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1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: My little sister has ran away from her foster home. CPS has been at my house multiple times looking for her.

Dss will not stop coming to my house looking for my little sister. I willing let them in to look the first time after that I would not let them back in. They then took papers out on me for "contribute to del of a minor" what should I do ? No proof of anything just hearsay. Also can they... View More

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answered on May 22, 2020

My experience with DSS workers is not good. They often seem to gleefully abuse their power based on the flimsiest of evidence or even just their own bias and prejudice. Typically speaking you should never cooperate with DSS. As to what you should do now, you could likely benefit from a... View More

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Q: Total stranger was moved in ex’s house. He’s using my son’s bedroom. I’m concerned for my children’s safety.

Can I withhold visitation? Where is my son supposed to sleep? My daughter is 13. We know nothing about this man and the worst part is their father hasn’t even divulged that he’s moved in! Where is my 17 year old son supposed to sleep? He has autism and mentally/emotionally he’s not 17. Do... View More

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answered on May 19, 2020

More often than not, these types of concerns are more about disapproval of the ex rather than an actual legitimate concern for child safety. However, if you believe you have a legitimate concern, it is likely your best bet is to consult with a local family law attorney ASAP who can objectively... View More

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Q: If I’m 16 in the state of North Carolina and I’m in parental custody could I still sign papers for emancipation?
Melissa Averett
Melissa Averett
answered on May 18, 2020

Emancipation is more complicated than just signing papers. The following blog has the requirements for emancipation in NC. If you have additional questions, you will need to hire an attorney to assist you. https://averettfamilylaw.com/?s=emancipation

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Q: What is the next step when someone is violating an court order?

This is not the first time he has violated these, all I have are text messages proving that he is using my son against me because he cant get what he wants, which is me. I have sole custody but what else can I do to get more custody? But not take away his visitation?

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answered on May 17, 2020

If someone subject to a Court Order is violating the Court Order, typically the next step is to file a Show Cause Motion. If the person has no legitimate reason for violating the Court Order, a Judge will typically take some action to correct the violation. This action could take any number of... View More

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Q: I got a custody/visitation summons from my children's father. I live in NC. How do I go about answering to the summons?

He was verbally abusive to me and the kids. That is why we all three live in North Carolina with my mother/their grandmother.

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 7, 2020

You should have also received a Complaint, to go along with the Summons. You will need to file an Answer to the Complaint (not required, but certainly advisable), and most likely you'll want to file a Counterclaim for Custody, in addition to other claims (i.e. child support, spousal support,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Criminal Law and Divorce for North Carolina on
Q: My ex wife is trying to blackmail me in order to see my kids is that legal
William Jaksa
William Jaksa
answered on May 5, 2020

No. You should direct the question to a lawyer that practices family law.

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Q: There is no written custody agreement mom has been having child during week dad weekends Mom wants to move to Ashevlle.
Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 5, 2020

If there is no court order preventing mom from moving with the child, she can. However, if she does so without getting consent from dad or permission from the court, this could end up hurting her in a custody case.

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Q: My wife and I are separated and my middle daughter who is 13 has decided she wants to stay with her mother.

We have a contested separation agreement which defines us as sharing 50% custody. Her older sister who is 16 has also been with my ex-wife since we separated. My ex has pretty lax rules compared to me. I had to get these two and a friend released from Cary Police custody because they were... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on May 5, 2020

You'll need to file a lawsuit for custody, if you want to enforce your agreement and/or get more time with them.

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Q: Hello so i have 2 daughters and i pay child support and medical for my kids. Do i have rights to my children
Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 23, 2020

I am assuming since you are asking the question, you've been told by the children's mother that you have no rights and can therefore not see your children. Unless there is a court orders stating otherwise, the short answer is "Yes. You have rights." The extent of that right is... View More

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Q: If both of my parents are willing to emancipate me can I be emancipated in North Carolina without going through a court?

I haven’t lived with my parents in over a year. I am still in contact with my mother, but my family has been abusive my entire life, with my father being arrested for domestic violence, (my mother dropped the charges but we had a restraining order for a few months) and my mother being in a... View More

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 22, 2020

Short answer is: you'll need a court order. If you are almost 18 anyway, I'm not sure why you couldn't just wait until your 18th birthday to be able to make your own legal decisions. Contact an attorney to learn more about your options and the process of emancipation.

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Q: my mother has got emergency custody of my son today there is a hearing tomorrow what can i do

talking on the phone would be easier to explain the situation please call me at 828-618-0308

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Apr 6, 2020

First off, plan on going to court. Use the Find a Lawyer tab at the top to contact family law attorneys in your area with whom you can have a telephone consultation.

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Q: I’m looking for insight to obtaining custody of my child

My ex wife and I share custody of our son. When she initially wanted to leave, she was going to do so without any type of agreement. I put an order in place to prevent her from leaving with my child, then she turned around and put a restraining order on me, that was thrown out in court. We came to... View More

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answered on Mar 31, 2020

You likely would have likely had a better chance had you gone for custody from the beginning. If the child has been in AZ for at least 6 months, jurisdiction may be out there now which will likely put you at a disadvantage having to travel out there for hearings. You should consult with a local... View More

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Q: I have an open case against my son's mother in Cleveland County North Carolina she has taken my son and left the County

I am the one who opened the case against her do she have the right to move from one County to another County without letting DSS or myself know in the state of North Carolina

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answered on Mar 28, 2020

Unless ordered by the court to do so a person generally has no obligation to get permission from or tell others that or where are moving. In fact, sometimes the purpose of the move is so that others don't know.

1 Answer | Asked in Contracts and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Is a paper signed an notarized about custody a legal document ? Without going to court

My son's mother is ignoring me about our son an i have a paper signed by her that is notarized saying nither one of us would keep him from each other what can i do?

Angela L. Haas
Angela L. Haas
answered on Feb 27, 2020

You'll have to go to court, to either enforce the contract under a breach of contract action, or file for custody in court to get a Custody Order. The other issue is, if only she signed it and you did not, there is no contract unless you can prove that she signed it in exchange for something... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I want to live with my dad. Can I?

My dad entered my life when I was 13. We currently have been talking without my mothers permission. He is a recovering drug addict and a felon. I dont want to live with my mom anymore. I'm tired of being yelled at and mistreated. Will a judge allow me to live with my dad?

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answered on Feb 22, 2020

Likely not. If you are tired of being yelled at and mistreated. perhaps you should consider changing your behavior that results in you getting yelled at and mistreated instead of entertaining the likely incredibly bad idea of going to live with a recovering drug addict and felon who just entered... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Civil Rights and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: I need a good child custody lawyer who is willing to fight using facts against local DSS's deceit and lies...

I live in Wilkes County, North Carolina. The case is also in Wilkes. I will discuss what the case is about in detail upon finding the lawyer I need but it involves a whole lot of hearsay over actual facts. There have been a ridiculous 6 or 7 calls made to DSS, all questionable and none were... View More

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answered on Feb 20, 2020

Your big mistake was cooperating with DSS. The time to have hired an attorney was prior to making that very bad decision. However, you still need an attorney and ASAP but you need a local attorney. So your best bet is to shop around locally - most of the attorneys here will not be able to assist... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: I can count on1 hand how many times I see my kid and I pay child support. Mother moved her way to alaska.What can I do

She has moved her from north Carolina to Texas and now way to alaska. I miss my kid and hate I only can see her through a phone screen! Please help me out because I do not know what to do.

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answered on Feb 6, 2020

You need to hire a attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: Hello I am 16 years old and live wirh my dad and stepmom. My dad stays high and drunk every night when he gets home.

My step mom stays high all day too on any kind of pill she can get and does meth sometimes with her friend while me and my brother babysit her friends kid. My dad has hit me multiple times, he cussed me out and tells me he hates me all the

Time. My step mom is either passed out high or when... View More

Adam Bull
Adam Bull
answered on Jan 28, 2020

Sorry to hear you are in such a bad situation. You are doing the correct thing and are entitled to a safe and secure home, free from substance abuse and violence. Things you can do:

1) report the activity to your school counselor and resource office.

2) call the Department of...
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Q: How do I get my child's mother to let me take a DNA

She is now denying me DNA testing because I only want a relationship with my newborn an not her.

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answered on Jan 28, 2020

The mother can only do this if you allow it. Simply go hire an attorney and force her to comply with DNA testing. Of course, if the child is yours this will put you on the hook for likely at least 18 years of child support along with the grief and expense of fighting with her over visitation or... View More

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Q: I am currently separated (2 children of the marriage and 1 not of the marriage) since October 2019.

I asked my husband for a separation several times throughout the course of a yr he always told me no, we needed to work on it. He finally told me that he was NOT leaving the house (we rent) that if I wanted out I would have to leave. I couldn't take it anymore, so I finally packed up told our... View More

Adam Bull
Adam Bull
answered on Jan 25, 2020

So sorry to hear of your situation. You need to file for custody. I would not worry about claims of abandonment as the law recognizes the need to separate.

Consult an experienced family law attorney to review your matter and address your concerns.

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