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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Got in a fight with my wife. Took her purse, I bit her hand to release tbe purse. very minor scratch on her hand (1 mm)

Witness called the police,I got arrested, charged with 2 felonies: Robbery of my wife’s purse (that I paid for) and Domestic violence (very minor injury in hand). I left the house, got arrested later.

I admitted to police on both charges.

Out on $50,000 bail.

Wife does... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

you do not have to injure someone to get a DV..........a shove could do it.

it is not up to your wife to decide if she wants to drop the charges..........the crime is against the people of the state of california.

you should hire a lawyer and arrange for her to get a separate lawyer...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My boyfriend was arrested for DV I didn’t press charges how do I get him out?

He was arrested in Sonoma county I didn’t press charges but they still took him it’s his first time offense he had a clean record ! How can I help ? Is there anything I can do ? How long can they keep him in there if no one post bail for him ?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

if police were called when there was a physical altercation they are going to arrest whether you want to press charges or not.

the Victim is the people of the state of California

you should tell his lawyer you do not want to press charges or testify and he might suggest you get...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My partner and i argued and he got physical, he tried "strangling"me.

I was issued an emergency protective order but it expired within 5 days. I didn't press charges and didn't file for a restraining order. Can i visit him in jail?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

really need more info.

however if you have not been ordered/rec'd a Restraining order i guess you could...................the worst that can happen is they do not let you see him.

how i think you will be able to do so

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Hello ,I have domestic case where my ex girlfriend and her daughter said that I hit them with my fist

I’m just trying to know what will happen cause so far all they have is what they have said. They haven’t heard my side of the story.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 13, 2018

more info needed.

did you hit/touch them? if so that is battery at the least and if wife it could be DV

if they called the police and their is a report then you need a good criminal lawyer.

you probably posted $50k bail? correct?

you have a court date to appear for...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: How long will the father of my daughter be in jail for first time domestic violence?

I pressed charges on Sunday morning for domestic violence and he’s been in jail since then. My question is when will he get out. The abuse was minor I only have bruises on my leg and little scratches on my hand. He’s never been to jail he had a clean record prior to this.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

a lawyer needs a lot more info

what is his record?

what courthouse?

what judge?

who is his lawyer?

who is the DA?

what did you tell police?

his bail would be $50k and it could be filed as a felony or misdemeanor.

his should have an...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can a miner be changed with domestic violence if there's no physical harm done
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

DV does not have to draw blood or be black and blue..........a shove is DV............though maybe it shouldn't be

for a minor it will be a violation of the welfare and institution code in that on X day the minor did ........................

4 Answers | Asked in Personal Injury and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Me and my boyfriend are both miners and I accidentally got bleach on him and his mother is trying to press charges .

He is find and there was no body or physically harm was done .would I still get jail time?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

more info is needed

what were his injuries?

did you pour on him or throw at him?

if no record and not serious injuries a good lawyer can handle without jail time.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: If my spouse gets arrested for domestic violence(Fel) but i dont want to press charges, will the state still convict him
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

more info needed.

but yes the state will still prosecute but whether there would be a conviction is another story.

how badly were you injured?

you may want to hire a lawyer to explain to his lawyer/DA that you are not going to testify............though they can still pursue...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What can I do to avoid more jail time?

I am homeless female and was arrested for misdemeanor domestic violence for two weeks before I was released. A week later we are asleep and the cops open the door at 4am pull me out of our car and arrested my for violating the TRO although my fiance asked for them to not to put it on there at the... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

more info is needed.

it sounds like you or someone else called the police to report you for DV on your boyfriend and a "keep away" order was issued.

did you get notice of a TRO (restraining order)?

you need a lawyer to appear and remove the ordered

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Misdemeanor DV conviction was 15yrs ago; I've completed all reqs. & conviction was expunged. Can I still obtain alimony?

Misdemeanor domestic violence conviction (non-sexual) was in 2003. No temporary or permanent protection order was requested nor obtained from spouse. I completed 52 week DVTP courses, probation, etc. and conviction was expunged in 2006. We stayed married and have been married for 16 years now.... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

it should not affect you but without more info it is hard to determine.

ask a local lawyer who knows the judges in your area and how they rule.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Hi im a victim of battery have broken finger because of that but im pushing him away first its that affect my case to

Him cause im the one who called the police and press charges.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

need more info

if you have a broken finger from pushing him and he was not aggressive and did not attack you then what did he do wrong............?

you are only a victim if you did nothing wrong and you were hurt by someone else

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My question is, what will happen to me if I change the police report for domestic violence ? I'm the victim, I'm a guy.

I was In a relationship with this girl for 8 months, we moved in quick, but at the time it felt right and I truly loved her. After the 8 months we broke up, over some stupid fight we had. We continued to live together for the next three months. The next three months were dreadful. We bickered, we... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 7, 2018

i assume you are suggesting you called police on her and now want to drop charges.

that happens on at least 1/3 of all DV cases. The spouse is afraid it will put husband in jail and he won't be able to pay for home, food, kids etc

most people calm down and realize they loved...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can I be arrested for saying that my boyfriend hit me and really he didn't . I started it and he's now in jail and
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 7, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts. What you have shared is not much. If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to give an accurate answer.

It is the same as using the adage for using a computer... “JUNK IN, JUNK...
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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can I be arrested for violating a criminal no contact order if I'm the protected/ victim and let them in my house.

My wife was arrested and charged with 3 different DV charges. She plead to 1 and the DA dropped the other 2. The judge put in place a 5yr criminal no contact order. The other night she came over after being at the casino all night and she was clearly drunk and high on something. She told me she... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 4, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts. What you have shared is not much. If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to give an accurate answer.

It is the same as using the adage for using a computer... “JUNK IN, JUNK...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I have a temporary restraining order against me can I get charged for domestic violence in the past from 2016-2009
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 2, 2018

R u saying there was a TRO without a criminal filing?

i would not think old DV would be filed upon ......if so you would argue Serna arguments that there was a lack of due process in that you didn't receive a speedy trial and can not remember things 2-3 yrs ago.

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: I left my husband of not even 5 years in 2011 because he was extremely abusive. He was arrested for beating me up and

I left him on that same day & came back to California from Arkansas. I have not seen him since. I've only spoke to him on the phone a couple of times when we had deaths in our families and that's it. I still talk to my step daughter occasionally though . Am I legally separated... View More

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answered on Mar 1, 2018

You are not legally separated. You can file in California since you have lived here at least six months and file in the county you have lived in for the last three months.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Can a person convicted of Domestic violence and assault be paroled to the same community where the victim lives?

My grand daughter and her mother were victims of assault with injury. He is currently serving state prison time. He is coming up for parole soon.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 1, 2018

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Domestic Violence and Juvenile Law for California on
Q: I got pregnant as a minor my boyfriend is 5 years older can he be prosecuted if we married in california
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 28, 2018

i doubt if they would look back now that you are 18 and if married to him with a baby

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Child Support and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: At the trail the Atty apologized for not serving us. Could we have asked for a dismissal at that point?

Domestic violence custody battle

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 27, 2018

a lawyer needs a lot more info.

the lawyer could have meant he could not or did not get a dismissal/not guilty.

however it would not be grounds for dismissal but maybe a new trial for incompetency of counsel...........................if that was the case.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: Is it illegal to lightly slap the face of your 17 year old child? We were in an argument. He notified cpa
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 27, 2018

I assume you mean CPS?......any unlawful touching is a battery...........and could be an issue.

i suspect s/he described it as not light touching?

if you can afford one you should consider a lawyer in your area who deals with these kind of cases.

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