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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: How long after a domestic violence restraining order is lifted can I buy guns again in California? no criminal charges.

She dropped the order after a year there were never any criminal charges filed against me it.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 19, 2018

more info is needed.

i would want to see the court records to see everything the judge ordered.......but if there is no order you should be able to do so right away.

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What are the consequences for me if I recant my statement in a domestic violence case?

For years I've been abused verbally and physically, but the night I talked with the police officer I told him that my husband hit me but he didn't, he only was insulting me and calling me names in front of my 2 kids, and he also broke the back window of my car, I still waiting my green... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 19, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts.

This involves not just your interpretation but what the other side is saying too.

If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to correctly respond. It is the old adage:...
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Q: Brother getting charged with domestic violence plea bargain is 2 Years state prison. Doesn’t want to accept.

No prior domestic violence record, police officers took several pictures of balls of hair on floor and his girlfriends face was twice her normal size. She has talked to the da and told him she doesn’t want my brother to do jail time.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 18, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts.

This involves not just your interpretation but what the other side is saying too.

If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to correctly respond. It is the old adage:...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law and Gov & Administrative Law for California on
Q: neverhad a hearing on domestic violenc TRO

Well I was being detained I'm called my girlfriend on the phone the da restraining order however I never had it on the original complaint

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 18, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts.

This involves not just your interpretation but what the other side is saying too.

If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to correctly respond. It is the old adage:...
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2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My husband had a restraining order that I put against him, I broke it.

My question is what consequences will I get for violating that restraining order and will my daughters be taken from me I have a clean record a job .

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 18, 2018

To properly evaluate any legal question a lawyer needs a thorough summary of the facts.

This involves not just your interpretation but what the other side is saying too.

If you are not clear then the lawyer will no doubt be challenged to correctly respond. It is the old adage:...
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Q: My brother is getting charged with domestic violence as a felony and has no prior record.

They are offering 2 Years state prison any possible way he can get that lowered ?

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answered on Feb 17, 2018

More info is necessary. He needs to hire a crim def atty right away.

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Q: My exboyfriend has court on 2/20/18 for domestic violence case. I have not been summons to testify. What does it mean?

He is been accused of trying to choke me. When the police arrived the officer immediately saw the marks on my neck. I told her I didn't want to press charges but the officer said "its now me against him"

Shahnaz Hussain
Shahnaz Hussain
answered on Feb 14, 2018

The DA will summon or serve you with a subpoena when and if there is a trial. They will also send an investigator before that to question you about what happened if it goes to trial. So the DA will do what they have to do when the time arrives.

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Q: I wrote a letter to the DA that I dont want to testify in a dom. violence case against my ex bf. Can I get in trouble?

what other info. can I provide you with, so you can better understand my case? I want to help him but at the same time I do not want to incriminate myself because I didn't do anything wrong. I did write a letter but I am hesitant about sending it because I don't want to have any problems... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 14, 2018

you should not get in trouble for just not wanting to testify\

more info is needed

you should have a lawyer advise the DA you are not going to testify.

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Q: Ex wife arrested for violating Temp DVRO. DA has filed one count of 273.6(A). What will she likely end up with?

Wondering what is common plea/sentence for first time violation of DVRO. I submitted phone records and recorded calls to DA for proof. She willfully and intentionally violated the court order.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 14, 2018

a lawyer needs more info?

prior record?

other incidents not reported/prosecuted?

who is judge?

who is DA?

filed as misdemeanor?

all are factors

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: I have 2kids..7 and 11...for the past year their dad has not only been verbally abusive but keeps kids away.what do I do

He is allienating me from kids with help of you step mom...I just want to on and stop the abuse

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 13, 2018

have you called police; child protective services.?

did you have a lawyer in court for the divorce? if so run it by him/her.

you probably have to keep bringing him back to court.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Domestic Violence and Civil Litigation for California on
Q: Did I violate my temporarily restraining order, by responding to the Restraining Order that served to me?

I was just contacted by the "Alameda Sheriff department" the deputy told me that I violate the temporarily restraining order by having a server post my responds on the protected person door, but I was just following the steps on how to respond to a restraining order on courts.ca.gov can... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 12, 2018

I NEVER HEARD OF A RESPONSE POSTED RATHER THAN MAILED...........

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Juvenile Law for California on
Q: What kind of legal action can I take after a 17 year minor beat and assaulted me? The Minor happens to be my S/O sister.

I am 24 year's old and live in California. Last night my S/O 17 year old sister was verbally threatening me, and shortly after that she physically threatening me and beat me knowing that I wasn't able to defend myself. Law enforcement was called, and I made a report but they did not take... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 12, 2018

i would first follow up with the cops to push an arrest and filing.

anyone can sue anyone else for anything at anytime. The issue is proving and collecting.

you could go into small claims court and sue for up to $10k without a lawyer.

otherwise a lawyer will bill you hourly...
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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: What is the first step to take when my ex doesn’t let me see my son? Makes excuses every weekend.

We’ve been separated for a little over a month. And I gave her time to calm down, since our breakup was due to me being unfaithful, just around 2 weeks. We have texted and agreed to a schedule where he would spend time with me. This is the second week that she makes an excuse and does not let me... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 10, 2018

a lawyer can not give you advice without knowing a lot more facts.

if you are looking to "sock it to her" then involve the police.

if you had a lawyer ask you divorce lawyer who can contact her lawyer. If non you can go back to court or tell you really do not want to go...
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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: I have a restraining order against my ex but now he's harassing me by constantly taking me to court over denied RFO's

We already have a scheduled hearing for the first denied ex parte for his modification of child custody, so now he decided to file another one. We also correspond through a website and he's been harassing me there as well, making threats.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 10, 2018

did u have a lawyer? if so explain to lawyer

otherwise when u r in court again share all this with the judge...........he is using the legal system to harass you......

1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: my niece got pregnant by her boyfriend and there is a court ordered restraining order. Consensual. Will he be in trouble

Nobody is under age and yes the RO was in place before consensual sex. The RO is in place because of a DV incident but it is court ordered, not by choice.

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 10, 2018

need more info

was RO there before he had consensual sex with her?

anyone a minor?

did she report him to get the RO?

2 Answers | Asked in Criminal Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I'm from California I let my niece stay with me for a couple of days and this was just before Christmas

Is February the 5th and she taking over my house she hit me once and then she threatened me with a baseball bat if I come back ato my house I'm sleeping in my car I want my house back what can I do

Shahnaz Hussain
Shahnaz Hussain
answered on Feb 10, 2018

You should first file a police report for assault and battery. Then get a restraining order against her.

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1 Answer | Asked in Animal / Dog Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: Is there an appeal process for keeping a dog on a restraining order. If the judge ruled against the pet being on it?

My daughter has left her abusive boyfriend after 6 years of documented abuse. They purchased a dog a year ago and he also has abused and neglected the dog. The TRO judge allowed the pet on the restraining order but when they just went for the hearing for the Permanent restraining order the second... View More

William John Light
William John Light
answered on Feb 9, 2018

Your question indicates you are in MA, while you have posted in a CA forum. You should direct your questions you a MA attorney. You might be able to appeal, or go in for modification, if circumstances have changed, like you have evidence that the dog is actually endangered, rather than just... View More

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Q: What happens if I put charges for domestic violence but he has not been arrested yet?

I called the police for domestic violence but when they came he was no longer here they gave me only a list of domestic violence agencies and a report number to put a restraining order but I never went... my question is that he has not been arrested and I have heard that he has walk by police... View More

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 8, 2018

did the police take a report.......?

you need to call the officer that responded and press him to do something?

he can not get away from charges by leaving the premises

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1 Answer | Asked in Domestic Violence for California on
Q: I have a restraining order on my ex boyfriend. We have two children together, and they’re also on the restraining order.

My question is, since they (the children) do not have a relationship with their fathers maternal grandparents, would it be violating the restraining order to contact them?

Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 7, 2018

a lawyer would have to see the wording on the RO........however if it is just dealing with your ex it should not apply to grandparents

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Family Law and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: My aunt wants to know if she can visit her son in jail,even though she put a restraining order on him??
Dale S. Gribow
Dale S. Gribow
answered on Feb 5, 2018

the RO is for him to stay away from her......however if she is the party taking the initiative to set up meeting i do not think there would be much of an issue.............

i would assume jail or prison does not know about RO anyway

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