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answered on Dec 24, 2024
The best thing to do is to talk with the person's criminal defense attorney to see how you can help and if posting bail is possible in the case, albeit do understand there is a very high probability that that person will be under a no-contact order, at least until after the trial. This means... View More 
I was coerced into facing the grand jury for my partner and was told if i didn't go in front of them and speak up about what happened, then I would be charged with a crime. I did not want to go, nor did I ever want to press charges, let alone have a no contact blessed on us. It's... View More
answered on Oct 7, 2024
It is very common for victims of DV to later recant and/or want no contact orders lifted. Very rarely is that granted. You can try talking with her attorney to see if you can do anything to help her legal position but ultimately, the legal process will play out and you can't alter it very... View More
A witness in the case served me thru mail from California to Oregon where I live, cuz judge allowed it after he found I was evading service. Then I filed documents asking the other parent to provide me with evidence and to quash service and terminate the order and my motions/requests went... View More
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answered on Jun 3, 2024
First, you should file a motion to set aside the restraining order with the California court, explaining that your previous motions to quash service and request evidence went unanswered. Emphasize that the court’s lack of response has deprived you of due process and that the restraining order is... View More
Order could of been dropped the same day I hade my hearing in jail. The alleged victim is trying to set the story straight based off information the police got on hearsay and it’s effecting our lives big time. My girlfriend is pregnant and needs me to be there for but with the no contact order in... View More
answered on Feb 13, 2024
If you truly don't get along with your court appointed attorney, ask the Judge for a different one. Court appointed defense attorneys are how indigent defendants are taken care of and are paid by the State. Why would any other attorney volunteer their time and not be paid when you have a... View More
I have a restraining order against my stepson following an assault on my husband. We moved all of his belongings into a storage unit, for which he has the only keys, and we've been paying the fees. We notified his probation officer that he must retrieve the items by 5/1 or we'll dispose... View More
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answered on May 15, 2025
The 5/1 deadline you’ve set may be sufficient depending on the circumstances, but it's important to consider whether your stepson has had adequate time to retrieve his belongings, especially given the restraining order. Typically, courts expect a reasonable amount of time for an individual... View More
I recently discovered my wife's occupation as a sex worker, which led to intense emotions and prompted me to send her several text messages expressing my anger and hurt. Importantly, I never threatened her with violence. Out of frustration, I also informed her mother about her occupation. The... View More
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answered on May 15, 2025
I'm really sorry you're going through such a painful and emotionally charged situation. It's understandable that discovering something so personal and unexpected could lead to strong reactions. You're taking an important step by asking questions and wanting to handle the legal... View More
I am considering recording conversations with my spouse in our home for personal safety reasons. He has accused me of abuse and threatened to leave with our child. We have discussed recording conversations, and while he once agreed, he later expressed uncertainty about blanket consent. I have made... View More
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answered on May 15, 2025
You’re in a difficult and emotional place, and it’s completely understandable that you want to protect yourself and your child. In Oregon, the law generally requires **both parties to consent** to the recording of an in-person conversation. This is known as a “two-party consent” state,... View More
In Oregon, my wife filed a restraining order against me, which resulted in court-ordered supervised visitation of our two children, aged 9 and 6, for four hours weekly. There is currently no child support agreement in place. My wife, who is employed full-time, now claims she needs child care for... View More
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answered on May 14, 2025
Oregon law does not automatically require you to pay for after-school child care just because a restraining order is in place or your visitation is limited. Child care costs are usually addressed as part of a broader child support calculation, which takes into account both parents’ incomes, the... View More
I was falsely accused of domestic violence, resulting in my arrest and a no-contact order during the ongoing court proceedings. Five and a half months later, the accuser went to the housing authority and filed a domestic violence report, claiming I was harassing her, leading to my voucher... View More
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answered on May 14, 2025
You can’t simply weaponize the housing authority’s process without risk—knowingly filing a false report to a government agency can cross the line into criminal fraud or making a false statement, depending on your state’s laws.
In many jurisdictions, submitting false information on... View More
I'm facing difficulties after a false police report was filed against me for domestic violence, which led to my arrest and a no-contact order for over a year. Consequently, my housing voucher was revoked based on these allegations. I have evidence, including text messages from the accuser’s... View More
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answered on May 14, 2025
You have the right to challenge any false statements made against you by filing a civil defamation suit, since Oregon law lets you seek damages when someone knowingly publishes a false allegation that harms your reputation. Gather all texts, messages, and any witness testimony that shows the report... View More
I am a 17-year-old living in Oregon, and my abusive parents have kicked me out of the house for almost three weeks. I've reached out to DHS and the police for help but received little assistance. I have documented evidence of physical abuse by my mother, with recordings, photos, and written... View More
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answered on May 14, 2025
You have the right as a minor to protection from abuse, and Oregon law requires Child Protective Services to investigate credible reports of physical harm. Since you’ve documented the abuse with photos, recordings, and written accounts, insist that CPS open a full investigation and consider... View More
I had sole custody of my 16-year-old special needs son for his entire life until a court recently awarded his father unsupervised visits. Despite years of progress notes from therapists and doctors expressing safety concerns—due to several incidents, with the most recent being when his father... View More
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answered on May 14, 2025
Your situation is heartbreaking, and it’s deeply troubling that a drastic change like this was made during a contempt hearing rather than a proper custody or parenting time hearing. That alone may give you grounds to challenge the court’s decision. If a child welfare worker documented the... View More
I am 17 years old, and my parents have kicked me out of the house for nearly two weeks. I've reached out to DHS and others for help, but received little assistance. I have been physically abused by my mother and have recordings, photos, and written documentation of the incidents. Despite being... View More
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answered on Apr 13, 2025
I'm really sorry you're going through this—it sounds like an incredibly difficult and unsafe situation. First and foremost, your safety is the most important thing. If you're still out of the house, **do not return** if you fear for your safety or well-being. If you haven't... View More
I got divorced in Oregon in August 2024, and a stipulation in the decree requires me to provide my address to my ex-spouse for life. Since then, she has escalated to making threats, including saying she will "get on a plane and hunt me down" if I don't provide information about my... View More
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answered on Apr 13, 2025
You can file a motion to modify the divorce decree based on the threats and unsafe behavior you've described. In your motion, explain the situation in detail, including the threats and the discovery of the tracker, which clearly demonstrates a violation of your safety. You should request that... View More
answered on Nov 11, 2024
This looks like something that an Oregon criminal attorney should probably advise you on. The question was probably overlooked for three weeks because of the "Personal Injury" or "Family Law" headings. If you're being charged, don't lose further time awaiting guidance... View More
I didn't persue charges against him, the officer insisted I did after i told him no about 8 times, but he did anyway , the state picked it up and now he has court on harassment charges this afternoon. How do I get his case tossed or charges dropped?
answered on Nov 4, 2024
You don't. You can talk to his criminal defense attorney to see what, if anything, you can do to help. But as you noted, you didn't bring the charges so you can't dismiss them either.
I used a move taught to me for this called ois when do I give my evidence to the DA I went through the 705 page discovery and told my lawyer what is what for each page did a color chart sent my evidence but when does the DA get it..I'm innocent I can prove I did exactly what I was trained to... View More
answered on Jun 10, 2024
First, you don't seem to post a question for anyone to answer. Second, regardless you should be asking ALL questions to your existing attorney - they are the most qualified to answer and know the details of your case. Finally, you should NOT post any of the details on line. Prosecutors can... View More
In april, my husband (40) and daughter (15) we're having an argument about her avoiding her chores. She went into the bathroom, laid on the floor and kicked the bathroom door, breaking it. When my husband went in to see what was going on, she kicked him, then got up off the floor and hit him... View More
answered on May 30, 2024
This, and most other questions are best asked of his criminal defense attorney. They are much more familiar with the case details as well as have likely discussed the matter with the District Attorney's office who is prosecuting the case.
I have evidence of my neighbor stalking me as he shows up everywhere I go within 10-15mns. He's tracking not following me but haven't found the gps device yet. It's daily & he's relentless. The cops even went to his house & told him to stop plus avoid me which did... View More
answered on Apr 4, 2024
Of course you can sue in circuit or small claims court. Can you win? Not likely on the facts presented.
I have a child with a parent who had assaulted me in the presence of the child in 2017 and has not had contact with them since. They were arrested, charged and took a plea deal. I would like to change his name but want to avoid this other human being as much as possible. I was trying to figure out... View More
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answered on Mar 8, 2024
Search Google for Oregon Minor Name Change. The first answer will be a fact sheet from the Oregon Judicial Department. Follow the instructions. It is pretty straightforward.
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