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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I’m 17 years old I live in a group home and I am in DSS coustody can they move me outta state without my consent

Also can they move me when I’m about to be 18 in less than 8 months

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answered on Nov 27, 2020

The short answer is, likely yes. Until you turn 18 - you are a child and if DSS has custody of you, they can do with you pretty much as they please until you do turn 18. Your best bet is to do the best you can to make whatever they do as tolerable for yourself as you can make it. When you turn... View More

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Q: If my mom calls the social worker and they take me with my mother's consent can they place me with a family friend?

The family friend is certified to become a foster parent does that affect the situation?

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answered on Nov 25, 2020

That call your mother made was likely a huge mistake. Once DSS gets their hooks into your family business - they are the ones pretty much calling all the shots and very often not even an attorney can fix things. It is possible they could place you with the family friend but ultimately it is their... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: I am 17 yrs old & I want to move out. I live in Thomasville NC. Can I leave without parental permission?

I am 17 and I’m tired of my living situation. I have previous work history and I have experience with paying bills. I pay my phone bill every month and 1/3 of our rent. I have my own car as well. I also buy my own clothes, hygiene needs, and food. Basically what I’m saying is I know how to take... View More

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answered on Nov 25, 2020

The answer to your question as asked is yes, you can leave without without parental consent but the answer to the question you likely intended to ask is no, you can not leave without parental consent without possible being forced back if your parents care that you left. Yes, your Aunt could get in... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: If there's a court order can a parent deny visitation because she's worried about covid?

Mom from Arkansas is saying she's worried about covid so she will not bring minor child to meet dad from NC in TN for Christmas break. There are court orders for visitation for summer and Christmas. Child was with dad this past summer.

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answered on Nov 23, 2020

Worried in general - likely not and if she does deny visitation on that basis alone, you can likely have her popped pretty hard for it depending on the terms of the Order. Worried because you or someone in your immediate family you reside with has Covid or there are travel bans or some other... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning for North Carolina on
Q: Do I need a lawyer to execute a will?

I'm executor of my father's will, he has no belongings to speak of as he is in assisted living, and has a couple of bank accounts, he is in failing health with Alzheimer's

Thank you

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answered on Nov 20, 2020

It basically depends on whether you want assurance that it is done correctly. Typically, finalizing things under the circumstances you describe is not too difficult even for a lay person with no legal experience. Best of luck.

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: Can you remove an intervenor from a case? Court placed my kids not dss. How do I go about getting them back?

My children falsely accused my current husband of abuse. All criminal charges against him were dropped. Now the intervenor said she will not give my kids back without a fight. I had no case against me but yet the court still placed them with the intervenor because I knew the allegations against him... View More

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answered on Nov 18, 2020

You are simply not competent to fight the legal aspect of this fight and will need to retain a family law attorney in the county in North Carolina that the case is in. You consistently refer to the person who currently has custody as the 'intervenor' - odds are it is your mother (or... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: What would be the best course of action, to fight against a dismissal when it is brought up in a custody case? (repost)

I was arrested for attacking my wife but the case was dismissed (year a ago). I understand that stays on my record. I'm about to start custody case with a different woman. I know she will bring up that attack. Can I object to that? or better option?

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answered on Nov 17, 2020

You can object to anything. The real question is whether your objection will be sustained. That depends on factors such as the law, the Judge and how good you are at presenting and arguing a proper objection. Typically, cases with merit do not get dismissed - they are also typically not... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for North Carolina on
Q: In NC, can I be sued for alienation of affection? I had an affair with a married man

He was very unhappy, and we met on a dating site. I did not know he was married until I had already developed feelings for him. Can his wife sue me if I was not the cause of the problems? They separated soon after we met and are getting a divorce now. He was unhappy for a long time before me, but... View More

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answered on Nov 16, 2020

Can she sue you - yes. However, based on your description her odds of winning a likely less than slim and none. She would need to prove you purposely or at least knowingly broke up what was otherwise a happy marriage. So you likely have nothing to worry about. The other thing is if you are like... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Traffic Tickets for North Carolina on
Q: what does it mean when a lawyer says you have outstanding matters in your case
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answered on Nov 16, 2020

If it is in reference to a traffic ticket case an attorney is currently handling for you, then it likely means you have other tickets that you haven't taken care of that are still outstanding and need to be resolved. If you have an attorney currently helping you, this is really a question... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can my husband leave the state with my children

I need advice on setting up visitation with my children as we are separated. He is threatening to leave the state with my children and file for custody.

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answered on Nov 16, 2020

You likely need a formal written Separation Agreement that resolves your marital issues while you are separated including child related issues such as custody, visitation and support. This can be done for a relatively affordable flat rate fee of around $250 for most average couples. As to whether... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: If I move out of the home I live in with my husband to seperate, can I take our children with me? Buy a home myself?

Would he be entitled to the home I bought for myself and children while we were seperated waiting the one year to get a divorce? Should i get a custody agreement in court first before moving out? Can he get me for failing to continue to pay HIS mortgage after I leave? My name is on deed not... View More

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answered on Nov 14, 2020

It would be best to have a formal written Separation Agreement done before you move. If you can be fair with each other, all of your marital issues (including child related issues of custody, visitation and support) can be resolved for a flat rate fee of around $250 for most average couples. If... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Traffic Tickets for North Carolina on
Q: I got a speeding ticket for going 15 over a year ago, could I take a defensive driving class now to reduce points?

And reduce the penalties to my insurance? Or is it too late?

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answered on Nov 14, 2020

Likely not - at least not yourself. What you should have done is hire the cheapest traffic attorney you could find to have handled the ticket correctly for you in the first place. Since that ship has sailed, you now likely understand why paying it off (if that is what you did) was a really bad... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning for North Carolina on
Q: My father died, testate. He was legally separated from his wife in NC and his Will did not include his wife.

His Will listed me as his executor and i have filed probate. His wife have taken possession of his belongings. should i continue paying his rent and other bills while awaiting on a decision from the court even though a decision has not been made by the courts.

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answered on Nov 12, 2020

Your father can not cut his spouse completely out of his will. She will be entitled to take what's called an elective share. As to rent, there is no longer a need to pay rent so if you can do so you should likely stop paying any expenses that aren't final expenses. You should consider... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: I’m 16 and I want to know if I can choose which parent I want to stay with

Nun of my parents have custody over me but I want to move in with my mom but my dads telling me no what do I do could I just move in with my mom and I live in North Carolina

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answered on Nov 12, 2020

At 16 you are still a child and technically are not competent to make decisions like that. However, realistically as long as no one makes a stink about it yes, you could in essence choose. Even if someone were to make a stink and it did go to court, at 16, most Judges would like to at least know... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Support and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: Can my income be added to my husbands income for his ex wife to get more money in monthly child support?

I also have a child from a previous marriage that I care for and we have a new baby together. (3 kids total) He has been consistently paying $600 a month for 5 years. His ex wife now wants to increase the amount because he is remarried to me and wants my income taken into consideration to increase... View More

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answered on Nov 11, 2020

What the ex wants and what she will get are two different things. Your income does not factor into the calculations for his child support and your income is not a basis for modification (if everything else has remained the same). However, your new baby together may possible lower his obligation... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody, Constitutional Law and Legal Malpractice for North Carolina on
Q: Should this Judge have recused himself?

At the time of the hearing, I was not aware that the judge's cousin is family with the plaintiff's wife. The plaintiff is the father our child and his wife is the stepmother. The judge gave primary custody to the father. Essentially, I filed 3 DSS investigations after my daughter... View More

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answered on Nov 11, 2020

Based on the limited information you provided, I would say - likely not. If you represented yourself, that alone more than anything else is likely the reason the case turned out the way that it did. If you had an attorney, you should be asking your question of your attorney. If you did represent... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for North Carolina on
Q: Wife and I are separating. I have a loan in my name alone, got while married, are we both responsible for the loan?

The wife and I are currently separated and wife drew up some standard separation papers from the internet and not through a lawyer. The wife and I got a loan one year ago to help with bill. The loan is only in my (husbands name) because i had better credit at the time. We both were knowledgeable... View More

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answered on Nov 11, 2020

In North Carolina, it depends on whether you signed the internet agreement and whether it it was properly drafted and executed and addresses that issue. Typically a loan in just your name is going to be just your responsibility unless you file for equitable distribution and a court orders... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for North Carolina on
Q: The mother of my boyfriends children popped up unexpectedly a day ago, she recorded an argument between he & I. She is

Now threatening to take the video/audio to court to say that I am threatening the safety of her children even though the argument was away from the children and between him and I. how do we handle this If she does try to use the clip in court ?

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answered on Nov 10, 2020

The best way to handle it was to not have let your boyfriends ex anywhere near you or your property especially with time and opportunity for her to record an argument. However, since that ship has sailed, how you handle it will depend on 1) if she follows through with her threat or not -... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Juvenile Law for North Carolina on
Q: Hiwhat to do when the older sibling(21) has decided to pickup/keep the younger one(14) without my knowledge or consent?

I do have a Dss history my children were in custody at a foster home for 3 years I regained custody of the younger child 10/2017 however the older child aged out in foster care In June of 2017!. I have been sober since 7/7/2016. The minor is a transgender male and I have some nothing but be... View More

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answered on Nov 10, 2020

If you have custody, it is likely kidnapping - call local law enforcement and have the older sibling arrested. If law enforcement refuses to assist by calling it a 'civil matter' you will need to retain an attorney. Best of luck.

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Q: If a domestic case has shown bias and prejudice against one party can you transfer venue?

Found out Judge was on previous case 5 years prior to this one and is familiar with defendant. Has shown obvious bias and unethical procedures in case so far in domestic case where spouse is dependent, disabled, and has no income except disability. Judge favored spouse that was the predominant... View More

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answered on Nov 9, 2020

You really can't change venue now that the order has been issued and the case likely concluded. The time to have requested a change of venue would have been before the case was heard. Likely the best option would be a Rule 60 (b) motion and then look into possible remedies for recusing the... View More

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