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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is there a way to become a legal guardian of my stepdaughter? We haven’t heard from her mother in like 7 years.

No child support has been paid or phones calls or any trying on her part. My husband (her father) has full custody. Is there a way for me to become a legal guardian? She is 16. I want to eventually adopt her. Just not in a place to be able to do that right now.

Lindsey Willis Andrews
Lindsey Willis Andrews
answered on Jul 25, 2018

The best answer is to consult with an attorney regarding current guardianship laws and what is an appropriate filing in this circumstance.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: My husband and I want to adopt our nieces. Currently my parents have full custody of them. What should we do?

My husband and I live in Oklahoma, while my parents live in Tennessee. My parents were awarded full custody in the Fall of 2015. They have not yet adopted the two girls, but are wanting to adopt them as well. Both of my neices parents have been known drug users and in and out of jail. I'm just... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Mar 22, 2018

You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in Tennessee , for help with this problem if an adoption is pending there, or to help file one for you.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: My husband and I want to adopt our nieces. Currently my parents have full custody of them. What should we do?

My husband and I live in Oklahoma, while my parents live in Tennessee. My parents were awarded full custody in the Fall of 2015. They have not yet adopted the two girls, but are wanting to adopt them as well. Both of my neices parents have been known drug users and in and out of jail. I'm just... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Mar 9, 2018

You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in their area in Tennessee for help with this problem. Since the kids are there, that's where an adoption must be filed. You can also contact their DHS Caseworker and express your concern about drug use, and let them know about your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for Oklahoma on
Q: after two years in foster care an my children haven't been adopted yet an Ive made significant changes can i get them

I had to sign my rights up to my 4 children almost 3 years ago. 2 where adopted an 2 an still in foster care. Im working with casa to get my oldest back but i wont both back. I live in Oklahoma but this happened in Texas. I was told if children haven't been adopted by two years they have to... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Mar 6, 2018

This is really a question under Texas adoption law since your case is there. Ask it in the Texas forum. Good luck.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: how do i give full custody of my new born or allow my mom to adopt in oklahoma my baby daddy agrees with the arangement
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Mar 4, 2018

The adoption process is very complicated, and requires a lawyer to do it. Your mom should hire an experienced family law attorney to help her ASAP. In the mean time, just voluntarily let Mom take care of your baby. I think it's great that you care enough about your baby to see that... View More

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Q: Me and my fiance have parental rights but dont have custody and dhs said no about adoption to brother although approved.

Dhs said no to my fiance's older brother that is licensed Foster parent that past everything but because of our two infant daughters being in the temporary home she's been in for well over a year they think it's best for our two daughters to be in the same home and not moved out of... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Mar 1, 2018

You have a very complicated situation, which cannot be properly answered here. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem and advise you on the DHS issues. Good luck.

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Q: I’m a mother to a 4 year old girl and her father hasn’t seen her but twice when she was a new born and hasn’t seen her

Since he pays child support but my gf soon to be wife wants to adopt and (he) the father isn’t on any paperwork or anything is there anything I can do to get his rights completely taken away and stop child support

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Feb 27, 2018

When a child is adopted, parental rights and child support are terminated. However since he is paying child support, he must be notified of the proposed adoption. I'll bet he will consent to it since he has shown no interest in the child.

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Q: My son was adopted October of last year my rights were terminated and I finally talked to the father who didn't know

About him and I was just wondering if he could still get a DNA test and maybe take custody since he never gave up his rights

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Feb 17, 2018

Adoption is a very complicated legal process, and I need much more information than you provided to give you a good answer. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this adoption problem.

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: I was being considered to have my grandchildren placed with me from Texas. Is dui in last five years a denial?

Okdhs told me this it was misdemeanor

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 30, 2018

Probably not, but not sure about Texas standards. Call a Texas attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Oklahoma back child support/ non-biolgical father wants to adopt

I want to adopt my little girl, been her dad since she was 8 months old she's 4 now, her sperm donor has 7 kids, sees 0, none of them, hasn't paid a dime towards my daughter. I'm fine with that, but why is it that he still has a right to her, when he has shown no interest in being... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 27, 2018

Yes, you will be able to adopt her. The bio dad shouldn't be a problem. You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this adoption .

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: If your mom adopted a kid but now does it want it can I can I get custody of it
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 26, 2018

There are many factors in awarding custody. If your mom will voluntarily let you have custody now, try it for a while without paperwork. Then You should consult an experienced Family Law Attorney, in your area, for help with this problem. Good luck.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for Oklahoma on
Q: How to request legal cousnel due to income to reapond to petition for adpotion in oklahoma where they say no constent ne

I am on ssi and can not afford attorney how do i get oklahoma to help me in this matter to reapond to petition and help me in court .but i live in kansas they are McIntosha County , Oklahoma

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 22, 2018

Gosh, sorry you are so far away from McIntosh County. First, I would ask the Judge to appoint an attorney for you. Before doing this however, you should phone some attorneys who practice in that county, and see if you can hire them with a down payment you can afford, and a payment plan for the... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Family Law and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I'm 15 do I have a say so where I wanna live and choose where my siblings live with a family member we r being fostered

I'm in a foster home it was temporarily for my mom to get us back well she's not I wanna live with my grandmother and my siblings with their aunt and uncle for them to be adopted do I have any say so?

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Jan 8, 2018

Your best bet is to discuss this with your DHS caseworker and see what the DHS attitude is about what you want. Also ask when the next Court date is scheduled, and tell them you want to be there. The Judge should have appointed an Attorney or Guardian Ad Litem for you, and perhaps even a CASA... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: If you sign over your rights and you have another child will they take it automatically
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Nov 30, 2017

There is no "Automatic" taking of a child from a mother. At the time of the birth there have to be conditions with the mother and her home situation which pose a danger to the child in order for DHS to intervene, and take the child, then you would be entitled to a hearing, and a court... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My 16 yr Daughter wants to terminate her fathers rights and have my husband adopt her. How hard and costly would this be

Her father has had minimal contact with her in 2years, has only paid $515 in child support since May 2012, the last payment of $100 was in October 2015. He doesnt call her, he did call on her birthday in December. She seen him at Christmas but that wasnt because he tried. She went to her Grandmas... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Nov 26, 2017

Yes, it appears your child is available for adoption. Sorry I didn't see this question earlier. In my experience, about $2500 is the minimum fee an attorney would charge for adoption, but in your case perhaps a little more, since two cases must be filed. The case to terminate his rights, then... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My grandparents adopted me as a baby. My grandparents kept in contact with my birth mom and she would pop in my life...

Every now and then. I am 27 now. I do not get along with my birth mom and I don’t want her influence around my children. How Can I keep my birth mother away from my children? My child’s mother and I are not together and my birth mother reaches out to her to see my child against my wishes. I... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Nov 26, 2017

I don't think there is too much you can do legally, unless your birth mom poses some danger to your children. If so, your should discuss this with an experienced family law attorney.

Your best bet would be to sit down, face to face, with your ex, and tell her how you feel about this,...
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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: my ex husband and I split in March of 2013. We didn't marry until August 2007 when I was pregnant with my second child.

to make it shorter I had brain surgery had to settle he got primary. He let me see them then just stopped. I tried everything and nothing. no contact. he was living with his pregnant gf in nov 2015 when I got to file after getting back to work and I didnt get any response for my er order until... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Nov 26, 2017

You need to hire a NEW experienced family law attorney IMMEDIATELY, to appeal, or get another hearing. There is a 30 day time limit involved. Before you get a new attorney, instruct your current attorney, IN WRITING, to file a motion for a new trial. Good luck.

2 Answers | Asked in Adoption and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I am raising my 6 yr old nephew since he was 3 weeks old due to his drug addict mother abandoning him and abusing him

I have guardianship which she has known about this whole time and has been in trouble numerous times for drugs, now at guardianship court 6 yrs later she is lying and saying she never knew I had guardianship. She even had appeared at guardianship court 3 yrs ago. She has never done anything for... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Nov 17, 2017

Make sure your attorney knows all the history of the case and they will be able to review the court file and let the court know she had notice.

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