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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it possible to sign my rights away to my out of control 16 year old?

He runs away constantly, has wrecked cars, is using drugs and alcohol, stolen cars, and violates curfew constantly. Dropped out of school and has been inpatient 5 times over last 7 months.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 13, 2021

Sign rights away to who?

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3 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What can I do to get my kids back in a domestic violence case?

DHS took my kids, I've done everything they have asked me to do and they are saying I'm not making progress at all, I've done everything they've assigned me to do and even changed my attitude and behavior and they are still looking at terminating my rights, they wont let me live... View More

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Jul 13, 2021

You need an attorney. In OKC, they have attorneys on contract that represent parents when DHS is trying to take your kids from you. Contact the juvenile court in Tulsa and see if someone can get an attorney assigned to you if you cannot afford private counsel. Good Luck!

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: How can I get rid of a supervised visitation order? I don't understand how I have one.
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jul 11, 2021

"How can I get rid of a supervised visitation order?"

You would need to modify the order that requires supervised visitation. If you believe there is no longer a need for supervised visits hire an attorney to assist.

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Are there centers that deal with holding the visitation. I have guardianship of my baby sister.

The mother is also my mother, and when I ask for them to for example not put their mouth in babies mouth for health concerns, they steam roll over me saying they’re the parents and they can do what they want, but they aren’t even deemed safe by the dhs. Court order says they are allowed... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Jul 10, 2021

As my colleague stated you can always request a neutral third party to be the supervisor. However, while they are technically correct that they are the parent, there is a reason the guardianship was put in place and it is your job to protect the best interest of the child. You may also try to get... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Am I required to leave my house if an emergency ex parte order is not granted
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 25, 2021

If you own a house you are entitled to live there unless there is a court order saying otherwise.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for Oklahoma on
Q: Can I adopt him? Procedure and cost. Do I need lawyer?
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 21, 2021

You will need to provide some additional information to get a useful answer such as:

Are you wanting to adopt a child or an adult? (It makes a big difference)

Is everyone in Oklahoma?

Easiest way to get an answer is to call an attorney to discuss the details. The attorney...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for Oklahoma on
Q: He's 26, I'm 54. He doesn't want his real birth parents on his new.paperwork

I love in Oklahoma and he's currently at an air force base in ND WITH hisband and their 3 kids

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 21, 2021

Can you please clarify your question. Not really sure what exactly you are asking.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Adoption for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a friend who was disowned by his parents for being trans. We talked about adopting him and are wondering cost?

Would like to know.process and cost

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Jun 21, 2021

Please contact my office for a free consultation. There are many factors that come into play in an adoption and in order to get an accurate assessment then there are more questions to be asked than can be done in this forum.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I'm wanting to know what "cause stricken" means with DHS pursuing a noncustodial parent who has not paid child support.

The noncustodial parent does not have custody and has not paid anything since it was ordered by court during the divorce finalization.

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on Jul 13, 2021

It sounds like the pursuit of the non custodial parent was cancelled. Contact DHS to find out the status if you are the custodial parent. They will explain it to you.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Support and Juvenile Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What should my friend do if them and their brother are threatened to get kicked out when they're under 15?

My friend is currently living with their grandmother because their mother is trying to get up and off of her feet and get them a house of their own, but their Grandmother and Grandmother's boyfriend are threatening to kick them out again, and then they'll be back on the streets again.... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 15, 2021

Where are the parents?

Report abuse/neglect to DHS.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can a former Judge who was recently over my childs custody case. Resign as Judge, and then turn around and be a partner

With the mothers Attorney against me? Is that not a conflict of interest?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 12, 2021

Same answer. The attorney and the former judge will probably know and have worked with many of the other local attorneys. Not necessarily a conflict.

You should have your own attorney and then you won't have to worry about who is representing the other party.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can a former Judge that was on a childs case be a partner with one of the parents attorney? Wouldn't that be a Conflic

Also, can the Assistant District Attorney be a friend with the mothers Attorney, and has also worked with the mothers Attorney?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 11, 2021

An attorney who has been around for a while usually knows the other local attorneys who practice in the same area of the law.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Tax Law for Oklahoma on
Q: How do I get my children's social if she wont give it to me? I'm the head of house hold.

I found out by DNA that I'm the father of twins in Dec of 2020. I am not on the birth cert. I moved to Oklahoma February 24th. I currently provide for the entire family. My two 8 month twin girls, her 7 yr old girl, her 17 year old son and her. she said she's moving out and i want to know... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 31, 2021

Best place to start is hire an attorney to file a paternity action to establish your rights. That will help you get a visitation order, child support order, and get the information you need for insurance purposes.

Concerning the custody of infants: As a practical matter, you would need some...
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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: Can the primary custodian keep kids from goin to other parents, jus cuz they are grounded?
Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on May 30, 2021

Based on the limited information in the question the short answer is NO. The child being grounded does not supersede a court order visitation schedule.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Civil Rights and Domestic Violence for Oklahoma on
Q: Is it a violation of due process if a clerk never sends the EPO & court date to sheriff's office where defendant lives?

The 1st hearing was passed for no service. Next hearing Defendant stated lack of service and that he had a pending family case in Tulsa county. The judge ordered the case to be transferred to Tulsa.

Was creek county supposed to have served defendant before ordering transfer? Or did... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on May 20, 2021

If the defendant appeared in court then the court now has personal jurisdiction and service is made.

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I’ve been my 4 yr old granddaughter’s legal guardian for well over 3 years. Would visitation thru courts be possible

She has been with me 24/7. For the past 3 months her dad has started spending some time with her including 1 or 2 over night stays per week. Her mom has been in life a bit more often but only bc I am the maternal grandmother. My question is due to her dad not caring about the bond she has with me... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on May 20, 2021

If you are the legal guardian then ultimately you have the control over the child and where they stay or do not stay. There was a reason the court put the guardianship in place to begin with. Contact an attorney to discuss your options but based on the limited information that is given here it... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My fiancé has a child with his ex she will not allow him to see the child or have visitation because of me

His ex will not allow visitation of their son due to her not liking me or the child he and I had together he hasn’t paid child support because of a job situation so she is now adding that to a the reason he can’t see their son they have done a paternity testing and proved he is the father. They... View More

Anna L Self
Anna L Self
answered on May 24, 2021

Yes, your finance an file for visitation. He will also be required to pay child support. He should hire an attorney to make sure the paternity has been established and get support and visitation ordered by the Court.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Our daughter was taken into Emergency custody on Dec 21 2020. We had an Adjudication hearing on May 4 2021.

We did have a court appointed attorney who wouldn't work with us. My husband works from 6am to after 4 Monday through Saturday. We tried to email her information and asked for conference calls and she refused. When we arrived at court the day of the the Adjudication hearing the attorney asked... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 9, 2021

If the case was continued then you have time to hire an attorney to help you with the case. Meet with an attorney so they can review your case and once the attorney has a handle on what has happened they will be able to explain your options.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I have a VPO against my ex for domestic violence. We are currently going through informal mediation for child visits.

My brother is the mediator. We were court ordered to go through third party visitation. Can he quit? His name isnt on any paperwork and we never signed any agreements.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on May 6, 2021

Did the court approve your brother to serve as mediator? Mediators usually have formal training so not sure how that is possible unless what you mean is he is a visitation supervisor.

Either way, sounds like you are in desperate need of an attorney.

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