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1 Answer | Asked in Family Law and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: What do I do if my child's father doesn't answer to child support.

The father of my child says he wasn't ready for children therefore doesn't want to answer to answer to child support reaching out to start the process. He's currently in Tx but claiming he is out of the country to avoid child support. I'm not sure what to do to get the process... View More

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answered on Jan 1, 2018

No one cares what the father wants or thinks. Go to your local child support enforcement office - they will make him pay eventually.

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Q: What can be done if my 15yr old daughter refuses to visit with me? She stays with her mother and I pay support monthly.
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answered on Dec 27, 2017

You go pick her up, put her in the car and you make her visit.

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Q: Ex served with custody papers, she waited day 29 to get a lawyer. Now she is ignoring her Lawyer to delay the process.

In the state of California she way awarded sole custody over my children due to lies. I’m only allowed to see them in a state I do not live in. She refuses to let me see them when I ask. I served her papers in TN she waited till 29 days to get a lawyer so we couldn’t go to court. Now she will... View More

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answered on Dec 4, 2017

Everyone thinks they are right in these types of cases and that the other parent is completely unreasonable. The bottom line is regardless of who is being more unreasonable, if you and your ex can not or will not agree on custody and visitation like two decent parents ought too then you will likely... View More

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Q: My child has been removed from the state without my permission.my child support was dismissed and moved to Co. I have

filed for a motion to show cause & motion to vacate court order based on rule 60Motion for an expedited custody determination uccjea 50A and/ or UIFSA 52c . I don't know where my daughter is and the courts dismissed my case to be picked up in Colorado. They wont tell me anymore information... View More

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answered on Dec 1, 2017

You need an attorney. It's as simple as that. You clearly do not possess the legal skills necessary to successful represent yourself and a case like this is too complex for us to help you in this type of forum.

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Q: If I have court ordered child support for my first child and then I have another child with a different man,

Will my child support go up with the first child

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answered on Nov 30, 2017

Child support doesn't work like food stamps where the more children you have the more your receive. Child support amounts are based on income. So additional children are irrelevant to how much you will receive for the first child. Besides it would be incredibly unfair to ask your first... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for North Carolina on
Q: I have 50/50 custody of my son for four years now and now my ex is trying to force me to give up my 50% based on lies

Can she do this?

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answered on Nov 22, 2017

Sure, if you allow it. Go consult with a local family law attorney ASAP.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support and Domestic Violence for North Carolina on
Q: I was served in NC with a DVPO that is full of false accusations. What can I do?

*I have added additional information to the bottom of this form *

This order was served after she began manipulation and gaslighting in order to make me jump through hoops to get time with my son ( we are separated) The order claims violence, threats and many other claims that are not true.... View More

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answered on Nov 21, 2017

If you can not afford an attorney your options are to go to court, do the best you can and let the chips fall where they may. If you lose, you likely won't get to see your son. And yes, it is very possible you got played.

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Q: My husbands ex wife sued him for child support about 2 years ago. They have a 14 yr old & a 5 yr old together.

Once the 5 yr old started kindergarten they would take out less from his paycheck, but there still taking the same amount. Both daughters stay with us every other weekend but their mother doesn't give them money, and we know this because the daughters tell us. She was the one in fault because... View More

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answered on Nov 13, 2017

Generally not a single one of your listed concerns would be grounds to lower child support. You appear to have a very wrong idea about how child support works, so here are some fun facts about child support: Child support is usually set by either agreement or rigid guidelines based on income.... View More

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Q: My boyfriend has 4 other kids plus my 3. If we marry will they look at my income to add to his child support?

My boyfriend has 7 kids, three of them are mine. He pays child support for two of them and when we get married he will probably have to pay for two more. Will they join both of our incomes to see how much he will pay for his other kids? Will he be paying more based on my income? Is there anyway... View More

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answered on Nov 7, 2017

No. Child support is based on his income not yours.

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Q: My son's mother has been keeping him away from me, how do I get joint custody without paying child support

I honestly can't afford child support and I don't like the idea of paying my child's mother to see my son. I've tried to give her my support but she blocks my calls and texts. I just wanna see my kid

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answered on Nov 3, 2017

Child support is like taxes - it doesn't matter if you can 'afford' it or not. If you have income, you are going to pay taxes and you are going to pay child support - its just a matter of how hard you wanna make it on yourself. However, child support is separate from visitation.... View More

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Q: In family court proceedings that last more than one day, can opposing council take your evidence binder?

Just wondering if this has any legal significance.

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answered on Oct 30, 2017

If it was part of discovery they are likely entitled to it if it was merely evidence that was intended to be used at trial they should not have received a copy of it until it was introduced. Basically, if you were represented by an attorney, you likely have nothing to worry about. However, if you... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Adoption, Child Custody and Child Support for North Carolina on
Q: My son is 4 yrs old. His Biological dad hasnt been in his life at all. Now COURT SYSTEM is trying to change this? HELP

Im now engaged & fiance wants to adopt my son. Hes the ONLY DAD my son has ever known and has been provider for him, (US) for almost 2 yrs. I filed for primary custody of son. The biological father NEVER replied to the papers sent by my lawyer. When we filed for a motion for me to be granted... View More

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answered on Oct 25, 2017

The Court didn't 'take it upon themselves' - its standard procedure. As much as you may believe having biological dad out of you child's life is best and regardless of whether you are right or wrong - you basically do not get to make that call. Since you have a lawyer that you... View More

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Q: If my boyfriend agreed not to pursue child support against his sons mother in the custody order will he held contempt?

My boyfriend wants to pursue child support on his sons mother, she has every other weekend. She does not pay daycare no contribute to the child. Her parents have every other week visitation on Wed and Thurs when it's not her weekend and they also are required to pay 150 (half for the month) of... View More

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answered on Oct 17, 2017

You seem to have answered your own question: "His lawyer at the time told him not to worry about it if he wanted to take it out in the future it will be okay."

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Q: I am the non custodial parent and my daughter almost never stays with me overnight but I visit at least once a week.

My ex has filed for child support and I’m being taken to court. When we went to mediation they said I could pay up to $520. I can’t afford that and she won’t budge because all she sees is dollar signs. I’m not against paying Child support but I need to be able to afford it. How do I get the... View More

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answered on Sep 26, 2017

Child support is calculated according to guidelines based on your incomes. If $520 is the proper guideline amount based on your income, then you are likely making around $2500 a month or more and can afford it. It may not fit in with your current expenses but that is basically just too bad. You... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Child Support and Civil Rights for North Carolina on
Q: How can I terminate paternal rights?

I am having a baby with a girl that says she is moving overseas with her army boyfriend and they will terminate rights while I still have to pay childsupport they will also not let me sign the birth certificate. I want nothing to do with her or the baby what are my rights in terminating my paternal... View More

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answered on Sep 25, 2017

None - you don't get to terminate your parental rights unilaterally. the easiest way for your rights to be terminated is for her to sucker the Army boyfriend into marrying her and adoption the child. It would require your consent but it would end your obligation to pay child support.

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Q: What if I have two separate court cases on the same date and time in two different counties? What do I do?

One is family court and I have a lawyer but haven't talked to her yet the other is district court and I'm out on bond for this charge.

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answered on Sep 12, 2017

Criminal court takes precedence over family court. So get your family lawyer proof of your district court case and inform her to make a motion to continue. If you have know of this conflict for a while and sat on it and did nothing - expect to have problems. If you just found out and you do the... View More

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Q: I just got out of prison and their mom won't let me speak or see my boys what can I do . I'm a good father . I miss them

I have probation for 3 years Here in NC

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answered on Sep 2, 2017

Hire an attorney and sue her.

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Q: I am married, had a baby with another man, my husband is on the birth certificate. I did an at home DNA test and husband

is not the father. Can I apply for child support? Located in North Carolina. Can I get support from the baby's daddy?

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answered on Aug 29, 2017

From who? The father or your husband? You likely could get child support from your husband but that would hardly be fair and he'd likely just contest it. You can also request support from the father. If he is cooperative great, otherwise you may have to jump through some hoops including... View More

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Q: I am filing child support against my grand daughter's father; can they make him pay child support back to birth or only

From time papers are served?

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answered on Jul 27, 2017

They can make him pay what he owes based on what he has - so if he owed from birth you can potentially get back support from birth but if he doesn't have the money you likely won't get squat and him potentially going to the pokey will have to suffice.

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Q: Is there any way I can legally find the location of someone who owes child support with minimal information?

I have the name, phone number, where the phone was registered, and a general idea of where he may be but nothing for sure. He is also wanted in another county and has warrants out for his arrest.

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answered on Jul 26, 2017

Yes, you can go to your local child support enforcement agency and let them deal with ut. They are often slow but more often than not they get the job done eventually.

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