, and sue for custody and visitation.
My step-son was court ordered through DSS of Rutherford County, North Carolina to pay child support on his 4 children. Me and my wife have Guardianship over two of the grandchildren, ages 11 and 9, until they are 18. If he relinquishes parental rights is he still obligated to pay child support or... Read more »
A parent cannot surrender their own parental rights. If they could every parent who didn't want to pay child support and wasn't allowed to see their children would do so, and the government would have to support those children. If you have grounds under North Carolina law to terminate his parental...Read more »
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