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3 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for Virginia on
Q: Can something you say in an email be the difference between winning and losing a lawsuit?
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Feb 13, 2023

An e-mail may be admissible in evidence if a party can establish a hearsay exception and authenticate the communication. Hearsay is an out-of-court statement a party wants to introduce into evidence to prove the truth of the matter asserted. If made by a party, an e-mail may qualify as a party... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: We share joint legal and physical custody and have “visitation as agreed upon by both parties”, how is that enforced?

My 15 year old no longer wants to visit every other week related to various changes at the home and her feeling like she’s never heard. What’s my best next move?

Can a show cause be enforced against me since there is no concrete schedule in place?

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Feb 6, 2023

That reads just like the kind of agreement reached in mediation - it is vague enough that both parties can interpret it to their own satisfaction. Unfortunately, there is not much that can be done to enforce it. Far better is to have a fixed schedule from which the parties can deviate if they so... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: If my teen decided she no longer wants to go to her father's, do I have to make her?

I have sole custody and her father has a visitation order. She is 14 and we live in the state of Virginia.

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 22, 2022

Unjustifiably withholding visitation can result in a change of primary physical custody of a child. A custodial parent must do everything within his or her power and authority to allow visitation to occur, absent some credible evidence of family abuse which would justify a modification of a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Can Virginia make you pay child support for a child over 18 if they have disability?

My fiancees son never received disability as a child and applied on his own and got it and is his own guardian and moved out of his mother's house and they still want him to pay her child support.

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 20, 2022

Under Virginia Code Section 16.1-278.15, child support may be ordered to continue for an adult child in the following circumstances:

"...The court may also order that support be paid or continue to be paid for any child over the age of 18 who is (a) severely and permanently mentally or...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: In VA, 12 mnths of separation is req'd w/ minors before divorce. Do I need notarized separation agreement to prove date?

I know in VA, a legal separation agreement is not always (or ever?) necessary. But we are separating under the same roof which I realize complicates things. We started this beginning of August, and have done everything on the "separation list" that we found in our research (separate... View More

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 17, 2022

While the Virginia Court of Appeals has decided that it is possible for spouses to live separate and apart under the same roof, not all Circuit Court judges readily accept that idea. The idea is more popular in certain areas of the state, such as Northern Virginia, where the costs of housing is... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: In VA, 12 mnths of separation is req'd w/ minors before divorce. Do I need notarized separation agreement to prove date?

I know in VA, a legal separation agreement is not always (or ever?) necessary. But we are separating under the same roof which I realize complicates things. We started this beginning of August, and have done everything on the "separation list" that we found in our research (separate... View More

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Wayne E. Holcomb
answered on Nov 17, 2022

You do not need a Separation Agreement document to establish your date of separation. That date will be stated in such an Agreemenet though. Your spouse cannot refuse to sign a Separation Agreement to forever delay your separation period for example. Your date of separation is largely up to you... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law for Virginia on
Q: How can my mother gain emergency guardianship of my son without my consent?

I reside in Virginia which my son was born. My mother has been watching over him for me while I work to get my house together. She goes & files for emergency guardianship which she claims was granted in Delaware without my knowledge or consent

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 14, 2022

The jurisdiction over, or power to decide, interstate custody and visitation disputes is based on the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Enforcement Act, UCCJEA, a uniform law adopted in almost all the states. The purpose of the UCCJEA is to require a connection between the residence of the child... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: My husband lied to the cops to get a epo granting possession of the home. If I get an order on him, who gets to stay?

I have real evidence that I can take to the magistrate and get him arrested for assault. If I was granted a EPO also and possession of the home, which h one of us gets to stay there? Is it the one who was granted it first?

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 11, 2022

A protective order may be issued in three successive steps, each with greater due process protections for the accused. To protect against an immediate harm, a emergency protective order can be issued ex parte by the magistrate or general district court judge on a sworn statement or affidavit,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: My husband has an ego on me and has been granted temporary possession of the home. Can I get possession back?

My husband called the police on me and lied and said I covered his mouth and nose and slammed his head into the wall.

He was granted a epo because my son went along with it. Now my son feels bad he lied for his Dad. He thought I was just going to have to leave the house and that would stop... View More

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Nov 11, 2022

A protective order may be issued in three successive steps, each with greater due process protections for the accused. To protect against an immediate harm, a emergency protective order can be issued ex parte by the magistrate or general district court judge on a sworn statement or affidavit,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Virginia on
Q: What age does Virginia allow children to make decisions on whether or not they want to see their parents ?

I am thier grandmother and have had custody for nearly 9 years. They have been through a lot mentally and emotionally . Thier mother has seen them once in like 7 years and has not kept contact. The kids are now 11 yrs old and 13 years old. Neither of the kids wants anything to do with her and I do... View More

James H. Wilson Jr.
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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Oct 19, 2022

There is no specific age at which a child can express a custody or visitation preference. The Code of Virginia allows such a reasonable preference if the child is of "reasonable intelligence, understanding, age, and experience to express such a preference." When allowed to express a... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Landlord - Tenant and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: Can I evict a person who refuses to pay rent to my elderly mother?

My mother moved away due to failing health. The tenant lives behind her home in a trailer. He has no electricity or water as well in the trailer. Can we condemn the trailer.

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Aug 14, 2023

The answer will depend on local as well as state landlord and tenant law. Virginia is relatively good for landlords compared to my other jurisdictions, but you need to get a local lawyer that covers landlord-tenant and/or real estate.

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Real Estate Law and Banking for Virginia on
Q: I have possession of a deceased family member's deed of trust. She's not listed on it, but holds title to it. Virginia

The transaction has been paid off, but I have not seen any deed actually signed over to officially own the property without question. I also was given possession of the deed to hold safely, but was not named executor of her will. What, if any, rights to I have in the say of what happens to her... View More

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Jul 23, 2023

The assumptions in your posting indicate that you haven’t a clue as to proving title in Virginia. Seek out local, Virginia, real estate counsel, run a current owner search, and review the results.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Child Custody and Juvenile Law for Virginia on
Q: If I was issued Emergency protective order in virginia and she was granted the box that is marked granting her the hous

If she was granted the house in an emergency protective order it says her name. The family of household member is granted possession of the exclusion of the respondent however no such Grant of possession shall affect title To any real or personal pro Property. If she is out of the state ono... View More

Faraji A. Rosenthall
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Faraji A. Rosenthall
answered on May 28, 2023

You should have a lawyer look at the actual protective order to be certain. That much said, if it gives her sole possession of the house, then you would be prohibited from going there - even if she is at work, or on vacation, or for any reason.

1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Elder Law and Probate for Virginia on
Q: I have a question regarding being POA?

Father has left sister and I POA, we can act jointly or separately. Issue my sister aren't seeing eye to eye on is my father's 3rd largest asset (750K) is his home that is actually a vacation home. Lived there full time before he got sick. House is deteriorating, needs at least 35k in... View More

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answered on May 3, 2023

Hire a VA attorney to file a Conservatorship. The POA is not working, and was probably drafted in error.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Civil Rights, Child Support and Family Law for Virginia on
Q: I am needing a strong minded person that can handle this challenge. I have paid my dues and document document document

The Commonwealth of Virginia's data system in the criminal child support and social service system has and is continuously causing havoc chaos nightmare in a loop please help I have documentation that shows my proof

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Apr 25, 2023

A Virginia attorney could advise best, but your question remains open for two weeks. It looks like you're seeking an attorney. It could be difficult for attorneys on this site to contact you - the format here isn't set up like a referral service - it's basically limited to Q & A.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Real Estate Law and Land Use & Zoning for Virginia on
Q: Title S 15.2-2244: Will I be able to gift my family member 1 acre of lot as gift/sale even HOA does not permit?

I would like to know, I own 2.39 acre of lot in a R1 zone and would like to gift 1 acre to my family member by subdividing. What are the necessary requirements as an owner to do this? My HOA document does not permit any subdivision, but there is a provision to make it a new amendment, but the... View More

Richard Sternberg
Richard Sternberg
answered on Apr 19, 2023

There is no cookie-cutter answer to this type of question. You start with a title search and review of all controlling documents, including the HOA docs and local zoning, because they often don’t say what people say they say. From there, you start negotiating to get where you are trying to be.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Immigration Law, Personal Injury and Child Support for Virginia on
Q: Help:Request for my wife separation results immigration status and separation my son i want to stay with my son in USA

Hello

Because of my wife disloyal and separation which impacted my personal health, mental loss, financial loss, separation from son, insult,harassment,visa loss, financial loss to 25 lakh, medical expenses spent close 3 lakhs, bad name in my previous company, begged for money , begged for... View More

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answered on Feb 26, 2023

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It is important that you seek legal advice from a qualified immigration attorney who can provide you with guidance on your options. They will be able to evaluate your case and provide you with advice on how to proceed. You may also want to consider... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Civil Rights, Family Law and Health Care Law for Virginia on
Q: Is my past mental health evaluation protected by HIPAA PRIVACY RULE or civil rights ; taken without permission and used

After being in relationship 7 years with a registered nurse relationship ended with a 1 year old child . EXTREMELY OBVIOUS that she took my personal mental health evaluation (without my permission) preformed 20 years ago . without shadow of doubt secretly used against me in a 5 year horrific... View More

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James H. Wilson Jr.
answered on Sep 20, 2022

It is not clear that the evaluation was used against you. You could always check the court's file at the clerk's office. A court ordered evaluation could be admissible without an expert witness. Anything else would be hearsay, and the evaluator would likely be required to appear and... View More

3 Answers | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law and Real Estate Law for Virginia on
Q: When splitting up the money left in an estate, how do I take out judgements against beneficiaries paid by the estate?

I have 2 siblings, both of which had separate judgements paid off by the estate when we sold the family farm. The siblings along with myself were listed as co-owners of the estate when my dad passed, so the judgements had to be paid before any funds from the sale were released. I shouldn't... View More

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answered on Sep 8, 2022

Take the net proceeds of the sale and add back the amounts of the judgements that were paid, then divide that sum by the number of equal shares. Each beneficiary’s share is that quantity less the amount of judgements paid on his or her behalf.

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1 Answer | Asked in Estate Planning, Family Law, Real Estate Law and Probate for Virginia on
Q: Hello iam the beneficary of my mother's estate and it is in the will to sell her house and to split the preceding with

My 6 siblings and one will not get out for me to sell the house in virginia. What can I do without having to go through probate

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answered on Sep 2, 2022

Without Probate, the Will means nothing. Any of the Heirs as Tenants In Common can file a Partition action.

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