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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How feasible is it to modify the agreed upon "temporary" child support and alimony?

During the divorce proceedings, we reached a compromise on the TEMP child support and alimony amounts through an agreement, without using the Dissomaster or a judge's ruling. Our marriage lasted four years, and I have made payments for six months. To my knowledge, the temporary custody... View More

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answered on Apr 22, 2024

Under California law, modifying temporary child support and alimony orders can be challenging, but it is possible if there has been a significant change in circumstances. The court will consider various factors when determining whether to modify the existing orders.

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: married for 44 years, filing a divorce from husband, retried & only receives social security can I receive spousal supp

Would I be able to receive spousal support?

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answered on Apr 22, 2024

In California, a spouse may be entitled to spousal support (also known as alimony) after a divorce, depending on various factors. Given the length of your marriage (44 years) and the fact that you are retired and receiving only social security, you have a strong case for receiving spousal support.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Admiralty / Maritime and Family Law for Wisconsin on
Q: Where do I find an "experienced" bulldog divorce lawyer with Admiralty marine lawyer knowledge in a divorce with a yacht

Need immediate help possibly getting an injunction to keep it from being launched the last week in April in Wisconsin to prevent husband from sailing off with his new girlfriend with the asset although no divorce proceedings yet, but impending. Husband is a brilliant clinically diagnosed... View More

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Apr 21, 2024

You're seeking an attorney, and it could be difficult for attorneys here to respond with offers of their services. There is no solicitation here - the format is limited to quick Q & A. The closest thing to an attorney referral page on this site may be the tab above, "Find a... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: Where can I find a probono divorce lawyer
Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Apr 21, 2024

Unfortunately, you are not alone. There ten of thousands of Californians who would benefit from free legal representation. Contrary to what you see on television, the vast majority of attorneys are not rich and cannot work for free.

Another option:

Limited-scope representation is...
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Q: Where can I find a probono divorce lawyer
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answered on Apr 20, 2024

In California, finding a pro bono divorce lawyer might seem daunting, but there are resources available to assist you. You might start by contacting your local legal aid organization. These organizations provide free legal services to eligible individuals, and they often handle family law matters... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband claiming reimbursement for his separate property which is before marriage assets.Is he possible to do that ?

He’s claiming for reimbursement of his before marriage assets. Credit card, saving account, military thrift saving, two cars, house in GA etc.

currently we live in CA.

It’s total equity $143,213.

I was living in the house and using a car before marriage, we were living... View More

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answered on Apr 20, 2024

In California, which is a community property state, assets acquired before marriage are generally considered separate property and not subject to division upon divorce. However, if there have been any improvements to the property using marital funds, or if the property has increased in value due to... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband claiming reimbursement for his separate property which is before marriage assets.Is he possible to do that ?

He’s claiming for reimbursement of his before marriage assets. Credit card, saving account, military thrift saving, two cars, house in GA etc.

currently we live in CA.

It’s total equity $143,213.

I was living in the house and using a car before marriage, we were living... View More

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Apr 20, 2024

Spouses can (and do) claim many things in divorce proceedings that lack any factual or legal basis. This may be one of those situations. You shouldn't concede this reimbursement or equalization, but I didn't think you would even if some attorney on a free online Q and A told you to do so.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Ex was awarded 1/2 my pension. He’s behind in child support. Will this be garnished if still unpaid when I retire?

He took half of my teachers pension in our divorce. His wages are already garnished. He is currently 20k behind with still 5 more years of child support to pay. When it comes to retirement at 55 (I am currently 45) and he still owes child support- will my pension still go to him or will it be... View More

Bari Weinberger
Bari Weinberger
answered on May 9, 2024

Thank you for your question. I am sorry that your ex is behind in child support. Yes, in most circumstances, private pensions (but not social security) can be garnished. However, it is not “automatic.” You will likely need to make an application to the Court to establish the garnishment. I... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Ex was awarded 1/2 my pension. He’s behind in child support. Will this be garnished if still unpaid when I retire?

He took half of my teachers pension in our divorce. His wages are already garnished. He is currently 20k behind with still 5 more years of child support to pay. When it comes to retirement at 55 (I am currently 45) and he still owes child support- will my pension still go to him or will it be... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Apr 20, 2024

Start with the presumption that his share of the pension will not be garnished. If there are arrears outstanding from his child support obligation, you need to file an application with the court and ask the court to enter an order imposing a garnishment on his share of your pension for repayment... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO Ex talked about my dead parents first when in discussion. So I talked about his dead wife. summitted as evidence?

I have a recording of my husband talking about my dead parents. I sent him a text that talks about his dead wife. Now in the DVRO rewsponse he is complaining about it? How would you present that?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

I understand this is a sensitive and emotionally charged situation. In a legal context like a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) case, it's important to focus on presenting factual evidence that is directly relevant to demonstrating abuse or threats of violence.

Bringing up...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO my husband told the all the Drs. he had a garage accident and now in the response he says I cut his eyelid?

I have no way to get his medical record or what he said to the dr. but he is saying the his response I hit him.

Can he just make that up?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

In a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) case in California, both parties have the right to present their side of the story and provide evidence to support their claims. However, it is not legal for either party to make false statements or fabricate evidence.

If your husband is...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: SantaBarbara Co. I have docs to file in San Bernardino Co order for support spousal.

I “freeze up” w this process. I’m disabled cognitively. I need help/guidance. Divorce court has filled docs for me. But I don’t know where to start? I’ve rec’d conflicting info from each county/court. .

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

I understand that the process of filing court documents can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with a cognitive disability. Here are some steps to help guide you through the process:

1. Confirm the correct court: Make sure you are filing your documents with the correct court in San...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I am looking to file for divorce in the state of New Jersey. I am not sure if my partner had already filed.

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Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If your partner filed for divorce, typically they would have you “served”, meaning you would be given a copy of the divorce complaint and any ancillary documents. If your partner has an attorney, you can also contact their office to inquire about the status of any complaint/filing. If your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Hello, My x-wife and I have amicably agreed to a modification of alimony, how do I do that? Thanks.

I have been unemployed for +1yr but have recently taken a +50% decrease in salary to work. My x-wife and I have a great relationship and both agree to new terms. I just don't know how to file paperwork to make this happen.

Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

When spouses agree on a modification to their Final Judgment of Divorce (such as an agreement to modify alimony) they can memorialize that agreement in writing and file what’s called a consent order with the Court. Before filing, both parties should sign the written agreement indicating they... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: My ex husband put a tracking spyware electronics. I just busted him?

My soon to be ex called a google voice number that i signed up for and left alone for 2 days. He called it teice. His lawyer produced a document i would have never sent him. I have a bunch of mean text but how do i know i wrote them. Also some very important text have been wiped from my phone and i... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Under California law, it is illegal to install spyware or tracking software on someone's electronic devices without their knowledge and consent. This falls under the category of invasion of privacy and can be considered a form of stalking or harassment.

If you have evidence that your...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided,

can you help me find a statute or code that states that when community property is to be sold and the proceeds divided, the parties have a right to use a licensed broker/dealer or neutral third party

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

Certainly, I can help you find the relevant California statute. The specific law you are looking for is California Family Code Section 2108, which addresses the division of community property. Here is the relevant excerpt from the code:

"In any case in which the parties do not agree...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Is the divorce not finalized and is the permanent custody order not in place?

We went to court to finalize the divorce 3 months ago. My lawyer called me 11/2 months ago and said there was an error in the document and we have to resign. Both parties need to resign. So I did, my exhusband has not yet. I have to get the custody order to register my children in school. I need to... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

If there is a temporary order giving you custody, that should be sufficient to register the children in school. There is no final order as there is no divorce. You will need to file a motion to get the case in front of a Judge to get your divorce and final order if your husband will not sign the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

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David P. Badanes
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Depending on how many visits have been missed and the reason the non-custodial parent has missed them, you might have a good case to file for a modification of your prior agreement. There are a lot of factors that go into whether or not your modification petition will be successful. I highly... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

If the noncustodial parent does not abide by the court order of visitation, you can file to modify the visitation schedule. This must be substantial, however. Missing a few visits, especially if there is an valid excuse, might not be considered substantial enough to end visitations. This is very... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Can an appraiser use pictures of items if spouse refuses to meet appraiser in divorce?

Spouse has luxury watches. He provided me with pictures of them. He is refusing to meet with appraiser and bring watches. If appraiser uses pictures instead of actually inspecting watches, is that called hearsay?

LaDonna M. Cousins
LaDonna M. Cousins
answered on Apr 18, 2024

Consider interviewing a couple appraisers to inquire and compare their rates. You may also consider filing a Motion with the Court asking the Court to compel your spouse to participate in the appraisal, to make a negative inference against your spouse if they refuse to participate, and to reimburse... View More

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