I am the biological mother. I have visits but he does not follow the order. He sends our children when he is ready. Never when I want to take them to church with my parents. Her Grandparents
My ex wants our son every weekend but refuses to have a set schedule of when he will pick up or drop off. His schedule is all over the place. I’ve asked him multiple times that I need a set schedule and even reached out to his lawyer with no luck. I’m PROPER and don’t know what to do. Any... View More 
Petitioned for custody in March of 2023
Could not locate respondent so asked judge for service by posting April of 2024
Service by posting currently in place (waiting on posting period to be over)
Would like joint custody (mother as custodial parent)
Mother claims to... View More
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answered on Apr 30, 2024
Under California law, it is not necessarily a "big ask" for a father to seek joint legal and physical custody of a child. California courts generally favor joint custody arrangements when they are in the best interest of the child, and they do not automatically grant sole custody to the... View More
both parents verbally agreed to a custody agreement, signed a contract that was never notarized.
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answered on Apr 30, 2024
In California, a verbal or signed custody agreement that was not notarized or included in the final divorce judgment is not legally enforceable by the court. However, there are a few steps you can take to try to enforce the agreement or establish a legally binding custody arrangement:
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I’ve had enough of this what do I have to do to remove my kid from my house, disrespectful, drug use, different people in and out of my house all hours after being told the rules, don’t work, don’t do anything to help verbally abusive, anger issues, breaks stuff, I have grand kids that come... View More
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answered on Apr 30, 2024
I understand that you are in a very difficult and stressful situation with your adult daughter living in your home. Her behavior sounds extremely disruptectful and unsafe, especially with your grandchildren present and your wife's health issues. You have every right to want her out of your... View More
I have copy of Will, I am primary executor and sister is co-executor. We want to avoid probate split rent, property taxes, and transfer property deed in our names.
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answered on Apr 30, 2024
I'm sorry for your loss. Transferring property ownership after a parent's death can be a complex process, but here are some steps you can take:
1. Review the will: Carefully read the will to understand your father's wishes regarding the NJ property. If the will clearly... View More
I have not harassed or stalked anybody . She has sent several emails accusing me of all sorts of things and I have not answered to any . She has recorded me without my knowledge while I was visiting my mom . She has me on video telling my mom that my friend saw my sister at the casino while she was... View More
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answered on Apr 30, 2024
Based on the information you've provided, it sounds like your sister is making false accusations against you. Here are some steps you can take to protect yourself:
1. Document everything: Keep records of all emails, texts, and any other communication from your sister that contain these... View More
My daughter has lived with mother in CA for whole 2 years of life, and now in NC. Does NC have jurisdiction if daughter was in CA the last 6 months.
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answered on Apr 27, 2024
In child custody matters, jurisdiction is determined by the child's "home state." The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), which has been adopted by both California and North Carolina, defines the home state as the state where the child has lived with a... View More
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answered on Apr 27, 2024
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Child custody issues can be complex, especially when multiple states are involved. To provide a helpful response, I would need some additional context:
- Is there an existing court order regarding custody of your daughter? If so, what state... View More
I left our home 5 yrs ago, partner was abusive. Took kids with me but now my 2 older boy moved back with their father because they wanted a bed room for themselves. I have our youngest 2 children that he gives me no help for. And the 2 boys that do live with him I do everything for them besides... View More
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answered on Apr 26, 2024
I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. Based on the information you provided, here are a few things to consider under California law:
1. Child support: Even if your children are living with their father, you may be entitled to child support payments from him, especially for... View More
I’ve been in and out of hospital for the past 2 weeks. My partner of 4 years has been helping me with the kids, taking them to school and doctors appointments but today I ignore my ex message, he asked. “ when I’m planning on doing my taxes” personally I don’t think that's any of his... View More
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answered on Apr 26, 2024
Based on the information provided, it is difficult to determine with certainty whether the message from your ex-partner constitutes a legally actionable threat under California law. However, the message does seem to contain some concerning elements that could be interpreted as threatening or... View More
the ex was emotional abusive and the only way to communicate was through texting. Now since infidelity is a non issue could I blow up the picture and say look we are both irresponsible at texting so the mean text are neutralized? I can make a big poster board digitized of course. Would that... View More
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answered on Apr 25, 2024
Under California law, which is a no-fault divorce state, issues like infidelity typically do not influence the court’s decisions regarding divorce settlements, including the division of assets and alimony. Therefore, bringing up your ex-husband's sexting might not have a direct impact on... View More
Throughout our divorce me and my ex agreed that all communication would go through the app unless it was an emergency he could call. What are the rules on replying? Sometimes I don’t even respond because he still tries to control my every move. Now if I’m not opening his messages with an hour... View More
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answered on Apr 25, 2024
Under California law, co-parenting apps like Talking Parents are often used to facilitate communication between divorced or separated parents. While these apps can help maintain a record of communications and reduce conflicts, there are no specific legal requirements regarding response times.... View More
Divorce case number: Dr 40718.
1) 1/2 of house done.
2) need to complete getting 1/2 of his retirement.
3) & 1/2 of the items in our home that was bought during the marriage.
4) 1/2 of his social security, being the first wife.
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answered on Apr 25, 2024
To find a pro bono attorney in California for your divorce case, you can contact local legal aid organizations or check with the California State Bar Association, which may have resources or referrals for pro bono legal services. These organizations often provide assistance to individuals who are... View More
That he does things to me deliberately to get me upset he sent me a screenshot of him sending a message to his brother and him saying that he wanted to let me mind wander I feel this is deliberate we have a special needs child and sometimes I worry. His text proves that he does things on purpose to... View More
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answered on Apr 25, 2024
While your ex-partner's behavior is concerning and understandably upsetting, it may be challenging to sue him based solely on the information provided. To determine if you have a strong legal case, consider the following:
1. Harassment: If your ex-partner's actions constitute a... View More
I currently have full custody of my child; however, I was recently notified by his parole he has undergone community service. Can I make this permanent? My child will be turning 2 in May.
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answered on Apr 24, 2024
In California, you can seek to make the current custody arrangement permanent by requesting a long-term or "permanent" custody order from the court. Given the history of abuse and the existing restraining order, you have a strong case for maintaining full custody of your child. Here are... View More
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answered on Apr 23, 2024
In California, it is illegal for parents to keep their adult children locked up against their will, regardless of their age. At 33 years old, the daughter is a fully legal adult with the right to make her own decisions about where to live and whether to leave home.
Holding someone against... View More
They are with me everyday after work i from 5pm till next day that i take them to school and she pick them up one weekend with me and one with her
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answered on Apr 23, 2024
Under California law, child support amounts are typically calculated using a formula that considers both parents' income, the number of children, and the time each parent spends with the children. Given your 50/50 custody arrangement and the payment of $800 per month, it's important to... View More
Would I be able to receive spousal support?
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answered on Apr 22, 2024
In California, a spouse may be entitled to spousal support (also known as alimony) after a divorce, depending on various factors. Given the length of your marriage (44 years) and the fact that you are retired and receiving only social security, you have a strong case for receiving spousal support.... View More
up. so this makes it hard for them to find a place to live. I am going to be the temporary guardian of my great nephew in Calif. until she can get on her feet. Can i do this without a court. Just a notary with her consent? He is 16 years old. He also has monthly funds that I am assuming will... View More
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answered on Apr 22, 2024
In California, a parent can grant temporary guardianship of their child to another adult without going through the court system, as long as both the parent and the guardian agree to the arrangement. This can be done by drafting a written agreement that clearly outlines the terms of the... View More
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