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Q: I want to dismiss a domestic violence charge because the person has ADHD it that possible
Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Aug 22, 2017

If you are the complainant, it is really out of your hands and in the Commonwealth's (prosecutor's) hands. The person with the ADHD should hire a local experienced criminal defense attorney and should share both the fact that he/she has ADHS AND that you don't want to proceed with the charge.

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Q: I have trial on a DV charge on Tues in VA. I am in the hospital in MD. What can I do if I am still in the hospital?

The DV charge was filed by my sister who fell why running out of the house with my file of papers. I was down in Abingdon, VA visiting my dad, but I live in Baltimore, MD. I tried calling my public defender but he has still not responded. My sister said she would not pursue the charges, but I... View More

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Aug 19, 2017

You can call the clerk's office of the court you are to appear in and let them know that you are in such and such hospital, providing the room number and phone number for confirmation on Monday morning.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Employment Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Is there any way to seal 18.2-57.3 so this college educated fellow who made a mistake over 7 years ago can get a job?
Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Aug 19, 2017

Under current Virginia law, if there was an admission of guilt or a find of facts sufficient (usually in a first offender program), such a charge can NEVER be expunged (what folks mean when they say "seal").

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Q: Can a domestic violence arrest be expunged in Virginia if the arrested completed the first offender program?
Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Aug 11, 2017

If there were facts found sufficient to support guilt, under current law, you can't expunge that charge or possess a firearm.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: What is next about my domestic assault case: will face more fail, can my wife ask to drop charges?

Hello,

My wife have severe mental problems. She changes from being very happy to angry in seconds and she gets violent. No matter what I do or say once she sets her mind she get attacks and hits me. So protect my self lately I hold her down until she calms. Once she realizes what is... View More

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Aug 7, 2017

You should be worried. A conviction for domestic assault will prevent you from ever possessing or owning a gun. And it does sound like you have a defense. You need to hire an experienced local criminal defense attorney right away to represent you. Your wife simply saying "it was her fault... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence, Federal Crimes and Landlord - Tenant for Virginia on
Q: Is there a way to tell if someone was charged or accused of a crime if they weren't convicted?

My room mate is a bit dodgy of a person, so I want to know if there's a way I can check and see if he's dangerous based on his criminal record and any accusations or charges he may have had.

F. Paul Maloof
F. Paul Maloof
answered on Aug 3, 2017

Can't help you. I do not practice criminal law in Virginia.

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can a dismissed felony be reopened and brought back to trial? (Less than a year has paced since incident)

Felony assault charges dismissed because victim panicked out of fear on the stand and claimed "not to remember what happened". Victim now is open to testifying against her attacker.

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Jul 16, 2017

If the case went to trial and was dismissed by the judge, the case cannot be brought back. If the prosecutor nolle prossed (with drew the charge) the case before trial, but that nolle pross was not done with prejudice, the case can be brought back.

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Landlord - Tenant and Small Claims for Virginia on
Q: I live with a person who is on the least, he does not help to pay the rent, the electric, or the cable bill.

I am unemployed who pays the bills every month. I have talked to the apartment manager, but all they care about is money. What can be done about this?

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Jul 4, 2017

Your question does not appear to be a criminal defense question; my field is criminal defense. You should be asking speaking to an attorney who practices in the area of landlord tenant.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: This is my husbands 3rd domestic violence charge by county. Will sentencing be worse? Will these ever leave his record?

First one was on his mother, second on me, and 3rd on my 15 yo son. We can't afford an attorney and this will probably get him kicked out of the shipyard. I can't work and am waiting for disability to go through... I have no clue where my boys and I are going to live

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Jun 17, 2017

If your HUSBAND can't afford an attorney, the court will appoint the Public Defender's office or a court appointed attorney. He has likely been charged with a class 6 felony due to 2 prior convictions, if he was indeed convicted on the domestic offense charges involving his mother and... View More

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Q: I have documented domestic violence history spanning twenty years. My state requires I extend my protective order every

Two years? I feel this violates my pursuit of happiness. How do I launch a const complaint in a court not of record?

Gary D. Godman
Gary D. Godman
answered on May 8, 2017

Two years is the maximum allowed by law. The judge does not have the ability to issue a protective order for longer than that, even if he/she wanted to do so. You could consider reaching out to your state legislators about the issue, as they are the only people in a position to change the law.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can I see record of me being placed into custody as a child with my grandparents due to child abuse when i lived in Va?
Gary D. Godman
Gary D. Godman
answered on May 2, 2017

It may take some leg work, but you could start by finding out what local court placed custody with your grandparents. Then you would have to request your own records from that court, and you may have to do so in person because of the confidentiality requirements of those type of proceedings.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Once charges have been dismissed, can they be brought back up?

Obstruction of property in juvenile and domestic relations court. I asked for charges to be dropped. S/O says he received papers with my name on them from courthouse. Charges were dropped 7 months ago.

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Apr 18, 2017

You need to either go back to your attorney and ask this question, or go to the clerk's office of the JDR court where the charges were dismissed and ask for a copy of any paperwork relating to your charges.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Why did I have to sign a waiver of public representation at a show cause?

The original case was assault & battery at the Juvenile & Domestic Relations court. I missed court and got a subpoena for a show cause. During that time they gave me a card to come back to court again for the assault and battery but the judge told me I cannot have a lawyer and I'm not sure why.

Steve Miyares
Steve Miyares
answered on Apr 18, 2017

You have a constitutional right to an attorney and the judge can not prohibit you from hiring the attorney of your choice. However, it sounds like the judge may have determined that you do not qualify for a court appointed attorney or public defender. You must meet the court's standards for... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: When I do show up to court and refuse to testify against her what will or can happen next.
Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Apr 4, 2017

It will depend on which prosecutor is assigned to the case. There likely was statement from you at the time your spouse was arrested. That can be used. Your spouse should have a lawyer and perhaps that lawyer can work with both of you to resolve this case. This is definitely not a situation... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Can I be compelled to testify against my spouse in a domestic violence charge if I am served a soupeana.

My spouse was arrested although I did not sign the complaint. Spouse was issued a emergency protection order for 4 days against her.

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Apr 4, 2017

You could exercise your 5th amendment right to remain silent at the hearing but the Commonwealth is not likely to be very happy. You did not need to sign the complaint. You or someone else informed the police that your spouse may have assault you. If you are subpoenaed and don't show up for... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law and Juvenile Law for Virginia on
Q: Can a 13 year old child that is abusive and disrespectful to his family be placed in a juvenile detention center?

My little brother has been extremely disrespectful and abusive to my mom and me for years and I'm not sure what needs to be done.

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Apr 4, 2017

I would suggest looking into meeting with a family counselor before getting involved in the court system.

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Q: I was issued an emergency protective order against me for domestic abuse, for 72 hours, no charges were filed

She did not want to press charges even though her boyfriend did. I did not see a judge, I was not arrested, the police just brought the paperwork to me, can I still be charged and arrested at a later date if she so chooses? Even though I did not break the protective order? Also I live in... View More

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Mar 30, 2017

A charge of assault could still be brought but it would appear unlikely since you were only issued an emergency protective order. If charges are later filed, you can argue that the delay caused you harm in preparing your defense. It is possible that after the 72 hours have elapsed, a lengthy... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: can children who are age 12 and 15 that were witnesses to event be forced to testify

The children can testify that I never choked, pushed down or shook my wife by her forearms. They were witnesses to the event, won't they have to testify if I call them as witnesses?

Gary D. Godman
Gary D. Godman
answered on Mar 21, 2017

Children can be subpoenaed to testify to what they've seen. Speak to your defense attorney about your trial strategy, and please don't post info about your criminal case on public forums such as this. Keep it between you and your lawyer.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: My ex has threatened to kill me and stalked me for years. Im afraid to call police ... is there another/safer option?
Glenn B. Manishin
Glenn B. Manishin
answered on Mar 6, 2017

Seriously? Move away, buy yourself a firearm for protection, file a civil lawsuit for assault and get a "protective order," there are lots of options. The police are still the best however.

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Constitutional Law, Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for Virginia on
Q: Is there a way my ex-girlfriend could go to the police station or magistrate after already filing assault and battery

I work for the federal govt and have to maintain a security clearance. My ex-girlfriend assaulted me and I didnt call the police. The people who were there that witnessed it did. I told the police what happened and declined to press charges. Obviously the commonwealth picked it up and in between... View More

Susan Fremit
Susan Fremit
answered on Jan 25, 2017

Unfortunately, she could be charged with misleading an investigation. When her attorney tells her this, she is not likely going to want to risk being charge with a criminal offense "coming clean". Even if she did come clean, the Commonwealth may feel that she is being "pressured to... View More

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