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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: My boyfriend has a son but the mother has custody of him. He pays child support but he also has backed up child support.

How can we go about getting full custody.

Teresa L. Reichek
Teresa L. Reichek
answered on Jun 20, 2019

You should hire an experienced family law attorney to file an application for a change in custody and child support. He will still owe the child support arrears, but if the Judge grants him physical custody then she will owe him child support and it will start to even out his arrears. There are... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: What will happen in court on the June 24th. Will the judge grant him.

We are originally moved from nj to ga June 2017. My son dad is on parole so I had to find a place so he can get approved they approved him in December 2017. Our relationship did not workout, while I was at work he dropped my children off at my aunt's house caught the greyhound bus and went... View More

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Jun 8, 2019

There is no way to predict what a Judge will do, however it appears that based on what you stated, you are the more appropriate person to be the primary custodial parent. Without a detailed review of you situation and the pleadings he filed, no one on this forum can give you meaningful advice. But,... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: If mother has no custody but visits the child once a month can I file for child support ?
Andrew M Shaw
Andrew M Shaw
answered on Jun 6, 2019

Absolutely. Under the 2010 Appellate Division case of Colca v. Anson, "parents are expected to support their children until they are emancipated, regardless of whether the children live with one, both, or neither parent." Notably, child support does not belong to either parent. Under the... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: Do I need to be specific when asking for evidence from opposing attorney?

I live in New Jersey and as of now I'm representing myself in a child custody case. I know I'm allowed to ask the opposing parties attorney for evidence but he also told me I needed to send him a letter in the mail requesting the evidence and told me to be specific on what I'm asking... View More

Adam Brown
Adam Brown
answered on Apr 14, 2019

You have the opportunity to conduct what we call "discovery."

There are various mechanisms for discovery request. Since you are on your own, you should consult with an attorney about what you will need to prove your case. Then you should inquiry about how to admit what you need...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Hi, I need consultation, can I get child support and legal custody agreement

we both are undocumented alien

we don't have legal agreement about child support just verbal agreement,but his father not fallow verbal agreements.

we don't have agreement about child support.

most of the time my son live with me (5 days /week with me ,2 days/week... View More

Santo Artusa Jr.
Santo Artusa Jr.
answered on Feb 28, 2019

Yes you can have an agreement. However, you should go through the proper court channels to easily enforce the agreement despite your legal status.

Sincerely,

Santo V. Artusa.

Artusa Law Firm.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Are most judges willing to approve changing a childs last name if the father is absent from their life

Also with a lawyers help is there anything that can be done to collect back child support? Bench warrants keep getting issued and he then gets out with no jail time or without paying any money to me. Over $20,000 is owed in back child support in just over 2 years.

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Jan 30, 2019

Every situation is different and your case like all the others is fact sensitive. Trying to represent yourself in Court is a bad idea. Not only are you emotionally involved, but you are not a trained attorney. You do not know the Court Rules, Rules of Evidence, case law, nor are you trained how to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law and Juvenile Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can I legally move out and live with an 18 yr old or older without parental consent at age 16?
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answered on Jan 19, 2019

No, you are not emancipated. You could have significant legal problems if you try to do so, as could the 18 year old.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: If I can't afford to live in the state of New Jersey can I relocate back home with my son if we lived there 4 yrs ago?

Ex husband doesn't consent to me moving back home but I explained to him I have no help here and I can't afford to live here with my three boys I don't even get paid this states child support .

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Jan 12, 2019

You cannot move without a Court Order granting you permission to do so. In a landmark ruling handed down recently by the New Jersey Supreme Court, the court unanimously reversed its 2001 Baures holding that a custodial parent could relocate to another state with a child so long as the move was made... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law, Child Custody and Civil Rights for New Jersey on
Q: i no longer wish to go to drug therapy ordered by my dyfs worker. the only finding is my positive marijuana test.

i have been going for substance abuse treatment for 3 month and have been compliant. i still test positive for marijuana and i stopped going to treatment for two weeks, now my substance abuse treatment center is closing my patient case as non compliant. how can i fight this and stop having to go to... View More

H. Scott Aalsberg
H. Scott Aalsberg
answered on Jan 3, 2019

Best way to fight any legal battle is with an experienced Attorney, however drug testing and therapy is common for these types of cases and you would have to prove how it would effect you differently and in a more adverse way than others that are assigned the same treatment.

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1 Answer | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: NJ: I have sole legal and physical custody of my 10 yo child, Can I have non custodial parental rights terminated?

Ex pays child support but has had no contact in 3 yrs. Very minimal contact the 5 years prior) He is constantly arrested for drugs and driving with out a drivers license. He has had 3 dui's and recently in the last few months he has been caught driving on a suspended license. He is not active... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 3, 2019

Thank you for your question. I can understand how stressful this must be for you. Step-parent adoptions are possible in the State of New Jersey. I would suggest that you and your husband schedule a consult with a family law attorney to go over options and any potential complications to your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: I just got married yesterday and i wanted to know if i could sign my rights over to my husband?

Can i choose who i want my child to live with in the state of Camden, New Jersey? If my husband signed the birth certificate and her last name is changed to his is he considered her dad?

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Jan 3, 2019

Thank you for your question. Custody and potential step parent adoption are both fact sensitive issues. We would need a better understanding of the facts of your case to provide guidance on these issues. I recommend that you schedule a consultation with a family law attorney as soon as possible, so... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Arbitration / Mediation Law, Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: My wife wants a divorce and wants to take the kids out of state in the middle of the school year when my son has a

My wonnHas a mild learning disability and she speaks English to assure the medical and educational well being of my children. I am their father and she wants to take them to St Lo hi is Missouri where her sister lives . By law can she just pick up and go

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answered on Dec 25, 2018

NO! She cannot leave N.J. without a Court Order, which allows it. You can certainly fight this by retaining an experienced matrimonial attorney. In a landmark ruling handed down recently by the New Jersey Supreme Court, the court unanimously reversed its 2001 Baures holding that a custodial parent... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: I’m in the middle of an divorce. The apartment we live in lease end in 3 weeks and we going split. We have 3 kids

We had an agreement that I would take the oldest two and she will take the youngest. I have no paperwork on that agreement. How can I get temporary custody of our kids I don’t think she have a place to go.

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answered on Dec 8, 2018

To properly answer your questions and address your concerns, the best way to handle this is by retaining an experienced matrimonial attorney. You need the best attorney you can afford, do not let geographic considerations be a factor in your choice of an attorney. Pick the best lawyer you can find... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: How can my retained lawfirm get all records of filings, hearings and court orders in my custody case?

I retained this firm back in July. They have billed me for $25,000 so far and are asking for more retainer. We've been to court unprepared because they didn't have all that information. Now they're telling me the only way they can get it is if the most expensive attorney on my case... View More

Leonard R. Boyer
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answered on Dec 8, 2018

That is completely absurd and obscene. Contact the NJ State Bar Ethics committee and report this. You should get a significant refund it not all of it. You really need a new law firm. The Court file if it is still in the local court can be copied at the Court by paying the Court the required fee... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Child Support for New Jersey on
Q: What are the guidelines for terminating parental rights? What will I need to prove?
Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on Dec 4, 2018

Thank you for your question.

Based upon your question, it seems like you’re struggling with some difficult issues right now. The short answer to your question is that there are very few circumstances in which someone’s parental rights can be terminated. With that being said, there...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: My ex and I share custody of our 10-year old, but I do not approve of his new gf who is a stripper.

Can I make sure that my ex does not bring my daughter around her?

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answered on Nov 21, 2018

You can try by retaining counsel to bring an appropriate motion before the Court to address your concerns, but unless your daughter tells you what is going on, you will never really know. To properly answer your questions and address your concerns, the best way to handle this is by retaining an... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: My ex wants to bring the kids in on custody to ask what they want in front of the judge - can I fight this?
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answered on Nov 10, 2018

That will depend on the ages of the children. If the children are too young, they will not be allowed to be involved. Under New Jersey state law, it is assumed that regular contact with both parents is in the best interests of the child, though certain circumstances can change that. However, there... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: HOW CAN I GET A PROBONO LAWYER TO HELP WITH A SERIOUS CUSTODY CASE?

I HAD CHILD FOR 4 YEARS UP TO JANUARY. JUDGE GAVE BACK, DYFES TOOK KIDS FROM PARENTS DUE TO DRUGS, RECENTLY, THEY ARE IN FOSTER CARE I FILED FOR CUSTODY BACK FOR THE KIDS SAFETY. I NEED HELP I CAN NOT LOSE THESE KIDS THEY ARE FAMILY. THE MOTHER HAS HAD APPROXIMATELY 12 KIDS EVERY CHILD SHE HAS LOST... View More

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answered on Oct 27, 2018

Call legal services in PA and see if they can help you.

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for New Jersey on
Q: There's a court order for parenting time with my kids, I haven't talked to or seen my kids since the end of Fed. 2018.

Is their mother in violation or that order? And one of my sons is Autistic.

William N. Sosis
William N. Sosis
answered on Oct 15, 2018

Children have a right to see both their parents. A custodial parent cannot unilaterally decide to stop the other parent from parenting his children and being part of their lives. Unless your Order prohibits your parenting time or imposes certain restrictions then it's likely your parenting... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New Jersey on
Q: i had to vacate the default in my divorce. how do I move forward now? i need to add to my Answer which was already filed

At the hearing for my motion to vacate the default, none of my concerns with the plaintiff were addressed as I was unaware of my ability to respond to his accusations in writing prior to court. They vacated the default and I am able to now Answer but the court had required me to file my answer... View More

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answered on Oct 13, 2018

This is far from a do-it-yourself project. A Default can be vacated, but you must retain an experienced matrimonial attorney to handle this for you, otherwise you are going to have worse problems, than you can possibly imagine. They tell even attorneys, that if you try to represent yourself, you... View More

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