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Q: can I ask for money for the marital if he is contempt?
Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Feb 7, 2018

If the other side is in clear violation of a court order or Judgment, the Court can order your counsel fees and expenses of pursuing the Contempt if that is what you are asking. The Court also has the authority to appoint special masters to complete sale transactions and to transfer realty in... View More

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Q: Removing name from mortgage during divorce.

I’m getting a divorce an I’d like to know If I trade the marital home for other assets during mediation can the Judge order my name be taking off of the mortgage right away? Does the spouse keeping the house will be able to refinance it regardless of her financial situation (more likely she... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Feb 2, 2018

Yes, provisions in a separation agreement can express that a refinance of your name off of the mortgage take place within a certain time frame or a sale is to occur.

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law, Divorce and Civil Rights for Massachusetts on
Q: I’m getting a divorce. Is my partner responsible for half of my students loans I just acquired 3 months ago?

I just finished my associates degree and I would like to know if my partner should pay for half of my loans.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 24, 2018

The factors on property division are also applicable to debt division. Without knowing the circumstances and the duration of the marriage it is not possible to respond other than that if divorce was already contemplated when the educational program was commenced, that it may be unrealistic to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: I married a divorcee with 4 children 7 1/2 years ago. She was recently awarded $2600 per month child support.

from her 1st husband. Can she get additional child support from me? We have no children together.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 16, 2018

If you have no children and have not adopted her children, then there would not be a child support obligation. However, there may be alimony rights depending upon the particular facts of your situation. You should contact a divorce attorney to inform yourself of your rights.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: My parents are fighting in court over who must pay child support, although i am 18 and attend college.

My parents have been divorced my whole life and ive lived w my mom, with my dad paying child support. For the past six months I’ve lived with my dad, so i could be near my University before moving in campus. Now my dad is asking in court for my mom to pay him child support. I do not want to pick... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 10, 2018

Often parties are not equally situated financially, so it is possible that your mother's contributions to college expenses are sufficient. There are child support guidelines which discuss support levels and college contribution levels. Since you are also working part time your income will... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: My fiance is enduring a divorce (15 months so far) and new judge placed an order of no exposure to significant others...

Judge placed order saying this is how she handles all divorce cases because she feels it's in the child's best interest. But I have been living with the father and met his son and began to establish a relationship under the advisement of a child therapist before the new judge was... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 9, 2018

The Court Order stands unless modified.

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Q: Is it possible to file for MA divorce and finalize if both spouses cannot attend the hearing? Can it be done by lawyer

Both of us live outside of USA but in different countries, looking for a way to get MA divorce without having to travel to USA. We got married in Feb 2017, but there is irretrievable breakdown of marriage.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 9, 2018

The Court will want one of the parties to appear and the other party will need to have a Motion to Waive attendance allowed.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: I pay $100.00 a month in alimony. This month I have had sever financial hardship and was not able to pay my spouse

I feel and cracked ribs and I have spinal stenosis a death in the family, my car may be repossessed. My spouse refuses to give a extra month to pay the Alimony. I plan to pay her from my tax return I have two pending operations and months of Re-Hab I am an Insulin dependent diabetic and I can not... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 9, 2018

You should consult divorce counsel as the alimony laws have changed. Generally,if your situation has materially changed since the divorce, you can consider filing a Modification petition and Motion for temporary orders based upon your health situation unless you have surviving alimony in which... View More

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Q: How to block access to spouse's unknown safe deposit boxes?

This is in MA. my spouse most likely has one or more safe deposit boxes with cash/valuables in them, they may be in other nearby states. I do not know the institutions or locations of the safe deposit boxes but i'm pretty sure as soon as I file for divorce, the valuables will be withdrawn.... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Jan 2, 2018

If possible, you should review his bank statements which should contain an annual or quarterly bill for the safe deposit service and keep a copy of this documentation. The there is an automatic asset restraining order that applies to the plaintiff upon filing of the divorce in Massachusetts and on... View More

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Q: IN a long term marriage (over 35 years) who is responsible for ALL debt when I go and file for a divorce

I have been married for over 40 years My husband has over the years put us into debt. We did file bankruptcy over 20 years ago.

6 months ago, we took out a loan for $30,000 (he was with me but because he is so sneaky, it was put in my name) Then we took out a new credit card a few months... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Dec 20, 2017

Hello, The Probate & Family Court in divorce cases has jurisdiction to divide debt as well as assets and it is not important to the Court in whose name it is held. The issue is whether it was marital debt for household family expenses versus a "bauble" purchase for his benefit only.... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: My husband and I have 2 kids and he only wants to pay for daycare even thou the kids live with me ,can I get him to help

My husband and I have 2 kids and he only wants to pay for daycare even thou the kids live with me ,can I get him to help more since they will be living with me hence I need a bigger space and my rent will cost more than his ?

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Dec 4, 2017

The Child Support Guidelines are applied to the parties incomes, and there are calculations which also reflect the cost of medical coverage and cost of day care so this question cannot be answered without this information.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I filed for divorce this week & there’s no custody order set in place, is it ok to take my daughter to disneyworld

I told the person that was helping me fill out the divorce papers and they said if there’s no court order that it’s okay to take her regardless of my husband threatening to call the cops on me for kidnapping when he knew about this vacation since July and previously said yes before.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 27, 2017

You should have a copy of the air line ticket and hotel accommodations showing that it is a week only and not a move handy and copy him in writing with this documentation. Better practice would be to obtain court approval of the vacation visit in advance of your departure where there are these... View More

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Q: I want to divorce my wife of 3 years does she have legal claim on S Corp I am partners with my father?

I live in Massachusetts.I have been married 3 years, 2 years ago my father transferred his sole proprietership business he had for 35 years to an S Corp and brought me in as partner. All of the equipment is titled in his own name and all loans are under his name not the Corp name. Does this... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 27, 2017

You may well be complicating your divorce in an adverse way to you if you take the actions you are contemplating. You need a divorce attorney to represent you and go over the best options. Usually in a short term marriage there is return of the parties to the situation immediately prior to the... View More

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Q: House bought before marriage in one name. What happens in divorce?

Hello. If a house that the family now lives in for 10 years was purchased before the marriage in one name only, what happens to the house in divorce? Is it split equally even though it was paid for completely by one party before the marriage and the deed is only in one name?

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 17, 2017

How long have you been married? Is this the first marriage? These and other property division/equitable distribution statutory factors are important to discuss with a divorce attorney and there is not a set answer other than that in long term marriages even splitting is the general rule, but there... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law, Child Custody and Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: Wife and I divorced years ago. My son is 19. Can I get sole custody? Ex seems to be having a breakdown.

Want to bar ex wife from contacting son. Her 3rd marriage seems to be falling apart. We think she is having a nervous breakdown.

She calls son 15 times a day asking for him to "come home." Is very mean and says horrible things to him. He has been staying with me for about a month.... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 7, 2017

If your son is not disabled then there would not be a custody situation involved as he is over the age of majority.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Massachusetts on
Q: Can I move custody hearings from Massachusetts to another state?

I was granted permission to move my child at the age of 8 out of Massachusetts and I need to take my ex to court regarding custody and medical bills he's not paying. I now live in Virginia and it is difficult to go to Massachusetts for court. He was court ordered to pay half of all our... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 6, 2017

Custody and visitation issues are Virginia issues if the child has been there for 6 months or more. If he still lives in Massachusetts the support issues are Massachusetts issues.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Child Support for Massachusetts on
Q: My ex boyfriend or whatever he is cheated on his wife for a year and half . I’m trying to help her now.

He cheated on her and did an amazing job lying , keeping secrets and making me believe he was getting divorced when his wife had zero idea. We just got in touch and put 1+ year puzzle together. He abuses her emotionally and

they have 2 girls. He started to hide money from her We want t... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Nov 6, 2017

Your friend should contact a domestic relations/divorce attorney and not wait to find out how much money he has secreted as it would be harder to reconstruct the longer she waits. You should be careful not to be drawn into the situation, and her concerns for the children's and her safety and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: If I leave my wife and child living in my condo during a separation will I lose my condo in the divorce?

We have been having problems for a while and I have decided it is time to divorce. I wanted my 2 year old to be as unaffected as possible so I am staying with friends for now. I have owned the condo for more than 7 years in my name only. We have been married for just over 3 years.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Oct 24, 2017

Because at this point you have one child who is under school age and this is a brief marriage with the asset acquired a number of years before the marriage , the Court would likely order sale of the unit if it is a financial drain. If you want to have the wife and child continue to reside there... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Massachusetts on
Q: My Husband and I separated two years ago and are not ready to rush divorce yet for family reasons but I want to

to quit dead our co owned home to him and in return I want for him to sign that he cant touch my retirement and 401K. And the new home I am currently looking to buy Can we do this without actually getting divorced. By legally separating and having a lawyer write something up that we both sign? We... View More

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Oct 19, 2017

There is a Separate Support Petition and potentially an Agreement concerning the division of property ( which would not be final due to there not being a divorce) could be allowed by the Court.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Massachusetts on
Q: I am buying a house with my wife, now she wants a divorce.I will buy the house. How do I keep it from be common property

I live in Massachusetts and will require no aid financial or otherwise from my wife.

Lillian J. LaRosa
Lillian J. LaRosa
answered on Oct 10, 2017

Do get the divorce first . You would be at the very least complicating things unnecessarily by expending monies on real estate and potentially your expenditure could be an over-extension of your credit to prevent you from providing support to the spouse or viewed as a plan to deprive the spouse of... View More

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