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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Michigan on
Q: How much time is considered reasonable notice/time for my ex to let me know he wants the kids for a weekend?

My ex moved from Michigan to New Jersey. Court order says he can have one weekend a month residing in Michigan but has to give reasonable notice. What is considered reasonable notice through the courts?

Mechelle Woznicki
Mechelle Woznicki
answered on Jul 5, 2020

Reasonable is that amount of time which is fairly necessary, conveniently, to do whatever is required to be done. There is no set number in this situation, so reasonable is what both parents define it to be.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for Michigan on
Q: How hard is it to get full custody in a divorce?

My ex moved out in November of 2017. We separated because he stayed using meth and hit me. He was just in jail because of a warrant. Had 3 charges. One for shoplifting. One for child support on his first child that he doesn't pay. And one for drug charges.

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 22, 2020

It can be hard, depending on circumstances. But your case sounds like one where circumstances exist for sole custody.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Michigan on
Q: My child's mom has physical joint custody I get parenting time for my children I live in Port Huron Michigan

My sixteen-year-old daughter wants to be emancipated to come live with me

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 22, 2020

Emancipation is different than custody. Your daughter would need to initiate emancipation proceedings, and convince a judge that she is able to live on her own. Coming to live with you is not emancipation, but a change of custody.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Michigan on
Q: I been with him for 25 yrs..he was 21.. I was 13. Ive had 4 kids w him since 15. Will i get alimony?spousal??

I was 13 he was 21. Been with him 25 yrs. Have 4 kids...He treats me horrible and i want out. But he took EVERYTHING!!!! LEFT ME ON STREET. Also CHEATING on me w Facebook girls..have PROOF. & HE is a major alcoholic.

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 11, 2020

When were you married? Michigan is generally a "no fault" state when it comes to divorce and so for purposes of divorce, cheating doesn't really matter. Spousal support is possible, particularly in long term marriages (generally over 10 years), and when there is some fault attributed... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Juvenile Law for Michigan on
Q: Can a 12 year old boy be represented in the court by someone that’s 15 years old even if there is a legal attorney?

Even if the 12 year old has an attorney can the 15 year old boy be the main representative but under the guidance of an attorney?

This is not a true scenario but for the future is any of this possible? Also the 15 year old boy would know about the laws and know the rights, crimes, possible... View More

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 2, 2020

No. Courts will recognize either the litigate or a licensed attorney appearing on behalf of the litigate. In some cases a person may have a "next friend" step in his or her shoes and can still have an attorney. The 15 year old in your scenario would not be recognized by a court as a... View More

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Q: If my wife abuses substance and is suicidal with mental health issues. Can i take custody without her permission?
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 1, 2020

Best thing to do would be to seek an ex parte order from the court.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Michigan on
Q: Will the judge be mad if I keep my child away for his mother? ( Never married, but we share custody)

I filed a ex parte for sole custody bc she is threatening to leave the state. It got denied, do I have to return my daughter to her mother?

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 1, 2020

Yes. Without a court order, you have no authority to keep the child from the other parent. If you have ongoing concerns, and since your ex parte was denied, you can file a regular motion to change custody.

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Q: What are the steps in custody? Do all custody cases go thru mediation?
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Jun 1, 2020

Custody starts with a complaint filed by one parent alleging that a child is the product of that person and the other parent, and includes reasons under the 12 Best Interest of the Child factors that are applicable to the situation as to which custody situation is best for that child. In most cases... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Michigan on
Q: I don't know where to start a divorce. concerns because my ex is being shady and we have a child

I'm a 23 year old female and he is a 26 year old male. This is both of our first marriage. We got married 12/07/2018. He keeps telling his friends and family one story as to why we are divorcing and tells me another story as to what he has told them. He has been active in smearing my name,... View More

Andrew M Steiger
Andrew M Steiger
answered on May 28, 2020

You start by filing a complaint and serving him. At that point you can begin negotiating child custody, property settlement, etc. If he files first, you would be the defendant but that likely won’t change the outcome related to child custody at all. Michigan is a no-fault divorce state. What... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Michigan on
Q: Can a mother give up custody to father without going through long process?

My 3 year old daughter that stays with me by ourselves. Her mother is currently homeless and has been house hoping with ppl since ‘16,I was told to file a motion but that seems too long of process and too much for something that I feel is a no brainer. The mother said she understands that I need... View More

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on May 27, 2020

First things, first...the Friend of the Court does not change custody or make orders; that is what judges do. If the mother is cooperative, it doesn't need to be a long process, but it is a process all the same.

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Q: childs father made a false exparte order and they came and took my child and suspended my rights as a parent until I go
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Apr 27, 2020

You will need to file an objection to the ex parte order. You should do so promptly, and with an attorney's assistance if possible.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Michigan on
Q: No agreement no custody... ex has personal issues and trying to take my kids. But we have had a verbal agreement for 2y

Can she just take them I just got them monday

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Apr 23, 2020

Are you the legal father? (e.g. affidavit of parentage signed and on file with the state). You cannot expect the court to enforce an agreement it did not make or have record of. You should file a custody action so that you get a written order that can be enforced in the future.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for Michigan on
Q: My divorce was finally on aug 6 2019. I got pregnant only weeks after. Will they try n go back on my ex husband?

We were both in other relationships at the end of our divorce and still are. Because this pregnancy happened so close to the final stamp I’m worried they will try and go back on my ex husband if my child’s father decides to bail and not sign the BC.

Kendra Ortega
Kendra Ortega
answered on Mar 29, 2020

Your ex-husband is only considered the legal father of your child if you were pregnant during the marriage. If your pregnancy began after the Judgment of Divorce was entered by the court, your ex-husband will not be the legal father. You will want to make sure the baby's biological father... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Child Custody and Entertainment / Sports for Michigan on
Q: We are looking to create a will or difference between survivor right vs. will..which is better

We have two children and need to appoint guardianship in the event of our death, as well as distribute our life insurance properly.

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answered on Mar 27, 2020

It sounds like you are a married couple and your plan of distribution at the first death is "survivor takes all". That being the case, utilizing death beneficiary designations or joint tenancy with survivorship title holding is effective to vest ownership in those assets in the survivor.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Divorce for Michigan on
Q: Is it legal to use a lawyer who is a family member in a divorce case and can she keep taxmoney from me
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Mar 24, 2020

It is legal certainly to be represented by a family member who also happens to be an attorney so long as there is no direct conflict of interest for the attorney. Probably not the best idea for an attorney to do so for emotional and other reasons; many lawyers will refer family members to other... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for Michigan on
Q: If a divorce gets dismissed what happens to child custody?

During the divorce ex-wife got pregnant with another man’s child but since the divorce hadn’t been finalized when she gave birth the courts dismissed the divorce. There was a custody agreement in place after filing for divorce however the courts are dismissed to divorce, so what happens to the... View More

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Mar 21, 2020

Not sure why the court would dismiss the divorce in this situation other than your ex-wife - assuming she is the plaintiff - failed to continue the proceedings. Regardless, with the divorce goes the court's ability to enforce your agreement.

You could file your own divorce action at this point.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Probate for Michigan on
Q: My mom has custody of my 4 year old and sense guardian ship and guardian ship shes treated me like I'm nothing.

What do I do for visitation asking for a time to si down and go over times is always brushed off. I'm done asking her I want my visits

Kenneth V Zichi
Kenneth V Zichi
answered on Mar 23, 2020

What does the Order granting guardianship say about visitation/parenting time?

Is it at the discretion of the parties? If so then you need to petition the Court that granted the guardianship to allow for parenting time/visitation if your mother won't cooperate.

If the order...
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Q: Can my ex husband get custody of our kid that he abandoned and abused
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Mar 16, 2020

You've used two words - "abandoned" and "abused" - which have several meanings in a family court situation. Those words have specific legal meanings to the court; people often ascribe their own definition to those words, which sometimes is not consistent with the... View More

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Q: The clerk wont let me file the custody order the was discussed when my motion to change custody was granted

Because its been past 7 days. What can i do.

Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Mar 12, 2020

You may need to request a new motion hearing to enter the prior judgment.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Michigan on
Q: What do i need to to file a custody order after my motion was granted if i surpassed the 7 days alloted time.
Brent T. Geers
Brent T. Geers
answered on Mar 11, 2020

File it anyway so long as it comports to what the judge said.

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