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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: Can I take my son out of state when I'm not married to the father and we don't have a court order?

I have a child with my boyfriend. He is on the birth certificate. We live in Ohio, but our son was born in Louisiana. I want to take my son out of state to visit family for 10 days, but my boyfriend will object. Do I need his permission?

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jun 28, 2023

You do not need his permission, unless he has filed for and received an order allocating parental writes and responsibilities to him as well.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Appeals / Appellate Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Ohio on
Q: Can I file an appeal from someone in falsifying court documents and getting custody of my kids? And terminating my right

My aunt is a CPS supervisor here in Franklin County, and she offered to help me with my children until my youngest child was raised in at about 10 months. I was talking to her about getting my kids back and she was telling me that I was doing good and there’s not in the other and then oddly I get... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jun 24, 2023

Sadly. It sounds like the critical decisions were made 4 years ago. That is well outside the 30 day time-line for appeal. As mother you can always file for a change of legal custody of you can show a change of circumstances of either the child or the child's caregiver.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: It's been over 30 days waiting for my retainer fee and still nothing. What should I do it's 2300

My case was for child custody and my daughter decided to live with her. Mom so I canceled services before I ever seen this lawyer after I gave him the money now they don't want to give it back. It's been well over a month and it was $2300. They keep saying they're going to return it... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jun 21, 2023

WRITE the attorney ask for the refund and an itemized accounting of all activity done on your behalf. Also ask for any and all work product created for you. Give the attorney two weeks and if you do not hear back contact the local bar association and initiate a fee dispute with them.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: My friend just lost a custody battle to the mother but she had made false accusations and lied about documents in court

Lawyer has not responded back to me since April mother and her partner have history of child abuse even both getting kids taken away before. Broke into home we had together lied about stealing my items then later admitting to both lawyers she has it also made false domestic violence claims causing... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jun 19, 2023

I am not sure I see an actual question here. Often a loosing party feels like they would have won if the Court only knew that the other side lied about something. While witness credibility is important, courts consider many non-exclusive factors when determining the best interests of a child.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: can i ask for my attorneys fees to be paid by mother?

I filed for custody of my nephew who had both his parents give up custody 3 years ago. The mother doesn’t want me having custody so showed up to the hearing asking for her custody back. The judge set a pre trial and told her to file and get an attorney. I obtained an attorney and paid upfront but... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on Jun 19, 2023

You may ask but it is highly unlikely the court will award them. Mother may not be a good parent, but she is still exercising a fundamental right. I have only encountered a few cases in my 23 years of practice where a parent was declared a vexatious litigator and made to pay the attorney fees of... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: Can 2 females be on a birth certificate in Ohio?

I am fighting a nasty custody battle with my ex girlfriend. I carried the child and we used a member of my exes family as donor. The child has a "parent 1" and "parent 2" birth certificate, and my ex and I were not married. The ex only signed the birth certificate, and never did... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 30, 2023

It sounds as if this person has an attorney. If so she should follow that professional's advice. That being said, I believe that the birth certificate could be voidable rather than void. I think you will need to show that it is more likely than not that the birth certificate was issued... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for Ohio on
Q: I had custody of my children. The mother owed back child support. She ended up dying.

I never received the back child support she owed. I did receive survivor benefits on behalf of my 2 kids. After she died I began to have issues with my youngest child. He would run away, try to commit suicide and self harm. I would take him to the hospital but my insurance would constantly kick... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 24, 2023

Typically a benefit is only calculated into support if the child is receiving it as a derivative benefit associated with the obligor.

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Q: After filing for custody should I still maintain contact with the child if possible
Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 18, 2023

I do not understand why you would not absent a court Order restraining your contact.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: Can you file for partial custody or visitation rights with a protection order in place?

My fiance gets out of prison in 10 months, his children's mother filed a protection order against him claiming he threaten to hurt her in order to make it harder for him to get visitation because he refused to go home to her when he is released. She has multiple child service cases against her... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 15, 2023

The quick answer is "yes" and a court with jurisdiction over the children's custody can issue further Orders modifying visitation which may supersede a protection order. This is a very nuanced area requiring the advice of an attorney who regularly practices in that court.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: My daughters mother just filed for custody. We live in the same state but I was planning to move to Ohio (30 minutes) fo

For work. Would this hurt me or giver her primary custody?

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 4, 2023

Having additional distance between you and mother will not help you establish shared parenting. If you do not already live in Ohio, then the residence for the child for the past six months is the presumptive jurisdiction.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: I have a safety plan through CPS not court ordered never went to court. The person I had as my safety person is keeping

They are keeping my children from me. My daughter has an appointment today out in Morgantown to see if she has to get surgery the person safety plan told me that she canceled the appointment but is told other people that she does have an appointment tomorrow she will not tell me what's going... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 4, 2023

You need to write CPS and refer to the fact that you retain custody per your Safety Plan. Review the written plan to make sure this is the case. Ask in your writing for all documents concerning your child's medical care. Most importantly, you should seek an attorney to help with... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for Ohio on
Q: I no longer want my child, but my spouse does. If I abandon the household, but pay my spouse, will I be charged?

My spouse wants the child, works full time and I did not sign up to be a full-time caretaker after an unwanted pregnancy. If I abandoned the household and moved, possibly to another state, but paid my spouse a significant chunk of money every month to support the child will I go to jail for child... View More

Todd B. Kotler
Todd B. Kotler
answered on May 4, 2023

If you leave your child in the care of your spouse you will not be criminally charged. Your spouse may seek and likely get an order compelling you to pay child support. Ohio is a no-fault divorce state so the two of you may terminate your marriage for any reason, including incompatibility. Your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: The state was trying to take custody of my daughter so I am trying to give custody to her grandparents. Should I?

Do I have to give full custody or can I just do temporary custody until child services leaves us be? I was rushed to hand over rights to in laws so the state couldn't take my daughter but I am scared I won't get her back if I do this

Matthew Williams
Matthew Williams
answered on Apr 28, 2023

You should be extremely weary of any agreement concerning the custody of your child. Do not agree to anything you do not understand. There are agreements whereby the natural parent keeps a lot of rights and opportunities to change things down the road and there are agreements that really limit your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Appeals / Appellate Law, Family Law, Child Custody and Constitutional Law for Ohio on
Q: Can you think of a case that has won when the appellate files an appeal with the Supreme Court from the court of appeals

Juvenile court judgement to terminate parental rights and grant custody to agency. Appellate files appeal with the district court of appeals. Appeals court agreed with juvenile court. Appellate then files appeal with Supreme court. Has any case ever won at that point, if so I need a case number to... View More

Matthew Williams
Matthew Williams
answered on Apr 25, 2023

Something as broad as any case the appellant has won at the Supreme Court is unlikely to help you too much but here are two from a quick search of the Supreme Court's website: In re R.K., 152 Ohio St.3d 316, 2018-Ohio-23 and In re C.F., 113 Ohio St.3d 73, 2007-Ohio-1104. Yes, the Supreme Court... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Ohio on
Q: Does the custodial parent have the right to refuse to honor shared parenting agreement?

Ex is refusing to allow child to be with his father during his parenting time.

Bridget Sciscento
Bridget Sciscento
answered on Apr 21, 2023

No. Your ex is obligated to follow the terms of the Shared Parenting Plan provided that Shared Parenting Plan was signed by all parties and adopted as an Order of the Court. If your ex is withholding parenting time to which you are entitled or otherwise violating the Shared Parenting Plan, then... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: Can the mother of my child change my child’s last name without my consent in Lucas County Ohio?

We were never married. We both signed birth certificate in the hospital after child was born and was given my last name. Both parents signed affidavit of paternity in hospital.

Bridget Sciscento
Bridget Sciscento
answered on Apr 21, 2023

It is up to the Court. Paternity has been established. If Mom wants to change your child's last name, then you are entitled to notice of the proceedings, and you can present your case as to why it would not be best for the child's last name to be changed.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: I’m filing to switch custody of my nephew from maternal aunt to myself, paternal aunt.

The maternal aunt requested the change. She wants to have visitation in our new agreement. In addition to a motion of change in custody, does the maternal aunt need to file a motion for visitation? Or if our written agreement outlines a visitation schedule is that enough?

Bridget Sciscento
Bridget Sciscento
answered on Apr 6, 2023

If you an maternal aunt are in agreement, then you can likely draft an Agreed Judgment Entry asking the Court to adopt whatever custody plan that you come up with. So, if you and maternal aunt can negotiate an agreement outside of Court and write it, then you can file that with the Court with an... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: I am wanting to legally sepe/divorce from my husband and we have minor children I would like support ordered for him to

I'm not able to afford and honestly don't even know where to start to get the process going

Joseph Jaap
Joseph Jaap
answered on Mar 27, 2023

Terminating a marriage is a difficult decision to make, even more so with children. If you file for divorce, you could ask the court for temporary child support, temporary spousal support, and for your spouse to pay your attorney fees while the divorce is in process. Use the Find a Lawyer tab to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: I am being harassed over text. Should I take action?

My coparent and his wife continuously harrass me over text. They attack me, my character and parenting style. No threats of harm have been made. I do not respond to these messages yet they continue to send them. I don't block their number because my son lives in their household during... View More

Nicholas P. Weiss
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answered on Mar 27, 2023

If you don't have an existing custody order, I'd recommend pursuing one and making a condition of the order being that everyone uses a third-party messenger service, like Our Family Wizard, to communicate. The benefit there is that anyone, including the court or GAL, will have instant... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Ohio on
Q: How likely is the court going to sway in side of mom getting custody during a divorce because husband is mentally…

Emotionally abusive in front of the children? Will it matter who files first? Mom pays for all health insurance and healthcare, dad does not contribute. Mom works from home but is primary care taker of the kids.

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answered on Mar 27, 2023

With mom being primary caretaker and paying for most things, a likely starting point for any parenting plan will be the standard parenting time guidelines of whatever court the divorce is pending. Would need a lot more information on the emotional abuse part for anything further.

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