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Q: It is possible to get full custody of my child based on abandonment of child by the other parent?

I'm the mother, the father left two years ago and I don't know where he is. He never tried to contact me regarding the child.

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Q: I was seeking custody of granddaughter, paternal grandparents adopted her and my lawyer was not informed of this. In PA

Shouldn't my lawyer have been told about the adoption process and adoption?

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
Peter Christopher Lomtevas
answered on Nov 28, 2022

This is one of those questions that require too much decoding to properly answer. We do not know any of the procedural history of either the paternal grandparents or the maternal grandparents to opine on what one's lawyer should have known or not.

Ideally, the lawyer should have...
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Q: Ex-husband assaulted husband in front of child. Does child still have to visit with ex?

My ex-husband had our daughter this weekend. When my husband met up to get her back my ex assaulted him. Is there anything that can be done so she doesn't have to visit him until the hearing ? We did file a police report and are pressing charges.

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Q: Am I able to get sole custody if the father moved out of state during pregnancy and has only seen child 2 times?

I have a 6 month old preemie who has been with me from birth, the father was visited her the first week she was born and then saw her when she was 5 weeks, he was in visiting family. He has not talked to or seen her since she was 5 weeks. During pregnancy he moved out of state and has no plans on... Read more »

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Q: child living preference

My son (17) has decided he wants to live with his mom full time. I have gone along with it for a month now but hi grades arent good, he has mentioned partying and drug activity and now, he's telling me he is not coming for Thanksgiving and the trip we had to go to Charlotte (just us) for 4... Read more »

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Q: Can my childs father take my daughter away from me legally?

My children have lived with me for most of their life. I support them financially alone. I just recently put their father on child support. He is now threatening to take my daughter away. She had a mental health issue last year and is doing virtual school unsuccessfully. I am in the process getting... Read more »

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Q: Not married seeking custody of daughter from her Mom who drives my car after drinking booze. Should I take the car?

I am filing for custody of my daughter I am not married to her Mom. I own the house, the car and the cellphone bill is in my name. I know she drinks and drives in my car. I have tried to reason with her, I have tried to help her stop drinking but she just blames me and life on why she drinks.... Read more »

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Q: In Pennsylvania do courts favor the mother more when it comes to custody?

I only ask that question only because I really don't want to take this route but my baby mother is threatening to take me for court for the kids but I have them and care for them more than she days. They live with me majority of the week. I take them to school. I do doctors and school calls... Read more »

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Q: Custody agreement question in Pennsylvania.

If there is an agreement, and both parents decide to make changes to it, and follow this for a year, can one parent deide suddenly to go back to the original order because a petition was filed for a modification?

Kathryn Hilbush
Kathryn Hilbush
answered on Oct 15, 2022

Yes because a court order also overrides an agreement. However, you can always attempt to present the agreement to the court as evidence of what the two of you had been doing.

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Q: Is it possible to file for custody while pregnant?

I am pregnant with my first child and ended things with the father. I asked if we could come to an agreement between the two of us vs going to courts and he is now threatening to go for custody. He cannot take care of himself, he does not support himself. He lives at home with his parents and blows... Read more »

Kathryn Hilbush
Kathryn Hilbush
answered on Sep 14, 2022

No, you cannot file for custody until after the baby is born. You're lucky that his mother is supportive of you. She can be your greatest ally if you make sure that she sees her new grandbaby. I suggest that you consult with a local family law attorney for guidance.

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Q: need help with foster care

Hi, We are senior grandparents to a drug dependent daughter and a father of our three grandchildren ages 5, 8, and 11. Youth service will not allow the children to be with their parents unsupervised. The children live with us and are cared for by us. Being both seniors we are on a fixed income... Read more »

Kathryn Hilbush
Kathryn Hilbush
answered on May 19, 2022

You can file a child support complaint against both parents. It might be helpful to you to first discuss the matter with an experienced family law attorney in your county, who can explain the process to you but, in the end, this is a case you can pursue on your own if need be.

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Q: What is considered a conflict of interest?

My son’s father has the same attorney, Who was my public defender back in 2012 for a criminal case , defending him in our child custody case. Wouldn’t that be considered conflict of interest?

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
Peter Christopher Lomtevas
answered on Nov 2, 2021

Pennsylvania codifies a "continuing conflict" as such:

1.9 Duties to Former Clients

A lawyer who has formerly represented a client in a matter shall not thereafter represent another person in the same or a substantially related matter in which that person’s interests are...
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Q: if adopted parents decided they don't want child no more can a relative adopt them

I'm teenagers aunt shes 15

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Oct 14, 2021

It is possible, if they are willing to relinquish their rights, but the parties really need an attorney--it's not d.i.y.

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Q: Children and Youth services of Pennsylvania. What are my rights?

Children and Youth services of Pennsylvania showed up to my house because my daughter missed the forst week of school because her father tested positive of covid 19, and we didnt want to spread the virus. Whoeever called CYS also stated that they think possible drug use is involved because of the... Read more »

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
Peter Christopher Lomtevas
answered on Nov 3, 2021

The government is legally allowed to do anything it wants. The government has agents, it has courts, and it writes the rules. The CPS can offer drug testing several times and then clamp down by removing the kids. A failure to take a test and pass it is evidence of drug use, and drug use is... Read more »

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Q: My 11 yr old son has lived w me for 3 yrs. his mom stil has custody. Can she just take him back for no reason

Shes $3000 in arrears. I signed him up for cyber school but shes trying to take him back so she doesnt have to pay. She even went and signed him up for another school near her. Can she do this??

Robin R. Gregory
Robin R. Gregory
answered on Aug 11, 2021

The order stating the mom has custody is valid and in force until the court issues a new order. It is likely the mom can take the child. You can file a motion/petition to change the custody.

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Q: If my mother lost rights to a child & she got adopted is there anyway I can fight for her because I am her sister

I am now older & stable to take her of her

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Jun 11, 2021

If you mean the childrens older sister I don't see that. It's termination of parental rights, no sibling rights. You need to speak with a family law attorney.

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Q: How do I find a lawyer to file abandonment charges.

My cousin was left with me 3 years ago how do I file abandonment charges on her dad

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Jun 4, 2021

your local bar association can give you names. Or you can ask the family court who seems to handle adoptions and similar proceedings.

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Q: My ex is very in consistent with our 2 year old daughter is it possible that he will get custody?

My ex is in and out of our daughters life and only gets involved when it is convenient for him he does nothing to support her he can’t even show up to work on time let alone everyday... he drinks all day everyday and can’t keep stable living, domestic relations can’t find an address for him... Read more »

Mr. Ryan L Hyde
Mr. Ryan L Hyde
answered on May 11, 2021

Custody cases are very fact specific. Him saying that he is going to fight for custody and him actually going through the process are two very different things. The simple fact of the matter is there are 16 custody factors that the judge is charged to consider. Your best bet is to consult with an... Read more »

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Q: I am debating going to court for full custody of my son. Would it be worth it to hire an attorney?

My ex and I have an eight year old son together. There has never been a custody agreement in place although we had an informal agreement years ago before he began his homelessness. He is very inconsistent with seeing our son or even just calling to talk to him. He is currently still homeless but... Read more »

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Feb 23, 2021

Yes. Your case requires a showing that the visitation has to be within narrowly defined guidelines and that is not a d.i.y. project

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Q: Can my ex force me to drive our son to his house for visitations? He doesn't want to both pick up and drop off our son.

I don't drive and would have to Uber, costing me $60 each way twice a month. I have full custody of our 4 year old and he gets him every other weekend.

Peter N. Munsing
Peter N. Munsing
answered on Feb 23, 2021

See if he'll pay for your uber. If he has a vehicle I see a court saying you are right. But maybe if you had an attorney who got you the full custody, speak with them.

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