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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can my husband still be charged and convicted of strangulation even if I’m not pressing charges?

Husband charged with strangulation. I’ve spoken to state attorney to let them know I don’t want to proceed. But they’re refusing a bond and pushing for 4tears this is his first domestic charge. What should I do

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Dec 30, 2020

Calling the police and giving them a statement took this out of your hands. Try working with your husband’s attorney to see what you can do to help your husband.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Children & I don't want to appear in court. Son admits to overrating to claim dad assaulted him. Do we have to appear?

My son, daughter and I have spoken to Guardian ad litem and explained what occurred. What are our rights that we don't want to go to court?

Daniel P Leavitt
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answered on Nov 27, 2020

If there is a subpoena for you to go to court you must go to court.

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Q: If a police officer says I may be subpoena in a future case and I did nothing wrong but was a witness, is it possible

Is it possible to get out of the subpoena? I witness a domestic abuse case and had some video footage. I have not yet submitted it to the officer

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Nov 10, 2020

You can definitely be subpoena by the officer or the Commonwealth Attorney's Office. If the subpoena actually comes, there isn't a way to get out of it as its a court order. If it comes from the prosecutor's office, you can actually contact them and tell them your position about... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: My ex abused me for a year and a half straight, and physically assaulted me a year and eight months ago.

I just got an EPO against him for stalking and harassing me. I have the screenshots of the recent event that caused me to get the EPO, and still have evidence from when he attacked me with screenshots of him admitting to hitting me, pictures of bruises, and verbally abusing me,

he got... View More

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Nov 10, 2020

unfortunately, it depends would be the lawyer answer here. It depends on how extensive the physical abuse was - if it involved strangulation (choking) you, that's a felony and could be punishable at any point. There will be an issue obviously with your recanted statement but you could still... View More

1 Answer | Asked in DUI / DWI, Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: If a judge says good behavior for a DV charge,and the ruling is AFTER you get a DWI, can he use the DWI against you?

Fiance received a ruling of good behavior for 2 years and the judge made the decision on June 1st. Well my fiance got a dwi while he was awaiting trial for the domestic violence. IF the judge made the ruling of 2 years good behavior, can the judge use the dwi against him, or would it even count if... View More

Paula Hough
Paula Hough
answered on Oct 12, 2020

Typically, an offense that occurred before the judge's order will not violate the "general good behavior" order.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Someone I was romantically involved with placed their hands on me at night and then called the police on me the next day

The police came out at 5:00pm (the incident happened the night before and I decided to not call the police.) Initially I said that I didn’t want to talk about what happened with them then the police said the person made accusations that I placed my hands on them and I needed to tell my side. I... View More

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Oct 12, 2020

This is highly unlikely. If the police responded and no one was arrested, it is unlikely a report will make it's way to the Commonwealth Attorney's office. Charges have to start in the system via going through the magistrate or a report to the Commonwealth Attorney's office to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: If someone is your only witness and they plead the fifth are your charges going to be dropped
Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Oct 8, 2020

Unfortunately, the answer is "it depends." There may be ways for the case to be proven without their testimony if the police were involved. They may not assert their fifth amendment privilege correctly and the court may compel them to answer the question or face contempt. It sounds like... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Criminal Law for Virginia on
Q: I am in the process of getting my Second Amendment Rights restored.< VA > I have 2 dismissed Domestics. Possible prob?

One was back in 2007 or 08. The other was 2018. Both Dismissed

Anthony M. Avery
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answered on Sep 10, 2020

You will need to get both Charges also EXPUNGED from your record. Dismissals do not also include erasing the charges from your criminal record. You will probably need a competent attorney, and I recommend calling the NRA for a referral.

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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: if my husband has a strangulation charge in Chesapeake and I have written a letter

to the common wealth attorney & the prosecutor that I'm no interested in pursuing charges do I still need to be at the preliminary hearing

Paula Hough
Paula Hough
answered on Aug 14, 2020

If you are given a subpoena, you are required to go to court. If you have concerns about testifying as a witness for the prosecution (commonwealth's attorney), you may want to reach out to a local attorney to discuss your legal options.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: My boyfriend was charged with his first misdemeanor DV charge. He has no criminal record. What will the court prob. say?

My boyfriend was charged with his first misdemeanor DV charge. The victim made a statement under the influence of alcohol and the police took pictures of arm scratches (did not break the skin). He has no criminal record. What will the court most likely rule? Will he go to jail?

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Jul 2, 2020

The answer to the question depends on a number of factors. Obviously with no criminal record and minimal injuries, things could be looked at very positively by the court. However, a domestic violence charge in Virginia carries up to twelve months in jail and up to a $2500 fine, if he is found... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can evidence from a previous DISMISSED DV case be used to convict a defendant in a new DV case?

1st DV case dismissed without any court proceedings. Victim didn't show, case dismissed.

2nd DV case 3 month later, prosecutor and judge used evidence from first dismissed case, to establish "history" and convict defendant, with bare minimum evidence for this new case.

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Jun 11, 2020

Typically, the answer to your question would be no unless they overcame an exception to the rules of evidence about patterns or modus operandi which means a method in which you operate to commit the crime. I would speak to your lawyer about what happened in court. You have a right to appeal... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: In Powhatan county Virginia I have a Protective Order for my children against my wife's paramour. How do I extend it?

My wife's paramour was found to have abused my children. I have full custody. The Protective order was issued after a Full Hearing was held with all parties present. The judge only issued it for 60 days so I could get it in front of my county's Custody court for a modification to make the... View More

F. Paul Maloof
F. Paul Maloof
answered on May 26, 2020

I regret that I do not handle protective order case or domestic relations matters. Sorry.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Does domeatic violence cases show on record?

If person called police for domestic violence but nobody got arrested, does it show on the person record or just a file was reported?

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Apr 8, 2020

If there was no arrest, there should not be anything on a criminal record.

3 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: My husband was charged w/ a class 1 misdemeanor for domestic violence. It’s his first offense. Can the charges be drop?
Brian M. Latuga
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Brian M. Latuga
answered on Mar 14, 2020

Virginia Beach does permit a Nolle Prosequi/ dismissal with a first offense depending upon the circumstances of the case. There are factors that prohibit a dismissal and lead to a trial by a judge. Every case is different. When in doubt, hire a lawyer. The victim of the case is always permitted to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: I was wondering what could possibly be the outcome at court for a class 1 misdemeanor for assault first offense?

I was intoxicated and argued with my husband and it got a little physical and was arrested for assault because he had a red mark on him .

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Feb 22, 2020

Likely you will be offered a first offender program: complete anger management, alcohol treatment if alcohol involved and maybe community service for dismissal of charge. Such a route is never eligible for expungement but at least a conviction is avoided.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: If I’m going to court for having sex with someone 25 when I was 17 What will happen

Will they ask for a dna test since I got pregnant, can he still get in trouble if I gave consent

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Feb 11, 2020

Any adult person who has sexual contact with a minor can still be charged with a crime even if there was consent. Sounds like this person needs to consult an attorney regarding his rights and defenses to see if there is something he can do to minimize the charges against him. The court could ask... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: My girlfriend & I got into a heated argument, she is now being charged with assault and battery.

One night, my girlfriend and I got into an argument, because she gave me her credit card to get juice, I ended up purchasing that along with a few items she wasn’t aware of. When she checked her bank she saw there was charges she didn’t recognize, as we drank alcohol she confronted me about it... View More

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Feb 7, 2020

Unfortunately, you have put your girlfriend in at tough situation. In most jurisdictions in Va, the Commonwealth Attorney's office will be involved on the case if she was charged with assault and battery against a family member. This will apply if you are in a relationship and having been... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Hello so me and my boyfriend got in argument and no physical contact or any hitting was involved but how ever he left

And came back he was angry and I was afraid so I ran and when I ran I cut my legs up like by wood branches how ever he never touched me or pushed but they did charge him with simple assault... what can I do to help him I dont want longterm damage to his life we do have a child in common and I love... View More

Daniel P Leavitt
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answered on Jan 11, 2020

It's up to the prosecutor to move forward or not. If you are the only witness then they would need your testimony to convict. It's best for you to probably retain a lawyer for an hour to go over everything with you.

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Q: I was charged with a misdemeanor simple assault on my girlfriend and didn’t get a lawyer should i?

She is still my girlfriend and is willing to come to court on my side .

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Jan 6, 2020

Even if this is a misdemeanor, if your case is assault and battery against a family member, there will be a lawyer on the other side for the Commonwealth Attorney's office who will prosecute your case. If that is the case, you really want to be careful about going in without an attorney... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: How to get a restraining order lifted in Virginia.

My fiance and I had gotten into an argument and the neighbors heard us and called the police. We were yelling but no physical contact was made. I didn't press the charges nor did I testify how can I get this lifted so we can finally get married and see each other

Shemeka C Hankins
Shemeka C Hankins
answered on Jan 6, 2020

First and foremost, who is the protective order against? The person who asked for the restraining order can go to the court to petition to have it dissolved by the court. Most protective order require someone to request it. If it was a restraining order that arose out of this incident, those are... View More

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