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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Divorce for New York on
Q: What is the process for divorce with children involved and custody arrangements

Currently married but might look to divorce and need to know about custody steps

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 13, 2024

Custody can be addressed in the Divorce case or you can file for custody alone in Family Court. Speak to an attorney.

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Q: Divorce by publication after all works is done question please

How long it takes to get an approval or denial for a divorce by publication after i paid a skip tracing and servrf divorce papers and my lawyer sent a request to court, my lawyer is not telling me how long is the wait time after we finished all the work. Just an estimate from experience please.... View More

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Q: Validity of one-page signed postnuptial in divorce?

I was divorced on October 2023 and had a notarized postnuptial agreement not honored during the divorce proceedings. The agreement was signed by both parties but the notary in error signed on a second page belonging to the parties involved and the notary, which we did not sign. Leaving the parties... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Sep 8, 2024

A divorce agreement must be executed in a certain manner and contain certain language. If it does not it is invalid. You needed to have a professional prepare it properly for it to have been valid. Contact an attorney.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Sealing a marriage record from the public

I'd like to know if it's possible in NY to seal from public record a fraudulent marriage (the fraud was not committed by me) from 1997 that continues to appear on public websites and google searches.

(Edited for additional context): I am concerned with sealing from the public... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Sep 7, 2024

In New York, divorce records are supposed to be sealed for 100 years. If they are not or if you want, you can petition the Court to seal the records. As for public websites or google - if your spouse or someone else gave them that information or somehow they go a hold of that information, it will... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: I’m not legally separated from my husband, but currently living in the basement do I have to pay him rent every month?

Living in the basement with my daughter.

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Sep 5, 2024

If no divorce action or legal separation action has been started, then you do not have to pay rent to your husband.

However, you and your husband have a legal obligation to take care of your daughter (provide her food, shelter).

0 Answers | Asked in Animal / Dog Law and Divorce for New York on
Q: My spouse is holding my dog and refusing to let me see him no divorce yet so can I take him with me

She kicked me out of the house and texted that I will get the dog next week and now says no what can I do ?

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce for New York on
Q: HiAm I being tricked?

It is the second time that the opposing counsel "the Plaintiff" sends messages to me "the defendant" in a matrimonial proceeding in Supreme Court Kings County NY that I should stipulate the court and request a 90 day postponement to our proceeding "let your attorney draft a... View More

Kenneth A. Eiges
Kenneth A. Eiges
answered on Aug 28, 2024

I have no idea. I would have to have all the information about your case.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Landlord - Tenant and Family Law for New York on
Q: How do I remove my husband, whom I am divorcing (super early stages) from the NY rent-stabilized lease due for renewal?

My husband and I have had a co-signed rent-stabilized lease since Oct. 2016 that is due to be renewed by the end of this month. I am the one paying for the rent. We are just starting with the divorce procedure. He says he doesn't want to take over the lease because he can't afford it.... View More

Jack Mevorach
Jack Mevorach
answered on Aug 17, 2024

Although domestic relations is not one of my practice areas, I can offer a few thoughts. Often, a rent stabilized tenancy is claimed to be marital property. That's one consideration.

Of course, if the landlord and your husband agree, he can be removed and the renewal would be in your...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Real Estate Law for New York on
Q: what is the course of action for unmarried couple that brought house and now split and cant agree on what to do with hom

she put up down payment I've paid mortgage insurance and taxes both of us did various renovations we made no special arrangements or anything in writing in regards' to the house both our names on deed

Anthony M. Avery
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answered on Aug 12, 2024

Hire a NY attorney for file suit for a Sale For Partition.

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: I and my spouse have custody of my nephews and we split up do I automatically get joint custody with primary residency

Of my nephews since they are legally my blood relatives

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Aug 31, 2024

Nothing is "automatic". Do you have a court order granting you custody? Does it grant it to you, or to you and your spouse? If there is no court order then you do not have legal custody and should go to court to seek custody or guardianship, whichever is appropriate in your case. Talk... View More

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Q: What does the legal term mean annointed. You case file were updated and what in red is annointed .
David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Jun 16, 2024

It sounds as if your initial case was closed and then later on the clerk made a note. You should double-check with the clerk/Court or the Judge.

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Q: What is the least expensive way to divorce my husband in CA? We have been separated for 3 years and I live In NY

We were married in 1991 in CA and have grown children, no property and the divorce would be uncontested. I have lived in Dutchess County since July of 2021. There are no assets. I have student loan debt that was taken out in my name for our child's college, but I might be willing to take that... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Jun 16, 2024

If you want to get divorced in California you need to post this in a California forum. You will need to make sure you have jurisdiction in California.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Domestic Violence for New York on
Q: Can I still add a name change after final hearing is over?

I just had my last court hearing in DV Supreme Court for divorce, child custody and relocation. I was representing myself for my divorce. I completely forgot to ask for my name to legally be changed back to my maiden name. No final judgement has been made and it may take another 2 months. Could I... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Jun 15, 2024

You should be able to contact the Judge/Court and ask for the proposed Judgment of Divorce to be changes to include your name change.

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for New York on
Q: Is it okay for my ex husband to allow his new gf’s son to sleep in the same bedroom as our daughter?

They moved in together after 5 months. Her 2 boys are 16 & 7. Our kids are 11 & 6 (our 11 yr old is a boy and 6 yr old is a girl). Her youngest is autistic. (This isn't a huge issue but I work healthcare and have seen different spectrums of autism; i don’t know if he has difficult... View More

Peter Christopher Lomtevas
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answered on Jun 9, 2024

We are not family court judges set up to decide matters of sleeping arrangements of children. We can educate perhaps to a limited extent as much of what we say sounds incredible. The law has evolved substantially in recent years, and the ends justify the means in many cases.

As for the...
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Q: Can I enforce my ex to pay for our son's CIT camp training program based on the language of our agreement?

Ex refuses to pay for our 14-year-old son's CIT training program at the camp he has attended since age 5. He claims he agreed to pay for day camp "until 13 years old" and that son is "old enough to be on his own and doesn't need to be forced into a job so that [I] cam work... View More

David P. Badanes
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David P. Badanes
answered on Jun 16, 2024

When a Judge sees the word "reasonable" it should mean reasonable in the eyes of the general public and standards. My opinion is that given the language you quoted, as long as the cost for the CIT training is not excessive, it would seem that your ex would need to pay for it. However,... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Can you be legally married in 2 places?

My boyfriend said he was legally married in Maryland and in germany. He reported to me that they got divorced in Maryland but he never bothered to get divorced in germany. Is this possible, to be legally married in 2 places like that?

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on May 28, 2024

Yes, it is possible to be legally married in two places. While within the United States, all states and territories are constitutionally required to recognize a ceremonial marriage consummated in any other state or territory, that is not necessarily true in other nations. Whether another nation... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Annulment in NYS grounds? ideology sovereign citizen extremism

Internet addiction to the research of the strawman stuff;

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on May 16, 2024

There are very specific grounds for an annulment (DRL 140). (a) Former husband or wife living (spouse is still married to another). (b) Party under age of consent.  (c) Party a mentally retarded person or mentally ill person.  (d) Physical incapacity.  (e) Consent by force, duress... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Hello I’m looking for information on a pro bono lawyer for a divorce
Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on May 12, 2024

This is something that a divorce attorney would know best, but your question remains open for two weeks. Here's a link to a page on this site:

https://www.justia.com/lawyers/divorce/new-york/legal-aid-and-pro-bono-services

Some of the resources on that page look like...
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1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for New York on
Q: Is the divorce not finalized and is the permanent custody order not in place?

We went to court to finalize the divorce 3 months ago. My lawyer called me 11/2 months ago and said there was an error in the document and we have to resign. Both parties need to resign. So I did, my exhusband has not yet. I have to get the custody order to register my children in school. I need to... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If there is a temporary order giving you custody, that should be sufficient to register the children in school. There is no final order as there is no divorce. You will need to file a motion to get the case in front of a Judge to get your divorce and final order if your husband will not sign the... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: If the noncustodial parent doesn't visit their children in an extended period of time, is this considered abandonment?

I know visits are voluntary, however is it considered abandonment to not participate in parental visits and ignore all communication. Not participate in any decision making? Will this be ground to refile for decision making in the future? How long would I wait to refile for full decision making... View More

Howard E. Knispel
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Howard E. Knispel
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If the noncustodial parent does not abide by the court order of visitation, you can file to modify the visitation schedule. This must be substantial, however. Missing a few visits, especially if there is an valid excuse, might not be considered substantial enough to end visitations. This is very... View More

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