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Q: Can ex-spouse request custody change in closing argument in Illinois?

In Illinois, can my ex-spouse request a drastic modification in parenting time, changing from every other weekend to joint custody, solely through a closing argument brief in trial court? We have a temporary agreed parenting plan that has been in place for approximately one year and is working... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

In Illinois, modifying parenting time requires filing a formal motion with the court; it cannot be accomplished solely through a closing argument in a trial. The court will assess any proposed changes based on the child's best interests, considering factors such as each parent's wishes,... View More

Q: How can I challenge a child neglect record with DCFS due to biased witnesses and credibility issues in Illinois?

I have been placed on the state record for child neglect by DCFS due to an incident involving my oldest child’s mother. During a custody exchange, a confrontation occurred when I lowered her phone as she tried to record my fiancé. My ex started hitting me, pulling my hair, and scratching me. I... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

To challenge the child neglect record in Illinois, you’ll want to first gather all evidence that supports your version of events. This includes any discrepancies between witness statements, police reports, and court testimony. If you believe the officer's statement was inaccurate, try to get... View More

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Q: Can I move out of state with my child without a legal custody agreement?

I want to move out of state with my child. There is no legal custody agreement or court order in place. My child regularly sees his father, and I have a plan to ensure he continues to see him after the move. I plan to notify the father a few weeks in advance. Will this be legally permissible since... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

Even though there is no legal custody agreement or court order in place, moving out of state with your child without the other parent’s consent can still lead to legal complications. In most cases, a custodial parent needs either the consent of the other parent or a court order if they plan to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: What is a 1401 motion in my Illinois child custody case?

I have a child custody case where my child's father committed interference with custody. After three years of not seeing my child, his aunt returned my son to me. The father then accused me in court of taking our child, and now we are involved in a court case. A guardian ad litem has been... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

A 1401 motion in Illinois refers to a petition filed under **Section 2-1401 of the Illinois Code of Civil Procedure**. It’s used to ask the court to reconsider or undo a final judgment or order, typically based on new evidence, fraud, or some kind of mistake that happened during the original... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Child Custody and Sexual Harassment for Illinois on
Q: What can I do about my son's abusive father

He's forced me down on him my wrist was sprained hes left dark purple bruises on my son from spanking him very hard and smacked his face to where he was so scared of his father and keeps telling me he doesnt want to go he tells me he is scared of his father at age 3 a child is scared of his... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Apr 4, 2025

Call SWAN. It is a shelter for women and children in Olney. Open 24 hours. 618-392-3556. They can provide shelter, food and clothing, help with an Order of Protection, counseling for women and children. They will help you find a job, get transportation, do a resume, work with the police, take... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Civil Litigation and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: My son's father lies in court and took my son despite custody arrangements.

My son's father tells lies in court, such as claiming he is employed at Casey's when he lost his job three to four months before our last court date on August 14, 2024. Despite having primary custody, he promised not to take my son away but did. He has weekly visitation rights for four... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Apr 4, 2025

Call the police and DCFS for child abuse. Take pictures of bruises. Get a birth to 3 evaluation to get him extra help for speaking.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: What can I do if the mother won't return the kids despite my custody?

I have legal custody of my children, and their mother was supposed to return them after spring break, but she hasn't. It's been 13 days since I talked to them. I was supposed to pick them up at 6:00 tonight, but it's now 10:30, and her house is dark. I've been to her house... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 29, 2025

She should get a ticket from the police for unlawful interference with visitation. You need to file a Petition for rule to show cause to have her held in contempt.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Can vacation time be added to overnights for child custody in Illinois?

I have 11 overnights with my child out of a total of 28 nights, and I also have 2 weeks of vacation time with my kids in Illinois. Can vacation time be added to the calculation of overnights? Additionally, how do these affect custody or child support arrangements in Illinois? I am trying to... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 24, 2025

Read here. When each parent has 146 nights this is the calculation.

https://brelaw.com/new-illinois-child-support-law/

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Q: Legal recourse for alleged illegal purge order and incarceration in DuPage County, IL family court.

In 2021, I filed a pro se appearance in a family court case in DuPage County, Illinois. In 2022, my attorney filed an appearance on my behalf but withdrew in 2024 while I was still under an alleged illegal contempt purge order requiring me to pay 75% of my net income, which I couldn't meet.... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

It sounds like you are dealing with a complex situation involving a contempt purge order and incarceration in DuPage County, Illinois. Since your attorney withdrew and you were not notified that your pro se appearance was still active, this could be a procedural issue. You may have grounds to... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Do I need a lawyer to regain custody of my daughter from her guardian?

I had my daughter when I was young, and at 3 years old, she was placed with her paternal grandmother due to a DCFS intervention. She's now 9, and despite my efforts in court 4-5 years ago, the grandmother was granted plenary guardianship. I've since stabilized my life—I have my own... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 17, 2025

Yes, you need a lawyer. This is not a DIY endeavor.

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: My wife refuses visitation with our child post-divorce announcement. What are my options in Illinois?

I told my wife that I wanted a divorce, and she took our three-year-old child and started living with her mom about a week ago. She is now refusing to let me see our child, citing concerns that our family home isn't safe. I haven't been able to visit my child at her mother's place,... View More

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answered on Mar 17, 2025

You need to get into Court as soon as possible. Unfortunately, Courts are your best remedy available when spouses cannot agree. I would contact an attorney near you to review your options so that you can get parenting time.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Arbitration / Mediation Law for Illinois on
Q: What to do after receiving a Rule 13.4(f) referral order in a post-decree case?

I have received a Circuit Court Rule 13.4(f) Consolidated Referral Order related to a post-decree allocation judgment case. The other parent has gone to court to obtain mandatory mediation, seeking specific changes regarding holidays and wanting me to drive the children to their residence, which is... View More

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answered on Apr 13, 2025

When you receive a Rule 13.4(f) Consolidated Referral Order, it typically means that the court has referred your case to mandatory mediation to resolve the dispute. The first step is to carefully read the order and understand what the court is asking of you. Make sure you are aware of the mediation... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Arbitration / Mediation Law and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Can my ex restrict out-of-state visitation for holidays and summer?

I am a stay-at-home mom who moved to Texas with the knowledge of my children's father after we split. He has temporary primary custody of our children, aged 8 and 5, who reside in Illinois. I have been able to visit them in Illinois only twice since July, as I depend on his approval. We are... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 11, 2025

It seems that said restrictions would be unlikely as long as you have a licensed person to get you and them around. A graduated visitation schedule is the best approach since you have not seen them regularly.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Employment Law for Illinois on
Q: How can I safely move with my son to Illinois away from his aggressive, substance-using father?

I want to leave the father of my child, with whom I am unmarried, and move my son back to Illinois with the support of my family. There is currently no formal custody arrangement, but I plan to set one up once we relocate. The father will likely oppose the move, and he has been aggressive towards... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Mar 10, 2025

Find out what relocation laws are in the state you are in and what you have to comply with there, if anything, prior to moving to Illinois.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Illinois on
Q: Can I regain custody of my daughter after ex-husband's death?

My ex-husband passed away yesterday. He had legal custody of our 11-year-old daughter, and she is currently with his wife. Our custody agreement allowed him to decide on visitation, but he never permitted me to interact with her. Since his death, I've attempted to contact my daughter, but her... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Feb 24, 2025

This is not a DIY case. You need a local lawyer to file a Petition for habeas corpus for you. How old is the child? The stepmother has NO LEGAL RIGHTS.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Illinois on
Q: I’m needing to transfer custody of my unborn son (due date 1/26/25) to my mother.

Im needing to know what forms or steps i need to take to do this. This is a mutual agreement, all sides are in agreement to do so.

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Jan 23, 2025

It needs to be signed by the mother and the father. It is called Appointment of Short Term Guardian (google to get form) and is good for a year. No court action is required. Keep a copy for yourself that is signed.

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Q: Cannabis use and child custody during divorce
Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Dec 16, 2024

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Q: My 13 year old doesnt want to see her father. He wants to stop paying child support and sign his rights over. Can he?
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answered on Dec 2, 2024

Not unless someone is willing to adopt the child. Parenting rights and responsibilities are not the same thing. He still has financial responsibilities to support the child even if he does not want to exercise his parenting rights to have parenting time with the child.

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Q: Our custody agreement says that either of us can have extra parenting time as long as its prearranged and not to be

unreasonably withheld. I asked for our son this Saturday (a day early from my normal pick up) to celebrate our Thanksgiving. My ex is now trying to deny this time as retaliation because I would not acquiesce to his demands a few days ago. Do I have legal grounds to take my son if he tries to stop... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Nov 29, 2024

If someone wishes to revert bank to the paper schedule, it controls. If you want to modify it, go ahead and file a modification.

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Q: Can u legally have ur child's last name changed to yours by filing it in court as an adults name change?

I have a 7 year old daughter with a man that has been in and out of her life the full 7 years mostly out of her life. At 5 months old He went to our local county courthouse and had her last name changed to his within 2 weeks and all without my consent. I recently found out he filed the name change... View More

Cheryl Powell
Cheryl Powell
answered on Nov 20, 2024

Look at the court file. Does it show that you have been served?

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