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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I file a motion to reconsider from motion for enforcement was denied??

Since the day of denied hearing she has stopped following orders visitation being the important one

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 26, 2021

Did you try to represent yourself at the hearing or did you have an attorney?

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Civil Rights for Oklahoma on
Q: Judge transfers an emergency protective order to another county then sets a court date for a review is that an error?

At a final hearing for a protective order Judge didn't give defendant a chance to present a defense or challenge personnel jurisdiction for no service. Upon learning that there was a custody case pending involving same two parties an order transferring the continued emergency protective order... View More

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 26, 2021

Judges always combine the PO hearing with the pending family law case. Why did you show up to the hearing if you were not served? If you appear at the hearing you submit yourself to jurisdiction of the Court usually. The Judge will probably strike the 90 day review. They set review hearings so... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I'm on SSDI and me and my girlfriend were wondering if I sign the birth certificate and I'm going to anyways

Do I have to pay for child support cuz we are together and we don't want to do anything with child support cuz she knows I will pay for anything that child needs and she needs

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 24, 2021

No, you don't have to pay child support if you are together. Your child can receive benefits if you are on SSDI.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I am 18. I live with friends and grandparents. My mom wont support me. I want to go to college. Can I emancipate?

I have a part time job and will get a full time job when I graduate. I want help with financial aid so I can better myself and go to college. What do I need to do to be emancipated

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 23, 2021

You don't need to emancipate if you are 18. Good luck with college!!

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I’m 17 I’ll be 18 in four months my mom always cusses me out and says I need to be responsible for my siblings.

She’s always drunk and doing dope I don’t want to be around that’s anymore she takes off and leaves us at a hotel we’ve been homeless for about four months. I don’t want to be with her anymore she’s always in my face and pushes me she say she don’t care what happens to me she took my... View More

Jessica Brown
Jessica Brown
answered on Aug 20, 2021

First, that's a lot and this is probably really heavy on you.

I'm not sure exactly what you're asking for you and what you want to do. You have a bunch of different options, but they all come with different explanations and consequences.

If your goal is for you to...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: For a step parent to adopt the child do the step parent an biological parent have to be married?

Even tho the Step parent and biological parent has been together for almost 6 years

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 19, 2021

Yes, he/she is not a step parent unless you are married.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: He can still get custody an visitation even tho he abandoned the child for 6 months?

Son's dad moved to Florida only met my son for ten minutes. Has no bond with him hasn't helped support him an now wants to be involved is that not child abandonment can his rights not be terminated?

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Aug 19, 2021

Unless there is a court order stating otherwise then it is still his son and he has rights. As far as the second part of your question in terminating his rights - there are two ways to terminate a parents rights and both require the role to be filled by another. 1) is a step parent adoption, or 2)... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Social Security for Oklahoma on
Q: I am 18 years old and I want to change my last name to my birth dad's last name he died when I was seven what do I do

My grandpa who was his dad said I could and if need to we could do a DNA test with me and him but it's a complicated situation because my dad died when I was seven and I have no records of him except pictures when I was little and he signed in as my dad when I was born but never put on my... View More

Kenneth Prigmore
Kenneth Prigmore
answered on Aug 18, 2021

I do not practice in Oklahoma, but your question appeared in my email today. Most attorneys will talk to you for free to see if they can help you. I recommend doing a google search for "oklahoma name change attorney". This will give you the contact info for several attorneys that... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Child Support and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I move out of my toxic parents environment 3 months before turning 18?

The family willing to let me stay with them, would help me get my car back, get a job and help me with an apartment. And my biological family said I could leave.

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 17, 2021

You could file a petition for emancipation with the court.

3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Can police issue a contempt ticket on spot if 6 yr old will not go with father for court ordered visit?

Mother makes the daughter feel bad for leaving her. So the daughter won't go with the father. Police have been involved but won't tear daughter from mother. Understandable, but it is court ordered. So, can the police issue a contempt ticket on spot or do we need to go to court?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 17, 2021

I agree with the other attorneys. If it is your visitation that is being denied hire an attorney to enforce your visitation. There is a procedure that is much faster than contempt to enforce visitation order. Your attorney will be able to explain your options.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If the father of your child signed the birth certificate and the waiver for paternity that means he is the father

He signed a waiver denying paternity also saying he know he is his through vital records what does that mean

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Aug 15, 2021

Not sure your exact question but paternity issues can be very complex or very simple. Many factors come in to play, one being the birth certificate that you mentioned, the age of the child, etc…. You should contact an attorney to help you with this so that something is not missed.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: If paternity derceee states this do I just give him that day or do I allow for second day if not stated?

Paternity decree states if father is in the area, he is allowed in person visits as long as he gives mother a 10 day notice. The visits will be supervised by mother and last three hours if parents can not decide on a time and there will be no more then two visits in one week. Father has asked for a... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 12, 2021

An attorney would need to actually see your order before trying to give you specific advice. With that said and in general terms, if a parent comes from Oregon and wanted to visit two days while in Oklahoma, I would have to believe a court would find that to be a reasonable request.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: In oklahoma what rights do stepparents have
Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Aug 11, 2021

You have no legal rights as a step parent unless a Court Order states otherwise.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What is the next step after judge signs to have your name changed?

My 18 yr old step daughter changed her last name from her bio moms last name to her dads last name. I'm not sure what her next step is.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 4, 2021

She would then change her name on her official documents to reflect the new name.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What do I need to do or what can I do about a charge that is false, Domestic Violence and Asslut and Battery...

My Daughter who is 17 is pressing charges on me, with the advice of her friend and friends mom which is unexceptable,, she doesn't live with me she lives with dad in Talequah and I stay in wagoner,, I can't understand how this is fair or even possible to go on... Please I don't know... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Aug 1, 2021

First thing is hire an attorney now. Dont wait until later. Do not make any statememts to police or discuss this case with anyone other than your attorney.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I get an itemized statement showing all payments&charges on my case? I'm the non-custodial parent.

Why is DHS still taking the full amount of support, $556, even though both of my kids have turned 18 (as of 1/16/21) and are out on their own? Since the case was established $506 went to current and $50 went to back. I thought once current ended only the $50 for back would be collected unless she... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 24, 2021

DHS will often continue to take out the same amount unless/until the wage assignment is changed. You can get an attorney to help you try to lower the payment. You can also request an accounting of payments.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: does opposing counsel have to provide emails between paralegal and client? even if they filed a motion to compel
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 24, 2021

Are you represented by an attorney?

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Civil Rights for Oklahoma on
Q: does a paralegal have to turn over emails between client to opposing council

a paralegal and client have confidential emails. the opposing council filed a motion to compel. Since being refused those emails. does the other council have to produce those emails to the opposing team?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 24, 2021

Do you have an attorney representing you and supervising the paralegal?

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: How long does a legal ad in a paper have/need to be published for?

My daughter wants to change her last name to mine, her mom, she’s 14 almost 15. I have filed the petition and a hearing has been set. I know he lives in the city but that’s it. I was told to publish it in the paper so he has the opportunity to object. He’s not really in her life and not in a... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 22, 2021

In addition to publication you may need to also serve the father notice. Name changes are covered by 12 O.S. Sec 1631. If you are not sure what to do or how to do it, you can save a lot of time and frustration by hiring an attorney to help you.

Best of luck!

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