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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My husband in in prison and I would like to get a divorce and marry my fiance I live in Oklahoma

My husband has been in prison since 2020 we have had no contact since August of 2020.

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Dec 28, 2022

Contact a family law attorney. Getting divorced can be a simple process and can also be a complicated one, so you need someone assisting you through the process. If the inmate is in Oklahoma then getting good service is relatively straightforward, but requires a few extra loopholes to be jumped... View More

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Q: My husband in in prison and I would like to get a divorce and marry my fiance I live in Oklahoma

My husband has been in prison since 2020 we have had no contact since August of 2020.

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 28, 2022

You should contact a family law attorney. Service of summons on an inmate i$ complicated. Buy yes, you can get a divorce, but you cannot marry for 6 months after your divorce is granted. Good luck.

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Q: I missed my initial divorce hearing, due to a misunderstanding of the summons. Can I request a new hearing? Which form?

Particularly like to re-visit custody and child support portions of the decree. Any info is greatly appreciated.

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Dec 9, 2022

First thing you should do is take all of your documents to an attorney so they can check the court file and see if either a temporary order or a default decree has been filed. If there has been a default order entered and you catch it quick enough you may be able to seek relief. After sorting out... View More

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Q: why can't I file my own case? Wanting to file "Petition for Disolution of Marriage" but they won't provide forms (?)

soon-to-be-EX-wife is agreeable, but they say I need a lawyer, which is NOT TRUE. All filings and documents, and FORMS to file said documents are PUBLIC...I, too, am PUBLIC. So why do I run into a brick wall? Why is there no help for me, John Q. PUBLIC?

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Nov 16, 2022

You are correct. There is no requirement to have an attorney represent you in a divorce case in Oklahoma. Any Oklahoma resident who meets the jurisdiction requirements can file their own divorce proceeding. With that said, the court does not provide forms to file for divorce, but you can file your... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Family Law, Divorce and Child Custody for Oklahoma on
Q: In custody agreement plan, "any other mutually agreed upon time" is violated, is this action enforceable by police.

Rewording question for vagueness. In regards to custody exchange agreement the phrase "any other times mutually decided and agreed upon" I am aware that this does not mandate additional time. Ex spouse reason for not allowing additional time is both parties agree to additional time and... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Nov 1, 2022

Again the answer is the same. The officer does not have anything to enforce because the mutual agreement is an above and beyond clause. The officer can address any definite order from the court - such as a specific holiday or where one person is supposed to meet at a specific time ((that is in the... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Tax Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I need to know who has POA over me. can u help me

I know a loan on my house was done when I was in prison. and this same person remarried myself and Logue. I thought I was divorced in 2012. But I have been supporting him and his other females unknown to me. My trust I had got wiped clean and now I'm over 20,000 in debt

Carli Jo Aelker
Carli Jo Aelker
answered on Oct 26, 2022

if you are asking specifically regarding the IRS or State you can call, confirm your identity, and see who has an active Power of Attorney on your account. The representatives you speak to should be able to give guidance on how to revoke that power as well.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Military Law and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: My soon to be ex husband is active duty military. I moved out on Tuesday. Is he obligated to help me financially?

I’m a full time student and make about $1500 a month from disability and cannot afford a house on my own. I’m living out of a van at the moment. I’m wondering if he’s obligated to support me financially until the divorce is finalized ? He’s in TX active duty navy, im in OK now.

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answered on Oct 24, 2022

Yes he is required to pay by military regulation, if he will not agree to pay, contact the Inspector General's Office. This is just a temporary measure until you obtain a court order.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Personal Injury, Child Custody and Child Support for Oklahoma on
Q: I'm going through a divorce. I didn't get a lawyer and my wife obtained a Protective order quite easily. I obay it.

She breaks into my home and wrote on my clothes with a chemical that left burns. I have pictures of burns on my face and body. What can I do to protect myself.

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Dec 27, 2023

File a vandalism police report and file your own VPO.

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Divorce and Banking for Oklahoma on
Q: My ex husband cashed an escrow and insurance check with my name on it too. Is there something legally I can do?

He didn’t offer me half.

It had my name AND his name. Our names were separated by AND.

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answered on Sep 29, 2023

Your name being on the check and it being cashed without your consent could constitute fraud or conversion. You could file a civil action to recover your share of the money.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: Legal aid lawyer told me this adultery law is no good, I want to make sure it's good to go.

I want to prove legal aid lawyer that it's good to use in the court.

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Sep 7, 2023

Research the particular law (statute) to find a recent case in which an appellate court in your jurisdiction ruled that the law remains valid and enforceable. Focus most closely on cases within the last 20 years or so. I would use LEXIS or WESTLAW.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: If my ex wants to file for custody after I won custody 3 years ago will I be served papers

She is saying she filed and has received service papers with a court date but I was never served. I don’t know if she is lying about filing. I have had custody with her having every other weekend and holidays. I receive a little child support from her monthly per court order after our divorce.... View More

Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 13, 2023

As easy way to find out if something has been filed is to look at your case on www.oscn.net. If she has filed a Motion to Modify hire an attorney right away.

Best of luck!

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: How do get all detail DHS record becise sueimg them
Pete David Louden
Pete David Louden
answered on Jun 9, 2023

DHS records can be obtained with a court order. The attorney you hire will know the process to get the records.

Best of luck with your case.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: Can you demand a jury trial for divorce in Oklahoma?
Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Apr 13, 2023

Jury trials are a constitutional right in criminal hearings, not civil such as divorce. You can demand for one (can demand anything), but the short answer is you will not get one for a divorce.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law, Criminal Law and DUI / DWI for Oklahoma on
Q: In the state of Oklahoma, is it legal to marry an individual, while still being married to another person?

I've searched public records to see if there is any kind of divorce decree or even a filing of a petition for either marriage licenses, and i am not seeing anything of the sort. This individual was never Common Law married. I read the public filing of both marriage licensing that was filed,... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Apr 10, 2023

It sounds like your case has some very unique set of circumstances. Therefore, you need to contact a family law attorney for your best course of action. Most will give a free phone consultation.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Employment Law for Oklahoma on
Q: What can happen to a lump sum unemployment payment I received after my husband filed divorce? Can he take half?

I received a lump sum of Oklahoma pandemic unemployment insurance money a month after my husband filed divorce. It’s in an unknown account & he does not know about it. It was from 2020 and they just now paid it out 3 years later. We decided it was more beneficial I stay home with our baby... View More

Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Mar 19, 2023

Your question is a technical one. If you divorce has not been finalized then more often than not this will be viewed as marital income and would be subject to splitting. Intentional hiding of money is a major issue that should be avoided. Based on your other facts there may be a way around this... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Oklahoma on
Q: Can a divorce decree be enforced if the spouse hasn't adhered to the final decree if said spouse passes away

34yrs married, mental harassment to go get divorce, during the year and a half of going thru this, on top of kids and I doing repairs,painting, etc. to home to be put up for sale, and the deaths of my brother, my ids Sad and finally my Son. He has sold of assets, moved money around and other... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Dec 29, 2022

Rhonda, you really need a lawyer to help you with this! Many will let you pay the retainer in installments. Good luck to you.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Oklahoma on
Q: How do I obtain deed to my home if I never received it. I do have the abstract though
Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Oct 30, 2022

You must, get deed from the persons you purchased the home from. If this can't be done, consult a real estate lawyer to start a quiet title action.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Oklahoma on
Q: I need to sell my home with joint tenancy but I do not know how to contact my ex, how do I get him removed from deed?

We've been separated 7 years, divorce hasn't been filed, our property was put up for auction due to delinquent taxes, I managed to pay all taxes due & keep home. He has never tried to return to the home. He has legal obligations that also keep him from returning to the home. How do I... View More

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Oct 30, 2022

Since you're still married, both you and husband must sign deed to, New purchaser. Only way to remove him is through a divorce.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Real Estate Law for Oklahoma on
Q: what is the statue of limitations on real property division after divorce, in the state of oklahoma?
Charles Watts
Charles Watts
answered on Oct 15, 2022

Property division should have been covered in your decree. Majority of property division is done prior to decree additionally there is normally a clause in the decree when one person does not transfer title, usually within 30 days, then the decree can be used to get the transfer complete without... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for Oklahoma on
Q: My divorce decree references an Exhibit "A", for property Distribution, but there is no exhibit A.

Retrieved decree from courthouse. Did not include Exhibit "A"

Gary Johnston Dean
Gary Johnston Dean
answered on Oct 13, 2022

Contact your attorney or the attorney who drew the decree, and ask him/her to file the Exhibit, and send you a certified copy.

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