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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My ex boyfriend is threatening to kill me and my whole family.

Hes extorting me as well slandering me big time.on Facebook. Im ready to turn this all into the police. But I have a warrant. So would I get arrested too? I have a job so I can't afford to go to jail for a few days until I see a judge.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Apr 8, 2018

you might....but i would need more info.

i would worry about my life more than a warrant.

maybe you could hire a lawyer (or get a public defender) to appear on the warrant and set it aside.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: If a 16 year old girl hits her mother can she file charges against her daughter...state of California

She was told by police no because she didn't have a weapon. Just curious how that makes it ok

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Apr 5, 2018

IF SHE HITS YOU IT IS CLEARLY AND ASSAULT AND BATTERY AND COULD BE AN ELDER ABUSE...DEPENDING ON THE FACTS................BUT NEED MUCH MORE INFO

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Federal Crimes and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I was charged with dv for throwing a plastic container with ranch towards my bf face. He was bleeding & called cops.

Cops came & arrested me right away. He was bleeding from the outside of his nose. They recorded the injuries. But then the next days he said he didn’t want to put charges on me & he bailed me out with $3,500. We are on good terms now & still live together but I have court on May 14,... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Apr 4, 2018

You should have your lawyer explain the facts to the DA....either an appointed or retained lawyer...

You committed the act but he does not want to prosecute.

HOWEVER, the Victim is the people of the State of California. It is not up to you to press charges. If a crime is committed...
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2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: am i allowed to see exgirlfriend if i’m facing a pending dv felony charge? didn’t press charges nor did she ask for RO

it has been almost a month since i was bailed out of jail and i was told that my ex girlfriend did not want to press charges nor did she ask for a restraining order. my court date is on may 14th. since my release she has tried contacting me but i have not responded. am i allowed to see her or will... View More

Louis George Fazzi
Louis George Fazzi
answered on Apr 4, 2018

My advice is do not contact her under any circumstances.

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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence, Family Law and Immigration Law for California on
Q: Can my bf apply for a visa or green card if he has a misdemeanor in domestic violence? Or could I petition for him?

He has been convicted of a misdemeanor in domestic violence and will be doing 30 days in a pay to stay prison program. I am a citizen and we have a son together. I’d like to know if he has any way to apply for either a visa, work permit, green card, or If i myself can petition him once we get... View More

Carl Shusterman
Carl Shusterman
answered on Apr 1, 2018

Interesting question. A domestic violence conviction makes him "deportable", but not "inadmissible".

Therefore, if you marry him, you can sponsor him for a green card.

Please see https://www.shusterman.com/greencardsthroughmarriage/

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My husband was charged with domestic violence that is untrue although we were arguing and I had injury yet not from him.

I was in shock and honestly don’t recall ever stating that he was the cause. I felt harassed and coerced by the cops putting words in my mouth and the preliminary report I saw blatant lies. Was called by the da office today could not talk at the time, and they are calling me tomorrow. I want to... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 28, 2018

need more info

someone called police and if you said he touched you it is hard to change your story.

you need to hire a lawyer or use Public defender to review report and all evidence.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Man w/ 2 prior strikes, is considering 12 years plea on a parole violation to avoid 3rd strike....

1st strike in 93 cntrlld subs intent sell. W/ firearm 11370.1(a)HD pled guilty served 7(?)years then stayed out of trouble for 7(?) Years

2nd strike in 2014, 1st degree residential Burg. 459-460(a) PC w/M burg tools.

Served 85%of 4 year sentence . Was out 6 months then violated... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 28, 2018

a lawyer needs a lot more info

i assume if he got an offer he has a lawyer. that is the person you should talk to as s/he has all the info in a file and i do not.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: we got a lawyer for my husband’s domestic violence case in california.

lawyer said that the DA is already aware. now we are just waiting on the next step from the DA. how soon can we hear from the DA? we were told we should get a letter in the mail, no mail yet and also if there was no action done within a year that the case has been void.

im tired waiting and... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 28, 2018

NEED MORE INFO

YOUR LAWYER SHOULD BE CHECKING WITH THE DA ON A WEEKLY BASIS AS I DO TO BE SURE NO FILING YET.

THEY DO NOT SEND LETTERS OF A FILING. THEY JUST FILE AS A BENCH WARRANT.

ASK YOUR LAWYER TO CHECK WITH THE FILING DEPUTY IN THE DA'S OFFICE

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Domestic violence shelter

if a lady goes to a Domestic violence shelter but has an active case against her ( but no warrant and is working with the judge) do they have to turn her over to the cops this is being ask for a friend in California with kids

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 28, 2018

need more info

however, if there is no warrant I do not think there is a duty to turn anyone in.........

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My boyfriend was arrested for domestic violence but it didn't happen.

Am I supposed to call somebody? It says he is suppose to be in court tomorrow. Should I be there? I has been crying and cop took of my face saying my eye looked red. I got a call saying they were going to press criminal charges. Nobody will talk to me. I don't know who his lawyer is. I was... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 22, 2018

if the police are called and they see what looks like an injury or you or a wit tells them of an assault and battery they arrest for DV and there is $50k bail.

you should discuss this with your boyfriend's lawyer to try to get the case dismissed.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Constitutional Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Public defenders have a 68% conviction rate mine threaten me with 8 years and tried having me rearrested.

I need a civil rights attorney one that does common law or pro bono work I pretty much dissected my case myself but I need to have somebody help me fill out papers for a writ of mandamus or a quo warranto. Being that the Attorney General only accepts papers that are filled out and signed by a... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 22, 2018

as a rule the PD's have the best handle on what is happening in the court room.............they are there everyday and know how each DA and Judge think.

a 68% win rate is pretty darn good.

a PD does not give you a sentence they just pass along what the DA or Judge has...
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2 Answers | Asked in Civil Rights, Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I suspect my ex girlfriend is charging me with DV. I never touched her however. She caused a scene and police arrived.

I waited for my ex outside her home recently in efforts to retrieve property she had taken from me. I have no means of communication with her other then messenger but she had blocked me, so I decided to wait outside her home and confront her. She willingly walked to my car where We spoke. I said... View More

John Karas
John Karas
answered on Mar 20, 2018

DV is the hot new crime being charged as a criminal offense. You absolutely do NOT want to talk to the detective without legal representation. Your Miranda rights to remain silent are useless if you don't exercise that right...but not 1 on 1 with law enforcement who will take that as an... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What are the consequenses to a social worker putting false information in a dv report? How can I address this issue?

What can I do too take the next step to get my daughters back?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 17, 2018

MORE INFO NEEDED.

YOU SHOULD HIRE A GOOD LAWYER IN YOUR AREA.

GIVING FALSE INFO IS ARGUABLY PERJURY AND THEN YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF WORK.............

IN THE MILITARY THEY LOSE A RANK IF THEY HAVE A DUI

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Got in a fight with my wife. Took her purse, I bit her hand to release tbe purse. very minor scratch on her hand (1 mm)

Witness called the police,I got arrested, charged with 2 felonies: Robbery of my wife’s purse (that I paid for) and Domestic violence (very minor injury in hand). I left the house, got arrested later.

I admitted to police on both charges.

Out on $50,000 bail.

Wife does... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

you do not have to injure someone to get a DV..........a shove could do it.

it is not up to your wife to decide if she wants to drop the charges..........the crime is against the people of the state of california.

you should hire a lawyer and arrange for her to get a separate lawyer...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My partner and i argued and he got physical, he tried "strangling"me.

I was issued an emergency protective order but it expired within 5 days. I didn't press charges and didn't file for a restraining order. Can i visit him in jail?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

really need more info.

however if you have not been ordered/rec'd a Restraining order i guess you could...................the worst that can happen is they do not let you see him.

how i think you will be able to do so

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My boyfriend was arrested for DV I didn’t press charges how do I get him out?

He was arrested in Sonoma county I didn’t press charges but they still took him it’s his first time offense he had a clean record ! How can I help ? Is there anything I can do ? How long can they keep him in there if no one post bail for him ?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 16, 2018

if police were called when there was a physical altercation they are going to arrest whether you want to press charges or not.

the Victim is the people of the state of California

you should tell his lawyer you do not want to press charges or testify and he might suggest you get...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Hello ,I have domestic case where my ex girlfriend and her daughter said that I hit them with my fist

I’m just trying to know what will happen cause so far all they have is what they have said. They haven’t heard my side of the story.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 13, 2018

more info needed.

did you hit/touch them? if so that is battery at the least and if wife it could be DV

if they called the police and their is a report then you need a good criminal lawyer.

you probably posted $50k bail? correct?

you have a court date to appear for...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: How long will the father of my daughter be in jail for first time domestic violence?

I pressed charges on Sunday morning for domestic violence and he’s been in jail since then. My question is when will he get out. The abuse was minor I only have bruises on my leg and little scratches on my hand. He’s never been to jail he had a clean record prior to this.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

a lawyer needs a lot more info

what is his record?

what courthouse?

what judge?

who is his lawyer?

who is the DA?

what did you tell police?

his bail would be $50k and it could be filed as a felony or misdemeanor.

his should have an...
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1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Hi im a victim of battery have broken finger because of that but im pushing him away first its that affect my case to

Him cause im the one who called the police and press charges.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

need more info

if you have a broken finger from pushing him and he was not aggressive and did not attack you then what did he do wrong............?

you are only a victim if you did nothing wrong and you were hurt by someone else

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: If my spouse gets arrested for domestic violence(Fel) but i dont want to press charges, will the state still convict him
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Mar 8, 2018

more info needed.

but yes the state will still prosecute but whether there would be a conviction is another story.

how badly were you injured?

you may want to hire a lawyer to explain to his lawyer/DA that you are not going to testify............though they can still pursue...
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