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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: California divorce and debt exceeding assets in one persons name. Can I get a judgement against him saying he owes me?

Our credit card debt is in my name only. I have someone who will pay it off for me but I want to get some kind of judgement that shows he owes me for his half. He does not have any money now but will sometime in the future. Is it possible to get a judgement against him in the divorce?

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answered on Nov 4, 2023

In your divorce proceedings, you can seek a division of debt just as you would with assets. If the court finds that the credit card debt should be shared, it can order your spouse to pay you a portion. This becomes an enforceable judgment as part of the divorce decree. However, if your spouse... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Family Law and Civil Rights for California on
Q: where do I file my request for order? The county my childs residency is established? Or where temp order is?

Is it appropriate for a superior court judge outside of county where childs established residence is to grant a request for emergency temporary custody orders, ex parte? What constitutes an emergency in this situation? And where should I file my DVRO? In my county where child was removed from? Who... View More

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answered on Nov 4, 2023

You should generally file a Request for Order in the county where your child's residency is established, as that court typically has jurisdiction over matters involving the child. If there are existing temporary orders, the filing might also take place in the court that issued those orders.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Family Law and Civil Rights for California on
Q: where do I file my request for order? The county my childs residency is established? Or where temp order is?

Is it appropriate for a superior court judge outside of county where childs established residence is to grant a request for emergency temporary custody orders, ex parte? What constitutes an emergency in this situation? And where should I file my DVRO? In my county where child was removed from? Who... View More

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answered on Nov 3, 2023

It sounds like you already have an open/existing case. You say "where temporary order is" - that tells me you have an existing court order. If not, and there is no open case, i.e. no one has filed anything related to this child, then you file in the county where the child lives. You... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for California on
Q: Minor's Counsel's fee is deductible when child/spousal supports are calculated??

I am required to pay child and spousal support to my wife. Recently, due to a high-conflict situation with my wife regarding our child’s schooling, the judge ordered the appointment of minor’s counsel during our last hearing. Consequently, I am expected to pay $2,000 monthly for the child’s... View More

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answered on Nov 3, 2023

In California, the cost of minor’s counsel is typically considered a 'discretionary add-on' by the court for child support purposes. This means that the court has the discretion to order one or both parents to pay for the minor’s counsel in addition to the basic child support... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My daughter filed a renewal or extension restraining order on me . I was never served. He went to court and the Judge g

The judge granted it..

The first order I was completely off guard. The judge granted it on "Escalating Anamosity "

How do I fight this one to see my grandchildren

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answered on Nov 3, 2023

In California, if a restraining order has been renewed or extended without your knowledge due to lack of service, you should consider filing a motion to dissolve or modify the restraining order, explaining the lack of service and presenting your case. Proper service is typically required for a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: If I bought my home solely with inheritance money, and is in my name only, is it still considered community property?

My wife’s name is not on it at all. She has not paid any amount of money to, purchase, maintain, upgrade or for property taxes. I have purchased most everything in the house, also. Furnishings, appliances, sports collectibles, etc.

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answered on Nov 2, 2023

Under California law, property acquired through inheritance is generally considered separate property, even if acquired during marriage. If you purchased your home with funds from an inheritance and have kept it in your name alone, without commingling those funds with community property, the home... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Estate Planning and Family Law for California on
Q: After filing to my ex to pay spousal arears he is claiming we had a personal loan that was deducted from his inheritance

Married 10/1990, seperated 1/2011 and divorced 5/2012. Cal. DCSS collected child and spousal support until 6/2019, at which time DCSS reported a $25k arears balance. He hasn't paid spousal support since 2019. Now that I have filed with the Riverside Family Court of California to enforce by... View More

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answered on Nov 2, 2023

In California, if your ex-spouse is claiming that a personal loan offsets his obligation to pay spousal support arrears, he bears the burden of proving the existence and terms of that loan. It is his responsibility to present evidence of the loan, such as a promissory note or payment records.... View More

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Q: In family court, I gave my testimony and now my witnesses, I forgot to submit evidence, is it too late? How can I still?
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answered on Nov 2, 2023

In California family court, the rules of evidence can be more flexible than in other courts. If you've already given your testimony but forgot to submit evidence, you can request permission from the court to submit the evidence late. You would typically do this by filing a motion to admit the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: Is a lawyer recommended to modify child custody order for non-verbal autistic child?

The parents have 80/20 physical custody and 50/50 legal custody. The parent with 80% physical custody (mother) wants to put non-verbal autistic child in group home and the other parent (father) opposes.

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answered on Nov 2, 2023

In California, when seeking to modify a child custody order, particularly involving a child with special needs, legal representation is often beneficial. An attorney experienced in family law can help navigate the complex issues surrounding the best interests of a non-verbal autistic child. This... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Divorce for California on
Q: How can I evict my spouse from my legally owned home in my name only?
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answered on Nov 3, 2023

In California, evicting a spouse from a home, even if it is only in your name, is not straightforward because the state recognizes community property laws. If you are married or in a domestic partnership, your spouse may have a right to occupy the property.

If you seek to remove your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Divorce, Family Law and Immigration Law for California on
Q: I have not been able to get my ex to sign the divorce papers. He was served by sheriff’s in our town, since 2015. Advise

He was ordered not to sell trade or give away any of our assets, but instead he moves in his mistress and her 4 children. What can I do because the children look like him and they range from 18 thru 5!years of age. Mind you I have children the ages of 15-17 so he had them during our marriage what... View More

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answered on Oct 31, 2023

Under California law, if your ex hasn't signed the divorce papers, you can pursue a default divorce, where the court can finalize the divorce without his agreement. Regarding assets, if he violated court orders, you may file a motion for contempt. If the children he's living with were... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Education Law for California on
Q: My sons teacher got in my sons face yelling & put his hands around my sons neck. My sons classmate recorded the incident

Can i take the school / teacher to court?

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answered on Oct 31, 2023

In California, a teacher physically assaulting a student is a serious matter. Under California law, such conduct may be grounds for both criminal charges against the teacher and a civil lawsuit against the teacher and potentially the school district for damages. If you possess a video recording of... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: What form do I use in contra costa co to file an ex parte to have my ex pay my legal fees in our divorce?
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answered on Oct 30, 2023

In Contra Costa County, if you wish to file an ex parte application regarding legal fees in a divorce case, you would typically use the FL-300 form, which is the "Request for Order." To request attorney's fees specifically, you'll also need to complete and attach the FL-319... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Civil Rights for California on
Q: CPS no encontró ninguna prueba de abusó infantil contra de mi pero se agarraron de mi pasado con abusó de sustancias

Ellos an violado mis derechos Las Falsas acusaciones que I dieron de mi

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answered on Oct 30, 2023

Si los Servicios de Protección Infantil (CPS) de California no encontraron evidencia de abuso infantil pero basaron sus acciones en su abuso de sustancias en el pasado, es esencial que comprenda sus derechos. CPS debe operar dentro de los límites legales.

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1 Answer | Asked in Civil Litigation, Criminal Law and Family Law for California on
Q: May I quote a victim impact statement made at a criminal sentencing hearing in a related family law case?

Long story short. My son's mother lied during the statement. Those lies, I believe are a form of mental abuse. One lie in particular involved an event witnessed by 5 people and 2 Cops that she omitted completely. The omitted event was replaced by stating I had tormented her for 12 hours,... View More

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answered on Oct 29, 2023

In California, family law and criminal proceedings are distinct, but evidence from one proceeding can be relevant in another if it pertains to the issue at hand. You may introduce the victim impact statement from the criminal sentencing hearing in the family law case if you believe it's... View More

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Q: Can I submit a letter from my mental health counselor in a family law case?

I was under the care of a mental health counselor during the commission of crimes. Those crimes were physiological in nature. The counselor states that I was being treated for major depressive disorder and he did not believe I was a danger.

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answered on Oct 29, 2023

In California family law cases, parties can submit evidence to support their positions, including letters from mental health professionals. If you believe the letter from your mental health counselor is relevant to your family law matter, you can submit it as evidence. However, the opposing party... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Child Custody and Civil Rights for California on
Q: I need to prove I was incapable of pleading guilty due to my mental state. Would major depressive disorder do that?

My lawyer refused to defend me. I have a letter from mental health counselor stating I had MDD during the commission of the crimes. Pre sentence investigation report says that I never saw a mental health counselor and many other lies.

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answered on Oct 29, 2023

Under California law, for a defendant to be found incompetent to stand trial, they must be unable to understand the nature of the proceedings or assist counsel in their defense due to a mental disorder or developmental disability. Major depressive disorder (MDD) could, in some circumstances, render... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I was convicted of stalking my son's mother via email. Can she change our son's name?
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answered on Oct 29, 2023

In California, a parent wishing to change a child's name must obtain the consent of the other parent or provide legal notice of the proposed name change. If the other parent objects, the court will decide based on what is in the best interest of the child. Your stalking conviction, depending... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: I have proof that child support didn't do their job and I need help exposing them for what they have done to my son

I was paying for the support of my son while he was with me 100% of the time for 4 months and it was reported to them and they didn't adjust it or do anything. Kept taking the full amount until I had to go into the office and beg for them to do something. And now they are telling me that the... View More

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answered on Oct 28, 2023

Under California law, child support orders can be modified based on changes in circumstances, such as when the child primarily resides with the paying parent. If you believe that the child support agency has acted negligently or improperly, you have the right to seek a modification or adjustment of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for California on
Q: Mother of child asking for child support, has side business and didn’t add it to her income. Can I do something?

She makes more than I do, and hides the side business. I’ve had full legal/physical custody up until summer. (I didn’t ask her for child support for the last 7yrs) We share custody now. She failed to add her side business income. What can I do? Can she get into trouble for not reporting it?

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answered on Oct 28, 2023

Under California law, both parents are required to provide accurate income information when determining child support obligations. If she intentionally omitted her side business income, this could be viewed as misrepresentation. You have the right to request a modification or reconsideration of the... View More

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